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over a year ago
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"I don't open messages for at least 3 months now just so I know they're serious about being on here  "
I can understand that.
I've lost count of how many times i've sent a message, only to find that within 24 hours they've gone UNLOS.
And that's considering that I don't message women that have only been here 5 minutes (figuratively speaking) - as they tend to be inundated anyway.
I think I shall have to avoid newbies alltogether in future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't open messages for at least 3 months now just so I know they're serious about being on here
I can understand that.
I've lost count of how many times i've sent a message, only to find that within 24 hours they've gone UNLOS.
And that's considering that I don't message women that have only been here 5 minutes (figuratively speaking) - as they tend to be inundated anyway.
I think I shall have to avoid newbies alltogether in future"
I was joking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't open messages for at least 3 months now just so I know they're serious about being on here
I can understand that.
I've lost count of how many times i've sent a message, only to find that within 24 hours they've gone UNLOS.
And that's considering that I don't message women that have only been here 5 minutes (figuratively speaking) - as they tend to be inundated anyway.
I think I shall have to avoid newbies alltogether in future"
Maybe ask Fabs for a job helping clear out some of the unwanted account  |
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over a year ago
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"I don't open messages for at least 3 months now just so I know they're serious about being on here
I can understand that.
I've lost count of how many times i've sent a message, only to find that within 24 hours they've gone UNLOS.
And that's considering that I don't message women that have only been here 5 minutes (figuratively speaking) - as they tend to be inundated anyway.
I think I shall have to avoid newbies alltogether in future
I was joking
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I gathered that, but it certainly got me thinking |
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Have no problems with people leaving if its not for them, but if you have an in depth conversation and then they just leave without a word it is quite rude. I suspect that they a men pretending to be couples and women. Should only chat to verified people really which is unfair to those genuine newbies.
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"Whats this all about? Chatting to a couple today and then they just left fabs! Same happened to a woman last week.
Starting to get a complex! Or this common?"
Nope, never happened before. Must be you. Don't message us, we are just settling in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have no problems with people leaving if its not for them, but if you have an in depth conversation and then they just leave without a word it is quite rude. I suspect that they a men pretending to be couples and women. Should only chat to verified people really which is unfair to those genuine newbies.
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I think you need to consider where a persons/couples priorities lie. IF for instance they have been found out as being on the site or they have a bereavement or tragedy in real life then their priorities are not going to lie in telling every person they are chatting with that they are leaving.
I do accept that In many circumstances it wont be this serious but I wouldn't concern yourself getting annoyed about it. I just write it off as one of those things |
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"I don't open messages for at least 3 months now just so I know they're serious about being on here
I can understand that.
I've lost count of how many times i've sent a message, only to find that within 24 hours they've gone UNLOS.
And that's considering that I don't message women that have only been here 5 minutes (figuratively speaking) - as they tend to be inundated anyway.
I think I shall have to avoid newbies alltogether in future
I was joking
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I should think so. You should leave the messages unread for at least 6 months  |
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I think some people feel morally conflicted about the whole thing... either that or undecided and very cautious.
When someone stays, like us, that tends to be a sign they're pretty well adjusted to the whole scene... they have successfully re-aligned their perspective on the issues involved, see it all in a fundamentally positive light, and feel pretty comfortable with it all |
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