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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !
I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !
I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol
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It might be easier just to block him. |
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"A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !
I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol
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personally we would just block and move on but the rape talk needs to be reported we feel  |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !
I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol
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Nothing racist at all just a sexual preference,block him snd report him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people play the race card, I am Asian and its quite simple if I see a profile with a preference against Asians I do not
1/. Send an email
2/. Ask them why
3/. Harass them
Its the same I have a preference not do be contacted by guys does that mean I am homophobic ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A guy has been messeging me and although i have made it clear i don't want to meet him he has continued to send messeges as if chatting, he has now said that i am possible racist cus i say i only meet white guys !
I have told him to report me to admin and lets see what they think lol
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Well as it looks like he started getting nasty , before you met ,I would say you had a lucky escape, just think what he is like in person
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"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ? "
his perception..
if your not then why worry..?
why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?
his perception..
if your not then why worry..?
why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change.."
I started a thread cus i am interested in what other people think 
I didn't know there was a rule about what type of threads i can start ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I did block
There is no drama, well not from me anyway lol
I was bored and thought i had a long wait till andy murray came on court so i thought i would see what people thought lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if someone wants to meet the same sex as themselves, do we call them sexist.
If someone only wants slim people, are they sizist.
No, it is personal choice. That is why we are all different, there is something for everyone. |
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"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?
his perception..
if your not then why worry..?
why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinion of that which you don't intend to change..
I started a thread cus i am interested in what other people think
I didn't know there was a rule about what type of threads i can start ha ha"
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"Just block !
Its what the block button is there for
Dont give him another thought"
Exactly: some people like drama I feel.
Going by some of the threads there's an alarming sense of entitlement displayed by some. Anyone who won't take no as an answer is blocked and forgotten: I could give a flying one for what they thought let alone start a thread.
My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion! |
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"What do you think about the racist comment thou ? Surely its just a preference ?
his perception..
if your not then why worry..?
why bother starting a thread about something that is your preference and someone's else's opinyion of that which you don't intend to change.."
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
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If people continue to write when you say no thanks, or hassle you, or question any decision you have made, then best to say bye for good...
I don't get much unsolicited mail though, so my lock button hardly ever gets used!
Good luck and take care |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just block !
Its what the block button is there for
Dont give him another thought
Exactly: some people like drama I feel.
Going by some of the threads there's an alarming sense of entitlement displayed by some. Anyone who won't take no as an answer is blocked and forgotten: I could give a flying one for what they thought let alone start a thread.
My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion! "
Oh dear !
All i did was start a thread while i was bored and waiting for Andy Murray to be on court !
I thought it was ok the start a thread about something that interests me ... eg other peoples behaviour here ...
I already knew what to do about him and had done that before i started the thread lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If people continue to write when you say no thanks, or hassle you, or question any decision you have made, then best to say bye for good...
I don't get much unsolicited mail though, so my lock button hardly ever gets used!
Good luck and take care"
Thank you |
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"Just block !
Its what the block button is there for
Dont give him another thought
Exactly: some people like drama I feel.
Going by some of the threads there's an alarming sense of entitlement displayed by some. Anyone who won't take no as an answer is blocked and forgotten: I could give a flying one for what they thought let alone start a thread.
My body, I decide who enters it: end of discussion!
Oh dear !
All i did was start a thread while i was bored and waiting for Andy Murray to be on court !
I thought it was ok the start a thread about something that interests me ... eg other peoples behaviour here ...
I already knew what to do about him and had done that before i started the thread lol"
The forums are here for anyone to start a thread : you did asking for comments. Didn't realise we didn't really want our opinion...my bad! |
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"I hoped for comments about the subject not the fact that i started a thread lol
Oh well  "
But we've answered you: your body, your choice. What I and some others have said is simply we wouldn't have given a second thought to what someone we had no intention of meeting thought.
If they want to throw toys out the pram with "racist" leave them and their sense of entitlement to it, not that you shouldn't post.
You know how forums work, right? |
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Remember Racist do hide under preference and choice as well.
I am a strong believer of preference and choice.because as for me l like white European and English women because they attract me. just my preference. That doesn't mean I hate others race. |
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