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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just wondered if anyone had any tips to get my wife back into swinging ,she use to do it no problem but has gone of the idea not sure why I have asked her but just says she's not interested any more ,but since loosing weight she has got more adventurous and frisky ,we are both str8 and have had many mmf meets all have been really good for her and me |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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communication communication communication. She is the only one with the answer here.
Maybe its the way I read your post, but it sound like you did it some time ago, then you stop some time ago, then you asked her to do it and she said no some time ago, but now she has lost weight and is frisky. So have you asked her since she has lost the weight and got frisky? Or have I just completely got the wrong end of the stick here? |
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Just give her time mate. If she's lost weight she probably feels better about herself and in time she might want to get back into the lifestyle again. If not sounds like she's keeping you satisfied with being more adventurous so you'll be ok without the lifestyle mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given its something that clearly interests you and that she's now feeling more self confident after the weight loss did it occur to you that maybe she was doing it before as she was insecure and felt you'd leave her if she didn't?
Now she's more confident she doesn't feel she needs to and is looking to try and fulfil your needs alone hence the new experimentation. |
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"Given its something that clearly interests you and that she's now feeling more self confident after the weight loss did it occur to you that maybe she was doing it before as she was insecure and felt you'd leave her if she didn't?
Now she's more confident she doesn't feel she needs to and is looking to try and fulfil your needs alone hence the new experimentation. "
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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago
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I lose interest on and off. For me its frustration with going through stupid messages and not getting anywhere, or someone's made a comment to me that makes me self conscious but it does wear off.
If she's showing interest again then just give it time it means she's starting to feel better in herself.
N.b complimenting her (Ie you're gorgeous, I love the feel of you can we share it?) Etc. May or may not expedite things!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just wondered if anyone had any tips to get my wife back into swinging ,she use to do it no problem but has gone of the idea not sure why I have asked her but just says she's not interested any more ,but since loosing weight she has got more adventurous and frisky ,we are both str8 and have had many mmf meets all have been really good for her and me"
If you have asked her and she has said no, then respect her wishes. Noone swings unless they want to. |
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