I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us "
We've been to house parties and club parties.
We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.
If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!
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"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us
We've been to house parties and club parties.
We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.
If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!
A"
This was one time that has totally put me off. He knew the couple and so we went, even though they were not really my thing and clearly did not want me there. I was very pressured, physically, by the fem to perform, just because I am bi. I did not indulge and to be honest it has totally put me off. Sadly, I ended up having a big go at one of the other guests who accused me of being a prostitute. Then spent the journey home and the rest of the night vomiting and physically sick with the disgust of it all. I am nothing if not extreme.
Agreed, at club parties, we never feel pressure and I am not the type of person to feel pressure in any social situation just because of my job and career experiences (not prostitution I may add). I can hold my own, but what unnerved me was the total disrespect of physical space and boundaries, by a woman.
But even last week, we had the opportunity to meet a couple at theirs and I said no because I could not face such a situation again .... horrible, horrible experience. We trust our instincts now .... |
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We have never been to a house party but do like clubs mainly because we don't know anyone and therefore there is no expectation on anyone.....I think if you have accepted a house party invite there might be an expectation but, as I say, never been to one so just a view. |
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"We have never been to a house party but do like clubs mainly because we don't know anyone and therefore there is no expectation on anyone.....I think if you have accepted a house party invite there might be an expectation but, as I say, never been to one so just a view."
The ones we went to there was no expectation, just like any other party, but with people having sex if they choose to.
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"I am not keen on the house ones to be honest (her) as I feel there is pressure and not sure if I will like the people. I like the larger ones at a venue where we met old friends, but dont really play at them very often. More of a social thing for us
We've been to house parties and club parties.
We don't feel pressured at either because we adopt the same approach - there's never an expectancy to play. They are a great way to meet others, often as much a social event as play, and give you a chance to meet a lot of people at once.
If we were ever invited to a party where it was clear sex would be expected? We'd say thanks but no thanks!
A"
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