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Lose the BJ pic, yay or nay?
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"meh. doesn't seem to be a problem? where's the pressure to remove it coming from?"
No pressure...just advice from one comment on the 'profile positive and negative' thread.
Really, I'm just interested in whether some women or couples would be put off by a bj pic on a profile. Or do some actually like one or two 'action pics' on there? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I just commented on the positives and negatives without having seen this thread...
I'd lose the BJ pic, but thats my preference, it seems indiscreet and not needed. I know what a bj looks like, and I'm happy you've experienced it, but its not going to make me want to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be a turn off and I'm not keen on them personally
However it does give a decent estimation of size for those who are keen to know
Your other pictures are quite stunning tbh and I can see where the commenter came from in the fact that it's the odd one of the bunch so to speak, but quite a well done odd one if that makes sense
I did a couple of bj shots with someone and they are in his private pics......I wish they weren't tbh  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"I just commented on the positives and negatives without having seen this thread...
I'd lose the BJ pic, but thats my preference, it seems indiscreet and not needed. I know what a bj looks like, and I'm happy you've experienced it, but its not going to make me want to meet you."
Thank you ....it will be interesting to see I most women or couples who contribute to this thread feel the same way. You certainly seem to make a very valid point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?"
Whoa you don't mess about lol, I only suggested it as its like throwing your ace out to begin with, I used to have full body and face pics including nude in my public gallery, I got more attention but it fizzled out quick, now I have a few cards to play with, didn't mean to offend you big lad ax you've put far more effort into your profile and your training by the looks lol  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"It can be a turn off and I'm not keen on them personally
However it does give a decent estimation of size for those who are keen to know
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Thank you, I did make sure that the lady obliging had exceptionally small hands  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a bj photo in my friends only gallery.
OP, it's not too bad or crude, but I feel like the rest of your photos are more discrete, so maybe the bj photo distracts from that? I've seen A LOT worse on here though. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
Whoa you don't mess about lol, I only suggested it as its like throwing your ace out to begin with, I used to have full body and face pics including nude in my public gallery, I got more attention but it fizzled out quick, now I have a few cards to play with, didn't mean to offend you big lad ax you've put far more effort into your profile and your training by the looks lol "
No offence whatsoever...your post got me thinking and now I am interested, that's all. I hadn't considered it before, so thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No problem with BJ pics myself - at least it shows you as well as her. However you could do with a trim  "
I'm my opinion there is no need to trim, but as with the bj pic it's a matter of personal preference
You can't please all the people all of the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
Whoa you don't mess about lol, I only suggested it as its like throwing your ace out to begin with, I used to have full body and face pics including nude in my public gallery, I got more attention but it fizzled out quick, now I have a few cards to play with, didn't mean to offend you big lad ax you've put far more effort into your profile and your training by the looks lol
No offence whatsoever...your post got me thinking and now I am interested, that's all. I hadn't considered it before, so thank you."
Not often I get stuff right lol |
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I'm always put off by seeing other people in a person's profile but that's just me, lots of people will like it. If you like it and feel it reflects your personality and will attract people you want then leave it there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be a turn off and I'm not keen on them personally
However it does give a decent estimation of size for those who are keen to know
Thank you, I did make sure that the lady obliging had exceptionally small hands "
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"Put it in your private pics"
Am thinking of that...where it belongs with the others from that particular shoot
I guess I just thought that giving a glimpse might be appreciated by some and hopefully not put off others.
In truth, if someone doesn't like that pic then they probably won't like the majority in my private gallery either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put it in your private pics
Am thinking of that...where it belongs with the others from that particular shoot
I guess I just thought that giving a glimpse might be appreciated by some and hopefully not put off others.
In truth, if someone doesn't like that pic then they probably won't like the majority in my private gallery either."
I have my naughtier pics in private. Some will like them, others won't. No big deal!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer bj pics that show a hint of what is about to happen rather than the cock almost disappeared into the recipients mouth .....a more teasing image, for example - lips or tongue beginning to circle the tip of the cock and his hand on the back of her hand - need a photo shoot now please! M x  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"I prefer bj pics that show a hint of what is about to happen rather than the cock almost disappeared into the recipients mouth .....a more teasing image, for example - lips or tongue beginning to circle the tip of the cock and his hand on the back of her hand - need a photo shoot now please! M x "
What, like the one on your profile...lol..
I'm jumping in the car and heading up to Halifax right away btw.. |
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I personally think if your going to have a cock shot it's not much use if it's a bit of flesh showing between hands and mouth. BJ pics tend to show more of the woman and hardly any of the guy who's profile it's on so seems a little pointless to me. I'm also one who's not a fan of action shots.
But it's your profile and like someone else says you can't please all the people. So keep it if you like it.
My opinion is that your body shots are lovely and that particular photo isn't really necessary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find them attractive personally. As others have said,it's your profile so have it showing if you want. It wouldn't put me off as you have other very nice pics,unlike some men who have more of the women in his pics than him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?"
The BJ itself is not off-putting but the revelation of pubic hair in that picture is - but that is just us, of course. I am sure that others would not be as put off as us. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
The BJ itself is not off-putting but the revelation of pubic hair in that picture is - but that is just us, of course. I am sure that others would not be as put off as us."
As I mentioned earlier, the pic is from some time ago and I'm much more closely trimmed these days (and shaved sack), however, personally I'm not a fan of being completely bald down there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be a turn off and I'm not keen on them personally
However it does give a decent estimation of size for those who are keen to know
Thank you, I did make sure that the lady obliging had exceptionally small hands "
Lolol....I don't mind a bj pic though, your profile to do what you want with xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd ask myself why they think it should be removed...
I have lots of pics with my sexual meets most of the time..none of them have asked me to remove a pic of another person...I'd probably tell them to fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ohhh yes - this gets even better - i like a little bit of manly hair down to stroke, play, tease.....  "
See, for as many as you put off, there will be as many who like. Be yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?"
Keep it and add some more |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
Keep it and add some more "
There are in my private gallery..you only need to ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
Keep it and add some more "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just been suggested that maybe I would be better off getting rid of the bj pic in my public gallery.
What do you reckon?
Keep it and add some more "
I have various types of meets..but I love gloswinger pics..
If I felt threatened by seeing bigger/better/hotter cocks on the profile..I wouldnt be on fab.
In my experience people who tend to judge explicit pics involving others actually have some problems understanding the facets of this scene..
while not upping myself..I've been told I meet "hot" women and they would feel insecure..if they had actually checked theyd realise I meet various types of people(that IM attracted to)(I dont care if others dont find them attractive)
the OP's pic, looked like a rather hot woman..I can only imagine the person that asked for it to be removed had her(I'm assuming her), had an ulterior motive or just sheer jealousy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just commented on the positives and negatives without having seen this thread...
I'd lose the BJ pic, but thats my preference, it seems indiscreet and not needed. I know what a bj looks like, and I'm happy you've experienced it, but its not going to make me want to meet you."
This. What's the point of it. I have that kind of pic and vids in my own private collection away from fab for my own enjoyment, not for sharing with anyone else. Having said that if you want to display it then do so. It is your opinion that matters not mine or anyone else's. |
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"Oh, and that goes for all action shots. I want to see the person on the profile, not their previous meets...
Agreed
well thats just fucking boring"
It may be f*#king boring to you,but when I see someone's profile I want to imagine having fun with that person myself. When you see some other woman attached to the end of their bits and pieces it kinda spoils that. We can all produce that kind of photo,but do other men really want to see me sucking on someone else's cock,I doubt it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd keep it if you like it.
I don't like when a profile is entirely photos of about an inch of a man's cock hanging out of pretty much an entire, recognisable woman. But a BJ pic in a profile full of other pics? Well I have them, it would be a bit hypocritical of me to say everyone else should delete theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think BJ pics appeal to men more than women. Pussy eating shots on the other hand.....
Personally I'd rather see a pic of a guy giving rather than receiving.
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I like the odd bj pic if tasteful (which yours is) but hate it when a profile is only about the cock and bjs with different women, to me it shows what the man wants and it's usually self centred! In your case I don't think you need it as your other pics are so yummily persuasive but I certainly don't object to perving it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the opinions...so many and so conflicting....the jury is still out here.."
There will always be totally conflicting opinions on stuff like this. That's why I think decide if YOU like it on your profile and stick with that. If someone is going to be put off by it, they would probably find some other reason to be put off by you anyway. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the opinions...so many and so conflicting....the jury is still out here..
There will always be totally conflicting opinions on stuff like this. That's why I think decide if YOU like it on your profile and stick with that. If someone is going to be put off by it, they would probably find some other reason to be put off by you anyway. "
Yes, you are right. I like it (along with the others, all taken at the same time, which are in my private gallery). I'm still trying to decide whether it would be better off in my private gallery with the others (action shots), or left where it is for all to see.
At the end of the day, I'm sure it doesn't make a blind bit of difference.
Still, interesting to hear the different viewpoints..  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"One comment and you doubt yrself
Some like cock pics some don't. .you will not get everyone to agree with your pics,the important thing is IT'S YOUR PROFILE
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I wasn't doubting myself (ffs), just interested in different opinions.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, and that goes for all action shots. I want to see the person on the profile, not their previous meets...
Agreed
well thats just fucking boring
It may be f*#king boring to you,but when I see someone's profile I want to imagine having fun with that person myself. When you see some other woman attached to the end of their bits and pieces it kinda spoils that. We can all produce that kind of photo,but do other men really want to see me sucking on someone else's cock,I doubt it!"
if it shows something u enjoy..yes I have no problem with it..I have no jealousy issues who meets who..and if I manage to meet the said cock sucker..I might be in the next shot.
simple... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your profile they are your pics so do what YOU want as you canny please every one and to be honest are you here to please everyone or tempt N tease a certain few and enjoy . |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's your profile they are your pics so do what YOU want as you canny please every one and to be honest are you here to please everyone or tempt N tease a certain few and enjoy ."
...definitely the latter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's your profile they are your pics so do what YOU want as you canny please every one and to be honest are you here to please everyone or tempt N tease a certain few and enjoy .
...definitely the latter "
OP would you consider telling someone to remove a pic for any reason(unless they had shit stains on their panties or similar)..
I'd sit for a minute contemplating their suggestion and then tell them to fuck off. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's your profile they are your pics so do what YOU want as you canny please every one and to be honest are you here to please everyone or tempt N tease a certain few and enjoy .
...definitely the latter
OP would you consider telling someone to remove a pic for any reason(unless they had shit stains on their panties or similar)..
I'd sit for a minute contemplating their suggestion and then tell them to fuck off."
lol....it was all light hearted banter in the 'positives and negatives' thread...just a couple of people (one guy and one girl actually) who mentioned the bj pic as a 'negative'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, and that goes for all action shots. I want to see the person on the profile, not their previous meets...
Agreed
well thats just fucking boring
It may be f*#king boring to you,but when I see someone's profile I want to imagine having fun with that person myself. When you see some other woman attached to the end of their bits and pieces it kinda spoils that. We can all produce that kind of photo,but do other men really want to see me sucking on someone else's cock,I doubt it!
if it shows something u enjoy..yes I have no problem with it..I have no jealousy issues who meets who..and if I manage to meet the said cock sucker..I might be in the next shot.
simple..."
If you weren't so far away you certainly would be in the next shot |
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Never have and never will criticize anybodys pics or tell them what to have public same as i wouldn't expect peeps telling me what to post its your profile and those that do think its ok to give their unwarranted opinion are people i wouldn't want to meet anyway..  |
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