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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So we were at Eurekas the weekend, he takes me off to the "playing" field. the thing is as soon as we were up and on our way, we were like the pied piper. Single men trailing behind. I get that some may let them join in, but not us. We like to get to know somebody first and the state of most of these guys, looks like they need a good wash. Furtively hiding in bushes etc. it's very off putting for the task in hand. I/we like being watched, but as they creep up cock in hand is, dare I say it, pervy!

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lack of social skills.....ignorance....I imagine it must be annoying to have been followed.

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By *wned EmCouple over a year ago

nuneaton

How are they supposed to know? If you are playing out in the open they will want to see and join in if possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you stop whilst playing. Wave them away, tell them they are too close. Power of speech, gives it away. Especially if you get up and move!

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By *wned EmCouple over a year ago

nuneaton

Don't understand people going to a place like that that attracts lots of single guys and complaining when they want to see and join in. If you just want to put a show on why not go on cams?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't understand people going to a place like that that attracts lots of single guys and complaining when they want to see and join in. If you just want to put a show on why not go on cams?"

Some people like to be exhibitionist, why should they hide behind a camera because single guys have no respect or sense of decency!?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we were at Eurekas the weekend, he takes me off to the "playing" field. the thing is as soon as we were up and on our way, we were like the pied piper. Single men trailing behind. I get that some may let them join in, but not us. We like to get to know somebody first and the state of most of these guys, looks like they need a good wash. Furtively hiding in bushes etc. it's very off putting for the task in hand. I/we like being watched, but as they creep up cock in hand is, dare I say it, pervy!

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

Find it a bit weird that they had their cocks in hand. Do you get people who just sit and wait in the playing field as you put it, and wait to see who shows up? I think if I ever do go to a club I'll be sticking to private rooms, should I get lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Typical of a single bloke at Eurekas is, chain smoking, worn out trainers and constant cock in hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't understand people going to a place like that that attracts lots of single guys and complaining when they want to see and join in. If you just want to put a show on why not go on cams?"

Can you sit in the sun naked and use the swimming pool at cams? Where is it?

The reason we go there is for the sun bathing naked and the fact that if the mood takes you then you can toddle off to the other field for a little "fun"

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By *arty LoversCouple over a year ago

kent

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

We know where your coming from. We had grubby old lorry drivers coming over. But a polite 'not to close please' would suffice, well one hopes.

We love to put on a show. But in a place like that, We'd like to think they stand back as far back from (cum) shooting distance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

if any of you guys are reading pls note some of us just want to enjoy being naked outside and having fun in the sun and do not want your attention, so do try to be more respectfull to cples next time your there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't understand people going to a place like that that attracts lots of single guys and complaining when they want to see and join in. If you just want to put a show on why not go on cams?"

Also if you mean Chameleons, it's a bit of a drive for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

Hubby waved them away, we stopped what we were doing and moved. Glad somebody feels the same as us. Was beginning to think we were the only ones.

We will give the further down a go.

Do you know if it's the same at the parties?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

Hubby waved them away, we stopped what we were doing and moved. Glad somebody feels the same as us. Was beginning to think we were the only ones.

We will give the further down a go.

Do you know if it's the same at the parties?"

not down the meadow too bloody cold at nite hee hee, at the partys you get a lot of guys but also loads of cples, one of the hot tubs is for cples only and they have a cples room where you can play without single males we like it there because you can play amongst others without a crowd of wankers,

just to add were not against being watched but we prefer to choose who watches and we don't like it when 10 or more all gather round us

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

Hubby waved them away, we stopped what we were doing and moved. Glad somebody feels the same as us. Was beginning to think we were the only ones.

We will give the further down a go.

Do you know if it's the same at the parties?

just to add were not against being watched but we prefer to choose who watches and we don't like it when 10 or more all gather round us "

We too are not adverse to being watched and the same as you we prefer to choose who.

I get a little in easy by the amount of them too. Even though my hubby is 6'3" and built like the proverbial. I don't want him kicking off. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I took a lady down to the lower field at Eureka's on Saturday to actually look at the view !!

The follower didnt know what to do when he got to the field and saw us looking at the countryside!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

Hubby waved them away, we stopped what we were doing and moved. Glad somebody feels the same as us. Was beginning to think we were the only ones.

We will give the further down a go.

Do you know if it's the same at the parties?

just to add were not against being watched but we prefer to choose who watches and we don't like it when 10 or more all gather round us

We too are not adverse to being watched and the same as you we prefer to choose who.

I get a little in easy by the amount of them too. Even though my hubby is 6'3" and built like the proverbial. I don't want him kicking off. Lol"

ha ha good old hubby im am well built too and that helps I normally use a harse stare that sends most of them packing , also weve found that when we have unwanted watchers weve turned the tables and stopped playing and stare at the guys then as if we can watch them wank , most tend to walk off im sure its because theyre not happy wanking infront of so many peeps and being the main show

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know the place as I've never been but would it be possible for them to have a field/ part of a field designated for couples only? Some clubs have couples only rooms and that works well. Maybe suggest it to the club?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know the place as I've never been but would it be possible for them to have a field/ part of a field designated for couples only? Some clubs have couples only rooms and that works well. Maybe suggest it to the club?"

this somethung we have thought about suggesting to mangement maybe make the lower half cples only or guys by invite only

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not every single guy behaves that way, when I went as a single I just used to socialise with friends at clubs and if I was asked to join in then I would.

I once went to a club with close friends and she asked why I didn't join in even though we had played together lots of times and my answer was you never asked me to come play.

Just because it's a place of fun, people should still remember their manners rather than expect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I So we were at Eurekas the weekend, he takes me off to the "playing" field. the thing is as soon as we were up and on our way, we were like the pied piper. Single men trailing behind. I get that some may let them join in, but not us. We like to get to know somebody first and the state of most of these guys, looks like they need a good wash. Furtively hiding in bushes etc. it's very off putting for the task in hand. I/we like being watched, but as they creep up cock in hand is, dare I say it, pervy!"

It was exactly the same for us a few weeks ago when we went there, (for the first time. What I find weird is the invasion of space which people wouldn't do normally and the seeming lack of social skills. The handful of guys who did get too close (cocks in hand) did move away when shoed away....you're right it is off-putting for the task at hand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How are they supposed to know? If you are playing out in the open they will want to see and join in if possible.

Think about it.

You wouldn't just walk up to a couple sitting at a table and sit right next to them would you?You'd ask if you could join or if the chair was free at the very least. The same principle applies.

A lot of these guys just are not very good at relating and the repressed sexual frustration/thought that it's somewhere they can get their rocks off because it is a sexually liberal environment just adds to the dysfunctional relating!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have talked about how to manage the 'single guys wanking' phenomena. Because it gets tiresome to be constantly managing them out of our personal space.

Talking to people normally does seem to be very uncomfortable for many of them. I think these guys just get very lost in their fantasy.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

Has anyone that's had a bad experience actually fed it back to the club?

Things don't change of their own accord.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have always found single men to be very respectful at Eurekas ! And they really do understand no means no ! Shame you had this experience x I have to admit that I like to watch and be watched from time to time so hope it wasn't me lurking in the bushes !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love Eureaka's during the day but the only time we went on a Saturday night many of the single men lived up to all the worst stereotypes. If we hhadn't been to other clubs we'd never have gone clubbing again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to watch and be watched from time to time so hope it wasn't me lurking in the bushes !!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Typical of a single bloke at Eurekas is, chain smoking, worn out trainers and constant cock in hand

Ohhh I'm a regular at eurekas and have never had a problem with single men !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"weve had a word with some of the regular ring leaders and told them to leave us alone, we now go down to the bottom of the field so you can see them approaching and wave them away,

they seem to think they have a given right to approach as they think were all here for their pleasure only and we have to accept them,

Hubby waved them away, we stopped what we were doing and moved. Glad somebody feels the same as us. Was beginning to think we were the only ones.

We will give the further down a go.

Do you know if it's the same at the parties?"

It really isn't x 99% of the single guys are respectful and don't bother you ! If there is an issue the staff would be on their case immediately xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They have a couples room

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I took a lady down to the lower field at Eureka's on Saturday to actually look at the view !!

The follower didnt know what to do when he got to the field and saw us looking at the countryside!

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By *urekaPartiesCouple over a year ago

FAWKHAM

Hi guys as you know we are open to both couples and singles at all times.

Again an issue has come to light after the event has happened when it could've been sorted on the day.

Please in future if you feel intimidated pressured or uncomfortable in any way please speak to us so the issue can be addressed immediately.

We have a great team on hand at all times so feel free to come to any of us at any time.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Pirate Dave that was funny.

Don't get me wrong, NOT all single men are the same and we appreciate that most are probably decent.

But Sassy I don't know when you have been, but to say the single men down the field are if anything a little over exuberant, is an understatement.

A couples section is perhaps a good idea. Don't think you would need single men by invite as if you want them they are there.

Is just so off putting.... X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They have a couples room

maybe you don't go down the meadow in the daytime , everytime we go down there we end up with a crowd of guys around us, yes you say ask them to leave and yes they do but when you look up again there is more of them and again ask them to leave and they do look up again and there are more , see the pattern you cant enjoy yourself when your constantly looking out for others

yes they do have a cples room but its not open for play in the daytime

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By *untimetonks69Couple over a year ago

IRVING

Reading all that has put me off going

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By *r Man.Man over a year ago

London

Regarding your post, I as a single man and i find it embarrassing watching theses guys cock in hand following the piper.

So much so, that I would like to attend some events/spas, but I feel uncomfortable with some of the action of single guys, that I don't feel comfortable been associated with them. Saying that, some couple/lady's like that attention, so I can't win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not every single guy behaves that way, when I went as a single I just used to socialise with friends at clubs and if I was asked to join in then I would.

I once went to a club with close friends and she asked why I didn't join in even though we had played together lots of times and my answer was you never asked me to come play.

Just because it's a place of fun, people should still remember their manners rather than expect."

have been a few times with my ELF, an old friend, her daughter and her daughters mate. The few times that I've played with my Elf even the closed door did not stop them pushing it open, now we only play in lockable rooms. Its the only place that we can get together and want some us time. lets hope that when we talk a walk to the lower field that we can have some us time....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Reading all that has put me off going"

hi , pls don't stop going as it is a beautiful place to chill out and have fun, its only down the lower meadow that gets a bit too much sometimes, no probs in the top field and around the pool ect and it is just a few that push the boundrys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have talked about how to manage the 'single guys wanking' phenomena. Because it gets tiresome to be constantly managing them out of our personal space.

Talking to people normally does seem to be very uncomfortable for many of them. I think these guys just get very lost in their fantasy. "

Take a good airsoft pistol, if the laser dot on their todger doesn't warn them the 350fps bb to the bollock will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not every single guy behaves that way, when I went as a single I just used to socialise with friends at clubs and if I was asked to join in then I would.

I once went to a club with close friends and she asked why I didn't join in even though we had played together lots of times and my answer was you never asked me to come play.

Just because it's a place of fun, people should still remember their manners rather than expect.

Elf?

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By *rGenuineMan over a year ago

Purley

To be fair Eurekas is so clicky a lot of single men don't stand a chance anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have talked about how to manage the 'single guys wanking' phenomena. Because it gets tiresome to be constantly managing them out of our personal space.

Talking to people normally does seem to be very uncomfortable for many of them. I think these guys just get very lost in their fantasy.

Take a good airsoft pistol, if the laser dot on their todger doesn't warn them the 350fps bb to the bollock will"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair Eurekas is so clicky a lot of single men don't stand a chance anyway.

we don't find it clique but some regulars are friendly with other regulars and do like to chill with each other, we don't have any trouble having a chat and mixing with others there,

maybe ours is a cples view

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We have talked about how to manage the 'single guys wanking' phenomena. Because it gets tiresome to be constantly managing them out of our personal space.

Talking to people normally does seem to be very uncomfortable for many of them. I think these guys just get very lost in their fantasy.

Take a good airsoft pistol, if the laser dot on their todger doesn't warn them the 350fps bb to the bollock will"

You don't know how funny that is. Some Sunday's they have BDSM do's. A couple of weeks ago a fella was shooting his wife with an airs oft gun! Was so funny watching her dance about in pain......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We have had no other problems at Eureka, we love it there.

Any body reading this please don't be put off, we are going to try our first party at Eurekas soon too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have had no other problems at Eureka, we love it there.

Any body reading this please don't be put off, we are going to try our first party at Eurekas soon too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go to eureka 27 this month first time and I know what I cnt do thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a great place to go and chill out, or have some kinky fun, love it!

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By *eviantExplorerWoman over a year ago

northampton

Don't be put off going! I went during the day time on my own for the first time! I had a fabulous massage, met some lovely people & even played! It was quite quiet but I felt very safe & had a great time! Id definitely visit again!!! X

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By *lim_jim1964Man over a year ago

peterborough

I have been going to Eureka on and off for about 25 years now and have seen lots of changes mostly for the better especially in the facilities. I must admit on my last visit I noticed a significant change in the behavior of both singles and some of the couple so I am giving it a rest for a while, I must agree some couples have got very cliquey and some of the guys look and behave like pack animals. I am sure it will balance itself out in time with good sense and good manners prevailing G

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have had no other problems at Eureka, we love it there.

Any body reading this please don't be put off, we are going to try our first party at Eurekas soon too.

Agree with you whole heartedly x I love it there too

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan over a year ago

Sussex

"Hi guys as you know we are open to both couples and singles at all times.

Again an issue has come to light after the event has happened when it could've been sorted on the day.

Please in future if you feel intimidated pressured or uncomfortable in any way

please speak to us so the issue can be addressed immediately.

We have a great team on hand at all times so feel free to come to any of us at any time.

Thanks "

How about this: If a couple or party want to be watched perhaps they could pick up a coloured coded disc or flag. Green says watch from a distance etc. If the club staff roaming the grounds and see people are getting too close then let them issue warnings and bans.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair Eurekas is so clicky a lot of single men don't stand a chance anyway.

We don't find that at all. We have met some very nice men and couples every time we visit.

Within the main clubhouse the staff are extremely good at monitoring any problems, but there are do many other places to go and they would need a staff of over a 100 to be everywhere.

If you gave an issue, let the staff know and I am sure they will deal with it, but they can't resolve issues after the event.

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By *cd and scruffCouple over a year ago

Rochester

we have found some guys to be like this. not just at eurekas but all clubs. only we have no problem with guys joining in if they ask. the number of times a guy has grabbed himself a handful and i have taken his hand away and said 'we like people to ask first'. the guy will then stand there wanking and will not ask, so doesn't get to play. even the guys stood around watching will not take the hint and ask and we end up with loads of watchers and no one playing

but we do not like too many watchers, it always goes through my head that when we finish they will all hold up scorecards like come dancing or skijumping.

so with all the different preferences the single guys have a hard job of it knowing what to do, and we are back to the asking again

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By *urreyfun2008Man over a year ago

East Grinstead

Single guy of occasional Eureka frequenting...

Cannot say I've noticed the scruffy trainer effect, but on some nights there is a bit of a pack effect as areas get busy/quiet depending on who is playing.

I tend to spend my time in the pool, hot tub, steam room with breaks sat outside.

Breaking the ice to chat with couples is always the difficult one and this is much more so when it seems the couples know each other so well. Party nights once the music gets going can be fun in terms of its different clubbing naked or in sexy clothes.

Would have gone down this week to chill and read a book in the sun if it were not for scruffy heals due to a big blister.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

Yes would chat and ask first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a problem with single guys up there. And tbf there is a fair amount of single women too even it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never had a problem with single guys up there. And tbf there is a fair amount of single women too even it out

The single men far out way the women and we have yet to see women following a couple round like a hungry pack of wolves pussy in hand!

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By *oachman 9CoolMan over a year ago

derby

"We have talked about how to manage the 'single guys wanking' phenomena. Because it gets tiresome to be constantly managing them out of our personal space.

Talking to people normally does seem to be very uncomfortable for many of them. I think these guys just get very lost in their fantasy.

Take a good airsoft pistol, if the laser dot on their todger doesn't warn them the 350fps bb to the bollock will"
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive been to Eureka twice - once friday and once saturday. Never again. It was shite both times.

Its not for single men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We tried a daytime visit on Thursday and after chilling at the pool decided to venture down to the bottom meadow.

There were perhaps 10-15 men dotted around and we were 1 of 5 couples there.

All of the couples were playing at different times and, yes, the single men did tend to gravitate towards the couples who were playing.

There was only one who got a little too close but he didn't stay more than a minute or so before moving away again. I think he was trying his luck but as soon as he realised we weren't going to invite him to join he moved away again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

We had exactly the same thing happen to us in that club and now refuse to go there again. That was he 2nd time.

So now we go to Ourplace but something VERY odd happened last night. While having a nice chin-wag with two very nice people we met, some loud mouth nosey bitch interrupted the conversation and told us what we should be doing and talking about. seriously... she couldn't have been more rude if she'd tried.

The mrs had to hold me back from telling her to f-off and mind her our damn business!!

But going back to Eureka. The owners need to get a grip of what's going on and have have some sort of monitoring policeman.

No way, will we ever go back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?"

Sounds so obvious...

But then what could they get all uppity and bitch about....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yet another forum post designed to bitch about single guys....we are not all the same yet the minute one of these posts appears suddenly single guys are all arseholes and everyone has had a "bad experience"

All you have to do is open your mouth and say sorry guys no thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ifferent69Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

As single fella, I find dissapointing that other fellas behave this way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?"

Even better than that. Why not behave and stop following couples around;that way you'd stand a better chance of being invited to join in.

Following couples around just shows how desperate the person is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As single fella, I find dissapointing that other fellas behave this way."

Unfortunately they do and think people don't notice! We do and so would you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?

Even better than that. Why not behave and stop following couples around;that way you'd stand a better chance of being invited to join in.

Following couples around just shows how desperate the person is.

As long as they stay at a respectful distance they can follow whoever they like. They paid their (inflated) entrance fee so they should have fun same as anyone else. They might not want to join in.

I follow people round too. If I go to a club I want to watch people fuck. If they don't want to be watched, either don't go to a club or get a private room.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?

Even better than that. Why not behave and stop following couples around;that way you'd stand a better chance of being invited to join in.

Following couples around just shows how desperate the person is.

As long as they stay at a respectful distance they can follow whoever they like. They paid their (inflated) entrance fee so they should have fun same as anyone else. They might not want to join in.

I follow people round too. If I go to a club I want to watch people fuck. If they don't want to be watched, either don't go to a club or get a private room. "

and if all couples did that where would your £70-90 notes.

I can understand people wanting to get their monies worth but there's ways of going about!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?

Even better than that. Why not behave and stop following couples around;that way you'd stand a better chance of being invited to join in.

Following couples around just shows how desperate the person is.

As long as they stay at a respectful distance they can follow whoever they like. They paid their (inflated) entrance fee so they should have fun same as anyone else. They might not want to join in.

I follow people round too. If I go to a club I want to watch people fuck. If they don't want to be watched, either don't go to a club or get a private room.

and if all couples did that where would your £70-90 notes.

I can understand people wanting to get their monies worth but there's ways of going about!

I absolutely agree they shouldn't be wanking in people's faces. But there's no harm in wandering around and watching from a respectful distance. Even if there's 50 of them.

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By *etanreadyCouple over a year ago

dover

Do they not realise that whilst we were there to put on a bit of a show, this doesn't mean get so close you are nearly treading on me!

IF, you were (single man) wanted to join in you would be asked.

Sorry rant over...

We know where your coming from. We had grubby old lorry drivers coming over. But a polite 'not to close please' would suffice, well one hopes.

We love to put on a show. But in a place like that, We'd like to think they stand back as far back from (cum) shooting distance. "

just wondering how did you know they were lorry drivers, was there stacks of artics in the car park

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another forum post designed to bitch about single guys....we are not all the same yet the minute one of these posts appears suddenly single guys are all arseholes and everyone has had a "bad experience"

All you have to do is open your mouth and say sorry guys no thanks!!"

Tried that they still follow you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All you have to do is open your mouth and say sorry guys no thanks!!"

yes that works well for most guys, but when your having fun you don't want to be constantly stopping to marshall guys around that move too close, you tell one guy to move away and he does no probs, then you get back to what your doing look up again and theres another one or two or three,so you stop again to ask them to move away and they go, but this keeps repeating itself and it puts you off what your doing ,all we are asking is they keep their distance unless they get invited to move closer,

we like to invite one guy for a close view so we can watch him get his enjoyment too, but if guys see one guy with you they think its open house and more just turn up so it all stops and no one get satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?

Even better than that. Why not behave and stop following couples around;that way you'd stand a better chance of being invited to join in.

Following couples around just shows how desperate the person is.

As long as they stay at a respectful distance they can follow whoever they like. They paid their (inflated) entrance fee so they should have fun same as anyone else. They might not want to join in.

I follow people round too. If I go to a club I want to watch people fuck. If they don't want to be watched, either don't go to a club or get a private room. "

As posted above we found no problems in the lower meadow.

When in the club we either use the couples room or the private rooms with locks on the door.

Never had any big problem there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive been to Eureka twice - once friday and once saturday. Never again. It was shite both times.

Its not for single men."

as a single guy maybe your expecting sex on tap, that's not going to happen at any club unless your lucky,

next time you go to a club go to socialize and have fun not go for sex as its hard work for single guys , so you have to work at it,

visit more often and the regulars get to know you as a friendly face, just chat in general without pushing for sex then maybe things will open up for you , have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If single guys are such a problem.

Why don't you go to places that have couples only evenings !!?"

Because the bloody sun is not out! It's nice to sun bathe and have fun in the sun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

All you have to do is open your mouth and say sorry guys no thanks!!"

Read all of the posts. I think there is but one person who says there is no problem!

We have NOT vilified all single men, just the dirty trainer, cock in hand gang!

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

We have been going to Eureka for about 3 years now...

First off the price is the same for single guys and couples. Yes it's cheaper for single women as are many clubs.

We have only had a couple of minor problems with single guys. Yes sometimes there are a few, walking from room to room hoping for some action.

However it should be remembered that Eureka was started with the belief that no one is excluded...

We mainly play with single guys and will chat with pretty much anyone. We have made some good friends there, singles and couples.

Are there cliquey? One ore two but we avoid them as they are not our cup of tea...

Overall we love going there, we have fun, Frisky feels relaxed and safe. So please try the club and approach the friendly staff if you have any problems...

We have no connection with the club apart from being welcomed with open arms/legs...

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By *ieutenantMan over a year ago

london

Please be specific.not all single guys are indulge on this behaviour. Don't tarred decent bloke with the same brush.in fact this kind of behaviour is replicated in most swing club.that is why I hate club scene.hardly you see this kind of habit in a vetted house Party.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please be specific.not all single guys are indulge on this behaviour. Don't tarred decent bloke with the same brush.in fact this kind of behaviour is replicated in most swing club.that is why I hate club scene.hardly you see this kind of habit in a vetted house Party. "

You obviously haven't read all the posts my dear..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest, as a single guy - out of choice I might add. I'd probably only to be a voyeur in the club scene. Not that I've been to one. As it really doesn't sound like my kind of thing.

But from what I'm getting from your post is that, well, maybe the single guys just don't get what the rules might be. Maybe they've done exactly the same thing time and again, and had success. Well from their point of view.

To be fair, if you're playing in the open, you should expect to be watched, even by those you're not keen on.

Now to be honest, I know nothing about this Eureka's or how it's set up. And you've got to think that most guy's who turn up, probably have no idea how things work. They really are probably just following the crowed.

Are any rules mentioned on admission? If so then fair enough, but if not, then how do you expect anyone to know what's what?

It's all right for those who are in the 'scene', but what about those who are just getting into it? How they supposed to know what the rules of engagement are? Especially when everyone seems to be okay with different things. What's fine with one person, obviously isn't okay for another - but people aren't mind readers.

Anyway's, just my two pennies worth.

If I went to a club and asked some guy what's cooking, he could probably spin me a load of bull, and I could quite easily be labelled as one of those single guy's, when the reality was all I thought that I was doing was following etiquette.

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