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Men who use sex workers
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Over the past couple of days there has been some debate on sex workers using this site, for personal pleasure and should it be aloud and should they disclose there profession before meeting people,
So I was wondering how many guys who use sex workers in a brothle or escorts would actually admit to it?
If you were going to meet a guy would you expect him to say he has uses or has used sex workers?
And would it put you off meeting if you knew that he had done so? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know men who have used them, doesn't bother me if they have or for what reason as long as they were respectable about it. A friend I was seeing for a couple of years hires women to just sit and chat to him. He needs the company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I would be bothered. We insist on safe sex anyway. Escorts usually get tested regularly and insist on condoms too right? Besides, like you say, I wonder how many blokes have been with escorts that would openly admit it? It's not something we ever ask, everyone on this site screws around, it's kind of the nature of the game. Wether they've paid for it or not is kinda irrelevant to me... x |
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"They can meet who they wish ,their choice . Just as long as they don't come on here talking to me like one ."
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So are you saying that men who pay a woman to provide services of a sexual nature have no respect for women? |
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A lot of my photography & web design is for working girls so i meet quite a few, as i am friends with most of them it does become sexual at times.
Having escorted myself i see the unfair stigma attached to this work. People escorting & asking for cash here is rare but it does happen, it is wrong the same as being fleeced for expensive parties and wanting gifts in exchange for sex but Fab do get on top of this. |
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"They can meet who they wish ,their choice . Just as long as they don't come on here talking to me like one .
Interesting
So are you saying that men who pay a woman to provide services of a sexual nature have no respect for women?"
No . Some people are disrespectful, others aren't . Just don't find it flattering some think offering cash would be in anyway appropriate on here .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me at all. People have money, people want sex, sometimes these things become linked.
I wouldn't expect him to tell me, his sex life is none of my business, although some do mention it for some reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend on his attitude about it. If he was disrespectful about the women he'd paid for sex with then I certainly wouldn't want anything to do with him.
Same goes for his attitude about any women he'd had sex/ relationships with. |
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"It would depend on his attitude about it. If he was disrespectful about the women he'd paid for sex with then I certainly wouldn't want anything to do with him.
Same goes for his attitude about any women he'd had sex/ relationships with. "
That's a fair comment
Do what you like but treat others how you expect to be treated no matter if your paying for their time or they are also their for there own pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You got guys like me Mr average who at 16 17 went to my first she was 50s an cost £40 had massage a full personel service then had shemale escort charge £35 etc had 18yo she did nothing for me but I gave her a body massage an kiss before leaving £30 |
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"You got guys like me Mr average who at 16 17 went to my first she was 50s an cost £40 had massage a full personel service then had shemale escort charge £35 etc had 18yo she did nothing for me but I gave her a body massage an kiss before leaving £30 "
Well done for having the balls to admit it, considering that about 13% of men in the uk use sex workers there is obviously not a great percentage of them in the swinging community, well not many that will actually admit it anyway
Even though reading the reply from couples and lady's nobody really cares, as long as you treat the girls with respect
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'd have more respect for a man who paid for a sex worker to fulfil a specific need more than a man of the type you get on here whingeing about the fact all the women they are able to meet are way below their usual standards/fat cows/should be grateful etc. etc.
That said, it would put me off them if they were kerb crawling the red light district to pick up a cheap hooker. It's not all empowered women working out of clubs and getting tested regularly; there IS exploitation in the sex industry as well as people who are working there because they choose to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have used, escorts, prostitutes, brothles and massage parlours for sex, massage and hand relief.
Having said all that, from the age of 18 to 39 (now) I have probably paid for sexual contact less than 10 times so wouldn't consider myself someone that 'does' this. I'm someone that 'May' do this if the opportunity presents itself and I have the urge to do it.
Often when I've had these experiences I've had an overwhelming urge to be 'naughty' but afterwards I've often felt that it wasn't worth the time, effort and money.
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"I think I'd have more respect for a man who paid for a sex worker to fulfil a specific need more than a man of the type you get on here whingeing about the fact all the women they are able to meet are way below their usual standards/fat cows/should be grateful etc. etc.
That said, it would put me off them if they were kerb crawling the red light district to pick up a cheap hooker. It's not all empowered women working out of clubs and getting tested regularly; there IS exploitation in the sex industry as well as people who are working there because they choose to. "
Glad someone has pointed out that there is a darker side to the industry with Street walkers drug addicts, and some guys willing to take advantage of the more vulnerable people in society, not to mention the poor girls that are trafficked to the UK under false pretences of a better life and more opportunities only to be enslaved by pimps |
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"They can meet who they wish ,their choice . Just as long as they don't come on here talking to me like one .
Interesting
So are you saying that men who pay a woman to provide services of a sexual nature have no respect for women?
No . Some people are disrespectful, others aren't . Just don't find it flattering some think offering cash would be in anyway appropriate on here .
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On here I can understand it let's be honest were all here to shag and be shaged by the people we chose, but I was talking about if you knew a guy had used sex workers would you expect him to say he has and would it put you off meeting him assuming he was a nice respectful guy that treated you like a person |
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"E got me a fake boob barbie looking girl for my 30th, we had a epic 3sum, she was really, even let us take a pic xx"
Now that sounds like fun, so not only are theire woman that pay men for sex, but couples use sex workers as well |
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"Who only men? There's a growing number of male escorts out there that women are using."
Great where do I sing up  however I'm not entirely sure I could bring my self to do it if there was no physical attraction at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure if I dated or used sex workers or not. I'll let the forum decide.
One girlfriend after 3 months of dating, told me that the spa she works at is very high class. But she gives massages in the nude to VIP clients. 
One girlfriend I thought was a bartender told me after 5 months , guys paid her to play with her feet.
One girl friend told me , she had a business mentor . That paid for her apartment and all her bills. He was like a father to her , but I could never meet him, and I can't spend the night at her apartment
No I don't go to strip clubs , sex clubs , or any place sex is sold. I'm old fashion. I go to the bar and buy drinks and use my charm. Either I go Home with a woman or I go home with my hand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have paid for sex on many occasions and will again. I have had some of the best sex ever with escorts. I have dated a couple of girls that worked as escorts and would love to have one as a partner. Its a massive turn on for me . Not once did I see them taking any drugs other than a little smoke . Before anyone asks ! Yes I would know if someone I was with was on any class a drugs as I have had my own problems with them some years ago . |
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I was paid for sex once (him)
When I was 18 there was a woman trying to get with me every weekend, I kept refusing ... Not because I didn't fancy her, I knew she was married and I worried about getting mixed up in things I didn't want to.
Anyway, she offered me £50 to sleep with her ... I said I would do it but no need to pay me.
Had a great night and on my walk home I found £50 in my back pocket that she put in there anyway ... Bonus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I was wondering how many guys who use sex workers in a brothle or escorts would actually admit to it?
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No, I don't expect to know the sexual history of any of my partners - either casual fucks or long term relationships. |
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"I have paid for sex on many occasions and will again. I have had some of the best sex ever with escorts. I have dated a couple of girls that worked as escorts and would love to have one as a partner. Its a massive turn on for me . Not once did I see them taking any drugs other than a little smoke . Before anyone asks ! Yes I would know if someone I was with was on any class a drugs as I have had my own problems with them some years ago . "
As the poster erlier said he personaly wouldn't use a sex workerS looking at it from his point of _iew doesn't it bother you that the lady you have chosen to provide services for you may not be enjoying it
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"They can meet who they wish ,their choice . Just as long as they don't come on here talking to me like one .
Interesting
So are you saying that men who pay a woman to provide services of a sexual nature have no respect for women?
No . Some people are disrespectful, others aren't . Just don't find it flattering some think offering cash would be in anyway appropriate on here .
On here I can understand it let's be honest were all here to shag and be shaged by the people we chose, but I was talking about if you knew a guy had used sex workers would you expect him to say he has and would it put you off meeting him assuming he was a nice respectful guy that treated you like a person "
Who they meet is their business. If they treat me and othets with respect then that's what counts with me .
Unfortunately some guys don't see a distinction with prostitution and swinging. They assume if a woman's on here shes up to meet anyone and they only need to offer cash to grantee he gets a meet . |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"I have paid for sex on many occasions and will again. I have had some of the best sex ever with escorts. I have dated a couple of girls that worked as escorts and would love to have one as a partner. Its a massive turn on for me . Not once did I see them taking any drugs other than a little smoke . Before anyone asks ! Yes I would know if someone I was with was on any class a drugs as I have had my own problems with them some years ago .
As the poster erlier said he personaly wouldn't use a sex workerS looking at it from his point of _iew doesn't it bother you that the lady you have chosen to provide services for you may not be enjoying it
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She enjoyed the £120 for half an hour in an apartment better than ours, we left there jealous of her shower lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have paid for sex on many occasions and will again. I have had some of the best sex ever with escorts. I have dated a couple of girls that worked as escorts and would love to have one as a partner. Its a massive turn on for me . Not once did I see them taking any drugs other than a little smoke . Before anyone asks ! Yes I would know if someone I was with was on any class a drugs as I have had my own problems with them some years ago .
As the poster erlier said he personaly wouldn't use a sex workerS looking at it from his point of _iew doesn't it bother you that the lady you have chosen to provide services for you may not be enjoying it
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Escorts are paid to provide pleasure its their job to make sure their customer goes away happy and satisfied not the other way round
It's just a job |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first sexual experience was in a brothel, and i've been using massage parlours and escorts ever since. I was quite young and naive at the time, and hadn't much experience with dating girls, and using a massage parlour was the next step up from just wanking at pictures! lol. Its a very addictive habit though, and only now am i beginning to get this habit under control.....i've bulit up a fair bit of debt over the years unfortunatley through my reliance on this habit. For me though, the experience of paying for sex isnt just about the sex, as strange as that may sound. Its spending time with a beautiful, sexy woman, and being able to get intimate with someone, without the feeling of expectation or the pressure to perform. In some ways, i think its an honest transaction, and i've met a lot of very sexy, beautiful ladies who are very far from the cliche of your 'typical escort'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive been befriended on here to then be told theyd meet me at a price? So they are on here, ive thought about using escorts before but not actually done it |
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"My first sexual experience was in a brothel, and i've been using massage parlours and escorts ever since. I was quite young and naive at the time, and hadn't much experience with dating girls, and using a massage parlour was the next step up from just wanking at pictures! lol. Its a very addictive habit though, and only now am i beginning to get this habit under control.....i've bulit up a fair bit of debt over the years unfortunatley through my reliance on this habit. For me though, the experience of paying for sex isnt just about the sex, as strange as that may sound. Its spending time with a beautiful, sexy woman, and being able to get intimate with someone, without the feeling of expectation or the pressure to perform. In some ways, i think its an honest transaction, and i've met a lot of very sexy, beautiful ladies who are very far from the cliche of your 'typical escort'. "
Ive thought about it just on the fact that id never pull a fit bird in real life and would like to experience this. |
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By *ob55Man
over a year ago
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i have paid for it, i used to go to a msssage place about once a week that was always a normal massage, went one week and it was a different girl very young and blonde, the massge on your back normally takes about 30 minutes before you are asked to tun over, this was less than half that time and she asked me to turn over.
i turned over and she had taken her white tunic off and was just stood there in some very white and lacy underwear, reaching forward she raked a nail donw my cock which was growing rapidly and asked did i want this massged, too bloody right I did lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of so called single females on FAB who also have profiles on escort sites.
I have been tapped up by lone females on FAB and told i can come round and fook them for £££.
I couldnt be arsed paying an escort my hard earned cash. Too many of them are prima donnas thinking they are so special and asking silly money. A wank is free.Save your money,preserve your pride and self respect i say.. |
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It's not our business what other people do in their private time. Professionals are probably pretty safe and tested for stuff more frequently than the average person. It's largely safer fun they'll be having too.
People don't go around exploring the finer points of others' employment, such as group play etc. Maybe we have all played with sex workers or their partners but not known. |
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I have paid for sex with escorts and had mixed experiences. Often I feel guilty that I've exploited a vulnerable person. Other times it has felt like genuine transaction and she is working willingly.
My best experiences have been with couples - generally they have got into escorting through being swingers.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I doubt men (or women) would asmit to paying for sex as it appears to show desperation .
Ive never paid for sex ive visited 2 lap dancing clubs / strip joints but found it a little boring after id been there 10 minutes . Sex for me is actually doing the physical act with somebody .
Not really into porn either |
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