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BDSM ? yes or no
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We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm  |
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Been there, done that.
Not my cup of piss, ta. |
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Depends on my mood...sometimes a little, sometimes a lot, sometimes even vanilla hits the right spot  |
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Mmmmmmmx absolutely x in all its glorious forms x |
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"Been there, done that.
Not my cup of piss, ta. "
Flowery boxxers n panama aint for us either |
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over a year ago
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The garden variety, get your stuff from B&Q type, not my thing at all. Love the psychological side of it all though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we enjoy it.
We also enjoy Vanilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy mild bdsm it's finding like minded who want to push it that little bit further for me. want to try more |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Not something I indulge through fab, but yes BDSM is a big part of my life... but my submission is currently gifted, and I only have headspace for one dominant at a time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BDSM yes or no ?
Nonopleaseno  |
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"Been there, done that.
Not my cup of piss, ta.
Flowery boxxers n panama aint for us either"
Ohh!
Get her!
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There was this one time with a guy, a blindfold, some restraints, a cigar and a blowtorch lighter...
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Yus.
Have tended to keep my vanilla and BDSM worlds separate (former pro Domme) but starting to see a possible merge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The erotic end of it rather than the sadistic and painful side does something for me. |
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"There was this one time with a guy, a blindfold, some restraints, a cigar and a blowtorch lighter...
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I only went that far as he was extremely fit... mad as a box of frogs...
The things I used to do!  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
It's not something we are interested in at the moment, but never say never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yh bdsm, a woman with a strap on and me tied up and blind folded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do like our sessions where Mrs is completely submissive
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
North Yorkshire by the Sea |
"Depends on my mood...sometimes a little, sometimes a lot, sometimes even vanilla hits the right spot "
This x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're a Dom/sub couple so yes for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mrs is a switch and loves mild BDSM(giving or recieving) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes yes and YES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes
Lately th I've been craving a bit of relaxed lazy cozy sec rather than a performance tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep...love it as some of my comments on the forum show  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New to it....love it so far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New to it in reality, not new to it in my head though.....loving every step of the journey so far - actually makes the vanilla a welcome bit of simplicity too, m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
Nope |
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Yes, as long as it doesn't hurt |
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Absolutely
There's something about finding the right sub though. I've met a few on here that say they're submissive but then you dig deeper they are just lazy and want someone to do everything |
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We are into BDSM, we live a D/s lifestyle 24/7, doesn't,t work for some people but we have done so for a number of years and it works very well for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The garden variety, get your stuff from B&Q type, not my thing at all. Love the psychological side of it all though. "
Yep...this is me. I love the mind fuck. Do like some gentle physical bdsm too |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We enjoy it very much, but definitely the psychologically erotic aspects, rather than just getting a paddle out! Firm instructions whispered hotly into the ear of someone who knows their place is the sort of thing we like.
There is something intoxicating about power play and humiliation when it is done with finesse. We also like the switching aspects...C is very submissive when it's the two of us, but we have had a couple of meets with women who wanted C to play as their femdom mistress, and they were fantastic.  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Not into just a bit of bum smacking, has to be holistic as in mind and physical play, that takes time which some are not willing to put in unfortunately.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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third* |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
There is an event on in Bristol this weekend called SWAMP which is for kinksters, we've never been but thought we might go down and take a look. Has anyone been there before? |
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I got a little taste n would luv to try it out I've found it a big turn on to b dominated bye a lady . |
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
We have been known to dabble |
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"Yeßssssssssssssss
I take it thats a yes lol"
Yeah lol a deffo Yes haha normal sex bores me |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Think I need to move away from the dark side before it devours me for good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.
We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.
Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.
In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!
Prefer the swinging community. |
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Have done this many times. Sometimes just being tied and gagged, other times whipped and caned, and sometimes being fucked or having to suck cock while tied and helpless. Love it all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Alot. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
It's something I would like to explore with the right guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much yes, love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.
We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.
Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.
In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!
Prefer the swinging community."
Going to the wrong club nights and parties - there's a couple I go to that have that kind of behaviour as the focus. |
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Done some light stuff, I need more practice as I'm not particularly Dom or Sub. Fun though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dying to try it just hard finding a couple/female that wants to dominate me at theres or my home as not to comfortable with a club just yet |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
STOKE-ON-TRENT |
Definite yes especially at my local Fetish Events 1 |
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My F nick is BDnotSM
says it all really |
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Yes love it but can only truly submit to one |
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It does depend on my mood, because great vanilla is great.....but I do enjoy BDSM. I switch, and can get very into it when the mood takes me. |
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"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.
We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.
Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.
In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!
Prefer the swinging community."
Many fetish/BDSM clubs don't allow (or frown upon) penetrative sex taking place. Some are held in licensed premises such as the basements of pubs or in night clubs. They could lose their license for nudity, let alone penetration.
Hence they hold fetish nights, for people to dress in fetish gear and to do BDSM.
If you want to do some BDSM and have sex try a swingers club which also has a dungeon such as Kestrels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
Yes.......please  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please "
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up. "
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?"
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes. |
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"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?"
We would def make it an offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it a little too much... BDSM pushed my mind to limits I didn't know existed..... You find your true demons |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
moved to cuckold land |
Love it tied helpless spanked mmmmmmmm |
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"I went to a fetish club a few years back with a couple I knew.
We stripped my friends wife naked and offered her around the club whilst bound and in a blindfold.
Even although she was a gorgeous, petite stunning female we were surprised we had very few takers.
In fact we got a few negative comments as actual "sex" was rather disapproved of by the bdsm community!
Prefer the swinging community.
Going to the wrong club nights and parties - there's a couple I go to that have that kind of behaviour as the focus."
What clubs are they I want to go to one that is a full on mixture of play with deffo no frowning on the sex side lol |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.
The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.
The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't."
Ah yes, I've met a few of them.
I wouldn't say they're 'orthodox' at all. Kink and sex have always been combined. They're just a loud voice, who happen to be louder than other voices.
Student of shibari... you mean you're learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes enjoy it and love to be kinky |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes. "
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations "
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Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own. |
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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago
Taunton |
Sir and I like it ALOT
"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago
Taunton |
"I enjoy mild bdsm it's finding like minded who want to push it that little bit further for me. want to try more "
if only you were closer....  |
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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago
Taunton |
Perfect.
"Not something I indulge through fab, but yes BDSM is a big part of my life... but my submission is currently gifted, and I only have headspace for one dominant at a time..."
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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago
Taunton |
"Yeßssssssssssssss "
Hmmmmm..FF bdsm
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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago
Taunton |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations "
Like anything on a hook.......it should wriggle!!! Lol!
I'm sub to my dom Sir, we don't live it 24/7......wouldn't go down well in my profession to turn up in bdsm gear and a hook up my butt!!!....but we definitely need it in our lives.
We don't exhibit at clubs unless there's a bdsm style room .
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own. "
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens "
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We may indulge in some mild play occasionally. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke. "
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love |
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Always some time for a bit of slap n tickle x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love "
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase. "
Deal! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!"
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady. "
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom "
Yes it will - lady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
Not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm
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We dabble, biggest challenge is getting enough child free time to dig out the naughty suitcase lol |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom
Yes it will - lady. "
Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom
Yes it will - lady.
Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards "
Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. Love tight decorative tying and I crave impact play.
I even get aroused when I see the chain reels in a diy store |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely
There's something about finding the right sub though. I've met a few on here that say they're submissive but then you dig deeper they are just lazy and want someone to do everything "
Me!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it when done right...But leave us alone with 50-53 shades of rubbish and other "fantasy" rubbish |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom
Yes it will - lady.
Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards
Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns. "
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes.......please
Nice anal hook, would be better tied up.
I like it are you offering to tie me up or just suggesting it as an option?
If you keep still, not an option, like a bit of movement, in whatever form it comes.
I like the movement too.....makes for some very interesting sensations .
Gosh my flogger has started twitching all on it's own.
Maybe you should stroke it over by bum cheeks and see what happens
Not a good idea, can't guarantee I could control it enough to just stroke.
Even better......I love an out of control man.....makes for more full on hard play which I love
He he, only if I can hold on to the hook strap, always good to have a counter purchase.
Deal!
Forget the flogger I think this might be cane work - lady.
I have got one of those too.....makes lovely bruises on my bottom
Yes it will - lady.
Good! No point using one unless I am going to feel it for days afterwards
Now lets see, stripes or diamond patterns.
Are you allowing me to choose?"
Ha, what do you think - Lady?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate canes though.
Unfortunately my Domme loves them and has quite a few she likes to work through. |
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We would like to try it. More the erotic side would love to see an experienced male Dom discipline my Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me
I simply don't get the attraction
I do appreciate we all like different though |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun! "
I love my collar and lead.....love being pulled round by it and love being forced into positions using it.....especially love it being looped through my anal hook so I can't move |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc! |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
Germany / Manchester |
"We're both Shibari students but keep this seperate from meets...for now.
The gentleman we're learning from is completely against the swinging world and BDSM worlds colliding. I guess there are those that are orthodox and a few that aren't.
Ah yes, I've met a few of them.
I wouldn't say they're 'orthodox' at all. Kink and sex have always been combined. They're just a loud voice, who happen to be louder than other voices.
Student of shibari... you mean you're learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way?"
Yes, we're "learning to tie people up in a faux-Japanese way" how pernickety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
I used to have a lovely Dom/sub relationship with a fem sub. Unfortunately she had to migrate with her husbands job so yes. |
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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago
Tyneside |
Yes with the right people BDSM can be fun,
We are finding it hard to find the right girl or couple to join in.
We / I (male) is Dom .
so finding a true sub is very hard |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We do like our sessions where Mrs is completely submissive
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc! "
Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc!
Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me "
And what happens when you meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I have noticed that a lot of sub's are prone to direct hypnosis, that's how they find the zone so quickly.
The ultimate thrill for me would be to take a potential submissive lady, on a journey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though. "
Yes me too. Hard to find people you click with though AND live locally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very interested in this lifestyle,where do you begin any good websites for beginners |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Absolutely yes. I'm into it. Quite extreme too. I'd love to find someone close to me to play more often though.
Yes me too. Hard to find people you click with though AND live locally."
I suspect you play different to some - lady |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yes, we know you are a fan. You were one of the few people in our other thread who wasn't totally dismissive of it, iirc!
Sorry.....I get a bit excited when I find people who play like me
And what happens when you meet them. "
We play |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Feel some straps coming out. |
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I like this. But nothing extreme. It's more the power play/psychology of it. But have got a collar and lead etc which I'll use with someone I trust. I like the idea of being resistant but then seduced. |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
not far from you.. |
Yes I enjoy it..would like to be pushed to my limits.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun! "
Collar - check, lead - check, blinfold - check, handcuffs - check.....all ready for another fun session, love it! m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm
We dabble, biggest challenge is getting enough child free time to dig out the naughty suitcase lol"
ahhh the naughty case- I'm not the only one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wonders how many would play in a BDSM situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it ^_^
I attend regular bdsm club events every month as well as swingers events too |
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
We enjoy a dabble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to play bdsm. I love it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice "
If one person is interested in the other person is not, surely it makes sense for the person who is interested to go and try it with someone else? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"we want to try i little bdsm ,mrs crackers turned on at thought ,but me mr crackers can not get turned on at thought ,,wondering what it is ,advice by nice "
Is Mrs Crackers looking to play the Dom or sub role? Is there something that you just don't like about it or any particular elements that are not for you? J
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Just wonders how many would play in a BDSM situation "
Have and do.......when I get the chance |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"How many of you kinksters like to play with a collar and lead too? We started a thread about it a while back, it didn't seem too popular...maybe there are more people here though into that kind of fun!
Collar - check, lead - check, blinfold - check, handcuffs - check.....all ready for another fun session, love it! m x"
Restraints, paddle, flogger, canes, pinwheel, candles, eggs, plugs, clamps - check, drat need some more batteries for the electro - pulse machine. |
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Been a Dom for a long time now and it's something I indulge in with people from another site as I've found the submissive women I've met from here usually got into it because of 50 shades of shite which isn't a true reflection of the scene or lifestyle so They've been let downs on both sides I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yessss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love bdsm and learnt a lot about myself, because I love pleasure pain and finding someone who can get into your head and push you boundaries and limits. Which is why I have started going back to a great club in Norfolk, but yet to find a man who I can connect with again in this scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love the BDSM side of our sex life. But it's not 24/7 for us. But when we have time to prepare and build each other into character it can be a crazy mind blowing experience. We probably don't practice as much as we used to due to our work patterns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the fet scene, yes. |
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"We know its a swingers site, but how many of u like a little or alot of bdsm "
A bit of spanking is fine. |
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Life without a little BDSM would be like bread without butter for me, I have been doing if for over 20 years and not stopping anytime soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never tried it im more of a plain vanilla cake with a hint of cherry pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes, i used to be into it but now depends on how i feel and who I'm with |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Damn, I wish this thread would go away, another sleepless night. |
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We are a BDSM couple, can,t imagine my life without it.
karen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if I'm feeling
Or
We enjoy aspects of it but aren't serious bdsm players |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely yes! Something about giving over the control that really does it for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool.... "
would love you to introduce me Miss |
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would love to tie up mrs crackers sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find it a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool.... "
Well HELLO! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh YES, whipping my slaves balls with my horse whip while his cock is caged.....nice. Then when its released slipping a sounding rod down the length and milking him.....oooohhh drool....
Well HELLO! "
Oh yes, I do like to see a good pair of restrained balls. Either tied with my cord, bamboo robs or caged with the key at my disposal. To see them wriggle and quiver to my whims and desires is a sheer delight. I'm willing to be a key master if any one would like to join me. Mistress S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone's got a sub side)) more hidden.. or less) |
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I don't have a sub side at all. I don't understand switching. Jack/y of all trades, master/mistress of none x im Domme all the way though (and there's quite a bit of me) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a sub side at all. I don't understand switching. Jack/y of all trades, master/mistress of none x im Domme all the way though (and there's quite a bit of me) x "
Now you don't. But when you've strated? You were mistress from the first day??never been a sub? |
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I thought I was sub until about seven years ago. My then Mistress rewarded me for a weekend of complete compliance by allowing me to top her. I discovered my inner dom and went on to take on a sub for five years.
now I identify as switch. |
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By *oc-robMan
over a year ago
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