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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what do you normally look for in a person when arranging fun do you go by the looks or personality or a bit of both ?"
Had some that on looks alone we'd have met but they were a special kind of nuts and we declined.
However if not attracted physically then wouldn't even instigate a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what do you normally look for in a person when arranging fun do you go by the looks or personality or a bit of both ?"
Has to be a bit of both for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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looks gets my attention personally keeps it
you don't know somebodies personality on here till you talk but if I don't fancy them I'm not likely to talk to find out what kind if person they are
but even if I so fancy them personally will make or break the deal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what do you normally look for in a person when arranging fun do you go by the looks or personality or a bit of both ?"
A bit of both but looks are way more important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely on fab the first meet is generally based on looks as that's all you can go on.
Hence often social meet at first to check out personality....or if they are actually a deranged axe murderer....... There isn't a box for that on preferences... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have to be attracted to someone for us to meet them, personality does go along way too but we cant sleep with someone based on personality alone, have to be physically attracted to them as well as mentally.
However i do also find that i can look at someone and think they are ok then chat with them and they become more attractive to me.
Im rambling now. So to conclude, both? Lol.
Peach.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks gets my attention personally keeps it
you don't know somebodies personality on here till you talk but if I don't fancy them I'm not likely to talk to find out what kind if person they are
but even if I so fancy them personally will make or break the deal "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As everyone else has said - both.
I find it really hard to tell from photos and an online chat though. I'm sure I'm turning down guys who I'd fancy the pants off in real life, and I'm meeting guys who I don't fancy in real life!
I should probably use Skype.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"looks gets my attention personally keeps it
you don't know somebodies personality on here till you talk but if I don't fancy them I'm not likely to talk to find out what kind if person they are
but even if I so fancy them personally will make or break the deal "
This ...and missed you last night x |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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There definitely needs to be a physical attraction otherwise its a complete non starter.
If there is. then its also important for me to like the person/couple and their attitude. I don't always have to feel that there is a real connection in terms of personality, however, if I fundamentally don't like them then I won't proceed with arranging a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging!  "
No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have to be attracted to someone for us to meet them, personality does go along way too but we cant sleep with someone based on personality alone, have to be physically attracted to them as well as mentally.
However i do also find that i can look at someone and think they are ok then chat with them and they become more attractive to me.
Im rambling now. So to conclude, both? Lol.
Peach.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol."
Are you criticising women for being fussy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?"
No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general."
now now children behave |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so what do you normally look for in a person when arranging fun do you go by the looks or personality or a bit of both ?
A bit of both but looks are way more important "
I would agree here.
Personality would be equally, if not more important if I was looking for a long term relationship - but i'm not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general."
I'm not quite sure what your trying to say do I'll just leave it there. Enjoy your shags !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general.
I'm not quite sure what your trying to say do I'll just leave it there. Enjoy your shags ! "
I think it was clearly said but yes enjoy your shags to x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general.
now now children behave "
lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general.
I'm not quite sure what your trying to say do I'll just leave it there. Enjoy your shags ! I think it was clearly said but yes enjoy your shags to x."
I will thanks....with nice guys I actually fancy!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general.
I'm not quite sure what your trying to say do I'll just leave it there. Enjoy your shags ! I think it was clearly said but yes enjoy your shags to x.
I will thanks....with nice guys I actually fancy! xx"
That's good for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks or personality doesn't matter as its just a shag.
That kind of remark is what ruins swinging! No its not, its the same as saying as why women are fussie. Opposite end of it lol.
Are you criticising women for being fussy?No I am not, but it seems you criticized me tho, but its the same thing tho in general.
now now children behave "
Sexy siner. .. can I ask why you've blocked me? Lol |
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