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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
Outskirts of Notts |
In all honesty it was like my first virginal experience but with a bit more experience .
I.e. Slightly uncomfortable and a tad painful but good enough to know with practice I was really going to enjoy it .
Jo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice...the first time do it with someone who has an average or smaller sized cock.
Drink a couple of glasses of wine.
Relax, try and think of anything else, the tescos shop, whatever...because if you're tense it feckin hurts.
Use silicone lube, it's loads better than water based.
The first inch or two can hurt but once it's in its fine. Take it slowly, you'll be ok, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My advice...the first time do it with someone who has an average or smaller sized cock.
Drink a couple of glasses of wine.
Relax, try and think of anything else, the tescos shop, whatever...because if you're tense it feckin hurts.
Thank u!
Use silicone lube, it's loads better than water based.
The first inch or two can hurt but once it's in its fine. Take it slowly, you'll be ok,"
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By *AJANCouple
over a year ago
Lisbon |
First time I tried I couldn't trough as partner at time didn't know what he was doing but when me and C start dating and we tried it, it was good. He was very, very patient. And he's trick loads of rimming, meanwhile teasing the pussy and clip too till you beg to get fucked. After loads of lube and slowly but very slowly put cock in but not completly hard, specially when you have a cock a bit bigger than the average. By the time it's all in you will be feeling good. It is a bit uncomfor5abd weird at first but if done properly it can be very pleasurable. I have loads of orgasms with anal |
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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago
Lordswood |
"My advice...the first time do it with someone who has an average or smaller sized cock.
Drink a couple of glasses of wine.
Relax, try and think of anything else, the tescos shop, whatever...because if you're tense it feckin hurts.
Use silicone lube, it's loads better than water based.
The first inch or two can hurt but once it's in its fine. Take it slowly, you'll be ok,"
I'd agree, relax as much as you can as tensing will make it painful. When he's ready to enter it helps if you relax your sphincter - push out a little like you're taking a dump (sorry to be graphic but no other way to say it really).
Lots of lube and make him take it slow until you're used to him inside you, then enjoy |
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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago
North London / Herts |
Lots of good advice above.
I would add - plenty of anal play with fingers before.
Can make the world of difference to a woman to have a sensitive partner who slowly warms and slightly loosens the muscle. You'd want to have taken 2 fingers, and then you'll enjoy the cock so much more.
Oh and did I say lube... Lots of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure I agree about the fingers...I've always found that more painful than a cock!
Maybe buy an anal vibrator and experiment on your own, then you can set the pace to whatever you're comfortable with. They are good fun...especially to use on yourself whilst shagging on top |
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It feels great from the mans point of view
Best with a man that's done it before though, gently in to start with whilst the muscles relax and then the fucking can start, the guys who hurt are usually those who've seen too much porn and think you can just slam it straight in and off you go! |
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Some ladies are a natural, some it is painful for. I have met anal Virgins who, after the very slow first couple of inches, are able to love every second of it.
I met one who I just popped into and off we went. She had 2 anal orgasms and was a demon. It took her some persuasion but I believe her when she said it was her first time, but not her last;-) Why would she lie?
As for me, I tried a finger, a very small vibe (only half way) and have been unsuccessfully 'mikked'. It does nothing for me. I think if it actually gave a lady pleasure I may persevere, but I have no need.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"My advice...the first time do it with someone who has an average or smaller sized cock.
Drink a couple of glasses of wine.
Relax, try and think of anything else, the tescos shop, whatever...because if you're tense it feckin hurts.
Thank u!
Use silicone lube, it's loads better than water based.
The first inch or two can hurt but once it's in its fine. Take it slowly, you'll be ok,"
My advise ....... Dont use any silicone based lubes - you dont want silicone absorbed in anyway into your blood stream. There are lots of good lubes, Liquid silk is brilliant and lasts for ages.
I dont care what people say, silicone is silicone - stick it in an engine if you want, but not near the blood vessels of your arse. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"It was rather lovely but then I did have an experienced man showing me the way .
Lucky guy. Did it come naturally to you? "
I went back for more and I do remember him saying my arse was made for it so maybe yes |
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Massively relieving and exhilarating, after wanting it for some time. There was a little discomfort at first but I got the hang of it and the endorphins were soon racing.
I was thrashed - metaphorically - and my cycling fit arse had found its calling. Its still close to virginal, with a sweet enchantment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was rather lovely but then I did have an experienced man showing me the way .
Lucky guy. Did it come naturally to you?
I went back for more and I do remember him saying my arse was made for it so maybe yes "
From the look of your pics he is right xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly at first it really fucking hurts, my eyes were kind of like this
With perseverance with the pain and some lube it can actually feel really nice. Being relaxed helps as well, the more relaxed you are the easier it will fit in so to speak if you tense it will hurt like a bitch"
Agreed!
Cried first time - love it now! But only if it's MY idea - then I'm relaxed and enjoy it! If I let myself be 'persuaded' into it - it still hurts!! X |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
You could try anal beads first too. I bought a small rubber one that has a handle for my partner. The beads start small & increase slightly in size. Use a good lube. Best toy purchase ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly at first it really fucking hurts, my eyes were kind of like this
With perseverance with the pain and some lube it can actually feel really nice. Being relaxed helps as well, the more relaxed you are the easier it will fit in so to speak if you tense it will hurt like a bitch
Agreed!
Cried first time - love it now! But only if it's MY idea - then I'm relaxed and enjoy it! If I let myself be 'persuaded' into it - it still hurts!! X"
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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
Outskirts of Notts |
"Honestly at first it really fucking hurts, my eyes were kind of like this
With perseverance with the pain and some lube it can actually feel really nice. Being relaxed helps as well, the more relaxed you are the easier it will fit in so to speak if you tense it will hurt like a bitch
Agreed!
Cried first time - love it now! But only if it's MY idea - then I'm relaxed and enjoy it! If I let myself be 'persuaded' into it - it still hurts!! X
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That's basically what I meant but put eloquently .
Jo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly at first it really fucking hurts, my eyes were kind of like this
With perseverance with the pain and some lube it can actually feel really nice. Being relaxed helps as well, the more relaxed you are the easier it will fit in so to speak if you tense it will hurt like a bitch
Agreed!
Cried first time - love it now! But only if it's MY idea - then I'm relaxed and enjoy it! If I let myself be 'persuaded' into it - it still hurts!! X
That's basically what I meant but put eloquently .
Jo x"
Me eloquent there's a first |
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