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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have been going to swingers club with a friend for 6 months now but im still very shy, it doesnt bother me when he plays with other ladies but im so shy i cant .. just wish i could get over shyness, any ideas |
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"i have been going to swingers club with a friend for 6 months now but im still very shy, it doesnt bother me when he plays with other ladies but im so shy i cant .. just wish i could get over shyness, any ideas"
Can't play with women or other guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just out of interest why would you go to a swingers club if you was to shy to play with anyone or be watched? don't mean that in a unhelpful way tho i know it is lol i just dont get it......when you say shy is it shyness or insecure? its not the same, im not shy at all but i am quite a insecure person and i find it hard to get naked in front of people because i dont like my body, but i'm ok once i have gotten to know people, im ok talking just takes me a bit of time to move to the next stage sometimes maybe if you chat to people and get to know them a little? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just guys been chatting too...."
Would you be better in a diferent setting do you think?
Is it because you feel pressure in a club and thats what puts you off?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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no i like to be watched and im quite happy with my body, i first went to a club just to please my friend and out of curiosity, dont get me wrong i like to go, i just w3ish i could get over the shyness.. if that is what it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i like to be watched but am too shy to be touched... had boobs touched this week and i was fine but cant do anything else.. maybe its not shyness maybe its not confident enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you don't want to be touched and watched. Maybe you like the freeness the club gives but can't make that final push to do something. So only advice I would give is to be 100% sure it's what u want before doing anything. Hope it all works out for you. |
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