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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just us or does anyone else like the build up to potential meet by exchanging naughty texts, ideas and pics? We have had a few great meets with single guys following some text/pic/idea fun but it does seem everyone who messages nowadays just wants a quick "meet tonight" shag! We must be weird!! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When Anne was playing regularly we both Loved the build up to her meet , sexting got her very excited indeed "
I think we're the same! Glad it's not just us! Donna x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love a build up, all part of the fun. What annoys me is when i have been flirting and talking to some one, you arrange a meet then it all stops....as if they don't have to try any more. Kills it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The build up helps make a meet great ive cancelled a coupke of meets because there was no build up they didnt want to text pics or ideas love the build up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else like the build up to potential meet by exchanging naughty texts, ideas and pics? We have had a few great meets with single guys following some text/pic/idea fun but it does seem everyone who messages nowadays just wants a quick "meet tonight" shag! We must be weird!! X"
Can't stand all that exchanging pics , texts etc..... We are just interested in doing it rather than talking about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we love a build up, all part of the fun. What annoys me is when i have been flirting and talking to some one, you arrange a meet then it all stops....as if they don't have to try any more. Kills it!"
I so agree with this. The build up half the fun but puts me off meeting again if they stop trying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll only do this with single woman and even then, it's quite rare. Once I get to know people though, I love a good verbal build up, though I won't send pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find the build up adds a lot of excitement to a potential meet "
Flirting is good although it doesn't have to be very dirty,
And I don't ask for new pictures but if they want to send them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find the build up adds a lot of excitement to a potential meet
Flirting is good although it doesn't have to be very dirty,
And I don't ask for new pictures but if they want to send them
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Oh I don't know dirty & flirty sounds like a good combo |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I find the build up adds a lot of excitement to a potential meet
Flirting is good although it doesn't have to be very dirty,
And I don't ask for new pictures but if they want to send them
Oh I don't know dirty & flirty sounds like a good combo"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find the build up adds a lot of excitement to a potential meet
Flirting is good although it doesn't have to be very dirty,
And I don't ask for new pictures but if they want to send them
Oh I don't know dirty & flirty sounds like a good combo"
I just go with the tone of the Woman I'm flirting with, And it does help if we have been chatting for a while or had a previous meet |
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It is.
Usually a bit of messaging s out time wasters as some don't have the patience and a lot trip themselves up and reveal themselves as fake.
Unfortunately the odd one lives their life all in their head and has a vivid and interesting imagination, but no courage. |
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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago
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Whilst it's ultimately all about the meets, always enjoy flirty messaging and social.
A fine line though until you've met, as it is possible to misread just how filthy someone is/isn't. Although we're all pretty open minded on here!
It does all add to the anticipation though, and if you have shared some flirty/intimate stuff makes it easy to break the ice at that first public meet.
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
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i love a build up it is a shame that once they have met they seem to think they dont still need to coax you into bed, but then for some (single guys mainly) they dont get much luck on here so once they had you they seem to think "you know the score"
anyway i agree i like the build up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's not just the physical side which turns me on or gets me off. So one-off quick meets would do no more for me than a sad solo wank in the shower.
Anticipation for me is an important part of the mental side of sex and when you are able to share that with someone it's really quite a turn on. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I don't mind a bit of flirty text/chat - but I do object to the scripting what will happen blow by blow (pardon the pun)
As soon as it gets to... I'm going to x to your y, I lose interest.
I also don't want intimate pictures before a first social meet, massive turn off. |
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