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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.
why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes people are just scared of things they don't understand. It may be even ignorance as well that they think by meeting a playing with the female they will get it. However there is no excuse for being rude or nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck em.
I met with a lovely lady from here many years ago who, unbeknown to me had previously had breast cancer. I felt so embarrassed as I kept trying to get at her breasts and she'd had one removed. She explained (with my cock in her mouth!) and we had a giggle and that was the last we spoke of it.
She was lovely, didn't let it stop her or make things awkward, and I respect her 100% more because of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One guy actually had pics of him on his profile going through cancer treatment and it did put me off, drips and everything.
I didn't send him a nasty message though, just blocked his account and his new one he made a few months later (which didn't have those pics on but he looked really ill still).
I think i have a right to reject anyone really, although i wouldn't be a dick about it. Just block or ignore.
They pretty much are from 'another world' for some people, some of us have been incredibly fortunate to never have had cancer affect any of our family or our lives at all.
Hope none of that was offensive, just saying from the other point of _iew. |
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I had breast cancer late last year. I have had some hurtful comnents but mainly good ones. Now gained my confidence again. Ignore the idiots who can't cope with someone who is fighting cancer or won the battle. Pm me if you want a chat |
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I'm an above knee amputee and have numerous health issues that can restrict some areas of a good sex life, I make sure people read my profile and haven't met anyone who has had issues in messages or once face to face.
The places I've found where people have issues are the dating sites, i'm guessing I've been fortunate on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.
why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "
people send abusive messages to you for having cancer?
even for on here I find that hard to believe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got abuse from one guy off here because of a photo I had up showing a scar. 2 years ago I had my left ovary and a cyst the size of a grapefruit removed so have a fairly big scar running across. When I said I didn't have any kids he turned round and said that I must've done due to the fact I have a massive c section scar on my stomach. He called me a liar amongst other things. Block and move on is all you can do |
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Totally agree with what everyone's saying in this thread.
Enjoy yourselves, enjoy life and try your best to rise above narrow minded comments people may make as the are in the minority.
Good luck to you both and hope you have lots of sexy fun xx |
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"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.
why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "
That's shocking that people would be so unkind. I lost both parents to cancer; my sympathies and I hope the treatment is going well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thank you for your messages, maybe we might get a meet, with decent and understanding people.
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Are they rejecting you because of the cancer or are they rejecting you because they don't want to meet you? While I sympathise, this is a site for swingers looking for often casual one off sex with strangers, cancer itself and all of the treatments can often come with all sorts of problems and baggage that people seeking that aren't really interested in taking on, or maybe they just don't fancy either of you? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"always one "
I don't see anything wrong with what the poster above said, you seem to be hurting and that is understandable if people have caused upset.
You seems to be reacting, that won't help.
good luck with your treatment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely gobsmacked how some people can be so heartless, although I'm not surprised in this fucked up world. I applaud anyone who has/is going through serious illness. My best wishes to you and hope you continue to have fun on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a cancer survivor myself, I say 'fuck em' (but not literally)
There are 2 kinds of people in the world. Those that enhance your life and make you happy, and those that bring negativity to you. Dump the latter. There are more than enough people here that will love and support you and bring you some form of happiness or joy. There is a lot of good feelings from the majority on this thread. I am adding my sincerest wishes for a full and speedy recovery.
Hugs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.
why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky
That's shocking that people would be so unkind. I lost both parents to cancer; my sympathies and I hope the treatment is going well."
Off topic but I love your profile x |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"As a cancer survivor myself, I say 'fuck em' (but not literally)
There are 2 kinds of people in the world. Those that enhance your life and make you happy, and those that bring negativity to you. Dump the latter. There are more than enough people here that will love and support you and bring you some form of happiness or joy. There is a lot of good feelings from the majority on this thread. I am adding my sincerest wishes for a full and speedy recovery.
Hugs x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi guys...Firstly fair play for getting on and enjoying fun.. thjs isnt a rehearsal.
block and or name n shame any narrow minded fuck wits ...
have fun xxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your thoughts on swingers who has had cancer or got cancer.
why do people reject others that have been through this illness, treat them like there from another world, why do people message then say nasty things or refuse a meet after you tell them of my wife's condition, yes she had cancer and still under treatment and still has fun, when she don't have nasty comments thrown at us by message, there are a lot of heartless people on here, think yourselves lucky "
Chin up hun and I know it's easier said than done but ignore the nasty comments. Not everyone are like that. I to last year battled cancer, and I was shocked at just how much support I got from the good people of fab. I am lucky enough to have made some great friends on this site, and each one of them supported and helped me trough it |
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They are just nasty people obviously .. I have been fortunate people were very supportive to me when I was dealing with my blip ...
Lots of ladies here had radical surgery an meet still. . Ignore the bad ones and enjoy /share with the kind ones..
hope your Mrs gets on top of the cancer soon and feels much better. |
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The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid
Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools
Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even know how you'd begin to word a message to abuse someone about having cancer.
Weird folks.
Hope things improve, if you don't mind me asking though how do they know she's had/has cancer?
If it's cause there's scars I've found there's some people on here who are very judgemental about scars but equally lots of people who like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid
Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools
Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The human race has a proportion of nasty people, wankers etc, the fab population is no different I'm afraid
Just like in real life you'd avoid people like that just do the same on here, the site features give you the tools
Unfortunately in any social setting whether it's real life or here you can't avoid these people totally so just be prepared they're around and know how to deal with them "
Pointy sticks tend to be an excellent preparative measure |
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Don,t think people mean to be rude were all very scared of it when my end comes i want it quick. Once read were a guy as got it he said cancer has a good side you have time to say good bye to your friends and the ones you love,takes some balls to say that God bless him |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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We have a couple of friends on here fighting or recovering from reconstruction so we understand and can sympathise on what you are going through, how do people know you have or are recovering from cancer as your profile don't mention it. |
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By *rrycatMan
over a year ago
Doncaster |
I'm 15 years into recovery the mental scars are still there but I'm here and loving life enjoying being a fabber
Ignore the morons OP and enjoy life to the full
One life live it
Keep on trucking or should say keep on fucking lol
Hugs x |
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By *rrycatMan
over a year ago
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I'm 15 years into recovery the mental scars are still there but I'm here and loving life enjoying being a fabber
Ignore the morons OP and enjoy life to the full
One life live it
Keep on trucking or should say keep on fucking lol
Hugs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My love to the people that have or going through this. It would never cross my mind not to meet someone with cancer. More to the point be nice to put a smile on there face  .
Good luck all x have a great time x |
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