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Jumping through hoops (for a meet)
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I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well
Chat on the phone, if that went well
Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure.
I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well
Chat on the phone, if that went well
Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure.
I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? "
That's an absolute joke !
Normal procedure for some maybe , but bollocks to all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I feel it's a tad overboard but if it's suits them & not you then I would move on, plenty more couples to choose from.
and unless you are staying in the room overnight regardless and they're just visiting then the part about you paying for the room is taking the piss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well
Chat on the phone, if that went well
Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure.
I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? "
fuck that
message cam chat throgh the chatroom veri the person by phone and meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just had a similar thing!
Chat on here, then on KIK, provide pictures!
And low and behold as soon as I did, they're not interested and have blocked me!
So now i'm expecting some guy to be using my pictures to claim as his own....Great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (her) think that's taking the mick, to be polite. I wouldn't have done it on my single profile either. We chat on here a bit but would arrange a social first or to meet at a club. If we get on the arrangements depend on availability and distances not on what someone will do for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey thats abit OTT
We all have a hoop or two to jump through mines simple chat here and turn up at a party I'm at, see how we get on no obligation
even if local sod all that arrange to meet at cafe through chatting here, not into kik calls webcam, as don't happen often I prefer that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doubt they were holding a gun to your head.if they want someone to go to such lengths to meet them,then good luck to them,but no one is forced to meet anyone. |
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"I just had a similar thing!
Chat on here, then on KIK, provide pictures!
And low and behold as soon as I did, they're not interested and have blocked me!
So now i'm expecting some guy to be using my pictures to claim as his own....Great! "
It's more likely that on getting the picture they decided that you weren't right for them 
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Too much, I think it's there way of keeping you hanging on and if you are willing to do what they say, if you are then u will do as they say in the room.
We message, possible tex and or phoe then meet, if it happens it happens but nothing like that.
Some people take the piss.
Xxx
Happy swinging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just had a similar thing!
Chat on here, then on KIK, provide pictures!
And low and behold as soon as I did, they're not interested and have blocked me!
So now i'm expecting some guy to be using my pictures to claim as his own....Great!
It's more likely that on getting the picture they decided that you weren't right for them
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I hope that's the case, but just don't know why they immediately blocked me. Just makes me suspicious as a while ago I found my pictures had been used elsewhere, so stopped sending them.
Lets hope i'm just over thinking it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I feel it's a tad overboard but if it's suits them & not you then I would move on, plenty more couples to choose from.
and unless you are staying in the room overnight regardless and they're just visiting then the part about you paying for the room is taking the piss."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its not for you OP and you feel your jumping through hoops then move on...no ones forcing you to meet them.We all have are own ways of meeting people, getting to know them, what's good for one may not be for others. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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no one ever holds a gun to your head making you do this or that....
if someones procedures are something you are happy with..... walk! simple as...
people can only get away with what people will put up with....
if your self respect is worth a leg over... thats on no one else but yourself...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well
Chat on the phone, if that went well
Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure.
I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? "
they've forgotten the bit were you also pay for drinks and a meal  haha
Some people demand way too much x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought we were picky (chat for a while on here) then social meet, that just seems ott. I thought you split the cost of the room unless we are staying over night. Also if we are the invitees we would probably pay. Good luck and hope things get easier for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I feel it's a tad overboard but if it's suits them & not you then I would move on, plenty more couples to choose from.
and unless you are staying in the room overnight regardless and they're just visiting then the part about you paying for the room is taking the piss."
This. 
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Well get this, yesterday we were asked to send a video audition before a meet!
The person had already seen both of us playing on cam in the chat rooms, but because we were actually fucking on the bit that she saw she wanted us to email her a video |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that fussy compared to a lot of couples insane requirements....
'looking for a tall but short guy, a slight leg length discrepancy, hairy but bald, an earing in the left ear of the queens face, a tattoo on his ankle of a beheaded racoon and who is willing to be stabbed frequently during foreplay.....'
You'd think most worked for the MI5 ffs!
Never part with money for a shag though dude, that's not really swinging is it..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol that is way over the top! We swap face pics to check everyone is attracted to each other and then skype just for quick chat to prove who we all say we are. Arrange a meet when we are all free and if a hotel is needed then would always split the bill or if we intended to stay for the rest of the night pay our selves. I know every one different but sorry their demands are ridiculous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol that is way over the top! We swap face pics to check everyone is attracted to each other and then skype just for quick chat to prove who we all say we are. Arrange a meet when we are all free and if a hotel is needed then would always split the bill or if we intended to stay for the rest of the night pay our selves. I know every one different but sorry their demands are ridiculous! "
That's more like it!  |
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Surely tho if someone is that overly demanding then they are only going to end up with those people who are utterly desperate for a meet...... And therefore probably not the quality end of the marketplace.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they don't want to meet me, I don't want to meet them, and if they expect me to pay, they are out of luck, happy to put myself out for the right lady, but it has to be a two way thing. I'm randy, not desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clowns...
Why not start uploading CVs...fish4fucks.com
This site to 'many' is a sex site, arrange a meet with likeminded people,
Meet up
Fuck good!
Move on with mutual respect...
SO many people take it WAY too seriously...i |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write back NEXT
Her"
Hahah, include a detailed Itinerary of the nights events...
7pm: I knock on your door with a medium weight tap.
7:01pm you answer the door
7:02 after a polite and discreet hello, I enter your premises...
Pah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well
Chat on the phone, if that went well
Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure.
I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? "
This is why we have one rule regarding when/where/how we meet.
We only meet at Eureka and that's our only stipulation. If either party decides they don't like the other then it's easy to move on and still have a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely tho if someone is that overly demanding then they are only going to end up with those people who are utterly desperate for a meet...... And therefore probably not the quality end of the marketplace.... "
Great point!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Write back NEXT
Her
Hahah, include a detailed Itinerary of the nights events...
7pm: I knock on your door with a medium weight tap.
7:01pm you answer the door
7:02 after a polite and discreet hello, I enter your premises...
Pah!"
 Class lol
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My choice, I have stopped meeting anyone off fab; unless its folk I have met before, no more hoop jumping for me !
But it happens, a lot !! "
Damn - I have read your profile a couple of times, my hubby approves of it too - was just toying with the idea of messaging you with a view to text, then phone chat then social, then ......who knows what fun we could have had????  |
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By *ob55Man
over a year ago
PE13 |
Chatting to a couple yesterday, they wanted to meet at a hotel near them this week or never, they say in their profile they can accommodate, the hotel is in Wakefield I'm in Hull.
They asked me to book the hotel, then she explained she was bringing her hubby and her f/b but I also had to bring a gift as well a particular vibrator which she would let me watch her use it.
They have been on Fab a couple of weeks with no Veri's, then when I told them to find another desperate sod they accused me of getting cold feet  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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I was talking to a couple on here a while back and they said before we meet we would have to:
Chat on Fabs, if that went well
We will do that as long as it is limited to a few messages not days or weeks of messaging.
"Chat on Kik, if that went well
Chat on Skype, if that went well "
No never forget it lifes too short.
"Chat on the phone, if that went well "
In a few rare cases
"Then I would book a hotel close to them which I would pay for.
I wasn't happy with it but they said it's the normal procedure. "
We won't do hotel meets anymore too many dreamers use hotels.
"I know couples have to be safe and they have their pick of guys but am I the only one who thinks this is a bit too much? "
They were just trying it on, possibly getting a kick out of how desperate you were to jump through hoops.
In most circumstance we expect to have arranged a meet within 5 messages.
We are adults who are here to play not to spend hours on the computer/phone messaging etc., like a love lorn adolescent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely tho if someone is that overly demanding then they are only going to end up with those people who are utterly desperate for a meet...... And therefore probably not the quality end of the marketplace.... "
This is exactly my thoughts on it too. I really wouldn't be interested in a guy that was keen to do anything I requested for sex. |
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