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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I received a msg yesterday from a guy who tried to big himself up ( a turn-off to begin with) asking me to visit his profile and get back to him if i wanted to meet. When I didn't reply straight away, he msgd me back telling me i was rude for not doing so! I then visited his profile out of curiosity to find it was actually a couples profile and not a very nice one at that so I replied to him telling him I wasn't interested. He then replied saying that it was my loss and that he had a lovely blonde fuck buddy anyway and was a tad abusive. I can't understand why some people find it hard to take no for an answer.....I never browse/wink/msg random people for fear of rejection and I wouldn't do vice versa if some guys weren't such dicks lol |
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"We have had the same,if Paul not here i will read emails and we reply when he gets in but some people are too impatient and want a reply there and then."
We get that a lot.. We have a couples profile, so unless its something that the other can answer without discussing it, then we wait.
I have on a few occassions got a message 2 mins after reading a message with things like
"you could just say no" or "what do you think"...
I am afraid at that point I normally go into bitch mode.
Then block them.
Katie. x |
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"We have had the same,if Paul not here i will read emails and we reply when he gets in but some people are too impatient and want a reply there and then.
We get that a lot.. We have a couples profile, so unless its something that the other can answer without discussing it, then we wait.
I have on a few occassions got a message 2 mins after reading a message with things like
"you could just say no" or "what do you think"...
I am afraid at that point I normally go into bitch mode.
Then block them.
Katie. x"
I do the same... and have to say its usually guys who send another email within 2 mins of me reading the email demanding to know why i havnt replied to the first email x |
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"I received a msg yesterday from a guy who tried to big himself up ( a turn-off to begin with) asking me to visit his profile and get back to him if i wanted to meet. When I didn't reply straight away, he msgd me back telling me i was rude for not doing so! I then visited his profile out of curiosity to find it was actually a couples profile and not a very nice one at that so I replied to him telling him I wasn't interested. He then replied saying that it was my loss and that he had a lovely blonde fuck buddy anyway and was a tad abusive. I can't understand why some people find it hard to take no for an answer.....I never browse/wink/msg random people for fear of rejection and I wouldn't do vice versa if some guys weren't such dicks lol"
i get quite a few such messages from men and couples i tell i dont want to meet
i never get the your loss bit.....i turned them down if i wanted to meet them i would have so how is it my loss? lol
Some people just cant handle rejection and have to come out all guns blazing to make them feel better by having the last word and putting you down.....so they can walk away feeling better thinking ...."there see how she likes it"
at the end of the day noones for everyone we will all reject offers and have our offers rejected, if you cant do both in an adult manner then maybe this isnt the right site for you |
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