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What have you learned since joining Fab?
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Similar to my previous question I know, but with the subtle difference of not being what you learned about yourself, the last two words being key to the last similar thread, but lessons learned in general.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar to my previous question I know, but with the subtle difference of not being what you learned about yourself, the last two words being key to the last similar thread, but lessons learned in general.
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That in some things I'm quite conservative even though all the people who know me would think me very broad minded x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is similar to the real world for me, The Women I like have no interest in me as I get the same reactions,
But in general there are some intelligent people on fab I learn something new every day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is similar to the real world for me, The Women I like have no interest in me as I get the same reactions,
But in general there are some intelligent people on fab I learn something new every day "
That there are some very judgemental people on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have learned that this site is for swingers/ mainly couple ( only because there are loads of couples looking for fun ) and a few guys ! On the down side there are females who want to be paid for services .yes we report them but dosnt stop them ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive learnt that you have to put yourself out there in the scene to make the most use on fab. for eg go out to clubs, go dogging etc then you will meet people, build friendships and then you will get meets and verifications. people dont tend to trust people without seeing them in the flesh first. i use fab to stay in touch with the people i meet in person not use fab to meet people. dont get me wrong plenty of people meet on fab but in my expierience they only meet if your a couple/single female or have a VWE cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That even for a fatty I'm.awesome in bed...or against a wall or.tree or.......
Oh.and that with a bit of help I can work through my bucket list.... Even if I do seem to add 2 for every 1 I cross off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I am apparently a lot more attractive to both men and women than I thought I was. The 30-odd thousand fabs I have been given have done a lot to boost my confidence."
You do have some of the best/classiest pictures on here
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"That I am apparently a lot more attractive to both men and women than I thought I was. The 30-odd thousand fabs I have been given have done a lot to boost my confidence.
You do have some of the best/classiest pictures on here
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Thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That humour, mild sarcasm and being polite pays dividends and that many younger guys with six packs and attitude whine incessantly about not getting laid and make my day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some people REALLY dont take rejection very well 
Haha totally agree with this
oh so you've noticed that too lol"
Oh yes got quite a bit of verbal last week for saying no thankyou  Surprising how a grown arsed man can act do childish lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That whatever I put in my profile to either attract the right people or deter those I do not intend to meet makes little difference as many of those who contact me have evidently not read it.
The men I have had the best fun with were neither supremely handsome or well endowed so I have learned that looks are not everything (well I knew that already but fab has confirmed it)
That people can be very quick to judge and dismiss others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That with a woman who appreciates me for who I am and look like ? I have the confidence to excite her and make her feel hopefully the best she possibly can?
And with her have fun with other couples ? Something you hope for but never dreamt would happen ! |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
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Had given up on finding romantic guys
FaB has loads, not just booty calls.
Single guys have such a harsh time here.
Have had my sexual adventures taken to new levels
Also the hate from some types of people,
will go unchecked and when you take action you get cyber jail.
Found myself along the way, as brain changes take hold. because of HRT,FaB has been a useful tool.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt that no one local messages,likes,winks or bloody shows any interest in me at all but the people that live miles ( and I mean miles) away like me and always say "if only you lived closer"...... Pattern forming here in the game they call Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt how to have confidence in myself and my image, I maybe a size 20/22 but I am confident in my skin! I've learnt how to take insults with a pinch of salt (the block button is a godsend  )
I've also learnt that most of the blokes I've met / talked to & also played with like me for who I am and they wouldn't meet me if they didn't like my body !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets, this has been most interesting."
It's not about can't, some of us are just more choosier than others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men are desperate for sex and women and not. I have come to this conclusion based on the fact that there are many more male profiles than female and that many female profiles are actually men pretending to be women for some reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single woman, I pretty much have the pick
Also when contacted by couples, most expect you to address them as a couple but only have pics of the woman on their profile???? Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too true, lots of posts but few meets and sulky people who block you. Being my age is great but there are a few on here that won't meet but when you are in the club with them it's a different matter. Having fun though but not chat savvy, too many clicks people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single woman, I pretty much have the pick
Also when contacted by couples, most expect you to address them as a couple but only have pics of the woman on their profile???? Why? "
We looked through about 50 couple profiles the other night and apart from the odd glimpse of a cock there was not a single photo of the guy. Spent about an hour looking and didn't find a single couple we felt we wanted to message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets"
Not sure if this was a reference to my (he) point of finding it easier to get laid by fit girls in reality than get ignored by plain girls on here. If so, what I posted is a literal truth. I have girls in real life that would totally blow out the water anything I've seen here so far, got a date with one on Wednesday.
Anyway we neither want nor need the OPs blessing, just clarifying the point, I fully get where letsdothis500 is coming from.
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets
Not sure if this was a reference to my (he) point of finding it easier to get laid by fit girls in reality than get ignored by plain girls on here. If so, what I posted is a literal truth. I have girls in real life that would totally blow out the water anything I've seen here so far, got a date with one on Wednesday.
Anyway we neither want nor need the OPs blessing, just clarifying the point, I fully get where letsdothis500 is coming from.
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My comment was not directed at your post at all.
I am just interested in the messages and am not here to confer any blessing...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets, this has been most interesting.
It's not about can't, some of us are just more choosier than others
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets
Not sure if this was a reference to my (he) point of finding it easier to get laid by fit girls in reality than get ignored by plain girls on here. If so, what I posted is a literal truth. I have girls in real life that would totally blow out the water anything I've seen here so far, got a date with one on Wednesday.
Anyway we neither want nor need the OPs blessing, just clarifying the point, I fully get where letsdothis500 is coming from.
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The criteria applied to meeting someone from this site is probably different to that applied in real life since in real life there aren't generally hundreds of men to choose from. It's a buyer's market. |
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loads of guys prefer the idea of playing to actually turning up and playing.
it doesn't matter what you write in your profile coz most don't read it.
even with just an avatar photo we get messages saying ' you are gorgeous'
everybody assumes it is a female in the avatar. (could be, may not.)
how many straight guys are bi |
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"Putting to one side the usual drivel from single guys who can't get meets, this has been most interesting.
It's not about can't, some of us are just more choosier than others
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Good for you.
But then choosy men don't tend to whine about not getting meets as they're too busy deciding which woman or couple to meet, so I was clearly not referring to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The criteria applied to meeting someone from this site is probably different to that applied in real life since in real life there aren't generally hundreds of men to choose from. It's a buyer's market."
That's a fair point, but also the reality is that there are hundreds of ashtrays and very few vases |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is the key and read people's profiles.. Some people can be ignorant but who isn't. "
I wish people would read mine before messaging then I wouldn't have to keep pressing delete x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned that no matter how hard you try it's never enough or its trying to hard lol
But on a serious note I've come to understand that if you don't put yourself out there then it's not going to happen, take risks yourl be surprised where they lead lol |
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That a woman on Fab, who has false teeth (which she has lost), prison tattoos and lives in a hostel is a desired person on Fab (yes for real). Cant imagine what it's like for the even average looking woman it has nade me realise not to expect it to come ro much and have a laugh with the decent people you do actually chat. The ratios are all out so guys dont be bathing with an electric fire because of knock backs |
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1, some people take this site far too seriously. Don't bother contacting those who do take this site seriously.
2, those with a shopping list of likes and dislikes have no hope of find someone on here. Those without any likes or dislikes will find any one on here.
3, there are a lot of webcams that don't work
4, assumptions are always wrong. |
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