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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what?"
You're going to meet loads of singles after this post, I'm sure of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done FFM before but not really for me, I just find it pointless being in a sexual situation with somebody I have no interest sexually in, I'd sooner have a bi MMF where everybody's playing together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what?
You're going to meet loads of singles after this post, I'm sure of it "
Who cares? And you really think that question would put any guy off anyway? So what do you think the attraction is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what?
You're going to meet loads of singles after this post, I'm sure of it
Who cares? And you really think that question would put any guy off anyway? So what do you think the attraction is?"
Plus about 0.001% of the single guys on fab will even read this thread  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what?
You're going to meet loads of singles after this post, I'm sure of it
Who cares? And you really think that question would put any guy off anyway? So what do you think the attraction is?
Plus about 0.001% of the single guys on fab will even read this thread "
 for sure. And I get you on the bi thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just different from 1 on 1. So much you can play around with. Positions etc. Add In the visuals for me. Watching the man of the relationship doing his thing while you do yours etc. Working as a team to please the woman particularly attracts me to set up. The dynamic just opens things up so much. It's definately not a fall back lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar..."
And you said that completely without irony. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For a single straght guy, or girl for that matter, to want to have sex with a couple? Is it just a shags a shag if you can't find another single straight person? Or what?
You're going to meet loads of singles after this post, I'm sure of it
Who cares? And you really think that question would put any guy off anyway? So what do you think the attraction is?"
it might put me off..I share, you share..it's a two way street..
and sharing does not mean,sharing of ones other half..it means we ALL share a common open minded outlook..
that sex is great...single or not
and yes..I can find a single, but being it is a swingers scene..I dont have to limit myself to one on one sex do I? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I like one on ones. I like MFF. I like MMF, especially with bi guys. All have their own special forms of intensity. I like both sexes so why the hell not enjoy them simultaneously on occasion? I can multitask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail...."
best take threesomes off ur list eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail...."
On a trip to Kenya we witnessed a wild lion fucking a lioness. It was very noisy and over very, very quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail....
On a trip to Kenya we witnessed a wild lion fucking a lioness. It was very noisy and over very, very quickly. "
Exactly how it should be....with as little backchat as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail....
best take threesomes off ur list eh?"
Mmmmm....so threesomes all have to be Mmf do they, jeez wish someone had told me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush ."
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?"
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about ! "
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?"
I'm a little miffed at how aggressive your tone seems, the lad was only asking why you're confused, to be honest seems a daft question in the first place...some will like the experience of the whole thing, some are experimenting and yes...to some you'll just be a shag...don't let it bother you,... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?"
i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful "
Don't rise to it dannyboy it was a cheap shot..) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful "
If you look on their profile at the top it will tell you if you have mailed them before or them you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful
Don't rise to it dannyboy it was a cheap shot..)"
i won't mate I've just checked and there newbies . Got a lot to learn on here I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
I'm a little miffed at how aggressive your tone seems, the lad was only asking why you're confused, to be honest seems a daft question in the first place...some will like the experience of the whole thing, some are experimenting and yes...to some you'll just be a shag...don't let it bother you,..."
Totally agree! If you're asking what's in it for singles to meet a couple then why would you want to meet them yourself if your view is that they do it out of desperation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful
If you look on their profile at the top it will tell you if you have mailed them before or them you
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If he did or didn't it was a bit much to call him out in an attempt to embarrass him because they didn't have a suitable answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?
Miffed ? What have i to be miffed about !
Oh. So you didn't mail us the other day?i have no idea if i mailed u lol
but im sure i was polite and respectful
If you look on their profile at the top it will tell you if you have mailed them before or them you
If he did or didn't it was a bit much to call him out in an attempt to embarrass him because they didn't have a suitable answer "
its fine honest . I think they make there contempt for single guys pretty clear . Unverified newbies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happens a lot here you will get used to the forum ways "
I know what your saying ..
It's probably a guy with his wife's pics .
They think we havnt seen it all before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens a lot here you will get used to the forum ways
we've been on and off here for years now, just never noticed that abbreviation "
lol some kind person kindly point it out to me once. But if you're eye sight is poor may I say "Why Hello there"   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well Op with yoir low opinion of single guys why even post this .
Nothing like all being tarred with the same brush .
What makes you think we've a low opinion of single guys? And I'm not tarring anyone with a brush. I gave one possibility of why it might appeal and wondered what others might get out of it other than the 'shag'?
Bit miffed are we?"
What do you get out of it? You want mmf yet your profile says she is bi curious & he is straight  |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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At first, I sought after couples because I'd never experienced anything other than 1-on-1 sex.
Now however, I've got a taste for them. I'm always looking for arrangements I've yet to try (FFM for instance, ladies?  ), but now, I tend to scrutinise the personalities of my playmates even more than before. I've learned that when you don't click on a social level, the sex is a bit flat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail...."
You sir are a rare breed......yes please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't really interested me....I'm way, way to alpha to be in that situation, I'm like a wild lion when I fuck...if I get some other cub sniffing round me I'll turn and roar....can't beat one on one, licked, fucked, kissed, slapped and ravished with total attention to each sexual detail....
best take threesomes off ur list eh?
Mmmmm....so threesomes all have to be Mmf do they, jeez wish someone had told me..."
dunno but u might roar at the kitty who gives attention to the other kitty..or take the hump when the sex toys come out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unbelievable.
How was I having a go at single guys?
What suggests we have a low opinion of single guys?
In what way was I questioning the ethics of it all?
We have been here before so are not new to the site and how could we be photo verified if it was just a guy using his wifes pics?
We know what we want from a 3sum just wondered what others wanted/got from it in a straight situation. Apologies if the op came across as aggresive, that wasn't the intention.
Seems that some don't really know the answer themselves but would rather just have a go at the 'newbies'.
But thanks to the 2 or 3 people who have explained properly what the get out of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unbelievable.
How was I having a go at single guys?
What suggests we have a low opinion of single guys?
In what way was I questioning the ethics of it all?
We have been here before so are not new to the site and how could we be photo verified if it was just a guy using his wifes pics?
We know what we want from a 3sum just wondered what others wanted/got from it in a straight situation. Apologies if the op came across as aggresive, that wasn't the intention.
Seems that some don't really know the answer themselves but would rather just have a go at the 'newbies'.
But thanks to the 2 or 3 people who have explained properly what the get out of it "
Fair point Op
Best let this one fade away !
Its a new day out there ... |
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