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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'm struggling here, What is with someone else fucking the lady? I get the cuckold thing, being humiliated etc, and i understand the bi thing, albeit not for me ,but for the straight couples, what is it that gets Mr off seeing Mrs get fucked by someone else while he's present? is it the 'slag' factor that turns you on. or it it a genuine desire to see her fulfilled, this is a genuine question, not some sap having a dig, I'm intrigued. If i met couples I'd be a busy boy, but I have a problem with fucking someone else's wife. I just need to understand I guess

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe its just watching the pleasure on his wife's face while she is doing it,

What make's her happy make's him happy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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slag factor?

jesus

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By *abloversCouple  over a year ago

London

I'm not a cuck.. but for me the turn on is seeing her enjoying herself and me leading the games. I could never just sit back and watch though as I find her too horny x but when I watch her sucking cock as I fuck her is one of the biggest turn ons... then fucking her over and over again once our guest has left is amazing too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I asked this the other way around in here, what does a single guy get out of it and got slaughtered so good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"slag factor?

jesus "

My initial reaction was

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"slag factor?

jesus "

lol I found it too funny lol I like the post

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I asked this the other way around in here, what does a single guy get out of it and got slaughtered so good luck "

its genuine, and in response to requests, as a sexual person, I really want to understand

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I asked this the other way around in here, what does a single guy get out of it and got slaughtered so good luck

its genuine, and in response to requests, as a sexual person, I really want to understand"

Well ask yourself the same question. Why would you want to go with a couple?

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By *epper123Woman  over a year ago

London

Have to think a but before writing this, but here goes .... I only meet women alone, since I am bi and in a relationship with a male partner. I would not get anything from another man that I cannot get from him. Of we meet a man together, I very rarely have penetrative sex. I know you asked the question to men, and I know he likes the idea of me doing it, but its not for me at the moment.

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By *ouplefunukCouple  over a year ago

North Bristol

Slag factor??????

You "get" swinging then? NOT!

*Her*

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By *oobsandballsMan  over a year ago

st andrews

C loves to watch and gets a massive thrill from seeing me enjoy myself. He's not a cuck, we're not into that. He's just a voyeur.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love seeing my wife satisfy another guy , the way she looks at him , the glint in her eye . The more she gets into it , kissing , licking , teasing , the more horny it is to see . Knowing she is doing to him what she does to me , and seeing him enjoying her is just awesome .

I don't know exactly why I enjoy it so much , but the fun we have afterwards together is just incredible . It can't be compared to anything else .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a cuck.. but for me the turn on is seeing her enjoying herself and me leading the games. I could never just sit back and watch though as I find her too horny x but when I watch her sucking cock as I fuck her is one of the biggest turn ons... then fucking her over and over again once our guest has left is amazing too"

Very well described

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I asked this the other way around in here, what does a single guy get out of it and got slaughtered so good luck

its genuine, and in response to requests, as a sexual person, I really want to understand

Well ask yourself the same question. Why would you want to go with a couple?"

I don't, but i'm intrigued

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple  over a year ago

West Midlands


"Slag factor??????

You "get" swinging then? NOT!

*Her*"

It equally will get frowned upon by some - but think Slut Factor a better term - Slag never a good term, don't think any woman ever wants to think that, they may enjoy being slutty, but a slag is always just a negative term.

To the OPS original question, don't think there is one answer, it be like asking what does a woman get out of giving oral sex to a man, or any other sexual activity. Its simply what interests, people. I personally would never enjoy seeing my partner with someone else while i just sit in the corner, and equally wouldnt enjoy her just sitting watching, think as some have posted significant difference between cuk and voyeur. However I do enjoy seeing my partner playing with others, as I play with them or her equally, enjoyable seeing her fulfilled as I equally play with her, if that was a single guy, then in essence you are a sex toy that doesn't need batteries, but is just as disposable. Its about us at the end of the day and our desires and pleasure, as we are the ones that go home together as couple to live our lives and enjoy everything that isn't swinging together.

Interesting that you have an issue about fucking a married woman as a single guy!

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Slag factor??????

You "get" swinging then? NOT!

*Her*

It equally will get frowned upon by some - but think Slut Factor a better term - Slag never a good term, don't think any woman ever wants to think that, they may enjoy being slutty, but a slag is always just a negative term.

To the OPS original question, don't think there is one answer, it be like asking what does a woman get out of giving oral sex to a man, or any other sexual activity. Its simply what interests, people. I personally would never enjoy seeing my partner with someone else while i just sit in the corner, and equally wouldnt enjoy her just sitting watching, think as some have posted significant difference between cuk and voyeur. However I do enjoy seeing my partner playing with others, as I play with them or her equally, enjoyable seeing her fulfilled as I equally play with her, if that was a single guy, then in essence you are a sex toy that doesn't need batteries, but is just as disposable. Its about us at the end of the day and our desires and pleasure, as we are the ones that go home together as couple to live our lives and enjoy everything that isn't swinging together.

Interesting that you have an issue about fucking a married woman as a single guy!"

why i am beinging to dislike a lot of couples (not all), just some...

"....in essence you are a sex toy that doesn't need batteries, but is just as disposable..."

what a delightful attitude towards the person that fulfills your fantasies with you....

that's where i connect with single guys...at a human decency level. this attitude imo stinks....

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple  over a year ago

West Midlands


"Slag factor??????

You "get" swinging then? NOT!

*Her*

It equally will get frowned upon by some - but think Slut Factor a better term - Slag never a good term, don't think any woman ever wants to think that, they may enjoy being slutty, but a slag is always just a negative term.

To the OPS original question, don't think there is one answer, it be like asking what does a woman get out of giving oral sex to a man, or any other sexual activity. Its simply what interests, people. I personally would never enjoy seeing my partner with someone else while i just sit in the corner, and equally wouldnt enjoy her just sitting watching, think as some have posted significant difference between cuk and voyeur. However I do enjoy seeing my partner playing with others, as I play with them or her equally, enjoyable seeing her fulfilled as I equally play with her, if that was a single guy, then in essence you are a sex toy that doesn't need batteries, but is just as disposable. Its about us at the end of the day and our desires and pleasure, as we are the ones that go home together as couple to live our lives and enjoy everything that isn't swinging together.

Interesting that you have an issue about fucking a married woman as a single guy!

why i am beinging to dislike a lot of couples (not all), just some...

"....in essence you are a sex toy that doesn't need batteries, but is just as disposable..."

what a delightful attitude towards the person that fulfills your fantasies with you....

that's where i connect with single guys...at a human decency level. this attitude imo stinks.... "

Nothing to do with human decency, for that night, they treated with upmost respect and friendliness, enjoy their company, chat, as much as their body. But we are a couple, the night ends and so does our relationship with that person, we wish them well, and happiness, but they not part of our lives which doesn't revolve around swinging, and the only reason that person entered into our lives at that time was swinging. We seek or demand nothing more from them. Hopefully they got as much enjoyment out of the experience as we did, but I iterate again we are a couple - OUR relationship is what matters to us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are a straight couple and we enjoy playing with singles and couples. There is a different dynamic with three people. It is really enjoyable and unable to be achieved with two people. Marc and I don't do cuckold play, and he has always played when we have met with single guys, but I think he really likes seeing me enjoy fantasies (as I do with him) and he enjoys seeing me be "dirty" or "slutty" or however you want to put it

We also just enjoy meeting great people who we can have a beer with and then get naughty with. Lots of single guys are great and it makes the event even more fun. It's hard to explain, but I think whoever above said that it is similar to giving oral and enjoying it (even though you don't necessarily get anything tangible out of it) is as close an explanation as I can get.

-Courtney

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