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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I assume your parents barebacked, at least once  |
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who the hell do you think you are ....look after your own sexual health and we will look after ours ...whether we bearback or not is none of your business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enjoy barebacking everyone, share the goodness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nice to see the barebackers outing themselves, well done to anyone who has the sense to play safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How exactly are you going to not leave them alone? What do you think your going to achieve? All your doing by putting threads up like this and essentially slagging people off is risking getting avoid like the plague put against your name on the personal notes of a fair number of people I would imagine. Including some who share your view against barebacking. Your right to have an opinion on this or any other matter but there are better ways of going about putting it across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be willing to bet if on a meet a woman just straddled the op and slid it in he wouldn't be saying "oh no wait let me get a condom" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What do you think your going to achieve? "
It's a good old "look at me I'm so different from those other single guys please fuck me" thread :p |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
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I get asked to do bareback all the time and have to say no which is annoying as I have loved it in the past.
But if it's your thing then so be it  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
So abuse and sweeping generalisation is ok in the forums now?
Times have changed... |
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" ...whether we bearback or not is none of your business "
I tried bearback once. It was great, until the bear realised what I was up to and tried to to my face off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
Oh great. Someone who knows everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" ...whether we bearback or not is none of your business
I tried bearback once. It was great, until the bear realised what I was up to and tried to to my face off. "
Thats hilarious  |
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"Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
Can you spot any inconsistencies in your post? |
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It always amuses me how promiscuous people, indulging in high risk sexual activities with strangers saddle up and mount their high horse because others take more risks than them.
It's akin to F1 drivers slagging off motorbike speedway drivers for going too fast just because their cars offer marginal more protection than a bike! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another local added to the block list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi and would love to have unprotected sex especially when they are near climax, there is nothing more horny than leaving me with cum dripping out of me.
On the woman scene, I personally don't like to have BB sex as your relying on the female to have taken contraception, and with absolute no disrespect to the females in here, some cannot be trusted. Just my assurance.
Intriguing to hear thoughts of others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What do you think your going to achieve?
It's a good old "look at me I'm so different from those other single guys please fuck me" thread :p"
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"I'm bi and would love to have unprotected sex especially when they are near climax, there is nothing more horny than leaving me with cum dripping out of me.
On the woman scene, I personally don't like to have BB sex as your relying on the female to have taken contraception, and with absolute no disrespect to the females in here, some cannot be trusted. Just my assurance.
Intriguing to hear thoughts of others."
It's always a good idea for men to take responsibility for contraception too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What do you think your going to achieve?
It's a good old "look at me I'm so different from those other single guys please fuck me" thread :p
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here here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice to see the barebackers outing themselves, well done to anyone who has the sense to play safe "
There really is no problem... We all take risks.... The op is almost like saying if you play safe your better... You can still catch things using condoms. Cross contamination is a huge risk in swinging but many do it.
Also do you really think that all those people that say safe sex only really do.... ???
We take care of our own sexual health |
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It might be a look at me thread but it's defeated the object if it was hoping to achieve any good results.
Banging on about safe sex then saying he has unprotected oral has surely not shown him in a good or informed light. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view is quite simple. Using condoms is not safe sex, it is safer sex. Given that STIs are transmitted orally as well as vaginally / anally I would hope that every fab member visits their local GUM clinic irrespective of whether they are barebackers or condom users.
Personally, i fit in with whoever i am with. Sometimes bareback, sometimes condoms but always regularly tested. |
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"My view is quite simple. Using condoms is not safe sex, it is safer sex. Given that STIs are transmitted orally as well as vaginally / anally I would hope that every fab member visits their local GUM clinic irrespective of whether they are barebackers or condom users.
Personally, i fit in with whoever i am with. Sometimes bareback, sometimes condoms but always regularly tested."
I think that you probably represent the views of quote a few people here. I think your attitude is entirely sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Barebackers have made an informed decision based on the risks of contracting STIs. It is not an indication of lack of intelligence or them having suffered a lobotomy. So please do not insult them; it is their right to do what they wish.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to be a dick or anything, but just so you know it's "hear hear" not "here here" |
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"live and let live"
For a site that supports what most people would consider at best alternative or maybe just plain wrong there sure are a lot of judgmental people!
If it's. Not for you just move along. Everyone here does things and takes risks many would consider unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bloody hell bareback more common than i thought, i have been asked to ditch the condom and wont. Its not about moral high ground either, i just wish people would think |
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"Bloody hell bareback more common than i thought, i have been asked to ditch the condom and wont. Its not about moral high ground either, i just wish people would think "
You do know that sexually transmitted diseases are trasmissable orally don't you? |
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"I assume your parents barebacked, at least once "
Maybe he was a leak? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am guessing a fair few on this thread have used the block button on a few others.....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am guessing a fair few on this thread have used the block button on a few others.....!"
I like to randomly block and unblock forum members to see if a ranty thread or snide comment pops up followed later by bewilderment that they're not blocked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell bareback more common than i thought, i have been asked to ditch the condom and wont. Its not about moral high ground either, i just wish people would think "
I've not said we do... I'm.Just saying that I'm not stupid enough to believe all those that tell me they play safe actually do. If you read some profiles that state bareback only... You can see plenty of safe sex only comments on those they have met... Yet the verifications say otherwise x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
Frankly who cares what your opinion is.
We certainly don't. It is not your opinion that repulses us it is the way you insist on stating it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
So how do you know these "chicks" haven't been doing bareback......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how do you know these "chicks" haven't been doing bareback...... "
They said so, and that's good enough for him. He's super safe and everything. |
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love it , the open air ,hills , scenic views . oh barebacking , thought its was a forum about backpacking  |
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IF there was 100% world wide agrement to hold to 100% condom only sex for a year -for just one specific month ffsk - it would solve 99% of sexual health problems and go a good way to reducing a bulging population - Dream on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me how promiscuous people, indulging in high risk sexual activities with strangers saddle up and mount their high horse because others take more risks than them.
It's akin to F1 drivers slagging off motorbike speedway drivers for going too fast just because their cars offer marginal more protection than a bike! "
What a brilliant way to describe it
This post has certainly not had the desired effect for the op , any more than a post from anyone telling everyone what they should or shouldn't be doing in their life .
I love the way the op is suggesting that anyone not giving him the thumbs up plays bare and thus he blocks them !
From our experience , the educated amongst us swingers take responsibility for our own sexual health . Regular checks , and the assumption that everyone we play with has played bare .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How does anyone ACTUALLY know who's having bb sex??
You don't, no one does....look after yourself and don't worry about others...
Attitude like yours, you may as well not even bother to be on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me how promiscuous people, indulging in high risk sexual activities with strangers saddle up and mount their high horse because others take more risks than them.
It's akin to F1 drivers slagging off motorbike speedway drivers for going too fast just because their cars offer marginal more protection than a bike!
What a brilliant way to describe it .
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But F1 cars are fantastically safe in a crash they cope better with 100+mph impacts than "safe" road cars do at 50mph |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
Translated into English:
"I can't get laid and am hoping if I put a post saying how safe I am some desperate bird will message me and I can finally get my rocks off. For the love of God somebody just touch it!"
You're welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not against bareback its anybodys choice, quite rude the way the op has put it
I'm just against it done to me.As a single woman I look after myself as nobody else is going to, I mention no bareback as I enter a room, I check all the time even supply the durex when they only brought one . I've had accasional men go soft when put durex on blame that, I still won't budge on the matter and they do get hard again as I stick to what I want . If the rare accasion they cant get hard wearing durex then its no penetration or game over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me how promiscuous people, indulging in high risk sexual activities with strangers saddle up and mount their high horse because others take more risks than them.
It's akin to F1 drivers slagging off motorbike speedway drivers for going too fast just because their cars offer marginal more protection than a bike!
What a brilliant way to describe it .
But F1 cars are fantastically safe in a crash they cope better with 100+mph impacts than "safe" road cars do at 50mph"
That's really good to know , so if we ever entertain bareback , we will certainly make sure it's in a F1 car |
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"who the hell do you think you are ....look after your own sexual health and we will look after ours ...whether we bearback or not is none of your business "
well put |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another local added to the block list "
your profile says safe sex only? Can only |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think there are people on here who practice safe sex but are slagging my forum because they are brown nosing their friends on here who dont agree with me, i dont see bareback mentioned on those profiles that are so unhappy that i dare to mention the FACT that barebacking is dangerous in a swingers world |
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It says it all over our profile! Oh, and good luck with not meeting anyone lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh love, go and get some breakfast, we all see what your saying but telling people what they should and shouldn't be doing is never greeted with open arms. Concentrate on you and the people you want to play with.
Even else will do whatever they want anyway....... It's honestly not worth bursting a blood vessel over xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there are people on here who practice safe sex but are slagging my forum because they are brown nosing their friends on here who dont agree with me, i dont see bareback mentioned on those profiles that are so unhappy that i dare to mention the FACT that barebacking is dangerous in a swingers world "
Having sex with multiple partners is a risk. The fact is unless you do everything safe.. ie wash your hands in between playing. Use dental dams your still taking risks |
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Im betting the op has over the years had d*unken lads nights out and "pulled" and in the heat of the d*unken frenzy "forgotten " to pull on a raincoat, as always me thinks the op doth protest too loudly .worry about you self and stop insulting others noone likes the im better tjan you approach |
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"I think there are people on here who practice safe sex but are slagging my forum because they are brown nosing their friends on here who dont agree with me, i dont see bareback mentioned on those profiles that are so unhappy that i dare to mention the FACT that barebacking is dangerous in a swingers world "
If you are that worried about people barebacking why are you on here? Although I suspect you just like to cause trouble. People are entitled to have opinions. You are just being obnoxious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would like to know how you can be sure for one, if the person/ persons you meet have never indulged in Bareback, even if it's on their profile it says safe sex only, can you really believe it's true
Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nothin is safe 100% my point is it not actually dangerous to be swinging bareback iunderstand choice etc. Not here to cause trouble, i mean how would everyone feel if they found out there was a drug user with hiv or hep B on here, u wouldnt shag them with a rubber let alone without one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so bareback group annoyed people making comments in their thread, so here isour own, i am not expecting them to stay out and not comment but personally i will ignore any posts in her, i cant believe people are barebackng there certainly must be a crossover to non barebackers being at risk somewhere as i am sure there will be swingers who dabble in both scenes, so no i wont just leave them alone, theyre idiots who have no brain or maybe infact already hiding something and have nothing to loose. I certainly wouldnt want to be going down on a chick who has been barebacking and lets face it who uses dental dams? "
What a stupid post
How the hell do you know who barebacks and who dont?
If you only go down on women who never bareback your never going down on a woman because you have no idea who's been doing what when your not there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't be bothered to read all of this. However as adults we are all responsible for our own safety . If I was meeting and playing with people then safe sex would be non negotiable. If I was in a relationship with someone I trusted then different methods would be used. What other people get up to is not my concern and really should it be anyone else's?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume your parents barebacked, at least once "
judging from his rant, I am not so sure! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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