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this site is so hard to get into
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been on here a while now im not the best looking im quiet fit looking gen my profile does not run any ne down but find it hard to get started only met 2 off here.
how the hell do some people do it any help please or can some of you ladys check my profile and say thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you should start going to the clubs on singles and couples nights. Fab members have partys at alot of places over the uk and some single men are very welcome theres no worries about going alone as there will be other singles there and most i have been to make you very welcome, Its a good way of meeting people face to face and you never know you my click and have fun. look at uk forum here xx jo |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all "
Don't worry . not all of us think the same.
Personally I think you only have to explain to anyone you meet anyway..if at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all
Don't worry . not all of us think the same.
Personally I think you only have to explain to anyone you meet anyway..if at all."
Great point.  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
Your profile looks great and the pics are great.
Socials are excellent and would also suggest the chat room with your face on cam(not your dick) and just chat with people. You may find it hard but as with anything its how you come across and how you speak to people that makes a difference.
There are of course swing clubs if you fancy going on a single male night.
It is very hard for single males as so many of them on the site and same for other sites.
Just be polite and genuine and work out the actualy maths rations on here and that will help you understand how hard it is for single males.
Personally I luvvvv single males,especially ones near me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"been on here a while now im not the best looking im quiet fit looking gen my profile does not run any ne down but find it hard to get started only met 2 off here.
how the hell do some people do it any help please or can some of you ladys check my profile and say thanks"
Just check out the amount of new guys in the New Men section.
Half of them have probably joined since your O.P.
Also have a look at the Introductions Forum and the ratio of men to couples/women..........that's where the problem lies for most guys.R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no its i do not live on my own at the mo in my parents place untill i get my own thats the reason why thats all "
Pop it on your profile, just stops fems thinking you may be married. |
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Unfortunately, it's notoriously difficult for single males to get meets on here, and in the lifestyle in general, and there is a lot of competition.
As an ex single male single swinger myself, i'd totally recommend going along to clubs that have couples and singles nights.
Don't let yourself become jaded by the people who would write you off before they've even messaged you.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes not bad but i sent 40 messages for that "
Sometimes it takes 40 messages to make a connection, sometimes only 4.
It can be frustrating, but worth keeping at it. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
see... I don't have a problem with the living at home stuff..... by where my mum is (basically in the area by the olympic stadium) I know rents are thru the roof...
the problem i have is that he asked the question months ago... got lots of good answers.....
then asked the question again last week.... and got lots of answers.....
then asked the same question again today... which raises loads of red flags...
impatience, not listening to advice, moaning ect ect ect.... |
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