FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Ladies orgasming at clubs
Ladies orgasming at clubs
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Quick question for girlies...
When you go to a club, obviously having a play, do you always make sure you leave satisfied orgasmically?
I realise for some having an O in a club isn't the be all and end all, but for others, are you disappointed/frustrated when you don't have one? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I go to have fun and if even I don't orgasm I can still have fun......I am lucky though and my husband is with me so if it doesn't happen with a randomer it would still happen with him  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's rare I will orgasm with a meet. So I don't go thinking I need to.. But I know Mr will give me a few either before we play with others.. during or after x if we have not met up much in the week I always need some time just us first as a frustrated me is a bit unwilling to share lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I go to have fun and if even I don't orgasm I can still have fun......I am lucky though and my husband is with me so if it doesn't happen with a randomer it would still happen with him "
Thats a good thing about goint to a club you can still have fun even without an orgasm  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I love having a loud uncontrollable orgasm at a club with lots of ppl watching. Really turns me on."
.
Lucky you!
It takes me ages, lots of concentration and for the guy to stimulate me the way I want before I have an O. At a club I think it might even take me longer! I'm not sure guys at clubs would necessarily want to spend time doing that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love having a loud uncontrollable orgasm at a club with lots of ppl watching. Really turns me on..
Lucky you!
It takes me ages, lots of concentration and for the guy to stimulate me the way I want before I have an O. At a club I think it might even take me longer! I'm not sure guys at clubs would necessarily want to spend time doing that. "
I have been to 1 club and spent the ebtire evening with 1 women concentrating on just her and making her time amazing!! She took a while but she ended up having multiple orgasms!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I love having a loud uncontrollable orgasm at a club with lots of ppl watching. Really turns me on..
Lucky you!
It takes me ages, lots of concentration and for the guy to stimulate me the way I want before I have an O. At a club I think it might even take me longer! I'm not sure guys at clubs would necessarily want to spend time doing that.
I have been to 1 club and spent the ebtire evening with 1 women concentrating on just her and making her time amazing!! She took a while but she ended up having multiple orgasms!! "
Aww you lovely man! Bet she loved you! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love having a loud uncontrollable orgasm at a club with lots of ppl watching. Really turns me on..
Lucky you!
It takes me ages, lots of concentration and for the guy to stimulate me the way I want before I have an O. At a club I think it might even take me longer! I'm not sure guys at clubs would necessarily want to spend time doing that.
I have been to 1 club and spent the ebtire evening with 1 women concentrating on just her and making her time amazing!! She took a while but she ended up having multiple orgasms!! "
You sound lovely!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip...."
I won't orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. I still have fun though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love having a loud uncontrollable orgasm at a club with lots of ppl watching. Really turns me on.
I can't wait for our first club visit for this  "
One excellent time was with hubby in the cinema room at AbFabs (a few years ago) the whole room went quiet while I came. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip....
I won't orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. I still have fun though. "
That's the aim isn't it really, have fun... X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip....
I won't orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. I still have fun though.
That's the aim isn't it really, have fun... X"
I think so. x
Some people seem disgruntled if I don't perform the way they want me to though.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Many of us ladies have stated that we dont or won't orgasm at clubs.. I'm just curious how many are like me that would actually feel they had failed if a guy didnt cum?
Mr does on occasion refuse me to let him. It's never that I can't manage it but more likely he makes me wait and then time gets the better of us.. and I can feel awful...
And I have often only given oral to guys.. yet would not just get oral from a meet |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Many of us ladies have stated that we dont or won't orgasm at clubs.. I'm just curious how many are like me that would actually feel they had failed if a guy didnt cum?
Mr does on occasion refuse me to let him. It's never that I can't manage it but more likely he makes me wait and then time gets the better of us.. and I can feel awful...
And I have often only given oral to guys.. yet would not just get oral from a meet "
If a guy doesn't cum, then so be it. I'd like to think they enjoyed what fun we had regardless of an end result.
I know im happy when tables are turned, as I rarely orgasm but very much love the flirt, the tease and the play swinging brings.
I've also given guys just oral and theyve loved it. Fun should be just that and what happens, happens.  xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Many of us ladies have stated that we dont or won't orgasm at clubs.. I'm just curious how many are like me that would actually feel they had failed if a guy didnt cum?
"
Nope, I wouldn't feel like I'd failed.
Orgasms aren't necessary to having fun. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip....
I won't orgasm on meets and I don't fake either. I still have fun though.
That's the aim isn't it really, have fun... X
I think so. x
Some people seem disgruntled if I don't perform the way they want me to though. "
Perform?? I'm not a sealion! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Many of us ladies have stated that we dont or won't orgasm at clubs.. I'm just curious how many are like me that would actually feel they had failed if a guy didnt cum?
Nope, I wouldn't feel like I'd failed.
Orgasms aren't necessary to having fun."
I actually prefer it if he doesn't cum...edging till he's bursting with others then I get his cum in my holes... YAY  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
you cant really make sure that you have an orgasm as for some its not a guaranteed thing - personally i come easy and many times and the club setting takes me into a different zone- its a different kind of arousal for me - not necessarily the most intense as those are with W |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love to see a women come there is nothing hotter as she builds then let's herself go "
Here here, I love to feel a womans body shake when she cums, turns me on no end |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
I'm very happy to spend time pleasuring a woman in a club, thats a big part of why I go. The biggest thrill comes from seeing...feeling a woman cum from my touch. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean banging away for ages. I mean spending time caressing, playing, talking. After all often an orgasm starts in the mind. Other times people are ready for straight forward action, and cum quickly. Everyone is different and every situation is different. I go with a mindset of wanting to give pleasure (selfishly I really enjoy that!) I have found if you treat a woman how she wants, then she is usually keen to reciprocate!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I (female) almost never orgasm whilst swinging, and as partner is a stayer, We like to save that bit for when we get home. Some people I think get offended, but it doesn't mean it isn't a fantastic experience. If it was all about orgasm we might as well stay home and masturbate. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Never orgasmed with a meet...took a long time with o.h before I did either
I don't expect orgasms when I play with others.... And I'm not going to fake one either just to give him a ego trip...."
doesn't mean you haven't enjoyed it though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I can't leave any lady without orgasm lol :D my partners always need to be satisfied! Doesn't matter where we are! "
Really? So I guess you would keep banging and fingering away...why does a woman have to cum to be "satisfied"... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I (female) almost never orgasm whilst swinging, and as partner is a stayer, We like to save that bit for when we get home. Some people I think get offended, but it doesn't mean it isn't a fantastic experience. If it was all about orgasm we might as well stay home and masturbate. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
