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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Somebody posted a similar thread to this a couple of weeks ago and it did not go well at all!

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

No I don't.

It's difficult though when all you have to go off at first is pics and a bit of info

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You didn't have to contact me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

Somebody posted a similar thread to this a couple of weeks ago and it did not go well at all! "

I best hunt that thread down then!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Nope. I'd never meet anyone unless I found them attractive, single guys can be choosey too - a fact that seems to shock a surprising amount of couples and single women, who think I should be flattered that they winked at me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do, looks doesn't even come into it, its just a shag at the end of the day and not to be your wife lol

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Never. I chat to the people I meet and there is always something I like about them otherwise the conversation dries up and there won't be a meet. If you mean physically, then that doesn't really come into the equation for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why only guys? I've met a few guys i wouldn't look at usually coz i was that horny...ended up some of the best fucks i've had so it was all good.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read "

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes it happens. I honestly believe this is how some guys end up being bi or bi curious. They are horny, make several attempts to meet someone and then rather than wank, end up meeting someone they would not fuck ordinarily or end up getting sucked off by a guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Lol! Never, can see how it might happen though.

During periods of conspicuous consumption?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm very picky. I want to spend my free time with people who I like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example."

Fair comment, ill re-state it to 99% of ALL people on here have no standards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Why did you message them? Did you think that because they were somehow below your 'normal' standard that they would be desparate for a meet? What was the outcome?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example."

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

Nope. I'd never meet anyone unless I found them attractive, single guys can be choosey too - a fact that seems to shock a surprising amount of couples and single women, who think I should be flattered that they winked at me."

I have my preferences and I stick to them

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By *onyneMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

You have to find the person or people you meet interesting at least, as well as being someone you would feel happy to be naked with...should things get that far.

Some people are clear they only wish to chat, which is fine...then it is down to general conversation skills and content more than some of the other things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?"

Was thinking that myself..

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By *adbod2015Man  over a year ago

Nantwich

Personally no, I wouldn't contact someone I wouldn't want to be seen in public with (that includes personality) I realise meets are typically a private thing but it's the principal of it - I'm not sure if that made as much sense as it did in my head but it was meant complimentary

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol no I always had low standards, surely every one needs fun hehe. Lol no seriously if the person has a drought, and wonders why, maybe should look on what they expect out a partner. Wow bet I will be shot down now

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By *ink-InkWoman  over a year ago

Limerick


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

Never. I chat to the people I meet and there is always something I like about them otherwise the conversation dries up and there won't be a meet. If you mean physically, then that doesn't really come into the equation for me."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

Was thinking that myself.. "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No never! I would say I have been lucky enough to talk to and meet some really top notch people. Great company and conversations with the added bonus of being very sexy as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a certain type that appeals to me. I have met a woman off here that is not my type at all. Yet she is sexy and lovely. Did I lower my standards no. Did I change them, clearly yes. Therefore I now don't really have a standard. I'm open minded with some preferences shall we say. As I've been foruming and subsequently chatting there are some people that I'd love to meet that would have not neccessarily been on my radar previously.

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By *horltzMan  over a year ago

heysham

Nope , if it happens it happens , if not no problem

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me."

I doubt that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Did you get blown out?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For 3sums i'll fuck anyone. It's the 3sum that's sexy rather than who i'm fucking. No standards at all when it comes to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

Was thinking that myself..

Me too!"

ME THREE.

it does my tits in when people judge what others do with their swingstyle lives...i've met plenty of posh successful people..who like gangbangs/bukkakes etc etc...I'll slag off their 'standards' as I fuck them in their massive mansions will I?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

It's not lowering standards for me. If anything, I find I get further with more attractive people that I would be confident enough to speak to day to day, in person. I think people are just more open to sexual preferences, experiences, chemistry on here than face to face physical attraction.

And I agree, I've had some brilliant sexual experiences and BDSM experiences with people I wasn't particularly physically attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

Was thinking that myself..

Me too!

ME THREE.

it does my tits in when people judge what others do with their swingstyle lives...i've met plenty of posh successful people..who like gangbangs/bukkakes etc etc...I'll slag off their 'standards' as I fuck them in their massive mansions will I? "

Some people on this site are so much more judgmental than people I know who live a vanilla lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?"

If you have to ask .........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask ........."

Yup we do... As how does a gg = not picky...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask ........."

Women who like gangbangs will still vet the men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me."

Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask ........."

Yes so what's your answer?

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By *lackgrapeMan  over a year ago

Purley

It really depends on how much info you're given before meeting if the info is outdated or ancient you're likely to be dissapointed I always try to maintain a certain standard and be realistic and the same time coz I don't think there's anyone perfect on this planet, its why I prefer quick meets not necessarily a quick fuck but just to meet up for a drink and take things from there, marathon conversations can be a waste of time, it may work for others x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It really depends on how much info you're given before meeting if the info is outdated or ancient you're likely to be dissapointed I always try to maintain a certain standard and be realistic and the same time coz I don't think there's anyone perfect on this planet, its why I prefer quick meets not necessarily a quick fuck but just to meet up for a drink and take things from there, marathon conversations can be a waste of time, it may work for others x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask ........."

Yes I do, stop being so bloody judgmental. Being covered in piss is OK but being covered in cum isn't?

Look at your interests if you don't know what I'm talking about....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask ........."

Do you mean the kind of gang bang where the women have no idea who is going to turn up/pay the fee and let everyone have a go?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask .........

Women who like gangbangs will still vet the men."

Not all of them will but that's what they like at the time. Doesn't mean at some point they won't say no.

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By *ingdong91Man  over a year ago

shropshire

No there's has to be something there

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By *lackgrapeMan  over a year ago

Purley

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By *lackgrapeMan  over a year ago

Purley

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me.

Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised. "

In "normal" situations I'm very shy like fumble my words speaking to a waitress etc, but put me in unusual situation where most people are nervous and cause rim used to it I become quite confident lol.

But mainly I prefer 1on1 when I'm alone with a person I'm very relaxed and open.

Groups I tend to be more awkward.

Yeahhh I'm quite broken really :p

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me.

Maybe you should try in reality too, you may be pleasantly surprised.

In "normal" situations I'm very shy like fumble my words speaking to a waitress etc, but put me in unusual situation where most people are nervous and cause rim used to it I become quite confident lol.

But mainly I prefer 1on1 when I'm alone with a person I'm very relaxed and open.

Groups I tend to be more awkward.

Yeahhh I'm quite broken really :p"

You're a lovely guy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And this is why I don't believe much that I'm told online. No one wants to feel like the person someone has lowered their standards to message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only meet ladies I like and fancy, just like in 'real life' couldn't fuck someone I don't fancy, what's the point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

judging by the amount of guys who tell me I'm fat and ugly anyway when I say no thanks I'd say a great deal do

must be a real kick in the nuts when even woman your don't fancy anyway are turning you down

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me."

Jesus, I wish you'd approach me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example."

How on earth does me being covered in cum by 6 handsome buff guys = no standards? I swear, the judgement on here is strong sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!

.yeah but the other way round I approach people on here who in real life I wouldn't even walk up to cause I'd think they wouldn't look twice at me."

I think we are all a little guilty of that

I have winked a few really hot guys and waited to see if they respond and I've had a few good meets by doing that with guys I would never approach in real life for fear of rejection but on here I think what they hell they will either mail or they won't

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You didn't have to contact me "

????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd never lower standards - but my standards bar isn't set by good looks alone. It's the whole package, looks, personality, outlook, sense of humour etc. You don't have to be a supermodel for me to find you attractive - my only definite pre-requisite is hygiene.

The main issue I have though is finding people who are prepared to lower their standards enough to meet me ha!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"judging by the amount of guys who tell me I'm fat and ugly anyway when I say no thanks I'd say a great deal do

must be a real kick in the nuts when even woman your don't fancy anyway are turning you down "

had one tonight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"judging by the amount of guys who tell me I'm fat and ugly anyway when I say no thanks I'd say a great deal do

must be a real kick in the nuts when even woman your don't fancy anyway are turning you down

had one tonight "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You didn't have to contact me

????"

My attempt at humour. Lost on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree with the poster on this one.

I also laugh when you see couples posting updates with attitude towards single guys....I think I would not even look at you twice at you!

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By *icked weaselCouple  over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!! "

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!!

What does that mean? "

Guessing maybe meant for the BBC thread?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day. "

Disappointed in you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day.

Disappointed in you "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day.

Disappointed in you

Why?"

This bit right here

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I am sure that is not the case

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day.

Disappointed in you

Why?

This bit right here

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I am sure that is not the case "

Not in all cases of course. They're are a lot of people that find me attractive and have no problems going out etc.

Though I'm sure there have been some that have met me for an easy lay. I don't mind too much though. I get to fuck a hot man haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd never lower my standards. I would never meet anyone from here that I wouldn't feel comfortable with out in public or that I didn't really fancy just for a shag. I'm not desperate.

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I see no reason to lower standards. Even if it is just a shag at the end of the day.

Disappointed in you

Why?

This bit right here

Though I'm sure some men who have chose to fuck me have done so purely because they know they're attractive and they know I will. If I was in a bar with their mates I'd probably be the one they took the piss out of or not looked at twice.

I am sure that is not the case

Not in all cases of course. They're are a lot of people that find me attractive and have no problems going out etc.

Though I'm sure there have been some that have met me for an easy lay. I don't mind too much though. I get to fuck a hot man haha"

Go get em

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple  over a year ago

North of the river


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read "

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By *huramMan  over a year ago

Abergavenny

If I'm chatting to her, I would meet her.

I'm attracted to a wide variety of women which helps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For The Time Being.. I Would Still Think Us White feckers Still Had A Choice !!! "

Are you saying you lower your standards because the black men get all the rest?

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By *oxesMan  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Yes but not because I am a massaoganist stuck up my own ass. You get talking to people on here because it's onlime and you start to find them sexy, there personality inviting, intreaging possibility.

You may if it was in a vanilla situation not be able to meet them or talk to them for whatever reason, maybe your too shy or the situation to talk ti them just has not arised.

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By *oxesMan  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read "

Maybe those guys are easy and too desperate for a shag.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"For guys

Do you find yourself contacting people for meets on this site that if in an normal day to day situation, you wouldn't even entertain the thought.

Have to confess I did that the other day and thought WTF are you doing!"

Desperation is never an attractive quality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Maybe those guys are easy and too desperate for a shag. "

And the stink of desperation is such an unpleasant smell.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Yes but not because I am a massaoganist stuck up my own ass. You get talking to people on here because it's onlime and you start to find them sexy, there personality inviting, intreaging possibility.

You may if it was in a vanilla situation not be able to meet them or talk to them for whatever reason, maybe your too shy or the situation to talk ti them just has not arised. "

Makes good sense. Some people I chat to, not because we want to play , but we have shared interests and the same sense of humour.

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By *oxesMan  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Maybe those guys are easy and too desperate for a shag.

And the stink of desperation is such an unpleasant smell."

haha to true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How does that mean those women don't have standards?

If you have to ask .........

Do you mean the kind of gang bang where the women have no idea who is going to turn up/pay the fee and let everyone have a go? "

Yes I recently went to what I thought was going to be a 3sum. It was only when I got there I found six guys already there and swarming all over a very d*unk lady and her husband egging them on to abuse her. I quickly made my feeling known and left only to be told "no problem as others were arriving soon"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How on earth does me being covered in cum by 6 handsome buff guys = no standards? I swear, the judgement on here is strong sometimes."

Yeah but lets be honest here, are they really 'handsome buff guys'? Ive seen some pics, especially in clubs and its clear standards were on the floor. I think thats what the guys point was

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By *oxesMan  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"99% of guys have no standards at all judging by some of things ive seen and read

Oh and women don't "judging by some of the things I've seen and read ". Pictures of women being gangbanged and covered in c*m for example.

How on earth does me being covered in cum by 6 handsome buff guys = no standards? I swear, the judgement on here is strong sometimes.

Yeah but lets be honest here, are they really 'handsome buff guys'? Ive seen some pics, especially in clubs and its clear standards were on the floor. I think thats what the guys point was"

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I look at some of the people my best girl mate has fucked and thought 'what on earth"I don't know why but she seems to be attracted to older (in the 40-50's)or give the appearance of them being older, hench lads

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I see a lady in a bar/club......I initially only have her looks/the way she dresses/her friends etc to go by.

On here, i have a neatly laid out profile of her wants/turn ons/turn offs etc. And my requirements for sexual encounters differ from those for relationships.

In short...yes, i would choose to meet someone on here that I wouldnt normally approach in the real would but i dont see it as lowering my standards just differing them

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