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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Who enjoys this? X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy being a Dom but felt uncomfortable being called daddy when fucking someone!

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By *he Ring WraithMan  over a year ago

Bradford

With the right young lady; I do !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not on here for doms

I only need one dad in my life and thats my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The daddy/incest thing is something that just puts me off tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As long as it's taken semi-seriously, and planned - it can be hot. Otherwise it descends into farce pretty quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I hate that word dad as it will probably cost me but I like to be dommed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

see a dom or a domme should be somone i respect and can punish me when and if needed

a daddy is more like cuddles nurturing and punishing if they have to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? X"

Yup. Hot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah love being a dom... Not into that daddy stuff at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it "

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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There is only one person in my life I've ever called Daddy and that's the way it's going to stay

I have no inclination to use that word in any sort of sexual context despite anyone telling me it has nothing to do with incest

It would feel like it regardless

So it's a turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh"

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hate the daddy thing! I've only had one guy ask for it and it ended right there. But i do love a dom!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not for me as my bio was a rapist and pedofile

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I am very happy to have gifted my submission to someone amazing, but I would never call him dad/daddy or anything similar. Not our scene.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*."

Not really. Sorry but I don't find the scenario of taking advantage of vulnerable innocent a sexually appealing concept.

(Although legally speaking bdsm is domestic violence if you're a couple or aggravated adult depending on how harsh the cps want to be)

Bdsm there's a very clear consent etc a sweet innocent seems much more manipulative and not a role I'd personally be willing to take on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love it with my wife and since she's 20 years younger than me .....

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh"

It's just a different style of domination. Sometimes it can incorporate ageplay role play, sometimes it doesn't and just focuses or emphasises on the guidance and nurture side of D/s.

I currently practise this and I adore it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*.

Not really. Sorry but I don't find the scenario of taking advantage of vulnerable innocent a sexually appealing concept.

(Although legally speaking bdsm is domestic violence if you're a couple or aggravated adult depending on how harsh the cps want to be)

Bdsm there's a very clear consent etc a sweet innocent seems much more manipulative and not a role I'd personally be willing to take on"

You're incorrect.

Before people get into daddy/daughter/etc roleplay there should always be a clear discussion as to consent. Just like any other sexual activity.

I think you misunderstand what roleplay means.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

the thought of someone wanting to use the term daddy in any role play would weird me out quite frankly..

same goes for mummy..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it "

totally agree and find it very horny

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

I used to play with a woman into a few bits n pieces around bdsm, but never the daddy dom aspect. She met a guy as she was looking for a relationship, and I wasn't but I was still casually seeing her so was still hearing what she was doing before we faded out. Last I heard before telling her to end it, was her watching cartoons on his knee in frilly frocks.

He was more the controlling daddy dom I think, but a daddy none the less - she lost her whole sense of worth to it. I cannot put into words how it has taken away what was quite a forth right, outspoken woman. It's something that I have always found extremely boorish

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By *wned EmCouple  over a year ago

nuneaton

My Master and I enjoy age play role play. Its fun and funny. I may be nearly 50 but I'm still his little girl and he is my bad daddy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Come meet the daddydom and find out more xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*.

Not really. Sorry but I don't find the scenario of taking advantage of vulnerable innocent a sexually appealing concept.

(Although legally speaking bdsm is domestic violence if you're a couple or aggravated adult depending on how harsh the cps want to be)

Bdsm there's a very clear consent etc a sweet innocent seems much more manipulative and not a role I'd personally be willing to take on

You're incorrect.

Before people get into daddy/daughter/etc roleplay there should always be a clear discussion as to consent. Just like any other sexual activity.

I think you misunderstand what roleplay means."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I call my o.h daddy, but not in a daddy dom way, just a daddy way as we are having a baby

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In essence it is only role play with the erotic aspects that it entails. I see it as a Dom with a younger inexperienced playmate.

I like the kinky aspects of dom/sub, older/younger role play games. Coupled with bondage it can be very pleasurable for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In essence it is only role play with the erotic aspects that it entails. I see it as a Dom with a younger inexperienced playmate.

I like the kinky aspects of dom/sub, older/younger role play games. Coupled with bondage it can be very pleasurable for both parties. "

When I had my Daddy (or - a longer term partner who I dated for several years and called Daddy) I was the more experienced one, although ten years younger.

It was about kink with intimacy for us. That's the best way to describe it. When I generally do kink, there is not the same level of intimacy. Plus it's just quite hot as a name. Calling him Daddy pressed all his buttons, and in turn was something I enjoyed.

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By *he Ring WraithMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*."

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"It's interesting ... I don't really think it's playing a daughter/dad role play. It's more Dom Vs a sweet innocent girl role play.. So incest doesn't really come into it

That just sounds creepy and a little predatory tbh

Your comment is like saying that BDSM is domestic violence.

The key is *roleplay*."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love being submissive but the word daddy slightly disturbs me. But each to their own I guess..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love to be your daddy bunny u norty girl or your school teacher

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I enjoy being a Dom but felt uncomfortable being called daddy when fucking someone! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would hate to be called 'daddy' just wrong, you say it's not related to incest but can someone explain how being called daddy whilst fucking can possibly 'not' be...even if said in role play you are asking a 'daddy' character to fuck you...so wrong on so many levels...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

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By *xoticloverMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Very mixed replies.maybe once you have your own kids this becomes very taboo ? Either way horses for courses.

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By *eMontresMan  over a year ago

Halesowen

We role play a lot, and aspects of our dynamic percolate through to our day to day relationship.

Whilst I enjoy the (over 18) schoolgirl, maid, nurse, secretary, rock chick groupie, fucktoy, type scenarios, the daddydom thing leaves me cold.

I understand that it's roleplay, but for me anyway, an aspect of the role play is the possibility that it could be for real.

The thought of the remotest possibility of me fucking a daughter of mine, turns my stomach.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out "

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach. "

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good points sub-_ilac. Thank you for posting some honest reflections on Dom/sub. It is reassuring to me as I am just starting to explore my kinks and it is nice to hear about others. M x

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Good points sub-_ilac. Thank you for posting some honest reflections on Dom/sub. It is reassuring to me as I am just starting to explore my kinks and it is nice to hear about others. M x"

Enjoy your journey. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

"

Totally agree Lilac.

I have 2 female friends on here, both less than half my age. Both are into lactation, which in itself can be another taboo subject. They both love the maturity of an older man, and one loves me being masterful with her, with me calling her "my dirty little girl" and her calling me "daddy". This is total role play, and was even HER idea.

It is a very horny and erotic scenario, and results in some extremely strong orgasms.

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

Totally agree Lilac.

I have 2 female friends on here, both less than half my age. Both are into lactation, which in itself can be another taboo subject. They both love the maturity of an older man, and one loves me being masterful with her, with me calling her "my dirty little girl" and her calling me "daddy". This is total role play, and was even HER idea.

It is a very horny and erotic scenario, and results in some extremely strong orgasms. "

I love lactation play

It's not even the sexual side of this kind of play... Totally physically and emotionally shattered the other day, I curled up on my Dom, who is a good chunk of years younger than me, and he called me his little girl and stroked my hair. Daily stresses just melted away.

There was nothing sick or twisted about it!

It's the same when I do petplay (which is quite often mistake for something illegal on here) it's just about setting the scene and putting me in a different head space.

I love the dress up and the dehumanisation or humiliation of it. On my collar and lead, with a buttplug tail being humiliated on all fours by my Dom. Having my human rights taken away from me. Maybe not being able to speak or not being able to function in human ways. It doesn't mean I have a hidden husky within trying to fight it's way out or it doesn't mean I'm into anything illegal.

The only thing I can liken it to for those that don't roleplay and don't understand. It's like getting ready for a night out. You'd still enjoy going out with your friends if you had just gone out in your work uniform. But spending a few hours getting ready, preparing, make up, clothing puts you in a total different head space. It's similar for me when I cos play or roleplay. Nothing untoward about it.

And yes, the orgasms seem to be much more powerful when psychological play comes into it. Brain stimulation rather than just clit stimulation :p

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

Totally agree Lilac.

I have 2 female friends on here, both less than half my age. Both are into lactation, which in itself can be another taboo subject. They both love the maturity of an older man, and one loves me being masterful with her, with me calling her "my dirty little girl" and her calling me "daddy". This is total role play, and was even HER idea.

It is a very horny and erotic scenario, and results in some extremely strong orgasms.

I love lactation play

It's not even the sexual side of this kind of play... Totally physically and emotionally shattered the other day, I curled up on my Dom, who is a good chunk of years younger than me, and he called me his little girl and stroked my hair. Daily stresses just melted away.

There was nothing sick or twisted about it!

It's the same when I do petplay (which is quite often mistake for something illegal on here) it's just about setting the scene and putting me in a different head space.

I love the dress up and the dehumanisation or humiliation of it. On my collar and lead, with a buttplug tail being humiliated on all fours by my Dom. Having my human rights taken away from me. Maybe not being able to speak or not being able to function in human ways. It doesn't mean I have a hidden husky within trying to fight it's way out or it doesn't mean I'm into anything illegal.

The only thing I can liken it to for those that don't roleplay and don't understand. It's like getting ready for a night out. You'd still enjoy going out with your friends if you had just gone out in your work uniform. But spending a few hours getting ready, preparing, make up, clothing puts you in a total different head space. It's similar for me when I cos play or roleplay. Nothing untoward about it.

And yes, the orgasms seem to be much more powerful when psychological play comes into it. Brain stimulation rather than just clit stimulation :p "

A perfect statement again Lilac. My friend has a selection of nipple suckers and a pump, and although half my age, she loves me to suckle from her whilst I'm lying on her lap, and she plays with me while this is happening.

Our dialog while this is going on is extreme and private, and would only upset the vanilla majority, but it is role play!!.

Btw, pony tail plugs are our next move! Love them x

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By *iggy1Woman  over a year ago

DORCHESTER


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? X"
Bi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

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i didn't name call and im not judging. i stated how it makes me feel and why its not for me. dont like the school girl thing either and wouldn't dress like that. what other ppl do, is not my business, so doesn't affect me, but as this is a public forum, i will voice my opinion if i wish. no need to explain yourself or your kinks, or be rude because i dont share them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

@SubLilac & @oiled_shaft I totally understand the dynamic I am just starting out myself with my Dom, I am on another popular bdsm site and I go to events etc

I do not mind anyone else's kink, fantasy or role play scenarios as that is their play choices and dynamic I was just saying that the use of the word 'daddy' is not for me

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

It's the same as dressing up as a schoolgirl. It's just role play. It's seeing the person you play with, dress in a different way or act in a different way or to set a scene. It doesn't mean you want a school girl!

It annoys me. When you go out to a bar or club and see gangs of women dressed as school girls and they will get male attention. No one calls those paedos? They're just dressing up. Being playful. Age play and Daddy roleplay is very playful. For me, there isn't any scene setting or younger behaviour. I don't dress young or I don't act young. I'm not sat with colouring books, not that I judge people that do regress with activities during role play. It's psychological play. It's very verbal.

Yes it is a taboo roleplay and the fact it's taboo is a bit of a kick.

I find it really difficult to call a dominant Sir. Saying yes Sir, makes my stomach fill with butterflies and the words struggle to come out. As hard as I find it to say, I get a kick out of it and it makes my cheeks flush. I get the same from using the word Daddy. I feel awkward in a very good way.

I don't expect people to understand many of the activities I practise and I don't normally talk about them on here but save them for the other site where it is more understood. But please don't throw names around or imply I'm a monster.

Many of the vanilla things you practise seem so alien to me. But one thing I've learnt about Fab and the other site, is not to judge. I certainly don't name call people for what they do consensually and legally together.

i didn't name call and im not judging. i stated how it makes me feel and why its not for me. dont like the school girl thing either and wouldn't dress like that. what other ppl do, is not my business, so doesn't affect me, but as this is a public forum, i will voice my opinion if i wish. no need to explain yourself or your kinks, or be rude because i dont share them."

Not judging yet saying what I practise smacks of incest and paedophilia?

Yes, it is a public forum and yes, you can voice your opinion. Just as I can't explain my kinks. And I don't feel anything I've posted has been rude at all.

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"@SubLilac & @oiled_shaft I totally understand the dynamic I am just starting out myself with my Dom, I am on another popular bdsm site and I go to events etc

I do not mind anyone else's kink, fantasy or role play scenarios as that is their play choices and dynamic I was just saying that the use of the word 'daddy' is not for me "

Yeah it's a strong word to use and I definitely struggle with it. But I enjoy humiliation, feeling awkward, panic and fear. I enjoy anything that kicks my endorphins and adrenaline. I'm very receptive to verbal stuff. And our play is about pushing me so I'm body reacts a lot to it.

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"I like strong, dominant men with an animalistic streak in the bedroom, I like to feel smaller and weaker, protected and adored, ripped apart and ravish'd, cherished and desired but...

If anyone told me to call them daddy while I was fucking them I would punch their lights out

this.

It creeps me out in a major way. Iv yet to read a single way of explaining it that doesn't still smack of incest and or pedo.

thats not saying that any body who likes it is into either, before anybody over reacts, just stating why i dont like the idea!

for me the idea turns my stomach.

Not judging yet saying what I practise smacks of incest and paedophilia?

Yes, it is a public forum and yes, you can voice your opinion.

Just as I can explain my kinks. And I don't feel anything I've posted has been rude at all. "

Typo corrected and makes more sense now.

And I agree, dressing as a school girl does nothing for me. I'd much rather dress as a pony or a cat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? XBi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X"
. Yeah not meeting single men.. It's a topic that interest me just seeing the view points .. Must say it's rather negative!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? XBi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X. Yeah not meeting single men.. It's a topic that interest me just seeing the view points .. Must say it's rather negative! "
Yes it is isn't it!. I see it as erotic, sensuous, harmless fun! Never mind, each to their own eh? X

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By *ilacWoman  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Who enjoys this? XBi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X. Yeah not meeting single men.. It's a topic that interest me just seeing the view points .. Must say it's rather negative! "

There are lots of blogs and sites with info on this topic.

I think you could talk about any fetish on here and would get negative views. Whether it's something you are curious about trying or just something you were trying to understand, you're welcome to ask me anything privately or publicly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? XBi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X. Yeah not meeting single men.. It's a topic that interest me just seeing the view points .. Must say it's rather negative!

There are lots of blogs and sites with info on this topic.

Thank u! X

I think you could talk about any fetish on here and would get negative views. Whether it's something you are curious about trying or just something you were trying to understand, you're welcome to ask me anything privately or publicly "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well, i don't mind saying that I'm definitely going to see if my friend fancies trying the pony butt plugs, so animalistic and naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Partial to a Dominant

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who enjoys this? XBi-bunny, can't message you, just wondered who interested you? X"
sorry I wasn't taking message from single guys am now!

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