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"Are submissive a allowed to make decisions?
I'm guessing not if they have signed a contract "
There are no contracts for submissives.
That's from the film and the book.
Slaves may have contracts.
Doms and subs work within agreed hard and soft limits.
I appreciate the roles of Dom or sub are not for everyone. And it can vary how sort of serious you take it.
I'm sub to Callum. I make a million decisions, I have free rein to do a lot. He just always has final word but he doesn't micro manage me.
It's what you make of it. Down to the Individuals. But most subs have voices. Loud ones.
I also despise being told what to do. I'm a nightmare day to day. But that's another reason while I enjoy being submissive to Callum. It's my chance to hand over and let someone else guide and decide. |
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"Are submissive a allowed to make decisions?
I'm guessing not if they have signed a contract
There are no contracts for submissives.
That's from the film and the book.
Slaves may have contracts.
Doms and subs work within agreed hard and soft limits.
I appreciate the roles of Dom or sub are not for everyone. And it can vary how sort of serious you take it.
I'm sub to Callum. I make a million decisions, I have free rein to do a lot. He just always has final word but he doesn't micro manage me.
It's what you make of it. Down to the Individuals. But most subs have voices. Loud ones.
I also despise being told what to do. I'm a nightmare day to day. But that's another reason while I enjoy being submissive to Callum. It's my chance to hand over and let someone else guide and decide. "
I was only joking about the contract yes I understand and agree a lot with what you have said ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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I couldn't do the submissive or the dominant thing. I just can't be arsed with it all. I can just do a bit of either role if and when it's called for I guess but neither come really naturally to me. |
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"I couldn't do the submissive or the dominant thing. I just can't be arsed with it all. I can just do a bit of either role if and when it's called for I guess but neither come really naturally to me."
Your crap at choosing decent socks ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I couldn't do the submissive or the dominant thing. I just can't be arsed with it all. I can just do a bit of either role if and when it's called for I guess but neither come really naturally to me.
Your crap at choosing decent socks "
I could get dominant with you if you like. I'll force you to wear my socks (I know you want to) while I bend you over my knee and give you a damn good spanking! How do you like that little visual image?! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"I couldn't do the submissive or the dominant thing. I just can't be arsed with it all. I can just do a bit of either role if and when it's called for I guess but neither come really naturally to me.
Your crap at choosing decent socks
I could get dominant with you if you like. I'll force you to wear my socks (I know you want to) while I bend you over my knee and give you a damn good spanking! How do you like that little visual image?! "
You will never see me in those socks as for the visual ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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I'm afraid doms just make me laugh, especially the ones who get all flouncy when we turn them down, or send long winded explanatory messages about the lifestyle that we can only understand if we're open minded enough...*yawn*
I wouldn't make a crap sub, I have no desire to try, which is something completely different in my book... |
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