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What's most important to couples

By *ndymanchester1 OP Man over a year ago

salford

What's more important to swinging couples: a guy who looks fantastic / body of a Greek god or has 9" cock or a guy who turns up, is genuine and polit, not self obsessed, can actually perform with a condom (for more than 5 minutes lol) and loves pleasuring the lady?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A good balance of all of those!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality is very important - in a MFM experience I love it when the two men get on really well and have blokey chats about stuff while I try and get their attention by flirting and flashing my stocking tops! Handsome face and physical endowment is an added bonus but is worth nothing if he is an arrogant dick who doesn't care about finding my errogenous zones. m x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no point being good looking if the guy has an ego about it. Plenty of women prefer average or small cocks too! - more options

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your really lucky you can have it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are they always mutually exclusive?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chemistry

We've been with people with model looks and people more mainstream (for want of a better word)

All we want is chemistry and attraction. Yes big cocks can be satisfying and reliable people too but all of that comes secondary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are they always mutually exclusive?

You'd think they were listening to some on here. I wouldn't compromise on anything when looking for a sexual partner. They have to have it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me the latter.

For him the former. He's a cock snob.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a bit of a crap post, iam sorry but it is,

So a good looking well endowed chap, is fake and rude, cant put a condom on or last for more than 4min59secs if he shows up at all and totally self obsessed.

Not so good looking and average endowed is charming turns up, condom on with ease and last 5min1sec,

Its all a bit generalising and reading from OP point of view a bit slating the 'other people'

Be you, let them be them,

As the supposed question,

Some people are cool

Some are not

Try to see each equally until they prove otherwise

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By *ndymanchester1 OP Man over a year ago

salford

Its a bit of a crap post, iam sorry but it is,

So a good looking well endowed chap, is fake and rude, cant put a condom on or last for more than 4min59secs if he shows up at all and totally self obsessed.

Not so good looking and average endowed is charming turns up, condom on with ease and last 5min1sec,

Its all a bit generalising and reading from OP point of view a bit slating the 'other people'

Be you, let them be them,

As the supposed question,

Some people are cool

Some are not

Try to see each equally until they prove otherwise"

Not meaning to suggest any guys fake, more a question of is perfect specimen and big cock what swinging is about for couple. If it is cool!

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"What's more important to swinging couples: a guy who looks fantastic / body of a Greek god or has 9" cock or a guy who turns up, is genuine and polit, not self obsessed, can actually perform with a condom (for more than 5 minutes lol) and loves pleasuring the lady? "
Would be a bit difficult to generalise and you are unlikely to find a 9 " cock assuming anyone had any interest in finding that . As you would not know how someone would perform before the meet , the selection is based on an interesting profile , a good selection of pictures and a polite attitude . If a guy was fantastic looking or had the body of a Greek God would he be likely to be on fabswingers ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9"+ would be like driving a maybach, cool and desirable just nowhere you can actually park it

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By *usty cazCouple over a year ago

Oldham

Has to be personality looks are nothing if you don't get along xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

For me the latter.

For him the former. He's a cock snob.

Chuckles @ cock snob.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2min shagger here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll take all the positive points of the former and latter rolled into one minus the nine inches please. Average sized cock is my preference.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Cock size and having the perfect body isn't important to me. But I do have to be attracted to them in some way and a good attitude & personality is very important.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Different things attract us to different playmates. Always we have to get on. There has to be a physical attraction. I am attracted more to black guys and him to white guys, so one of us has to compromise, if we are going to share, which we usually do.

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By *asinoLuckyMan over a year ago

North cardiff area

Interested to find out. Yet to meet a couple but looking to try

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By *adbod2015Man over a year ago

Nantwich

There's no point being good looking if the guy has an ego about it. Plenty of women prefer average or small cocks too! - more options

Is this actually true? Most couples profiles I see are looking for WE, VWE or BBC

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never never never ask a woman to pick between two choices... she'll always want both lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no point being good looking if the guy has an ego about it. Plenty of women prefer average or small cocks too! - more options

Is this actually true? Most couples profiles I see are looking for WE, VWE or BBC

You sure? The percentage of couple profiles looking for VWE is quite low from what I've seen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no point being good looking if the guy has an ego about it. Plenty of women prefer average or small cocks too! - more options

Is this actually true? Most couples profiles I see are looking for WE, VWE or BBC

You'll find a lot of women who find cocks over 7" uncomfortable... after all... think about it... why do they make vibrators that size eh?

I don't know why so many couples put VWE or BBC... perhaps they simply haven't tried it yet and that's the current fantasy. As for WE... I think that refers to the magic 7" mark. There is no one-cock-fits-all thing for women... different cocks are exciting in different ways... at least that's what I've learnt from my time on the forums lol

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

Wouldn't pick one over the other and agree with others that the two can be combined.

It may not be the case here but usually when there's a thread offering a choice between physical features/cock size and the alleged 'perfect gent' with no condom issues, stamina and a desire to please - it's because the former is in absence - rather than any guarantee of the latter!

People (couples and singles) will be attracted to different people for different reasons. If someone wants a six-packed, hung like a donkey, stays hard for hours in a condom, polite guy - and finds one then all is good!!! There's no guarantees that a guy has stamina, manners or a lack of performance issues when bagged up whether he has the body of a Greek god rather than Bhudda or an average cock rather than a donkey knob.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no point being good looking if the guy has an ego about it. Plenty of women prefer average or small cocks too! - more options

Is this actually true? Most couples profiles I see are looking for WE, VWE or BBC

You sure? The percentage of couple profiles looking for VWE is quite low from what I've seen."

I think a lot of people prefer well endowed - they just don't put it in their profile maybe, but ascertain sizes through private msgs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

tbh, it cannot be either or. Just because a guys a lovely chap and is funny etc doesn't mean we will have a good time with him. We look for that something extra sexy to add to our debauched nights of swinging, so average won't do.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I would say there are times when either work, though I'm more bothered that I can trust him to treat Mrs ddc with respect, and she prefers to build a rapport first.

As for women/couples it's easier - we just look for those who have poor eyesight and low expectations!

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both are great , and a combination is perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From my point of view (bo), someone who can converse, has a good sense of humour, is who they say they are (single etc) and then ultimately someone that Daisy finds attractive and wants to get down n dirty with.

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By *eakcoupleCouple over a year ago

peak district

Nice people who are uninhibited and like sharing sexual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't pick one over the other and agree with others that the two can be combined.

This

Also, I think both are important. As a couple, we don't "need" to include anyone else when we have sex. It is amazing with just the two of us. We invite others to join to bring something different, that we can't do with just two people. My point is that it never comes down to a choice between the two because if we don't find both, we don't need to meet.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cracking thread by the OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do the two have to be mutually exclusive?

For me a person can be genuine polite, turn up, use a condom, enjoy pleasuring me but if i don't find them attractive I'm still not gonna bloody meet them am I?

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

We just look for normal people xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your really lucky you can have it all

I try to give it all....but more the body of an Asian God.....have you met Buddha?

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By *ipswingCouple over a year ago

portrush

first thing is respect... for us and themselves..