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"Same here shag" Nice one | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up." Crossing the road can be risky lol | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol " would you cross a road with your eyes closed..? | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol " I know. I've got a scar to show it. However I didn't have to tell people that they may have caught a broken arm afterwards. | |||
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"For - trust the person I'm with. Against - pesky STDs and pregnancy" | |||
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"For - trust the person I'm with. Against - pesky STDs and pregnancy" | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol I know. I've got a scar to show it. However I didn't have to tell people that they may have caught a broken arm afterwards." Good answer lol | |||
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"Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view." Can I ask ur opinion on it please | |||
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"Ok people lets have a reasoned discussion about for and against bareback. The against reason with probably be similar. What about reasons for" In an ideal world if the people we were meeting were guaranteed to be Sti free then yes we would love to play bare, we resort the choice of others who play bare to play bare it's their right to make that choice. You will always have those that disagree and that's their right as well , what we dislike is when people start bad mouthing others who play bare because they do not agree with it . | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?" now that would be daft. this thread is about sex without condoms; not about the autobahn | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol would you cross a road with your eyes closed..? now that would be daft. this thread is about sex without condoms; not about the autobahn" both have a risk.. | |||
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"I'm totally forgainst it." Me too | |||
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"Ok people lets have a reasoned discussion about for and against bareback. The against reason with probably be similar. What about reasons for In an ideal world if the people we were meeting were guaranteed to be Sti free then yes we would love to play bare, we resort the choice of others who play bare to play bare it's their right to make that choice. You will always have those that disagree and that's their right as well , what we dislike is when people start bad mouthing others who play bare because they do not agree with it ." | |||
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"For bareback here. As others have pointed out there are risks with condoms due to breaking etc as well as bare oral, and they don't stop all stds anyway. So the first filter has to be choice of partner. We would play bareback but not with someone who practices 'safe sex' with many partners without getting checked out. Just wouldn't risk it. End of the day any person in front of you could have lied about their previous so every new partner is a risk. Have to take each case as unique and go by their appearance, cleanliness, what they say etc. Bareback is more fun. Condoms are a chore, can cause loss of erection, definitely sensation loss, they smell disgusting and cheapen the whole sexual experience. Rather one bareback encounter per year than 100 with condoms." So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ | |||
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"For......the feeling and the intimacy is so much better. So yes (but only with a regular/trusted partner....someone who I know sexual history for certain are sti clean). . Against.....risk of sti etc...... So a random/first time meet...that's a no from me. Others will take that risk....that's their choice!" Can you really know someone else's full sexual history or do you go by what they tell you? | |||
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"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them" And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them? | |||
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"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them? " I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes | |||
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"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them? I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes " Hahaha me too! "you're blocked, you're blocked you're blocked" | |||
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"Always prefer to bareback! Feels so much better and love shooting my load inside them And also getting the phone call that you've knocked them up or caught an std from them? I rarely comment on bareback threads but always read them with interest and find myself making lots of private notes Hahaha me too! "you're blocked, you're blocked you're blocked" " Good job I ain't into women then | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ " If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink." I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! | |||
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"I honestly can not tell the difference a covered cock feels the same as an uncovered one once inside to me so for me there are no pro's for bareback, going bareback when it does not even feel better seems a bit daft" I don't doubt what you say. All I (he) can say is when I used condoms years ago I found they regularly split during sex, and it goes from 'hmm that's alright' to 'omg fuck me fuck me fuck me yes yes yes' immediately. When they've split nobody ever said to stop and put a new one on, the basic sexual instinct takes over and wild horses couldn't stop us. | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!" Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though. | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though." Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good | |||
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"Friggin hell. How many more times???? " | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though. Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good " Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though. Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon" Nahh it wont be doing lol | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though. Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon Nahh it wont be doing lol" U only have to ask ? Lol | |||
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"I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof! Well not having sex is definitely a way of not getting pregnant or catching an std I'll give you that. Don't think many others on a swing site are going to follow your lead though. Well I don't have anyone to have sex with at the moment so I'm all good Ahh bless ... Hope this changes for u soon Nahh it wont be doing lol U only have to ask ? Lol" I wont be asking lol | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .." It's your cock if you want them to covet it for oral tell them, safe sex is the responsibility of both of you | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink." Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory | |||
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"Always double bag it lol" Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .." Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory" Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about?? | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink." That's rubbish...I only use condoms and have done for the past 4 years - coupla condom accidents where I picked up the morning after pill just in case and bought my clap clinic tests forward - no ankle biters for this girl With regards to the OP, I've recently started barebacking with my lover...Pros: I'd forgotten how bloody awesome it feels having your man explode inside you...Cons: not with randoms off t'interweb due to aforementioned risk of pregnancy and clap | |||
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"There isn't really much to discuss. I think most would prefer bareback. Everyone knows the risks of doing so." In a nutshell. Well said. Janie x | |||
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"Always double bag it lol Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse" Rubber on rubber. It's bound to split!!! | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. " | |||
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"Let's hope people treat this thread seriously & don't start throwing mud at each other for their points of view." Gosh, you're becoming cynical - how did that happen! | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol " .....and that's why you don't cross a road with your eyes closed | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about??" HIV/AIDS Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about?? HIV/AIDS Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment)" Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about?? HIV/AIDS Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. " | |||
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"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx" And surely respect for yourself also? | |||
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"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx And surely respect for yourself also?" Definitely but I was thinking of the woman first xx | |||
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"Has to be condoms for the respect for the female xx And surely respect for yourself also?" Nice figure btw xx | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier " The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??! | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!" The trick is pull out before cum. | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum." Is this a serious comment? | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment?" This place is such an education at times!! | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment?" No but less chance of getting them pregnant tho. | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment? This place is such an education at times!!" I know lol, but fun | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment? This place is such an education at times!!" It is but I would always think safety first for both parties xx | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink." Lol I must be infertile so | |||
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"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals. So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger. So enjoy sex safely or NOT " "Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this? | |||
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"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals. So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger. So enjoy sex safely or NOT "Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this?" Wear a full body condom and a respirator??! | |||
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"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals. So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger. So enjoy sex safely or NOT "Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this? Wear a full body condom and a respirator??!" And gloves lol xx | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment?" Sorry but are you all there?! | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum." You can still transmit diseases and still get someone pregnant even if you pull out | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment? Sorry but are you all there?! " YEs I am how about you? | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. You can still transmit diseases and still get someone pregnant even if you pull out" Yes that's right as well. | |||
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"For = only with each other as its a great feeling Against = we value our health so prefer to protect as much as we can. So no BB with meets. " This | |||
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"Herpes gladiatorum is one of the most infectious of herpes-caused diseases, and is transmissible by skin-to-skin contact. The disease was first described in the 1960s in the New England Journal of Medicine. It is caused by cutaneous infection with HumanHerpes Simplex Virus type 1 (HSV-1),which more commonly causes oral herpes (cold sores). Another strain, HSV-2 usually causesgenital herpes, although the strains are very similar and either can cause herpes in any location. Tiny little blisters that burst bit like hair spots and your infected, no cure you live with painful blisters that come and go around your genitals. So something to think about when naked with a partner or with a stranger. So enjoy sex safely or NOT "Enjoy sex safely" - what do you mean by this? Wear a full body condom and a respirator??! Blot bang rub lol And gloves lol xx " | |||
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"I got a 4 day ban last time i entered this debate " And you risk a further one if you mention or discuss it | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about?? HIV/AIDS Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. " Ffs they are not serious and not untreatable...daily mail isn't always right!!! | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size. Also someone said they don't protect against all STI's such as genital warts, this is true but the chances are still massively reduced anf I'd prefer to be protected against the serious untreatable diseases. As I said before my sexual health and self respect mean more to me than a self indulgent night of glory Serious untreatable diseases???? What are you talking about?? HIV/AIDS Gonerhea (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Chlamydia (which can cause infertility if left without treatment) Add to that herpes, HPV (and the oral, rectal and cervical cancers certain types cause) and hepatitis B. Ffs they are not serious and not untreatable...daily mail isn't always right!!!" So dying from HIV/AIDS/Hep B isn't serious then? And yes they are untreatable because they cant be cured, the treatment is merely for the symptoms and slows the progression of the disease. Seriously, get your facts right before you start spouting bullshit saying that they aren't serious | |||
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"Didn't take long to the bareback police to arrive lol " Who's policing. There is no law against stupidity therefore nothing to police. On the other hand there is no law against pointing out stupidity either. | |||
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"Didn't take long to the bareback police to arrive lol Who's policing. There is no law against stupidity therefore nothing to police. On the other hand there is no law against pointing out stupidity either. " I know but the thread is not about stds is it? lol. | |||
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" Condoms that fail mainly do so due to human error, basically those that don't know how to put them on (probably those that usually bb). Mistakes people make can be not pinching the end before rolling down, not rolling down far enough, putting testicles in the bag, double bagging, buying wrong size condoms.....unless you or a friend is part of very small percentage of the human race where they don't sell a big enough size." I once managed to fit a standard sized condom on my head and blow it up a bit with my nose without splitting, if a condom that can fit on a fully grown head doesn't fit your cock, you are going nowhere near my vagina with it! | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way..." Incorrect | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect" That depends on you definition of easily. STIs can and are spread by unprotected oral sex. Also STI can and are spread by protected penetrative sex. STIs can also be spread by non penetrative sex. Perhaps you should get so guidance on just how STIs may be spread. | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect" You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex " Someone somewhere along the line has misread my original post....oral without protection spreads certain STI's just as much as sex without protection...fact... | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. " Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him... | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect You might want to go back to school for a sex education classes if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex Someone somewhere along the line has misread my original post....oral without protection spreads certain STI's just as much as sex without protection...fact..." I don't do oral or have sex so I'm all good | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex " I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral | |||
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"If you practise safer sex,and lots of us do,what difference does it make to us if others have bareback?? How can we be against it?? We have all the information we need to make a decision. It is a bit like asking people if their for or against sunbathing." He he quite true there but I use sun cream also | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral" Of course there are! A friend caught the clap from giving oral to a woman, so yes you can get any sti just from oral alone | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol " People say this about riding the bike too, but when I get on the bike I put on a helmet and a full body covering of either kevlar or leather. Doesn't seem much differ to slipping on a rubber. | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him..." Or more likely he was lying... | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real." It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe | |||
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"If you practise safer sex,and lots of us do,what difference does it make to us if others have bareback?? How can we be against it?? We have all the information we need to make a decision. It is a bit like asking people if their for or against sunbathing." | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe" | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him... Or more likely he was lying..." Yeah right, because you know him so well...he only does oral at clubs...or watches...but that tbh is none of your business...don't judge others by your owns standards... | |||
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"Wonder how many of the anti-BB brigade use a condom for oral? STI's can be passed just as easily that way... Incorrect You might want to go back to school for a sex education class so if you're naive enough to think that STIs cant be passed through protected oral sex I said incorrect because there not passed as easily via oral and not as many sti'd are passed via unprotected oral Of course there are! A friend caught the clap from giving oral to a woman, so yes you can get any sti just from oral alone" | |||
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"I do hate these threads as I find the whole bareback issue so dishonest! I was in a club a cpl of weeks ago and saw a lot of barebacking but when I read these peoples profiles after it said safe sex only . Then there's the couples ...... I'm sure other guys will back me up here the amount of cpls that ask if u could go bareback just this once as hubby likes sloppy seconds or cleaning up afterwards if he's cuckold ! So much hypocrisy. And do people really believe condoms are totally safe ? Never had anyone cover my cock for oral yet and this is just as dangerous! As I say take what people say and promise on here with a big pinch of salt ! Although I must say the younger people are a million times more careful than the older ones .. Oral sex is nowhere near as dangerous,in fact I consider it relatively safe. Load of crap...my fb has caught an STI twice from oral sex at a club...that was before I met him, so not from me, but from women that had quite clearly sucked other cocks before him... Or more likely he was lying... Yeah right, because you know him so well...he only does oral at clubs...or watches...but that tbh is none of your business...don't judge others by your owns standards... " And he only ever has sex in clubs? | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe" | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up. Crossing the road can be risky lol would you cross a road with your eyes closed..?" | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safe" Women also carry infections its not just down to the man tho. | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho." I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women. The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changing | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho. I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women. The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changing" Yes you are right there and good point. | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho. I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women. The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changingYes you are right there and good point." Fortunately as men were at a lot less risk both of contracting and suffering long term effects. But I know I'd feel devastated if I ruined a woman's chance to have kids because I didn't get tested or was sensible. I can't even imagine that level of guilt | |||
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"I'm for, Used to always wear a glove and have great sex but since the first time bareback I've not been able to cum with a condom on because I know how awesome it feels without one on! Plus the risk kinda makes it sexier The risk of getting an STD or someone pregnant is sexy, really??!The trick is pull out before cum. Is this a serious comment? Sorry but are you all there?! YEs I am how about you? " Yes I am thanks | |||
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"Based on my observations people seem far more careful with their sexual health in forums such as this than they are in the heat of the moment. " Safe both in the forum and the heat of the moment been a few occasions at clubs where we have walked away cause the other guy didn't want to glove up | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink." Terrence Higgins Trust provide free condoms. Can't think why??....... | |||
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" So you'd rather spend £500,000 for the next 16 years rather than free condoms? Jesus Christ If your only form of contraception is a condom and you're swinging you WILL get pregnant. I suggest you have a rethink. I've always used the depo injection. I don't swing, I don't have sex, so I'm pregnant proof and std proof!" So why r u on a swingers site?? Hv I missed something here? | |||
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"Always double bag it lol Double bagging wont help it will only make it worse" Yep - the friction between the condoms makes them split. Terrible myth that one | |||
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"I can't get it. Folks saying they bareback and get tested every 2 months. And what.? Do you call that protection? Get real. It's not protection but it means they can get treatment quickly and inform the correct partners. If you wear a rubber but never get tested it could be along time before you know you've got something and if it's chlamydia you could have destroyed dozens of women's lives permanently while your happily thinking your safeWomen also carry infections its not just down to the man tho. I know but chlamydia for instance am doesn't normal have symptoms in men and can result in infertility in women. The clap doesn't normal have symptoms in women but does in men but isn't usually life changingYes you are right there and good point. Fortunately as men were at a lot less risk both of contracting and suffering long term effects. But I know I'd feel devastated if I ruined a woman's chance to have kids because I didn't get tested or was sensible. I can't even imagine that level of guilt" That's right as we got less chance of getting it, but as you say its always best to get checked to be sure. | |||
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"Anyone for a nice cup of tea and a biscuit? " Sure, but keep the biccies in wrapper | |||
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"Anyone for a nice cup of tea and a biscuit? Sure, but keep the biccies in wrapper " lol now that was sharp | |||
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"You can normally tell a clean woman from a dirty woman though." Really? How? | |||
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"For - feels awesome Against - its a bit risky innit? Glove up." | |||
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