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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

After reading through lots of profiles (some of us do), the term 'Sugar Daddy' is used now and then. Maybe this is just me misinterpreting, but I've always took this to mean an older man being willing to spend money on a woman I'm return for an informal sexual relationship. Maybe other use the term differently and its the male equivalent of a 'cougar'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After reading through lots of profiles (some of us do), the term 'Sugar Daddy' is used now and then. Maybe this is just me misinterpreting, but I've always took this to mean an older man being willing to spend money on a woman I'm return for an informal sexual relationship. Maybe other use the term differently and its the male equivalent of a 'cougar'?"

Thats what a sugar daddy is my understanding too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah that's what I thought. For me that's an instant turn off. I wouldn't ever like to think someone was with me for financial reasons, but also isn't a likeable quality in the younger female IMO.

But each to their own and if both parties enjoy it, that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats what a sugar daddy is my understanding too"

After watching a recent episode of High Class Call Girls I understood Sugar Daddy to mean a man supports a woman financially but doesn't get any sexual satisfaction in return. The thrill of keeping the woman in a lifestyle seemed to be the only thing on offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow. What's the male equivalent and where do I sign up?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats what a sugar daddy is my understanding too

And if you believe that you will believe anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My understanding too. I get asked if I want paying on here because some women will only meet for money.

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"After watching a recent episode of High Class Call Girls I understood Sugar Daddy to mean a man supports a woman financially but doesn't get any sexual satisfaction in return. The thrill of keeping the woman in a lifestyle seemed to be the only thing on offer."

I am sure there must be some kind of sexual payoff guys wouldn't hand over cash to keep the girls in clothes, shoes, bags etc unless some kind of sex was involved?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me I look as sugar daddy as others say for bloke to spend money etc on a woman and on fab equates to getting a fuck in return aint this a twist on the woman effectively being a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me I look as sugar daddy as others say for bloke to spend money etc on a woman and on fab equates to getting a fuck in return aint this a twist on the woman effectively being a prostitute.

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yes and then some guys think we are all prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me I look as sugar daddy as others say for bloke to spend money etc on a woman and on fab equates to getting a fuck in return aint this a twist on the woman effectively being a prostitute.

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yes and then some guys think we are all prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah that's what I thought. For me that's an instant turn off. I wouldn't ever like to think someone was with me for financial reasons, but also isn't a likeable quality in the younger female IMO.

But each to their own and if both parties enjoy it, that's all that matters."

I personally don't find it a likable quality when someone refers to women as 'females'as you did above. It's rather dehumanizing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A girl i know went to an interview for a job as a P.A.

It turned out the job was a bit more personal than that! The boss offered her a flat,car,company credit card and mobile,etc. to basically be his personal whore!!!

I said..and you turned him down! lol! I would turn gay for that...lol!!!

BTW she is 21 and a stunner..he early 60's..obviously married.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah that's what I thought. For me that's an instant turn off. I wouldn't ever like to think someone was with me for financial reasons, but also isn't a likeable quality in the younger female IMO.

But each to their own and if both parties enjoy it, that's all that matters.

I personally don't find it a likable quality when someone refers to women as 'females'as you did above. It's rather dehumanizing."

I wasn't referring to women generally as 'female' in what you seem to have taken as a derogatory description, but an example of a couple having this arrangement and using the term 'female' to be specific about which party I am referring to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah that's what I thought. For me that's an instant turn off. I wouldn't ever like to think someone was with me for financial reasons, but also isn't a likeable quality in the younger female IMO.

But each to their own and if both parties enjoy it, that's all that matters.

I personally don't find it a likable quality when someone refers to women as 'females'as you did above. It's rather dehumanizing.

Better English would have been:

'Isn't a likeable quality in younger women IMO'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats what a sugar daddy is my understanding too"

And you're both correct. I had a sugar daddy two years ago. We were in an exclusive "relationship". He took me to restaurants, holidays and weekends being pampered by him inside his own home. And he gave me a monthly allowence. To buy whatever gifts I liked and to help pay some of my university fees he said. he was hopeless in knowing what correct gifts to buy us fussy women lol. In return I remained loyal to him, as in dont date in my typical day to day life and was available whenever he had time to spend with me. I recommended this kind of arrangement to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I considered this but given the inferred age difference being a factor, its difficult to say whether 'woman' or 'girl' would be more appropriate, thus my decision to use an all encompassing 'female'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am sure there must be some kind of sexual payoff guys wouldn't hand over cash to keep the girls in clothes, shoes, bags etc unless some kind of sex was involved?

Yes it was a sexual based relationship. Just like a friend with benefits is sex based. Only difference is a sugar daddy treats you with more respect and doesn't push for sex everytime you meet him. They do actually like looking after girls too. You shouldn't jump to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Asking for a sugar daddy/mummy/gifts is seen the same as escorting on here

It's not allowed so if you see profiles looking for this then please report

Swinging isn't about making money,being taken care of financially or fucking for gifts

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