"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)"
As a bisexual man I find it very odd that you choose who to have sex with and have standards and choices and preferences. Not.  |
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)"
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why? |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?"
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world  |
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world "
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly"
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed |
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed"
Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face? |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed
Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?"
At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder? |
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I usually give my standard-'Sorry not what I'm looking for. Have fun' spiel. Mostly get a polite thank you and occasionally a 'why not' Ask the question then they get an answer tho it may not be one they want to hear. That's the risk they take. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed
Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?
At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?"
No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually give my standard-'Sorry not what I'm looking for. Have fun' spiel. Mostly get a polite thank you and occasionally a 'why not' Ask the question then they get an answer tho it may not be one they want to hear. That's the risk they take. "
So you tell them if they insist?
May I ask what sort of things? Xx |
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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago
Southend |
"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed
Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?
At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?
No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me "
Fair enough, thanks xx |
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I'm not bothered why.... If someone doesn't fancy us that's fine, we don't get nasty about it. Not everybody is our cuppa tea either. Would rather be told that they don't want to meet us, rather than be ignored though. Saves us messaging them another time eh? We don't tell people why unless they ask. I usually just say thanks but no thanks... If they do ask I just hit em with a not my type... I wouldn't want to be cruel. x |
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"I'm not bothered why.... If someone doesn't fancy us that's fine, we don't get nasty about it. Not everybody is our cuppa tea either. Would rather be told that they don't want to meet us, rather than be ignored though. Saves us messaging them another time eh? We don't tell people why unless they ask. I usually just say thanks but no thanks... If they do ask I just hit em with a not my type... I wouldn't want to be cruel. x"
Seems nice. We're never cruel, but when we've asked we've had some ass hole answers |
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A simple no thanks (or words to that point) is sufficient. No need for a report on the why and nots. you can't be everyone's cuppa of tea..... Unless you are moi ?? |
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"How can you say why?
Not our type, too far away, no bi stuff (we get the most shit from that one lol)
Oh, thought you meant something like becuse you're an ugly bugger with a big spotty nose and buck teeth
Why would you want to know why?
Could be that. I like to know so I can change. For example I grew a beer belly without noticing and when a couple said they don't do beer bellys I join slimming world
But the next couple might say they like a bit of a beer belly
Haven't had that yet lol Prefer it without now, I'm happy they said something, I didn't even noticed
Fair enough, but what if the'd said its cuz you've got an ugly face?
At least I'd know what they thought instead of wondering. Don't you ever wonder?
No, no point and I know my faults anyway and wouldn't change for anybody, I like me "
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"A simple no thanks (or words to that point) is sufficient. No need for a report on the why and nots. you can't be everyone's cuppa of tea..... Unless you are moi ??
Your not  "
I take it you won't be inviting me to your meet today....lol |
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I dont like being asked why Ive turned someone down. The truth hurts, im not going to tell someone I dont like the way I look, so I usually use the distance or another incompatability we have and there usually is one |
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