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Beppy advice please ladies!
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Ok I've bought some but...
Can a guy tell with his fingers?
What if he has a big cock?!!
If I have short fingers will I struggle to get it out?!
Argh slight apprehension going on here!  "
I wouldn't advise using it for sex without telling the person to are with just in case. My husband can feel it with his fingers but after a few minutes of it being in he said it felt like me(ish) but he wasn't digging around or trying to make me squirt - just rubbing my clitoris and a little light fingers in action.
He couldn't feel it during sex and said if he were wearing a condom he wouldn't have had any chance. Mine did cause a tiny bit of spotting on his belly when he went in deep. That is why I suggest you tell the person you are with especially if he does a lot of fingers in playing.
Getting it out is tricky - I ended up having him pull it down a little by the loop and then I could grab it but I do know a lot of women can grab it their own selves - maybe have a trial run?
These are my own personal experiences and bear in mind other people may have found things very different to me but in my case it worked quite well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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practice before hand ,they didn't work for me at all but I have a lot of problems with monthlys ,had a little trouble getting them out the first time when I practiced.good luck |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Ok I've bought some but...
Can a guy tell with his fingers?
What if he has a big cock?!!
If I have short fingers will I struggle to get it out?!
Argh slight apprehension going on here! "
I have only used them with Mr B, I personally wouldn't feel comfortable using them with anyone else. In certain positions he said he can feel them slightly.
They are pretty good but I would recommend telling your play partner as they aren't always 100% effective.
I've had a couple of cases where I've panicked as I couldn't get the buggar back out for a while.  It's a bit easier if you squat down. |
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So...my two practices went well. Got it in ok and after a hour or two my body seemed to naturally push it out so my finger length wasn't an issue.
Told the guy, he was apprehensive going down on me and I couldn't relax but that was ok. He couldn't feel it during sex so all good there.
But the bigger got pushed too high so a nurse had to remove it. Great idea but won't be doing it again however gagging for it I am   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always managed to get them out no matter how High they got shoved lol..
Found a bath helped if it was really an issue... But then I managed to evict my coil several times so I guess a sponge was easy to get rid of.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used one once
Took several attempts all day long to get it out,I was beginning to panic and envisaged going off to A&E but luckily managed it myself whilst laying in the bath with the shower hose
The positive side was that it worked,I was at the tail end of a period though |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
I kind of like the idea of this and was thinking, well it gets lost, my bf can always 'fish it out' but then that kind of defeats the object of wearing it in the first place?
Then I was thinking, legs in stirrups, him with a head torch and speculum on a beppy mission actually sounds our kind of fun :p |
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Iv recently used something similar which are called Softcups. They are not spongy but do the same job. I told my partner at the time and he said he could just feel it but no discomfort and it was easy enough to pop out! |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"Iv recently used something similar which are called Softcups. They are not spongy but do the same job. I told my partner at the time and he said he could just feel it but no discomfort and it was easy enough to pop out!"
Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Iv recently used something similar which are called Softcups. They are not spongy but do the same job. I told my partner at the time and he said he could just feel it but no discomfort and it was easy enough to pop out!
Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different "
Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx |
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"Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different
Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx"
I looked at mooncups but thought they might do him an injury lol. I guess you may have Googled them but they are a firm ring with a clear film which catches the blood, the ones I got online are disposable but I believe they do have reusable ones. When I first opened them, my friend and I were a bit like wtf? How is that going in but it was ok and I never felt it! Hope you get on ok with them x |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Are they not the same as moon cups? Designed to hold back period blood until you squish it and then you wash and re insert? I didn't think they were designed for sex but just for periods..... Well you learn something new - moon cups are not supposed to be used for sex so they must be different
Woohoo I am going to try them..... Beppy is not perfect for me so maybe a soft cup will work better - thank you for telling me about them xx
I looked at mooncups but thought they might do him an injury lol. I guess you may have Googled them but they are a firm ring with a clear film which catches the blood, the ones I got online are disposable but I believe they do have reusable ones. When I first opened them, my friend and I were a bit like wtf? How is that going in but it was ok and I never felt it! Hope you get on ok with them x"
I had to google them - hoping they would be a softer version of a moon cup and they certainly do look it so I am goig to try them.....I am so pleased I wandered back to this thread - again thank you xxxxx |
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With the beppy get the wet not the dry as they are shaped differently and as well as being easier to insert are easier to grab hold of to retrieve.
All beppy tampons have a little hole in them that you can thread a piece of dental floss through (and tie) before using to use to pull them out again. Just tuck the thread inside and that's what you need to get hold of to remove.
If all else fails then waterlog it. Use a shower hose to get water to it and then the weight of the waterlogged sponge will make it drop. If you have to do this then keep some balance activ or some rephresh handy. |
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"With the beppy get the wet not the dry as they are shaped differently and as well as being easier to insert are easier to grab hold of to retrieve.
All beppy tampons have a little hole in them that you can thread a piece of dental floss through (and tie) before using to use to pull them out again. Just tuck the thread inside and that's what you need to get hold of to remove.
If all else fails then waterlog it. Use a shower hose to get water to it and then the weight of the waterlogged sponge will make it drop. If you have to do this then keep some balance activ or some rephresh handy."
spot on advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tried them once, first day of period, would not have been confident during heavier days. But could not get the fecker out! Hubby got it out easy tho! Neither guys could feel it during sex, would try it again, |
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"This sounds way too complicated "
Agreed!
I am SO glad Bradley doesn't have a problem fucking me when I'm on.
I've tried these Beppy things before and would sooner masturbate than go through the hassle for someone who insisted I wear one.
Trying to get it out took forever and left me sore and dried out (and using water up there isn't exactly great for your PH balance).
It was a long time ago with a different partner but with all the hassle, I was left feeling like the fuck wasn't worth it, lol. 
- Amy. x |
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