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Overnight meets?

By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

Can they cope with five teenagers in the house? Can our teenagers cope with us being away? Usually means a no

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have done overnighters but prefer them if its a hotel meet.

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"I have done overnighters but prefer them if its a hotel meet."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

recently met one lady who I've known / meet in the scene on her first overnight at a club, beneficial to both of us and hope to do it again.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All fir them. Lot of time to get the social angle covered like go for a drink should that be your thing. Those who just want a short hook up won't be down with them obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only ever at a hotel meet or with regular friends at theres.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd never do an overnight with a meet... But I'm not one for long encounters anyway x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only have overnight meets but on a first meet, regardless of how far the guy travels, he knows there's no gaurantee we'll have sex. I always tell them to book a b and b.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Majority of my meets have been overnight meets. X

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

not for me...... I would hate it

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By *amparaWoman over a year ago

biggleswade

do it its great ive done it a lot with one particular person and its fantastic

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its always nice to carry on the sexy times in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'd struggle with the overnight thing if I was meeting people. For me thats where id find it hard to keep my guard up .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You do need to plan and chat a lot to someone before you spend a full night with them though , There is a lot of time during a all night where you are not having sex. So you do need someone you know you are going to get along with x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its always nice to carry on the sexy times in the morning.

Yes. Nice to take time to get to know someone. Always had great overnight stays

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By *ola.Woman over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I have had overnight and weekend meets. Only with certain men. Distance and depending on what we are doing are factors.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's pretty good spending a night with a couple.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

"Its always nice to carry on the sexy times in the morning.

Agreed, and if they still want to meet again after seeing me in the morning then all the better

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Its always nice to carry on the sexy times in the morning.

Agreed, and if they still want to meet again after seeing me in the morning then all the better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

iv had a few

never met a guy yet who doesn't like to be woke up with a nice mouth round his sausage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have had a few overnight meets, but with ladyfriends that I've known for a long time...some at their place, some at mine.

It's fine with someone that you know and trust, but I would be uneasy overnighting with someone I was meeting for the first time these days, unless it was at a hotel. Lol...long gone are the days of going out to town and waking up in a strange bedroom with a lady lying next to me and trying to remember the night before...and what the hell her name is...twenty years ago things were VERY different

Lol.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only done with people i know well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes snore and sometimes sleepwalk. Overnighters aren't always a good idea with me.

(Apologies in advance to my bedfellow next week

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do overnight meets, just means I do a lot more due diligence as I need to make sure I will enjoy their company regardless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

occasionally i have in a hotel with someone i know and trust

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By *plpxp2Couple over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Have done two overnights, the first in a cottage with a couple we'd met before and it was a brilliant night and morning.

The seconds was with a new couple in a cabin with hot tub etc. That turned out to be brilliant. Had a meal, a few drinks, hot tub and then some amazing play. Next morning a naked breakfast. As with most things when they work they are very, very good!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well how else do you get the lazy Round 3 or 4 morning after cuddle-fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd never do an overnight with a meet... But I'm not one for long encounters anyway x

Ms"

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's practical and fits in then I'm happy to do an overnighter, hotel only tho unless I knew the person well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

"
mmmm sounds good to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

.....with a trail of saliva dribbling from her mouth to chin.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

.....with a trail of saliva dribbling from her mouth to chin.....

PMSL!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

I'm ok with it sometimes, I've just got so used to sleeping alone that I kind of find it an intrusion

I wake up early and fell uneasy with someone there all night

So I usually go home or kick him out Lol

Unless I feel I know them fairly well that is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have done overnighters but prefer them if its a hotel meet."

Not adverse to a lady coming here though if we know each other well enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only with peeps I know well

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

Besides which I snore and fart loads

I find it keeps others awake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"not for me...... I would hate it"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only with people Iv gotten to know quite well or if either are travelling a fair distance.

Generally it's 3-4 hours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"recently met one lady who I've known / meet in the scene on her first overnight at a club, beneficial to both of us and hope to do it again.....

I do enjoy overnight meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would do overnight meets as most of the Women I would like to meet live more then 2 hours dive away, But only after chatting for awhile to get to know them and I would probable turn it into a weekend away to make the most of it

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman over a year ago

Glenrothes

With the right man, yes please!!!!!!

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

We've done overnighters, either at their place or hotels.

I snore like a train, so the solution is to just keep banging them through the night lol... no sleep equals no disturbed sleep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer a guy to join us.. have some fun then leave us to have our own fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

Sounds great. I really enjoy sleeping in bed with people (as long as they don't get too close...). My partner and I have separate bedrooms so we can always have people over with no problem.

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"I have done overnighters but prefer them if its a hotel meet."

Unless I've met the person before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer the other party/is not to stay over due to my insomnia...it puts people off if I'm wandering around making tea when they try to sleep ..only have a few who I can share a room with but known them years or extremely intimately...it's why I usually pay for the room...I can ask them to leave at any point should things not be going great...

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By *lappyMan over a year ago

Manchester

I've done overnights but can totally understand and respect hotel meets as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

.....with a trail of saliva dribbling from her mouth to chin.....

Can't see the dribble when you're running your fingers down her spine......

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

I've done and do overnighters with known and trusted friends. All good fun indeed.

The occasional initial evening meet/one off meet has ended up all night overnight. Sometimes all involved get on very very well so it's inevitable.

As long as it's moans, groans and many orgams it's all good

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

overnight in hotel with someone ive met before..great...be lovely...but im not sneaking in and out of hotels at night...just not me..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mornings can be better than the night before....

Watching her sleeping body wake to a gentle touch....

.....with a trail of saliva dribbling from her mouth to chin.....

A trail of what?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Overnight meets are not for us even with those that we know really well.

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By *ot monkey71Couple over a year ago

middlesbrough

We've had overnight meets at a club and had a great time. We had met for a social first and it does mean the fun can start and end when we want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Overnights are not an option for me. Always go home to hubby!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say overnight is more personal thing

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

Only do overnights if the person im meeting wants to and only at hotels xx Gotta a 2 nighter being planned with a female friend of mine in the next few weeks mainly becasue she lives some distance away xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

Done it once, wouldn't do it again.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Have done a few, but only with people who i have met a few times, you have to have trust and be comfy in each others company for that to happen...

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman over a year ago

West Midlands

"We prefer a guy to join us.. have some fun then leave us to have our own fun "

And this is why I meet few couples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes miss hotel meets with a fuck bud.

But reality timings can be a pain lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have done a few, but only with people who i have met a few times, you have to have trust and be comfy in each others company for that to happen..."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never done an overnight and to be honest never will xx i have severe gerd which means i often wake up choking in my sleep and its not nice for other people xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hotel meets and club meets only

Had a fuck buddy that slept overnight few times x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We prefer a guy to join us.. have some fun then leave us to have our own fun

And this is why I meet few couples

This is why we said GUY

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Overnight meets are good

The mornings are amazing

Monkey x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great....done this a few times at club followed by hotel.

Also had a number of fab ladies who have stayed overnight at mine..... I do a decent breakfast as you can read in verifications.

Even had a fab lady stayed over the weekend after her daughter had done the same the week earlier. Definitely recommended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and no!

The last overnighter I had was gorgeous - but I'm a big soft bugger - too soft for fab I think sometimes - so there's always the danger I'll get attached and then hurt!

Well that's my cred gone - none of you'll touch me with a barge pole now!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

I have had a few overnight meets in hotels and at my place. If it's someone I really get on with then it's nice to have dinner and/or breakfast as well as the bedroom fun. Sleeping with them can be nice too.

usually when distance is involved but I have stayed overnight with a local lady with who I become close.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

With the right person,it's great!

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

I don't do overnights or cuddles, that's strictly for my man

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By *abes in the woodWoman over a year ago

wales

only with the one person

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Overnighters are great fun, you get the chance for a chat and a drink and can play in the morning too

You just need to know the person well enough to be comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol"
I wouldn't mind a snuggle with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol I wouldn't mind a snuggle with you

lincon looks like a good place to stop over on the south bound leg of my voyage :p

but if all goes to plan i wont have glasses by then :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have done overnighters but prefer them if its a hotel meet."

Hotels all the way unless I've known that person for a considerable amount of time.

The best thing about hotels is...you can make as much mess as you want and then ring house keep to tidy up

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol I wouldn't mind a snuggle with you

lincon looks like a good place to stop over on the south bound leg of my voyage :p

but if all goes to plan i wont have glasses by then :p"
apparently I'm a good tour guide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No overnight meets for me nowadays, many years ago i did with one guy i knew well and with the guy i am now married too

Nowadays i like to be home in my own comfy bed to sleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol I wouldn't mind a snuggle with you

lincon looks like a good place to stop over on the south bound leg of my voyage :p

but if all goes to plan i wont have glasses by then :p apparently I'm a good tour guide

^_^ yay ive never been to the east side of the uk before so guides welcome. i must warn you by then i may have reach significant hobo status :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As i normally chat away to females for a while and usually there a fair distance away , when it eventually comes too meeting them for fun i inform them i have a hotel booked and let them decide if they want and overnighter which most do so i gather suits us both down to a T

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer them

feel free to bunk up in my tent :p

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I prefer them

feel free to bunk up in my tent :p"

Oh can we share sleeping bags lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer them

feel free to bunk up in my tent :p

Oh can we share sleeping bags lol

be nice to be warm for a night :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and no!

The last overnighter I had was gorgeous - but I'm a big soft bugger - too soft for fab I think sometimes - so there's always the danger I'll get attached and then hurt!

Well that's my cred gone - none of you'll touch me with a barge pole now!

"
I wouldn't say that at all, I'd touch you with my pole

lol X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I think it's unwise to bank on an overnight stay, if you've not met before. Sexually or socially things may not work at all, and expecting someone to have an overnight ordeal, as a landlord/landlady is pushing it a bit. Especially as many hotels and real b&b's can be fairly cheap.

I'm sort of ok with the right overnighter, but I don't like being pushed into it, due to circumstances or attitude. Sharing my king size bed, when I'm used to the space alone, is also a big loss.

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"Most of my meets have been over night looking back.

But i'm like a human teddy bear....or maybe snorlax lol I wouldn't mind a snuggle with you

lincon looks like a good place to stop over on the south bound leg of my voyage :p

but if all goes to plan i wont have glasses by then :p apparently I'm a good tour guide

^_^ yay ive never been to the east side of the uk before so guides welcome. i must warn you by then i may have reach significant hobo status :p"
sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do prefer to go home,only because I get restless and fidgety in bed. I have had a few overnight stays,some in hotels. I won't cuddle a man unless he cuddles me first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done an overnight in an hotel with someone I had known for years. I would do it again after chatting at length and both feeling comfortable with it. I wouldn't want to do an overnight in someones home. Not on a first meeting anyway. It feels too personal x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite like over nighters as the men I meet I tend to know quite well... And I enjoy the company as much as everything else. Also enjoy the flirt and build up between, which takes time when done properly.

I do worry about attachment, but I very rarely have one to ones. Dont get any attachment issues in the midst of an orgy

hehehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do prefer to go home,only because I get restless and fidgety in bed. I have had a few overnight stays,some in hotels. I won't cuddle a man unless he cuddles me first."
I'm the same with the cuddling x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can be difficult when arranging a first meet, let's be honest we don't want to spend the night with everybody we meet, I do like over night meets if we really get on but I've met some guys and I've just had enough of them after a few hours so I go home

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"It can be difficult when arranging a first meet, let's be honest we don't want to spend the night with everybody we meet, I do like over night meets if we really get on but I've met some guys and I've just had enough of them after a few hours so I go home "

Yeap, never on a first meet that is for sure, only those I get on with really well and enjoy their company.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeap, never on a first meet that is for sure, only those I get on with really well and enjoy their company."

Just a polite excuse is needed in those circumstances, I always approach over night meets with new people as not over night meets till we're both certain ie I don't drink till we're both getting on well and clearly comfortable so I can always leave and ride home either because I want to or they either say so or they do the British thing and have an "emergency" to attend to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if you're going to have an overnighter you've got to be totally comfortable with that person no good arranging an overnighter with someone and then find you don't get on.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

There are few people I will do an overnight with - it's great if you get on well, but it can be awful if not, especially if you are the kind of person likely to lie awake a half the night beside some strange snoring man!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap, never on a first meet that is for sure, only those I get on with really well and enjoy their company.

Totally get you and before I am in that place I always have a social meet first so I am pretty sure by then, but just now and again you get the one's that never leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?

Look if I make you breakfast in bed.. Just say thank you!

None of this "how the hell did you get in my house" bollocks....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't do overnights. I grind my teeth in my sleep and I've been known to physically kick people out of the bed in my sleep.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Before pregnancy I only just allowed a guy I was meeting casually for over 3 years stay for an overnighter took that long for me to build enough trust to allow him into the family home, was either his place or hotel otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it completely depends on the people.

If you both are completely comfortable with the additional intimacy, what could be better than falling asleep exhausted, smiling and naked. Then waking up (middle of the night or in the morning) the other person slowly with your lips and tongue between their legs.

But you would both need to be like that for it to work.

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By *ench and StripeCouple over a year ago

Stenalees

We have a spare room so happy to host people at ours though so far only on a couple of occasions. Over nights are good with the right people as its less a rush. You can have time to relax and if you want a glass of wine then its OK. But variety is the fun bit about swinging for us. Meeting new peeps and seeing how we interact.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lots saying wouldn't do it, but how many actually have?

have none of you ever been on a night out and picked someone up and went back/taken back for the night?

Surely?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Much prefer all nighters, but I'm greedy like that. There's a few times it hasn't worked out so I've just talked them to death or bored them into sleeping

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"lots saying wouldn't do it, but how many actually have?

have none of you ever been on a night out and picked someone up and went back/taken back for the night?

Surely?"

Read the thread lol I've said I do, just not on a first meet!

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I like all nighters or even weekenders. But if I have promised someone a bed, they can still stay even if it doesn't work as we planned.

I love a cuddle anyway. If we really don't get on, I have a acer room. But I have never had anyone leave unsatisfied, as I like to get to know them a little first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lots saying wouldn't do it, but how many actually have?

have none of you ever been on a night out and picked someone up and went back/taken back for the night?

Surely?

Read the thread lol I've said I do, just not on a first meet! "

did read the thread, its not all about you, said lots not singled you out

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I do prefer to go home,only because I get restless and fidgety in bed. I have had a few overnight stays,some in hotels. I won't cuddle a man unless he cuddles me first. I'm the same with the cuddling x

Those attachment issues you mention only occur if you cuddle too much afterwards...cuddling before is fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only meet overnight if I have really got to know someone and ideally would have had a social. Plus have a back up plan if things don't work out x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those attachment issues you mention only occur if you cuddle too much afterwards...cuddling before is fine

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what are your thoughts on your own question Ice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a few overnight meets for a first meet, and they have gone fine. Though they have only been a maximum of an hour away from home so theres always been the option of coming home if it didn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Overnight is good, more time to play, have to watch the 'sex hangover' the next day though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love overnight meets. Love a bit of spooning and being woken up with morning sex.

As the wise one known as Zedd said...

Are you gonna stay the night? Doesn't mean we're bound for life....

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Those attachment issues you mention only occur if you cuddle too much afterwards...cuddling before is fine

what are your thoughts on your own question Ice?

Oh, I'm all for overnighters, provided they are with the right person/people and provided a good rapport has already been established.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those attachment issues you mention only occur if you cuddle too much afterwards...cuddling before is fine

what are your thoughts on your own question Ice?

Oh, I'm all for overnighters, provided they are with the right person/people and provided a good rapport has already been established.

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good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say overnight is more personal thing "

No way in hell I'd spend a night with someone. It's not a dating site.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

it would have to be with somebody i know quite well. so for me it will never be the first few meets....I'm all for it in the right situation.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!"

I think she feels that spending the night with Someone is to intimate. They can spend the night but not in the same bed .X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!

I think she feels that spending the night with Someone is to intimate. They can spend the night but not in the same bed .X "

Yes you're half right. They wouldn't be staying over as I don't accomodate and won't go to other people's houses either.

Not saying it's wrong for other people though, just not for me. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love an overnight with one particular person, falling asleep with her next to me and waking up with them just makes me all warm inside. Plus the wake up spooning and sex is mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!

I think she feels that spending the night with Someone is to intimate. They can spend the night but not in the same bed .X

Yes you're half right. They wouldn't be staying over as I don't accomodate and won't go to other people's houses either.

Not saying it's wrong for other people though, just not for me. x"

They wouldn't be staying over with us either lol x would be way to long lol .. and I know some people like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont think anybody is saying its a dating site, its just more practical if somebody who you know and have met before is travelling far!

I think she feels that spending the night with Someone is to intimate. They can spend the night but not in the same bed .X "
I have been known to wake up elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we like weekends away with sexy couples..also booking into a nice hotel suits us 2

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?

Look if I make you breakfast in bed.. Just say thank you!

None of this "how the hell did you get in my house" bollocks...."

Nobody ever makes me breakfast in bed!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy the hotel stay over meets.. There's something about staying in an hotel that's very sexual and sensual compared to the persons house.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only ever done overnight meets, always a social first and then a second meet where we get a hotel for the night. I like sleeping guys so always make sure he knows and agrees to me sucking him off/sticking my tongue up his arse hole when he's sleeping.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Horses for courses as they say!

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Entirely depends on how well/how in to the person I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have had overnight and weekend meets. Only with certain men. Distance and depending on what we are doing are factors. "

This

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not in a position for an overnighter but my pet hate is snorers so likely he would end up with a pillow over his face

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I never planned to be an overnight type but about half of my first meets end up being overnighters since I like to travel. It's only ever with someone I've talked to and got on with well enough so I know that if they're not interested in me sexually when we meet we can at least have a good night chatting and the evening's not wasted. I'm also a snory, leg kicky, sleep talking type but if it gets to the point we're actually sleeping together then they're hopefully too knackered to notice by then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have done in the past, depends who it is, quite like the morning horn, especially after a kinky night together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No problem as long as I've met his parents ..

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I enjoy the hotel stay over meets.. There's something about staying in an hotel that's very sexual and sensual compared to the persons house. "

'an hotel'...what a wonderfully correct turn of phrase....whose 'posh' now?

I agree with what you say btw..

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I've only ever done overnight meets, always a social first and then a second meet where we get a hotel for the night. I like sleeping guys so always make sure he knows and agrees to me sucking him off/sticking my tongue up his arse hole when he's sleeping. "

OMG...now that's the kind of overnight meet I'm talking about!! lol

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

OMG...now that's the kind of overnight meet I'm talking about!! lol

Ps...I don't reckon he'd stay asleep for long

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeap, never on a first meet that is for sure, only those I get on with really well and enjoy their company.

Totally get you and before I am in that place I always have a social meet first so I am pretty sure by then, but just now and again you get the one's that never leave

Dunno if you saw my thread but ill be swinging through Aberdeen on my trip around the uk (changed it to take in the north coast 500 route right along the whole West coast of Scotland before coming back down the east

So if you fancy a social meet or letting me pitch my tent (heh) in your garden let me know :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Marry me :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I enjoy the hotel stay over meets.. There's something about staying in an hotel that's very sexual and sensual compared to the persons house.

'an hotel'...what a wonderfully correct turn of phrase....whose 'posh' now?

I agree with what you say btw..

Just have to make sure you bring the candles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OMG...now that's the kind of overnight meet I'm talking about!! lol

Ps...I don't reckon he'd stay asleep for long

lol

They don't actually! One guy I was dating was totally against anything up his bum so the only way I could get to his arse hole was when he was sleeping, he slept on his front so was teasing me and once I was in he'd part his leg so I'd get better access, he'd wake but pretend he was sleeping cos he enjoyed it. Oh and before everyone says it's a bit rapey he knew the next day and every time he got into my bed afterwards I would tell him that I'm going to tongue fuck his arse hole as soon as he's asleep and he said I could do what I want.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

OMG...now that's the kind of overnight meet I'm talking about!! lol

Ps...I don't reckon he'd stay asleep for long

lol

My god..what a lucky man!!! Sounds like bliss....why can't all women have your attitude and approach!! lol

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I enjoy the hotel stay over meets.. There's something about staying in an hotel that's very sexual and sensual compared to the persons house.

'an hotel'...what a wonderfully correct turn of phrase....whose 'posh' now?

I agree with what you say btw..

Just have to make sure you bring the candles

Candles, chocolate, strawberries, ice cubes, fizz (dry and sweet)...shall we start compiling a list of supplies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I enjoy the hotel stay over meets.. There's something about staying in an hotel that's very sexual and sensual compared to the persons house.

'an hotel'...what a wonderfully correct turn of phrase....whose 'posh' now?

I agree with what you say btw..

Just have to make sure you bring the candles

Candles, chocolate, strawberries, ice cubes, fizz (dry and sweet)...shall we start compiling a list of supplies

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looks like you have already started

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm also a snory, leg kicky, sleep talking type but if it gets to the point we're actually sleeping together then they're hopefully too knackered to notice by then.

Isn't everyone like that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OMG...now that's the kind of overnight meet I'm talking about!! lol

Ps...I don't reckon he'd stay asleep for long

lol

This is the best thing I've read all night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To wake up in the middle of the night with my arms around her, if we're spooning, to kiss my way down her back to her gorgeous bum as she automatically opened her legs in a sloppy daze, the kiss all around the top of her thighs before brushing her clit with my lips, I love it when she gets wet whilst still sleepy, love it better still for her to com around as I'm snogging, licking and teasing her until she shudders, then ram my cock deep inside her.....can't do that if one of you has to disappear, all nighters..... Yes pleeeeeease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

Met my husband on here 9 years ago, was a meet where I ended up at his after a night out after arranging a meet on here,ended up an overnight meet...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love to cuddle up and fall asleep together after. fuck and go leaves me feeling dirty. plus I love the morning sex!! so I only meet once chatted for ages and then social, tho I dont mind socials turning into more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The worst thing about overnight meets is if you stay in the guys house, needing a poo in the night and having to put a toilet paper crash mat down so you don't make a noise or putting your finger over your bum hole so you can let a fart out quietly. Overnight stays can be a fucking minefield.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just got totally side tracked with the last post that i forgot what i was gonna say!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The worst thing about overnight meets is if you stay in the guys house, needing a poo in the night and having to put a toilet paper crash mat down so you don't make a noise or putting your finger over your bum hole so you can let a fart out quietly. Overnight stays can be a fucking minefield. "

I just far in bed and hold the covers over their head till they stop struggling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love to cuddle up and fall asleep together after. fuck and go leaves me feeling dirty. plus I love the morning sex!! so I only meet once chatted for ages and then social, tho I dont mind socials turning into more. "

See that for me is what I would do with a partner... Nsa sex to me means once he's cum... I'm really ready for him to be gone. I'd be really freaked out if a meet wanted to cuddle... Let alone fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say overnight is more personal thing

No way in hell I'd spend a night with someone. It's not a dating site."

Is meeting somebody off a sex site and spending the whole night with them a date?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

I have no issue accommodating meets for a night or two if they've travelled to see me. However, I don't expect the same in return. I'm more than happy to find a nearby Travel Lodge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt stay the night in someone's home, I don't know why it just feels odd, would only be in a hotel, I don't like going to peoples homes as I can't relax, I don't like having to ask every time I want a drink or to use the loo etc I like to be able to get up and move about freely, I find hotel just a more relaxing place than going to someone's home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done overnighters but hardly ever on a first meet. It's a long night if there is no chemistry or he is a one fuck wonder.

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I much prefer overnighters - much more time to relax and take things slowly... or over again... and again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol such eloquence hehehe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After last night, overnight is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To wake up in the middle of the night with my arms around her, if we're spooning, to kiss my way down her back to her gorgeous bum as she automatically opened her legs in a sloppy daze, the kiss all around the top of her thighs before brushing her clit with my lips, I love it when she gets wet whilst still sleepy, love it better still for her to com around as I'm snogging, licking and teasing her until she shudders, then ram my cock deep inside her.....can't do that if one of you has to disappear, all nighters..... Yes pleeeeeease

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oh my!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say overnight is more personal thing

No way in hell I'd spend a night with someone. It's not a dating site.

Is meeting somebody off a sex site and spending the whole night with them a date?

To me it's similar yes in that it's far too intimate. To other people apparently not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't see any issues with an overnight visit. We live on a boat in central London and have three double beds onboard...God we could probably host a mini swinger party on here. Lol. Would be great for a good wake - up fuck session before breakfast. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont have a partner, nor do I want to date again, been through a rough few yrs, and need time alone. but spending every night alone, is, for me, incredibly lonely and depressing, so an occasional overnight meet means I get the contact and companionship and sex that i miss. I know its not they way for everybody, but so far its working ok for me, there is the risk of feelings developing, but if I thought i was heading down that route, then I would stop seeing the guy. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh my!

X 2

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

For me its the same though if feelings did develop with both of us then we would see how it went been single far too long but only if she wanted to otherwise its just great having the company overnight and morning sex and cuddles thats hard to beat really xxx

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Sometimes if looking to hook up with someone/s a considerable distance away, the only practical solution is to arrange an overnight meet.

What are your feelings on 'overnighters'?"

I can't last two hours let alone overnight

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By *aulp4alsMan over a year ago

Warrington

I have done overnight a few times I stayed in the marital bed with the wife whilst hubby slept in the spare room

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By *asyukMan over a year ago

West London

Have done overnights in a hotel on a first meet but usually very indulgent all day hotel daytime sessions

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