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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
deleted after verifying ?
Or deleting accounts as soon as met you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have you tried asking them nicely?....or fuck them until they are almost coming - then stop, withdraw slightly and say "you aren't getting any more until you promise me a nice veri" - I am sure they will say yes! m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
that's not a good cv mate. Surely you must of asked why ? Did you send them a veri ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
If you have had 3 meets already without verifications your doing ok so why worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you. "
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
Some people don't like displaying who they've met. They can control that on their profile but have no control over whether you display their veri or not on yours. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We always make sure we veri a single guy or newbie because we know how difficult it is for them to get started.... don't so much veri people we have met many times as it can get silly and they don't need or sometimes want them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have "
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time."
I would assume if someone didnt veri me that they either didnt have fun, or dont want people on fab to know that they were with me. |
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By *4STYWoman
over a year ago
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"If i didnt have fun on a meet i wont leave a veri. "
Same as me. Just met a guy recently, guy sold me dreams
Promise the most amazing sex and the promise of a good oral session and when we met he wouldn't go down on me and was done in a few minutes.
I complained so he blocked on what's app. Next day had the guys to ask me for a verification and I said no.
He did verify me thou but I'm not posting it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time."
If none has veried him then either theres a prob or he is just picking quick shags who don't care about the veris |
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No idea why as I don't know what happened but there have been plenty of forum posts regarding people not wanting to meet with bi males or indeed with anyone that has met a bi male so this is a possibility. |
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time.
I would assume if someone didnt veri me that they either didnt have fun, or dont want people on fab to know that they were with me. "
Yes we can see why people wouldn't want to show that they had met you....we'd be embarrassed to meet you, with that sexy body.
We've fabbed a few pics btw  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've never asked for a verification, most folk I've met Have sent one, I've met folks that have said they don't send them or want to receive them.
At least you're meeting folks..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i didnt have fun on a meet i wont leave a veri.
Same as me. Just met a guy recently, guy sold me dreams
Promise the most amazing sex and the promise of a good oral session and when we met he wouldn't go down on me and was done in a few minutes.
I complained so he blocked on what's app. Next day had the guys to ask me for a verification and I said no.
He did verify me thou but I'm not posting it "
I take it this is what your status relates to |
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"No idea why as I don't know what happened but there have been plenty of forum posts regarding people not wanting to meet with bi males or indeed with anyone that has met a bi male so this is a possibility."
Ah....happily, part of my pre-meet chats are whether or not they want to meet me, so although I'm bi, the people I meet always want to. I have chatted to couples who say 'no bi men' but not about meeting. I wouldn't waste my pixels.
OP: don't get too hung up on veris, you only need a couple of recentish ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time.
I would assume if someone didnt veri me that they either didnt have fun, or dont want people on fab to know that they were with me.
Yes we can see why people wouldn't want to show that they had met you....we'd be embarrassed to meet you, with that sexy body.
We've fabbed a few pics btw "
Lol! I've fabbed some yours too. And thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris seem to cause so much angst for some one here. I meet people for fun, not for a veri. If I'm sent one then great but I don't display any so I'm not overly bothered either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had guys not veri me. I stopped verifying first now because of this.
Had the pleasure of accidently deleting a message off one guy who'd made a new profile and wanting it verified when he seemed to have forgot to verify me on his old one...hehehe.
You got any face pics coz i'll do you a cam veri if you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everyone likes giving verifications.
I've had a number of meets that haven't resulted in a veri, but I don't worry about it.
I see verifications for precisely the purpose they were intended - to verify that someone is who they say they are and that they will show for a meet.
What I don't see them as is a scoresheet, or measure of performance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you. "
 I think only 1 or 2 meets we've ever had (other than clubs which is slightly different) has not verified us. I agree that if it is happening repeatedly I'd question what is prompting it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris seem to cause so much angst for some one here. I meet people for fun, not for a veri. If I'm sent one then great but I don't display any so I'm not overly bothered either way."
It's because a LOT of profiles say they won't meet people unless verified, hence breaking that duck can be important, especially to a lone male, as it's the key to a whole wider audience of potential meets |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
Were they guys, women or couples?
If guys? Did they have 'straight' on their profiles?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris seem to cause so much angst for some one here. I meet people for fun, not for a veri. If I'm sent one then great but I don't display any so I'm not overly bothered either way.
It's because a LOT of profiles say they won't meet people unless verified, hence breaking that duck can be important, especially to a lone male, as it's the key to a whole wider audience of potential meets "
Then social meets are ideal for this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris seem to cause so much angst for some one here. I meet people for fun, not for a veri. If I'm sent one then great but I don't display any so I'm not overly bothered either way.
It's because a LOT of profiles say they won't meet people unless verified, hence breaking that duck can be important, especially to a lone male, as it's the key to a whole wider audience of potential meets
Then social meets are ideal for this."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have a few issues with peoplr i meet wont veri me has anyone else"
Where the meets with guys, ladies or couples
Could be the need to limit activity with bi guys to bypass others preferences
A few guys will want to avoid having a veri from another guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a veri is a good start. Because I've been on a while now it doesn't look good and think it's a waste of time. I send mail but hardly any reply's in return. That little tick sends the right signals |
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"i have a few issues with peoplr i meet wont veri me has anyone else
Where the meets with guys, ladies or couples
Could be the need to limit activity with bi guys to bypass others preferences
A few guys will want to avoid having a veri from another guy
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Horribly true, however, potential meets could ask to see the veri summary AND all the corresponding veris to see if bi guys did meet the 'straight' guy for sex.
Or go to a social. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I think a veri is a good start. Because I've been on a while now it doesn't look good and think it's a waste of time. I send mail but hardly any reply's in return. That little tick sends the right signals "
but does it??? all it is is one persons opinion of you....
think of it like this.... when else would you take as gospel the opinions of a person you don't know..... about another person you don't know
as with all things.. take with a pinch of salt.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'."
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?"
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?"
I think it's the polite thing to do. Just a simple... We met him for a drink and enjoyed our evening. It's to show other people he is a real person |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"think of it like this.... when else would you take as gospel the opinions of a person you don't know..... about another person you don't know
T'Bay  "
and thats why i don't "T'bay"..... I am far too cynical |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself "
Phew not just us then, just feel it's unlikely, once maybe, twice hmmm, three times makes you wonder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself "
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?"
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet. "
Sure they do but don't have to display verifications just leave summary |
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
Phew not just us then, just feel it's unlikely, once maybe, twice hmmm, three times makes you wonder "
That's funny because thrice is how many chances I give people before blocking them. It's the Goldfinger adage, one is happenstance, twice is coincidence, thrice is enemy action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?"
One of mine is like that just a thank you for turning up, Even though she did say she didn't want one of me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
Phew not just us then, just feel it's unlikely, once maybe, twice hmmm, three times makes you wonder "
I had a run of em then relised it wasnt me it was daytime/lunchtime quickes with married men that was the prob since ive been more alert ive had good meets and veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it. "
That's fair enough but if you don't get on with someone for whatever reason, doesn't mean others wont. This is one of many reasons I pay little attention to veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet. "
Witch is completely understandable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet.
Sure they do but don't have to display verifications just leave summary "
Maybe they don't understand that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet.
Sure they do but don't have to display verifications just leave summary "
I didn't know that... I tried to verify a couple once and it was blocked. They tried and it was also blocked. We got so frustrated and forgot all about it. But honestly I'm in a different boat. I'm in the USA and fab isn't that big here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone thought he may of not had any real meets, bit strange 3 meets and no verifications only saying
Thought that myself
I don't think this is nefarious on his part. He is a bi male and all his meets could have been with men that are still in the closet.
I've had real meets from couples visiting NYC and they didn't leave a verification. And I still play with them. Some people like to be discreet.
Sure they do but don't have to display verifications just leave summary
Maybe they don't understand that "
Yeah maybe huh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it.
That's fair enough but if you don't get on with someone for whatever reason, doesn't mean others wont. This is one of many reasons I pay little attention to veris. "
How about if the guy came 5 times in under 10 minutes and all before any underwear was removed? Lol! And before anyone gets mad it wasnt anyone i met on Fab. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?"
Unless they looked nothing like their pics or you were concerned they had stalker/mad axe murdering potential then you can say you met socially and they looked like their pics - anything else is open to interpretation.....if you thought they weren't for you and didn't progress the meet that doesn't mean the next person wouldn't click and have an amazing time with them |
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it.
That's fair enough but if you don't get on with someone for whatever reason, doesn't mean others wont. This is one of many reasons I pay little attention to veris.
How about if the guy came 5 times in under 10 minutes and all before any underwear was removed? Lol! And before anyone gets mad it wasnt anyone i met on Fab. "
That's a record |
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it.
That's fair enough but if you don't get on with someone for whatever reason, doesn't mean others wont. This is one of many reasons I pay little attention to veris.
How about if the guy came 5 times in under 10 minutes and all before any underwear was removed? Lol! And before anyone gets mad it wasnt anyone i met on Fab. "
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?"
We wouldn't say we'd had a good time if we hadn't, but even our poor meets (very few in number) were with nice people, who others might find to be just their cup of tea. To us a veri is just a confirmation that the person is real and turned up, but obviously we wouldn't leave one for someone who was rude or unpleasant in some other way. |
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
Surely a verification is to say someone is who they say they are and are real, not a sexual performance review?
I didnt day anything about sex. I have met many men in person for a drink who have turned out not to be what i was looking for. Some of them have not been nice people in person. In those cases, i think of the young women on here who may have no experience and i will not recommend someone as my conscience just wont allow it.
That's fair enough but if you don't get on with someone for whatever reason, doesn't mean others wont. This is one of many reasons I pay little attention to veris.
How about if the guy came 5 times in under 10 minutes and all before any underwear was removed? Lol! And before anyone gets mad it wasnt anyone i met on Fab.
Didn't think it was a sexual performance review?! Maybe you were just too hot for him "
Haha! I get the feeling that the movement if his trousers was too hot for him! I have to say i let it go on just to see if it would stop. After 5 it just got weird. Nice lad though! I'm sure hes all better by now. It was years ago. |
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"Seems a bit harsh not to leave a veri of any sort, especially for someone who doesn't have any. We always try to find something nice to say, even if it was one of the few occasions when the experience wasn't that wonderful. Something along the lines of 'we met him and can confirm that his shoes were very shiny'.
But simply by verifying them and saying something nice, you're recommending that person. If you didn't have a good time why would you lead others to think that you did?
We wouldn't say we'd had a good time if we hadn't, but even our poor meets (very few in number) were with nice people, who others might find to be just their cup of tea. To us a veri is just a confirmation that the person is real and turned up, but obviously we wouldn't leave one for someone who was rude or unpleasant in some other way."
Thats the only time i dont leave a veri. I always veri guys ive met and just not clicked with. |
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"i have a few issues with peoplr i meet wont veri me has anyone else"
Welcome to my world. Most people I play with don't want a veri off a tgirl and won't leave me one.
To be fair; I never ask for veris anymore and may offer one but say I'll understand if they'd rather not have one from me. It's discretion.
I have a few to show I'm hot stuff and have no problems getting meets when I want them from guys, girls and couples.
Seems a bit mean not giving an unverified person a veri though. |
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"Yea it happens a lot don't worry yourself over it veers aren't an essential requirement for a successful time on fab "
No but it helps a lot more on guys that it does on girls. Guys are assumed to be the bad ones here |
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"I thought a veri was ment to show your real and not a timewaster. And if I stayed on fab Alnight would probably end up getting mail from the piss heads "
I'm not sure who you're talking to here but noone is talking about getting messages from d*unk people. |
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"Yea it happens a lot don't worry yourself over it veers aren't an essential requirement for a successful time on fab
No but it helps a lot more on guys that it does on girls. Guys are assumed to be the bad ones here "
That's rubbish there are plenty of lovely guys on here, as there are plenty of bad ones on here as there are bad couples and bad single girls, |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol."
I really like the veri system. It help me choose who to meet. |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
I really like the veri system. It help me choose who to meet."
Exactly, we are the same, we read verifications and helps us decide if we take it further |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
I really like the veri system. It help me choose who to meet."
So if you see one you fancy but don't got a veri, you wont date him cos of that?. |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
I really like the veri system. It help me choose who to meet.So if you see one you fancy but don't got a veri, you wont date him cos of that?."
Not at all! Infact most of my neets are newbies with no veris. However thise who do have veris i can tell a lot from them. |
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts "
. Why would you want to be verified ? Who needs to know whom you have meet. ?.If you enjoyed your three meets , that is all that matters .. Successful people keep their activities private. |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
I really like the veri system. It help me choose who to meet.So if you see one you fancy but don't got a veri, you wont date him cos of that?.
Not at all! Infact most of my neets are newbies with no veris. However thise who do have veris i can tell a lot from them."
That's nice you see newbies to and yes as you can see what a verified already are like in their veri. |
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"Yea it happens a lot don't worry yourself over it veers aren't an essential requirement for a successful time on fab
No but it helps a lot more on guys that it does on girls. Guys are assumed to be the bad ones here
That's rubbish there are plenty of lovely guys on here, as there are plenty of bad ones on here as there are bad couples and bad single girls, "
I am talking in general terms (dangerous business I know) , you don't get many forum threads complaining of the others. |
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"Why won't they veri you? Have you asked? If it's happened a few times then I'd be asking what you are doing that means people don't want to be associated with you.
I completely disagree ive had a few not veri me but plenty what have
But no one has verified him. So why? If you were in his position would you not want to know? I had one couple not verify me and my ex. Never found out why. I chalked it down to experience but it did annoy my partner at the time.
I would assume if someone didnt veri me that they either didnt have fun, or dont want people on fab to know that they were with me.
Yes we can see why people wouldn't want to show that they had met you....we'd be embarrassed to meet you, with that sexy body.
We've fabbed a few pics btw
Lol! I've fabbed some yours too. And thanks! "
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If you weren't so far, we were younger, I was taller....we'd be perfect for each other |
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"nope i think no matter what they should always veri its a bit harsh on the guy yes i havent meet loads but the 3 i have just either dont veri me or delet there accounts . Why would you want to be verified ? Who needs to know whom you have meet. ?.If you enjoyed your three meets , that is all that matters .. Successful people keep their activities private. "
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"Verifications are a bit like TripAdvisor.
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Well not really as you'll never see anything negative in them ..."
Mores the pity.
Though I tend to see the 'arrived on time, nice guy, clean shoes' ones as a polite way of saying 'halitosis, boring, sexual magnetism of a rusty nail'.
I've met some on here who I'd usually avoid yet their verifications have piqued my curiosity and led to some wonderful meets. On the flip, some greatly verified people have been utterly dreadful.
Take it all with a pinch of salt
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"Verifications are a bit like TripAdvisor.
FuckAdvisor
Well not really as you'll never see anything negative in them ...
Mores the pity.
Though I tend to see the 'arrived on time, nice guy, clean shoes' ones as a polite way of saying 'halitosis, boring, sexual magnetism of a rusty nail'.
I've met some on here who I'd usually avoid yet their verifications have piqued my curiosity and led to some wonderful meets. On the flip, some greatly verified people have been utterly dreadful.
Take it all with a pinch of salt
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I know I'm going to get crucified for saying this . But the best meets I've had are the ones that are spontaneous. The hey can you come over now? Messages
Or the we just left the club , can you meet us for a drink.... It's like 2 horny people finding each other at the right time. |
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"Verifications are a bit like TripAdvisor.
FuckAdvisor
Well not really as you'll never see anything negative in them ...
Mores the pity.
Though I tend to see the 'arrived on time, nice guy, clean shoes' ones as a polite way of saying 'halitosis, boring, sexual magnetism of a rusty nail'.
I've met some on here who I'd usually avoid yet their verifications have piqued my curiosity and led to some wonderful meets. On the flip, some greatly verified people have been utterly dreadful.
Take it all with a pinch of salt
I know I'm going to get crucified for saying this . But the best meets I've had are the ones that are spontaneous. The hey can you come over now? Messages
Or the we just left the club , can you meet us for a drink.... It's like 2 horny people finding each other at the right time."
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"Verifications are a bit like TripAdvisor.
FuckAdvisor
Well not really as you'll never see anything negative in them ...
Mores the pity.
Though I tend to see the 'arrived on time, nice guy, clean shoes' ones as a polite way of saying 'halitosis, boring, sexual magnetism of a rusty nail'.
I've met some on here who I'd usually avoid yet their verifications have piqued my curiosity and led to some wonderful meets. On the flip, some greatly verified people have been utterly dreadful.
Take it all with a pinch of salt
I know I'm going to get crucified for saying this . But the best meets I've had are the ones that are spontaneous. The hey can you come over now? Messages
Or the we just left the club , can you meet us for a drink.... It's like 2 horny people finding each other at the right time."
Those tend to be the d*unk and horny meets |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol."
This is the only site I've come across verifications. If people need strangers to help them decide who to fuck, well, God help them.
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
This is the only site I've come across verifications. If people need strangers to help them decide who to fuck, well, God help them.
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Totally agree. The only thing veris tell me is that the person is real but I'm sure some fake accounts can get around this and get verified. I pay no attention to them. |
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"On a normal sex dating site they don't use veris, is it just in the swinger scene tho? lol.
This is the only site I've come across verifications. If people need strangers to help them decide who to fuck, well, God help them.
Totally agree. The only thing veris tell me is that the person is real but I'm sure some fake accounts can get around this and get verified. I pay no attention to them. "
That's not the only thing they tell me. And i always know the guy is the guy in the pics before i meet him as i always cam with them first. Veris tell me other things. |
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Veris don't prove mean when looked at in isolation, but we see them as a useful part of the package, along with pics, profile text and communications. No one element is enough on it's own, but the whole helps us to make a decision. |
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slightly off-topic but does anyone else think veris are more-often-than-not used in the wrong way? It's a 'verification', ie. a way of verifying that someone is genuine, not a fake, turned up when the were supposed to, etc, and really should be just that. Surely they were never intended to be reviews or critiques of someone's performance? Personally I hate reading a veri that goes into great graphic detail about what happened on a meet. |
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"Veris don't prove mean when looked at in isolation, but we see them as a useful part of the package, along with pics, profile text and communications. No one element is enough on it's own, but the whole helps us to make a decision."
Much, not mean. Flaming auto-carrot! |
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"slightly off-topic but does anyone else think veris are more-often-than-not used in the wrong way? It's a 'verification', ie. a way of verifying that someone is genuine, not a fake, turned up when the were supposed to, etc, and really should be just that. Surely they were never intended to be reviews or critiques of someone's performance? Personally I hate reading a veri that goes into great graphic detail about what happened on a meet. "
We don't like the graphic ones, either. We have a few we'd never show because they're too detailed or just too gushing. |
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"slightly off-topic but does anyone else think veris are more-often-than-not used in the wrong way? It's a 'verification', ie. a way of verifying that someone is genuine, not a fake, turned up when the were supposed to, etc, and really should be just that. Surely they were never intended to be reviews or critiques of someone's performance? Personally I hate reading a veri that goes into great graphic detail about what happened on a meet. "
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