FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Keep the Baby
Keep the Baby
Jump to: Newest in thread
| |||
 | |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
| |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?." Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xx | |||
 | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xx" Yes thought so as well, sounded strange lol. | |||
"There are women on here who ask for men to get them pregnant and have loads of veris so it must happen." Yes we had one and when we said we don't want kids in anyway she said she'd do all the work and we could visit lmao E wouldn't shut up about it all weekend lol | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol." Pressed the wrong button on my msgs there above lol. | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol." No, we met a couple who had their first child at 13 & that child went on to do the same. It was awkward in the hot tub afterwards. Had to block them for something different, don't bother checking our veris. | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol. No, we met a couple who had their first child at 13 & that child went on to do the same. It was awkward in the hot tub afterwards. Had to block them for something different, don't bother checking our veris. " Totally confused so this couple your saying was on here at 13 and the fem got pregnant ?  | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol. No, we met a couple who had their first child at 13 & that child went on to do the same. It was awkward in the hot tub afterwards. Had to block them for something different, don't bother checking our veris. Totally confused so this couple your saying was on here at 13 and the fem got pregnant ? "What? That has nothing to do with the original post. It was just to point out that if that could happen (not on here obviously) that my original question could happen xx | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol. No, we met a couple who had their first child at 13 & that child went on to do the same. It was awkward in the hot tub afterwards. Had to block them for something different, don't bother checking our veris. Totally confused so this couple your saying was on here at 13 and the fem got pregnant ?
What? That has nothing to do with the original post. It was just to point out that if that could happen (not on here obviously) that my original question could happen xx"well why mention this couple if they have nothing to do with your origonal question ? bit confusing | |||
| |||
"You surely wouldn't ever admit to falling pregnant to someone on here and keeping the baby? Lol, imagine if it was a gang bang, it's Jeremy Kyle gold!! " Well what if they wanted money for childcare? | |||
"Well we've heard of people having baby's at 13 on here so maybe someone has and wants to share the experience xxIsnt that underage?. Think they meant they have heard on here of it happening in "real life", not that it actually happened to someone who was on here xxYes thought so as well, sounded strange lol. No, we met a couple who had their first child at 13 & that child went on to do the same. It was awkward in the hot tub afterwards. Had to block them for something different, don't bother checking our veris. Totally confused so this couple your saying was on here at 13 and the fem got pregnant ?
What? That has nothing to do with the original post. It was just to point out that if that could happen (not on here obviously) that my original question could happen xxwell why mention this couple if they have nothing to do with your origonal question ? bit confusing "It was a reference to someone else's question and that if someone shared that they might share this | |||
| |||
 | |||
"13 is too young to be swinging "Wow! This is hurting my head lol The couple we met had a baby at 13 but weren't swingers They started swinging later in life. Can we stay on topic please xxx | |||
 | |||
"13 is too young to be swinging
Wow! This is hurting my head lol
The couple we met had a baby at 13 but weren't swingers
They started swinging later in life.
Can we stay on topic please xxx"again what does your opening question and this couple have in common then? | |||
| |||
"A random question: Has anyone got pregnant (fem or couple) with a swinger and kept the baby?" There were 2 single forumites that got pregnant to a Fab meet in the last couple of years. Bound to be more. | |||
"13 is too young to be swinging
Wow! This is hurting my head lol
The couple we met had a baby at 13 but weren't swingers
They started swinging later in life.
Can we stay on topic please xxxagain what does your opening question and this couple have in common then? "Because they're both taboo subjects and if one can be shared on here then I thought the other might too xx | |||
"A random question: Has anyone got pregnant (fem or couple) with a swinger and kept the baby? There were 2 single forumites that got pregnant to a Fab meet in the last couple of years. Bound to be more." How'd it work out for them? Xx | |||
| |||
 | |||
"Controversial but if I Got pregnant via a meet I think I'd keep baby too . I couldnt face a termination and irrelevant of how conceived would love said child.. Bring on the onslaught of morals etc......" Good on you red head glad to see someone with good principals | |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ... "Good for you, finally a decent answer. Would you involve the guy or couple? Xx | |||
| |||
"Letsplay. are you thinking of doing this then? does the idea of concieving a baby in a situation work for you. I too like other readers am little confused about your topic in general.... " There's a Z in our name
No we don't want this, we love being childless, drinking, shagging whenever we want.
It's an easy topic to understand | |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ...
Good for you, finally a decent answer.
Would you involve the guy or couple?
Xx"If the single guy wanted to be in contact with the child yes..he would have the right and I'd want that for the child...the set up wouldn't be ideal but it's a case of taking responsibility .... The couple scenario..that's a difficult one..I very very much doubt ant woman would want another woman having her partners child ... this would have to be well thought out....... | |||
| |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ...
Good for you, finally a decent answer.
Would you involve the guy or couple?
Xx
If the single guy wanted to be in contact with the child yes..he would have the right and I'd want that for the child...the set up wouldn't be ideal but it's a case of taking responsibility ....
The couple scenario..that's a difficult one..I very very much doubt ant woman would want another woman having her partners child ... this would have to be well thought out......."Yeah I agree, with either scenario I more or less thinking it would be an accident | |||
"Redhead has been honest in her answer and its understandable why as terminations are hard. If it was me even though i to only do safe i would be there for the child if the mother wanted me too I wouldnt abandon it or her. " Yes yes everyone uses condoms that's not what this is about, this isn't a test lol What if you got a couples fem pregnant? | |||
"Redhead has been honest in her answer and its understandable why as terminations are hard. If it was me even though i to only do safe i would be there for the child if the mother wanted me too I wouldnt abandon it or her. Yes yes everyone uses condoms that's not what this is about, this isn't a test lol What if you got a couples fem pregnant?" Again if that happened then i would maintain contact if thats what the couple wanted. I know its not a test just stating what i would do if such an accident occured. Every life is precious and terminations are not the answer im anti abortion. | |||
"Redhead has been honest in her answer and its understandable why as terminations are hard. If it was me even though i to only do safe i would be there for the child if the mother wanted me too I wouldnt abandon it or her. Yes yes everyone uses condoms that's not what this is about, this isn't a test lol What if you got a couples fem pregnant? Again if that happened then i would maintain contact if thats what the couple wanted. I know its not a test just stating what i would do if such an accident occured. Every life is precious and terminations are not the answer im anti abortion." Thanks xx | |||
"Redhead has been honest in her answer and its understandable why as terminations are hard. If it was me even though i to only do safe i would be there for the child if the mother wanted me too I wouldnt abandon it or her. Yes yes everyone uses condoms that's not what this is about, this isn't a test lol What if you got a couples fem pregnant? Again if that happened then i would maintain contact if thats what the couple wanted. I know its not a test just stating what i would do if such an accident occured. Every life is precious and terminations are not the answer im anti abortion. Thanks xx" No problem honest answer to an honest question xx | |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ... "Accidents can happen and do at the end of the day. Happen in the everyday word let alone the swinging one. And like Red I to would deal with the situation and bring up that child a termination would be out of the question | |||
| |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ...
Accidents can happen and do at the end of the day. Happen in the everyday word let alone the swinging one.
And like Red I to would deal with the situation and bring up that child a termination would be out of the question "Exactly even with protection accidents happen thats why any form of protection is never 100% effective. Best form is no intercourse at all. | |||
"This is getting better xx So most say they'll keep it. What if the meet bi and had sex with both of the couple? "Im bi and to me same attitude would apply so far as im concerned stand by them both if they wanted me involved in the childs life xx | |||
Her | |||
"Again..wheres my dad mum..oh flick through..95,000..then get yourself on Jezza for rehab
Her"What? Xx | |||
| |||
"Kids at 13 ...... I live at number 15 hope it doesn't cry too much . Hope this is a giggle thread !!!! Jo x" What? | |||
| |||
"This is a fetish.... I've been asked to do this with a few couples. They thought it would be cool to have a interracial baby...... " Oh really, what's it called? | |||
| |||
"This is a fetish.... I've been asked to do this with a few couples. They thought it would be cool to have a interracial baby...... Oh really, what's it called? " Bull Breeding .. It's usually for serious cuckold couples.... | |||
"This is a fetish.... I've been asked to do this with a few couples. They thought it would be cool to have a interracial baby...... Oh really, what's it called? Bull Breeding .. It's usually for serious cuckold couples.... " Oh wow, never heard before. Thanks that's very interesting xx | |||
| |||
| |||
"I fell pregnant with my ex, who was a secret swinger who thought I didn't know about it! Does that count?! " What did you end up doing? (Tried to private reply, but couples are blocked xx) | |||
| |||
"Bull breeding I have had numerous messages off guys asking to impregnate me. .. And I know couples that ask for it! It was a huge shock to Me when I first came on fab. A couple I talk to say it is their fantasy........ Personally...if people make that particular fantasy a reality. .they are being selfish. ...to plan a child in that way isn't clever... I also think a mixed race child being born to white parents may be ridiculed. .particularly on a predominantly white area ..as wrong as that Is... some fantasies should be kept that. . . " | |||
| |||
| |||
"Oh we were in a relationship so I kept the baby lol he was a swinger but he thought I didn't know about it, didn't know how to delete his internet history at the time haha " Nice lol So your separate now or just swing separately? | |||
| |||
| |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. " So would we, we like life too much to waste it on kids  | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. " Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe." I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head. | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head." Maybe think about alternatives like the injection or implant or something? Obviously it's your choice but saves you having to remember a condom. | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head." Yolo xx | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head. Maybe think about alternatives like the injection or implant or something? Obviously it's your choice but saves you having to remember a condom. " I did try. But the the hormones in them make me go insane. As does the mini pill. Apparently im too fat to go on the combined pill so i haven't got that many options. | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head. Maybe think about alternatives like the injection or implant or something? Obviously it's your choice but saves you having to remember a condom. I did try. But the the hormones in them make me go insane. As does the mini pill. Apparently im too fat to go on the combined pill so i haven't got that many options. " Yeah E goes mental with meds too xx | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head. Maybe think about alternatives like the injection or implant or something? Obviously it's your choice but saves you having to remember a condom. I did try. But the the hormones in them make me go insane. As does the mini pill. Apparently im too fat to go on the combined pill so i haven't got that many options. " I hope it's not something you have to go through and hope a future "forgetful moment" doesn't put you in that position. If you catch it early enough, fine, but a lot of women aren't so lucky. The cramps and passing a fetus is a painful and traumatising experience. I don't think I could consider it, personally, and a surgical abortion would DEFINITELY be off the cards... - Amy. x | |||
| |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Don't risk it, falling pregnant and getting an abortion is not a piece of cake, it's a massive physical and emotional trauma. Be safe. I'm under no illusion that it would be a walk in the park and I definitely dont see it as a quick fix. Sometimes the moment takes over and the thought of condoms don't enter my head. Maybe think about alternatives like the injection or implant or something? Obviously it's your choice but saves you having to remember a condom. I did try. But the the hormones in them make me go insane. As does the mini pill. Apparently im too fat to go on the combined pill so i haven't got that many options. " Try the coil babe. .I haven't had a minutes problem. .no periods either 
Admire your honesty x | |||
"Although before the bb police jump in... I don't bb... I said IF I were to ....not that it would likely ever happen. ...
Good for you, finally a decent answer.
Would you involve the guy or couple?
Xx
If the single guy wanted to be in contact with the child yes..he would have the right and I'd want that for the child...the set up wouldn't be ideal but it's a case of taking responsibility ....
The couple scenario..that's a difficult one..I very very much doubt ant woman would want another woman having her partners child ... this would have to be well thought out......."Although I take precautions in this world - my biggest dread, along with std's, is the thought of becoming pregnant with a virtual stranger! As I'm a lot older than Red, if it were to happen I'd seriously consider an abortion - partly due to the circumstances of conception - partly because I'm just too old to have a baby now! Like most people on here though, I'm really hoping it's something that won't happen! Xx | |||
| |||
"I've not gotten pregnant yet. "You're obviously using the appropriate birth control Tina | |||
"Id help out.... But want anonymity " it does happen , as i have been a sperm dona ,  | |||
"Id help out.... But want anonymity it does happen , as i have been a sperm dona , "So have i but through a clinic xx | |||
 | |||
| |||
"Or you get the female who's partner has been snipped, and she wants a baby..... The old " I'm on the pill" seems to be popular... Then pops out a baby. Devious " I WAS on the pill. 
(Although mine are Bradley's, so it's not the same situation, lol).
- Amy. x | |||
"Or you get the female who's partner has been snipped, and she wants a baby..... The old " I'm on the pill" seems to be popular... Then pops out a baby. Devious I WAS on the pill.
(Although mine are Bradley's, so it's not the same situation, lol).
- Amy. x"So was I bird, with pcos too...still managed. I meant women having other mens babies cos their fella been 'fixed' | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. " Are you not on contraception then... Sorry just it reads as If you might occasionally go bare but not much chance of getting pregnant with the right contraception x | |||
"Or you get the female who's partner has been snipped, and she wants a baby..... The old " I'm on the pill" seems to be popular... Then pops out a baby. Devious I WAS on the pill.
(Although mine are Bradley's, so it's not the same situation, lol).
- Amy. x
So was I bird, with pcos too...still managed.
I meant women having other mens babies cos their fella been 'fixed'"I know what you meant, I'm just pulling your leg. | |||
"Or you get the female who's partner has been snipped, and she wants a baby..... The old " I'm on the pill" seems to be popular... Then pops out a baby. Devious I WAS on the pill.
(Although mine are Bradley's, so it's not the same situation, lol).
- Amy. x
So was I bird, with pcos too...still managed.
I meant women having other mens babies cos their fella been 'fixed'
I know what you meant, I'm just pulling your leg."Awww please don't... My hip and lower back is KILLING  | |||
"If I was to get pregnant from a meet (which is entirely possible as I do sometimes risk it and do bareback) I would not even think twice about getting an abortion. I don't want kids ever and I don't believe in having children out of wedlock (just my personal feelings, no prejudice about those who do) so I wouldn't keep it. I'm not pro abortion. But I am pro choice. Are you not on contraception then... Sorry just it reads as If you might occasionally go bare but not much chance of getting pregnant with the right contraception x" No I'm not currently on contraception. I use condoms. Which obviously lowers the risk. But there's still always a chance. Regardless of barebacking or not I suppose. | |||
| |||
"Or you get the female who's partner has been snipped, and she wants a baby..... The old " I'm on the pill" seems to be popular... Then pops out a baby. Devious I WAS on the pill.
(Although mine are Bradley's, so it's not the same situation, lol).
- Amy. x
So was I bird, with pcos too...still managed.
I meant women having other mens babies cos their fella been 'fixed'
I know what you meant, I'm just pulling your leg.
Awww please don't... My hip and lower back is KILLING "Yay! Someone else is walking like a penguin too!
I am not aloooooone!!!
- Amy. x | |||
| |||
"We have been asked by 3 couples in the last 2 years to be involved in pregnancy risk sex with them. They want to get pregnant and get an abortion." I'm usually an "each to their own"-type person and know I can"t control other people but that made me die a little inside.
I should be used to the fact that some sick people out there have such a disregard for life (and before anyone jumps on my back, I'm talking specifically about purposefully getting pregnant to have an abortion). | |||
"We have been asked by 3 couples in the last 2 years to be involved in pregnancy risk sex with them. They want to get pregnant and get an abortion. I'm usually an "each to their own"-type person and know I can"t control other people but that made me die a little inside.
I should be used to the fact that some sick people out there have such a disregard for life (and before anyone jumps on my back, I'm talking specifically about purposefully getting pregnant to have an abortion)."Your right though that kinda behaviour is sick. Saying that people like that dont deserve to have kids if thats how they treat creating life | |||
| |||
"We have been asked by 3 couples in the last 2 years to be involved in pregnancy risk sex with them. They want to get pregnant and get an abortion. I believe the guys are usually infertile. We also know one local lady who got pregnant last year from swinging. As far as we know, she used condoms but wasn't on the pill. She met a few guys so the baby daddy is a mystery. " Jesus Harry Christ...I thought I'd heard it all, I thought I was unshockable....they want to get pregnant and have an abortion. Fucking what?! | |||
| |||
| |||
 disgusting | |||
"Wtf. ..that has actully made me angry.... I'm not an abortion campaigner etc but to intentionally do it? That's fkd up.... Fuming by here lol " Especially when you consider how many women who really want a child miscarry. Then these women are out there doing this just for kicks? If anything its a form of murder i think | |||
| |||
"What I find weird is the ones who come back on to the site and do the same. Do they not learn? " So... women should stop shagging around just because they had an unplanned pregnancy? As long as they're aware of the risks - which they clearly are - then I don't see the problem. Women don't stop enjoying sex just because they had a baby. | |||
"We have been asked by 3 couples in the last 2 years to be involved in pregnancy risk sex with them. They want to get pregnant and get an abortion. I believe the guys are usually infertile. We also know one local lady who got pregnant last year from swinging. As far as we know, she used condoms but wasn't on the pill. She met a few guys so the baby daddy is a mystery. Jesus Harry Christ...I thought I'd heard it all, I thought I was unshockable....they want to get pregnant and have an abortion. Fucking what?! " Not sure if that's what they actually wanted or they wanted a baby and said they will be having abortions to make me feel better about getting a random woman pregnant. Told them off and got blocked by them. I didn't appreciate being the one who was message about it. I have always wondered if 2 of the couples was the same couple as they are both from the same area. Not sure if I ever would have reported the profiles but I only found out after that abortions in this country is illegal as well. | |||
| |||
"Fuming by here lol Especially when you consider how many women who really want a child miscarry. Then these women are out there doing this just for kicks? If anything its a form of murder i think "Leaving aside the fact that they are putting their own body at risk... Guilting people who have abortions in this way isn't acceptable. Saying that abortion is murder isn't acceptable. Implying that people should keep an unwanted baby because other people can't have them isn't acceptable. When I had my sterilisation last year some people I know told me that I should be grateful for my ability to conceive children and should do so, because to not do so is selfish, and that I should think of the people who *can't have children*. Having an abortion doesn't affect those who can't have children. So don't imply that it does. Please. | |||
"We have been asked by 3 couples in the last 2 years to be involved in pregnancy risk sex with them. They want to get pregnant and get an abortion. I'm usually an "each to their own"-type person and know I can"t control other people but that made me die a little inside.
I should be used to the fact that some sick people out there have such a disregard for life (and before anyone jumps on my back, I'm talking specifically about purposefully getting pregnant to have an abortion)." | |||
"Fuming by here lol Especially when you consider how many women who really want a child miscarry. Then these women are out there doing this just for kicks? If anything its a form of murder i think
Leaving aside the fact that they are putting their own body at risk...
Guilting people who have abortions in this way isn't acceptable. Saying that abortion is murder isn't acceptable. Implying that people should keep an unwanted baby because other people can't have them isn't acceptable.
When I had my sterilisation last year some people I know told me that I should be grateful for my ability to conceive children and should do so, because to not do so is selfish, and that I should think of the people who *can't have children*.
Having an abortion doesn't affect those who can't have children. So don't imply that it does. Please."What i mean is those women who continually get pregnant and abort just for kicks im not talking about sterilisation. They dont intend to ever have kids. | |||
"Fuming by here lol Especially when you consider how many women who really want a child miscarry. Then these women are out there doing this just for kicks? If anything its a form of murder i think
Leaving aside the fact that they are putting their own body at risk...
Guilting people who have abortions in this way isn't acceptable. Saying that abortion is murder isn't acceptable. Implying that people should keep an unwanted baby because other people can't have them isn't acceptable.
When I had my sterilisation last year some people I know told me that I should be grateful for my ability to conceive children and should do so, because to not do so is selfish, and that I should think of the people who *can't have children*.
Having an abortion doesn't affect those who can't have children. So don't imply that it does. Please.
What i mean is those women who continually get pregnant and abort just for kicks im not talking about sterilisation. They dont intend to ever have kids."It still doesn't affect anyone else - unless you're talking about wasting medical resources. | |||
"Fuming by here lol Especially when you consider how many women who really want a child miscarry. Then these women are out there doing this just for kicks? If anything its a form of murder i think
Leaving aside the fact that they are putting their own body at risk...
Guilting people who have abortions in this way isn't acceptable. Saying that abortion is murder isn't acceptable. Implying that people should keep an unwanted baby because other people can't have them isn't acceptable.
When I had my sterilisation last year some people I know told me that I should be grateful for my ability to conceive children and should do so, because to not do so is selfish, and that I should think of the people who *can't have children*.
Having an abortion doesn't affect those who can't have children. So don't imply that it does. Please.
What i mean is those women who continually get pregnant and abort just for kicks im not talking about sterilisation. They dont intend to ever have kids.
It still doesn't affect anyone else - unless you're talking about wasting medical resources."True and it does waste nhs resources treating these women and the nhs is under enough strain as it is. | |||
All the debate about abortions on here is pretty grim. I'm pro choice but the idea of getting pregnant knowingly to have an abortion seems crazy. They must be quite emotionally shut off, I had two miscarriages and the pain was awful. I can't imagine putting myself through that willingly... | |||
"They must be quite emotionally shut off, I had two miscarriages and the pain was awful. I can't imagine putting myself through that willingly..." An abortion is very different to a miscarriage though. An abortion is just removing parasite cells in your uterus. A miscarriage implies planning and bonding with the foetus. | |||
| |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. " What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation?" refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x" Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... | |||
"They must be quite emotionally shut off, I had two miscarriages and the pain was awful. I can't imagine putting myself through that willingly... An abortion is very different to a miscarriage though. An abortion is just removing parasite cells in your uterus. A miscarriage implies planning and bonding with the foetus." That's not the case at all, my first two pregnancies weren't planned.. I didn't want to be pregnant at those times at all. I hadn't planned or bonded with the foetus, it didn't detract from the physical pain of passing it though. It isn't so different physically, one is naturally aborted and the other is induced by drugs. | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x" The nhs doesn't offer reversals for sterilization. It shouldn't be offered as form of contraception unless people seek it out themselves. Those having multiple abortions are unlikely to be bright enough to understand the implications of a sterilization. | |||
| |||
"You surely wouldn't ever admit to falling pregnant to someone on here and keeping the baby? Lol, imagine if it was a gang bang, it's Jeremy Kyle gold!! " lol Would make good viewing . | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her...." There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved" Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. " My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... " I've worked with children with disabilities in care and that often included taking some of them to centres for supervised visits with their parents (who never turned up 80% of the time). Had 4 little'uns born addicted to heroin and I do think their Mother's bahaviour contributed to them having special needs. | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... " Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too." Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family "Do feel for you there heres hoping this baby although unexpected will make up for some of the heartbreaking things you and family have had in recent years. | |||
| |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family
Do feel for you there heres hoping this baby although unexpected will make up for some of the heartbreaking things you and family have had in recent years."Everyone is very excited about this baby....so much nicer than when I had children with my ex.... Don't think we will get a look in tbh....gonna be spoilt for choice who gets to hold the baby.... | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family
Do feel for you there heres hoping this baby although unexpected will make up for some of the heartbreaking things you and family have had in recent years.
Everyone is very excited about this baby....so much nicer than when I had children with my ex.... Don't think we will get a look in tbh....gonna be spoilt for choice who gets to hold the baby...."Aww thats great i like to believe such things happen for a reason and if this baby makes your family happier than they have been for a long time then even better i say. Plus be it boy or girl they will have a great mum and dad too. | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family
Do feel for you there heres hoping this baby although unexpected will make up for some of the heartbreaking things you and family have had in recent years.
Everyone is very excited about this baby....so much nicer than when I had children with my ex.... Don't think we will get a look in tbh....gonna be spoilt for choice who gets to hold the baby....
Aww thats great i like to believe such things happen for a reason and if this baby makes your family happier than they have been for a long time then even better i say. Plus be it boy or girl they will have a great mum and dad too."We know what it is, quite possibly the name too.... Don't know about me, but Jesus is a fantastic father to his daughter and my children....i know he will be amazing with our newest (and flipping last) child | |||
"Abortion should never be used as late contraception. Only if there is a good reason. Not taking adequate precautions or wanting to have risky sex shouldn't be a choice And I think if you have had one that they should look quite seriously at you if you then asked for another within a few years. What are they going to do? Stop you having sex? Force you to have a sterilisation? refuse an abortion maybe. I'm talking about people that have had More than one over a period of time... It's not Contraception. And to be honest if these people say that they want an abortion because they don't want kids, then perhaps they should be offered sterilisation x Although I agree with this, I would fear for the safety of the child born to parents by force who didn't want him/her.... There's always adoption.... I am pro life.... As far as I'm concerned, planning to get pregnant just to abort is murder. Yes, it's just cells and unable to live outside the womb....but it is a potential life. I am currently pregnant.... It was unplanned, but made within the confines of a loving relationship... Even so....if it had been conceived differently, there is no way I'd have aborted. Abortion does affect others....my sister in law always wanted more children, but suffered 2 ectopic pregnancies....i know for a fact that she would be broken hearted if I had aborted this baby I'm carrying, and if I'd have discussed it with her.... She'd offer to adopt it, without skipping a beat abortion may not affect people when its strangers doing it for fun, but in real life, it is devastating for all involved Yes, but there is also the potential of pre-birth sabotagé behaviour, people that refuse to give up a certain lifestyle or maybe start taking more drugs, alcohol, rediculous behaviour, etc that could cause harm. You'd also see more backdoor abortions and dumpings, murder, suicide, etc, I think. I'm not saying I agree with it, but some people don't think logically, and unless adoption was enforced and someone was there to take the little'un away at birth... I could see some truly horrible things happening. My sister in law is actually bringing up her grandchildren because her daughter did exactly what you said above.... The youngest child was born addicted to heroin and was very poorly....still had significant health problems.... Cant say for definite if the problems were caused by her drug abuse while pregnant or not.... Glad to see im not the only one who thinks its wrong. Drug abuse while pregnant is just as bad as those who smoke or drink while pregnant with no thought to the baby they are carrying. At least you have the benefit of a loving relationship to bring your baby into. Congrats and good luck with it all too. Thank you.... Drug abuse while pregnant or after birth is never good for any child.... I lost my own mother to heroin...her death had other implications... Not only did I lose my mum, my kids lost their nanny, my great nan who was very old and had short term memory loss, had to be reminded constantly that she was dead....her heart broke everytime.... Bad decisions ruin lives, before, during and after they happen.... Telling you...i could write a book about the shit that's gone on in my family
Do feel for you there heres hoping this baby although unexpected will make up for some of the heartbreaking things you and family have had in recent years.
Everyone is very excited about this baby....so much nicer than when I had children with my ex.... Don't think we will get a look in tbh....gonna be spoilt for choice who gets to hold the baby....
Aww thats great i like to believe such things happen for a reason and if this baby makes your family happier than they have been for a long time then even better i say. Plus be it boy or girl they will have a great mum and dad too.
We know what it is, quite possibly the name too.... Don't know about me, but Jesus is a fantastic father to his daughter and my children....i know he will be amazing with our newest (and flipping last) child"Dont put yourself down you will be doing alot of hard work to bring them into the world so you will be just as amazing as your partner and im sure he would agree. xxx | |||
"This is a fetish.... I've been asked to do this with a few couples. They thought it would be cool to have a interracial baby...... Oh really, what's it called? Bull Breeding .. It's usually for serious cuckold couples.... " How would you explain that one to the excited grandparents to be of the guy?????? | |||
"My sister tried for years to have a baby, then finally found out she was pregnant......she'd booked a holiday just before finding out so decided to have an abortion so she didnt lose out on the holiday......completely wrong in my opinion. (Wrong choice for her too now but too late when you've already done it)." | |||
