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By *LCC OP Couple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
We posted a thread about a month ago entitled something along the lines of "we're shit in clubs". Lots of other people said that they also struggle. Well we were in a club the other day and saw a roll of sticky labels and I thought. I wonder what people would think if I wrote "we're shy, come say Hi" on it and stuck it to my shirt.
So what do you think? Endearing or desperate?   |
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By *LCC OP Couple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"I'm surprised people don't already come and say hello.
The stickers are a good idea. "
It's hard to go up to someone and start talking. We struggle and from the thread mentioned above, it's clear other couples do too.
People generally fall into 3 categories. 1) We don't want to play with them. 2) we like them, they might like us. 3) we like them, but they are way out of our league and wouldn't want to play with us.
But you never really know what the other couple is thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr is great at talking to people.... I'm great at talking to people but crap at gettin it past the social stage.
I think the idea would be great but we always talk to the quiet people too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do it! What's the worst that can happen?
People start chatting to you... win!
People think you're a nutter, doesn't matter because you'll probably never see them again and you wouldn't want to chat to someone that thought it was a bad idea anyway... win!
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"We posted a thread about a month ago entitled something along the lines of "we're shit in clubs". Lots of other people said that they also struggle. Well we were in a club the other day and saw a roll of sticky labels and I thought. I wonder what people would think if I wrote "we're shy, come say Hi" on it and stuck it to my shirt.
So what do you think? Endearing or desperate? "
I think it's a brilliant idea - it will result in people coming to chat with you even if it's just about the idea of the stickers..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't some clubs have a colour band scheme like red for just looking, amber for maybe up for soft play & green for hell yeah lets party. 
once again there is a likelihood that it's just a random thought in my head!
Still I think some kind of 'system' to make people feel comfortable can only be a good thing. |
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