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For some reason I can hold on for a while ... Can give a specific time though ... If you get the angle right and can control yourself not too cum before she does ... Everyone's happy but I've on occasion gone off early I must admit  |
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I can last a while
I also can out last the lady's on a few accounts but also am a quick reloader as like like to fondal after then get back into it but overall it's down to the person's in general and how they tick i can't prove that i do but to those of you that have tried me will know |
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Depending on what has been going on prior to penetrative sex, then probably 5 minutes. 10-15 minutes for round 2. Round three can go on for hours. But by then I'm not bothered about cumming again. I'm just a sex toy by then!  |
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Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take. |
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"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one
thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long "
think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"
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"I want 15-20 mins but some guya seem to think pounding away for an hour is what every woman wants. No thank! I'd rather have repeats."
I usually last fucking ages and find there is a threshold duration before you get "do you like me?"....
But.... Lasting a long time doesn't mean you need to keep "pounding away".
I'm not trying to get to any imaginary goal, so I'm fine to stop, mix it up, try something else, change positions, add some role play... |
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"Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take."
I have never lasted as long with anyone as I do with my partner but have never cum as quick either ?
It seems I can last longer when she's on top and she controls how fast etc !
So timings ? Anything from her cuming once too losing count ? Does how long count when a smile is on her face ?
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"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one
thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long
think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"
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Yes cos there is no preasure to perform kinda thing lol That's right sometimes you get arm ache so switch to the left one then back to the right hand |
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Ive had one occasion when i wasnt able to cum, nothing to do with the woman she was hot i had a toghtish foreskin and it had retrected fully, so even when i thought i was about to i just couldnt |
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"50-55 minutes.trying to break 60 minute barrier
Why? Friction and repetition are so booooring."
I love repetitions. It's not just one off session. I just don't like cumming  |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"
Put it this way I can't stand it if a guy only lasts 5-10 min!
I love to tease whilst fucking and lots of othee things, fucking isn't just fucking I'm my world. |
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If I've had a couple of drinks ( alright, half a dozen!), then I can last a looooong time. After a couple of bottles of wine I once went all night without coming once. But it didn't bother me. I still enjoyed it.
Being "piss proud" also keeps you going longer. Makes for a nice Sunday morning after a sat night out. |
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"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one
thank goodness an answer that doesnt belong to a pinochio!!!!!!! lol Yes I am hot for my hand as the saying goes to last so long
think most guys last longer with a five finger shuffle lol certainly mrnorthy does i get fecking arm ache sometimes and end up saying "ffs i will ride you"
Yes cos there is no preasure to perform kinda thing lol That's right sometimes you get arm ache so switch to the left one then back to the right hand "
ffs i tried that!!!! get two fecking arms aching then lol  |
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"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one "
Ladies and gentleman may I introduce you to Fabs resident stud, setting the bar high for the rest of us mere mortals. Cheers Shag  |
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"about 5 mins of penetrating, but I usually like loads of foreplay first, love to lick until she can take no more, then bend her over and pound away!"
Why do guys think that just because she's bent over they HAVE to "pound away"..... |
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"about 5 mins of penetrating, but I usually like loads of foreplay first, love to lick until she can take no more, then bend her over and pound away!
Why do guys think that just because she's bent over they HAVE to "pound away"....."
its what my wife likes me to do, she likes it rough when im fucking, but gentle when licking etc
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"I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time
I like this answer
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Me to! I won't meet if they are on a time schedule! Fuck that! |
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It depends very much on the situation - if I know I'm going to be naked and have all day, I'll last a few hours but if it's a "bend me over and fuck me now" moment, five minutes. Also depends on the position, doggy seems to make me cum quicker, anything else I'm in control! With my hand, 2 minutes. |
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"I last a length of time, a different length each time depending on many factors. My attention is not focused on a clock or stopwatch at the time
I like this answer
Me to! I won't meet if they are on a time schedule! Fuck that! "
An interesting question occurred to me. Is it porns fault that guys are so obsessed by how big their cocks are or how long they fuck for?
So much porn depicts huge cocks and seemingly pounding away for hours.
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
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That's THE way to fly |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"Majority of people on this thread sound to me like they're lying lol. I'm going to be honest and say about two minutes. I guess I just get so turned on it's difficult to control. I last longer when being wanked or sucked, though. And I can usually go again pretty soon afterwards, and I last longer the second time. But however quickly, or slowly, I cum, I wouldn't use that as an excuse not to do as much as I can for my partner. I love to give pleasure too, not just take.
I have never lasted as long with anyone as I do with my partner but have never cum as quick either ?
It seems I can last longer when she's on top and she controls how fast etc !
So timings ? Anything from her cuming once too losing count ? Does how long count when a smile is on her face ?
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Before becoming a swinger I thought it was good if I could last 2 minutes. I did use some of that Chinese desensiting stuff from Lovehoney ( you really only need a little bit!) at first but after a while I started to last longer. Like the respondent above my OH knows how, when on top, to speed up to make me come. I also enjoy the doggy position until she has come, and then to speed up until I come at which point she usually does as well.
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It's all about taking Mrs P with me. We get grinding and if it feels like she's not gonna quite make it at the same time as me I withdraw and return to some naughty other stuff... working up to another attempt. We keep this circle of pleasure and excitement going for as long as I can bear it and it often works out well for both of us i.e. not too long but not too short and ending with us both cumming  Although often I'm just too fucking horny and have to let myself go crazy on her... which tends to make her cum too lol
I like it to be much longer than 5 mins and tend to slow down if I'm getting too close as I'm savouring the feeling of being inside her  |
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A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.
Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer. |
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Anything between 5 and 30 minutes. The 30 minutes is when he knows he's going to come and slows down. Average is about 15 minutes and I've had some men come,keep hard and carry on,then come again a couple of minutes later. |
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"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.
Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer."
A whole hour of constant penetration? |
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"To put a figure on it... probably between 15-25 mins actually fucking, depending upon the length of the hay rolling "
A change of positions helps too don't you think? |
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"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.
Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer.
A whole hour of constant penetration? "
Could think of nothing worse! (well, obviously I can, but you know...) |
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"I last 2min when fucking one but when wanking up to 40min with a stiff one
Ladies and gentleman may I introduce you to Fabs resident stud, setting the bar high for the rest of us mere mortals. Cheers Shag "
Yes I always set the bar high, its the best way |
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"A quickie is about 15-20 minutes.
Anything else depends how much fun we're having. I can go for about an hour these days but then recovery time is longer.
A whole hour of constant penetration? "
I can do longer than that if I get back to practicing my edging again lol I was capable of two hours when I was younger but that really hurt my prostate |
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And thanks for the criticism "can think of nothing worse" lol obviously we alternated depth and speed a lot to tease all the right spots. It's not like I was trying to hammer a nail with my cock!  |
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.
Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbh"
Several sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.
Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbhSeveral sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up
Her"
Then you ain't doin' it right :P |
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.
Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbhSeveral sparadic qualities are good..a constant same old, same old pounding can dry me up
Her
Then you ain't doin' it right :P"
 you reckon
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous
Her"
Get yer coat you've pulled |
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous
Her
Get yer coat you've pulled "
Its on waiting with heels on
Her |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then. zAnytime gorgeous
Her
Get yer coat you've pulled Its on waiting with heels on
Her"
Ooooooo
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
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"I would rather have a bit of quality over quantity any day.
Her
You can have my amazing 30 seconds as well then.
Anything less than an hour and I feel seriously short-changed tbh"
I'll be honest... if you find yourself usually fucking for over an hour I'd say there's something going wrong... the natural dynamics of a shag kinda take 20-50 minutes, kiss and a cuddle and its time for round two... plus, if it's safe sex, the poor wee lass has gotta have a raw fanny by the end  |
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I'm still in a sweat from a lovely afternoon meet today. The first fuck was about 15 mins the second about 45 - 50 mins. It was awesome. I love it when we go for ages. We fucked whilst sharing fantasies. Knacketed but still horny as hell. |
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This is a very interesting one for me, as I don't really have a great deal of experience with multiple partners (having been married for 20+ years before meeting my better half of 5)
Soooo... She is a multiple cummer and in 5 years has only ever cum once a handful of times.
It's normally 3 or 4 in a half hour session. We counted 13 in one of our all day-ers a few years back before giving up on keeping score....we don't bother now.
Luckily I can go for as long as it takes to make sure she is satisfied before letting go. I can then generally keep going or wait 10 mins or so before we are off again.
We are very well matched and this is a very interesting thread because it seems we are unusual. Tbh I thought most peeps were like us...seems not.
Also turns out I'm "very good at it" lol....who would have thought it...given my past history.
Anyway
Only recently, on a trip to Amsterdam, I did fuck her (in her words)..."like an animal" where it was all about me......I was going to cum after I'd thoroughly used her as my fuck toy....she told me after that she loved it and I have let go more since.... I find it hard not to make sure she fully satisfied before I release...perhaps doesn't make any sense..dunno
Not really a bad problem though lol
No Pinocchio untruths
Back in The Dam in a couple of weeks too
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By *LCC OP Couple
over a year ago
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So we have quite a range from a few seconds to a few hours.
Even if my cock could last for 2 hours, I'm not sure I would have the physical stamina for that! It's like running a Marathon! |
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"So we have quite a range from a few seconds to a few hours.
Even if my cock could last for 2 hours, I'm not sure I would have the physical stamina for that! It's like running a Marathon! "
It's a nicer way to keep fit than jogging though! |
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Like others, it can depend on who I am with.
I can go for a long time. Usually have to slow down or stop on occasion to get my breath back. Before starting again.
Some women like a long fuck others don't. Have been complimented on my stamina several times.
Sometimes I don't cum. |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"
I see guys who cum speedily and others who last ages; some guys go on till I say "please cum"; whatever the length of time does not matter to me cos men are not robots and I always arrange to see two or more guys (separately) of a day/evening/night cos if one is crap the next one might be better. All I can say is I'm glad for lube! |
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"I like to go for 25 to 45 mins.
Also love a game of two halves!
just knew some one would bring bloody football into it lol  "
Do you get oranges at half time and the ref telling you back on the pitch ?? |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
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This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong. |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?
Put it this way I can't stand it if a guy only lasts 5-10 min!
I love to tease whilst fucking and lots of othee things, fucking isn't just fucking I'm my world."
This I definitely agree with. It's the quality of it all xx |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I prefer the licky / sucky stuff to real sex and I do get bored if a guy bangs away for ages - I tend to let it happen for a few minutes then push them away and say 'my turn' and return to sucking them |
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I think a lot of guys are telling porkies here haha
If there is a connection during the foreplay I find that five min max is enough before the female partner is having an orgasm
Sometimes I find it hard not to cum early, other times I can hold out until they come and on rare occasions I can't cum, not due to my partner at the time not turning me on or anything, I'm not to sure of the reason |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"
Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point... |
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Depends on time of day, stress levels, alcohol intake.
Anything from 5 to 15 minutes to a good 30 to 40 minutes although have been known to go for an hour or so without cumming and then just decided to stop and go to sleep. As someone else said that doesn't mean an hour of the same thing! |
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It depends on the situation, and what the expectations of the situation are.
One memorable session in a Swansea hotel with a gorgeous lady from Pembrokeshire (Hakin...???), who I lost touch with a few years ago sadly, was spread over 24 hours and I'd LOVE to one day find her again... I remember cumming around four times, but there was a lot of pleasuring each other in every possible way too...and we went out to get something to eat at some point as well...lol.
We spent the night at a lovely hotel near Cardigan as our first night together, and from memory we didn't get much in the way of sleep that night either
And there was also a memorable evening on a cliff top near Newgale... Oh the wonderful memories...
'Nina' - SB where are you...? |
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Love the honesty shown here..... Well done all......
With me depends how into my pattner I am and how fresh I feel....
4- 5 mins...... If ok.... If she,s really got be going a lot quicker....
But with a little chill raring to go again.....but a little more sedate.. |
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(Mr) : As part of a longer session (a lot happens before penetration!) about 30-60 mins, but with lots of variation of positions and variations of slow/fast etc.
Never been able to come quickly - especially with a condom - and met with a range of responses from the partners, but luckily not too many complaints!
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"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here! 
Don't tell me a 3 day event
Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! ! as long as its the old style with long road and tracks , then a good steeple chasse"
Absolutely, a proper test of fitness training and endurance! |
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It varies depending on how horny I am and how much foreplay we've had.
If we have had a really good foreplay session perhaps a couple of hours or more, and if I have been hard throughout, then I tend to last longer than if we get down to the penetration after 15 minutes.
Either way it's never longer than 10 minutes to be honest. |
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"Oh my word, I always want a LOT more than most people are suggesting here!
Don't tell me a 3 day event
Hahaha oh yes, that is my sport of choice! ! as long as its the old style with long road and tracks , then a good steeple chasse
nice to have a good stayer x
Absolutely, a proper test of fitness training and endurance! "
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By *osforthMan
over a year ago
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I have a problem in this department. It gets more & more difficult for me to cum at all during penetration these days. Usually have to be wanked or sucked to completion. Think it's a consequence of getting older & less sensitive. On 2 meets in the last 18 months just had to give up, still both had fun just no happy ending for me.  |
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By *LCC OP Couple
over a year ago
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?
Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point..."
I never said it was linear, or an end point, I said the "penetrative part of your play time" |
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By *LCC OP Couple
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong."
So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour? |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"
I'm quoting the OP because I can't quite believe some of the reponses on this thread. The OP asks, once the cock is in... how long do you last. There seems to be a lot of people here talking about 2-5 minutes. Some more people, like myself, quoting about 15-30 minutes. And a few saying 1-3 hours.
Are we all talking about he same thing in different ways? Or are we biologically different? This is so weird I wanted to make it clear...
1) A total make out session can run to hours.. but that's not hours of constant penetrative sex... it involves a lot of foreplay. Are the guys who think they can fuck constantly for an hour or more misreading the question as asking how long they can last during an entire make out session, rather than how long once penetrative sex begins?
2) Once the cock goes in and its a green light then it really doesn't take much time at all... seconds sometimes... depending on how turned on when you decide it's all go. It might be 30 seconds to maybe 3 mins max.
But if the green light isn't there from my partner I'll go for a couple of minutes and withdraw, go, withdraw, and so on... until I get the green light. Sometimes I don't need to withdraw and we just slow down instead. But, in essence, this is what I'd call the penetrative part of our play time. This part can last about 15-30 mins, although we're obviously not watching the clock as others have mentioned.
So the question here is... are the shorties just not waiting for the green light? Or are there no such thing as red or green lights for them? Or are they incapable of waiting for any green lights?
I don't want people to make the mistake of assuming that a good shag is a long shag... sometimes it isn't. So I'm not trying to make anyone feel inadequate. It just seems like a really odd distinction between people that I haven't come across before and I'm trying to figure out if it's just blokes getting crossed wires or if there are real biological differences at play here. V curious |
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"I have a problem in this department. It gets more & more difficult for me to cum at all during penetration these days. Usually have to be wanked or sucked to completion. Think it's a consequence of getting older & less sensitive. On 2 meets in the last 18 months just had to give up, still both had fun just no happy ending for me. "
I'm a similar age, and this is also my experience. Some of the most satisfying I've had sex has been without me cumming at all. |
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There's huge variation. The other night I was so horny after fucking C with her vibe and making her cum that I came pretty much as soon as I entered her. On the oppisite end the scale, she's been known to ride herself to complete exhaustion cumming 3 or 4 times and ive still not been done. |
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So frustrating if a guy only lasts 10 minutes! I'm just getting started by then! Not bothered if he repeats as my build up will have subsided by then.
This is one of the biggest reasons I refuse repeat meets with some guys. |
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?
Dunno, we don't normally do it in such a linear way with fucking being some kind of end point...
I never said it was linear, or an end point, I said the "penetrative part of your play time" "
Penetration to orgasm doesn't always happen is my point, vaginal penetration by a penis isn't always the point... |
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"I got circumsized 2 years ago and find it extremely herd to cum during penetration. So I can last for hours "
That can make you less sensitive my foreskin is always back so im not as sensitive as i prob should be xx But sex is more than just the penetration if i have plenty of foreplay and get really horny that does help xxx |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.
So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?"
Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long. |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.
So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?
Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long. "
Ideal woman and I love foreplay |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong."
me too |
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Nothing better than an afternoon or all evening session - mixing it up plus a few vino's or fizz!
Teasing and tantalisation, the build up is so important- mental stimulation followed by physical ecstasy ??
Obviously it includes all aspects plus some relaxation and massage!
The next day I certainly know about it - sometimes feels like I've been ran over by a bus but hey it's worth it!!
Likewise when a quickie is required, sensual massage to the right areas and penetration - ten minute wonder!
Funnily enough, more is always required mmmm |
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I can do tantric and hold an orgasm but only with people who appreciate it. Only problem once you hold it too much your never going to ejaculate that night but we are not talking hours of pounding away 10 - 15 mins then stop for more foreplay then more penetrative sex |
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"I prefer the licky / sucky stuff to real sex and I do get bored if a guy bangs away for ages - I tend to let it happen for a few minutes then push them away and say 'my turn' and return to sucking them "
Me too....prefer repeaters to stayers. |
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I (Mrs) take forever to climax so I think that puts pressure on my lover at the time to last longer. I'd be disappointed with any less than 10 minutes but I love the time between sessions where you can enjoy taking time with kissing and foreplay. I also have to admit to loving making a man go over the edge when he doesn't want to cum yet - love the power! |
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"Dear lord I won't thank you for hours fucking - mind & body would be numb.
Hours of varied play, touching, kissing & fucking hell yes - I'd share that any day.
This...and if either of us are clock watching we're doing it wrong.
So you lose all track of time and wouldn't know if it was 2 minutes or an hour?
Obviously I have some sense of time, but the distinction of whether something is 10 or 15 minutes, wouldn't have a clue. I have been thinking about it and I've got no idea at all what my average or ideal length of penetrative sex would be. Probably towards the lower end of people's estimates because I enjoy the foreplay and build up so much it doesn't need to last long. "
Well said, same for me too.
I've had penetrative sex which has lasted no time at all because of the build up of excitement from extended foreplay ~ at it was mind blowing |
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For me it's not sex that i have a problem lasting its oral. I really have to concentrate particularly with my fb. Penetrative sex however can last anywhere between 30 mins to an hour. Unless a quickly has been organised but generally like to go 3 times on a meet |
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over a year ago
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"So when you get to the penetrative part of your play time, how long on average do guys last? And ladies (and male receivers) how long do you want them to last?"
We don't understand the question.
With us our play is not sectioned off into individual parts.
We could be having penetrative sex then change to non penetrative then change again as the mood takes us
It depends on the partner and the mood |
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Really hard to answer.
Like had been said above we vary it up. Also depends on what else we are doing at the same time as penetration.
We could be doggy style and banging away. Or she could be ontop licking my nipples as she slowly works her pussy up and down with some sexy kissing mixed in.
All varies each time. |
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Too long....I'm far to in control of my orgasms, I'd love one to just sneak up on me after 5 minutes fucking, completely grip me unexpectedly...lasting has its pros and cons, the main con is the dreaded 'wandering mind'......did I leave the oven on...... |
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