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Does the threesome woman exist ? yes or no
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Your female is on another website; Seriously you would have more luck asking people in a nightclub... (we actually have had more luck chatting up girls in nightclubs as a couple)
All females on here are only interested in couples that look like models. |
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"Your female is on another website; Seriously you would have more luck asking people in a nightclub... (we actually have had more luck chatting up girls in nightclubs as a couple)
All females on here are only interested in couples that look like models."
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"Your female is on another website; Seriously you would have more luck asking people in a nightclub... (we actually have had more luck chatting up girls in nightclubs as a couple)
All females on here are only interested in couples that look like models."
That's not true. I have my own reason for not wanting threesomes and I don't look for models anyway! |
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"Perhaps they are put off by the requirement for them to be submissive and experience humiliation at the hands of your other half?  "
No... not all of us are put off by things like that. |
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"Your female is on another website; Seriously you would have more luck asking people in a nightclub... (we actually have had more luck chatting up girls in nightclubs as a couple)
All females on here are only interested in couples that look like models.
Not all "
Spose not all... But more than 90% do. And people of whom we have talked to in swinging agree it is one of the downsides of this site.
Still great site for finding couples though! |
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Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved |
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"Perhaps they are put off by the requirement for them to be submissive and experience humiliation at the hands of your other half?
No... not all of us are put off by things like that."
Thats good to know x |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Ooh! Ooh! A chance to use a post from yesterday...
We are on here to meet bi fems who want to play with couples, and we have met some through here. Really don't think it is that much harder to meet them than anyone else, if you factor in all the things that have to be right.
1) Mutual attraction - three people have to fancy each other
2) Geography - distance is always a factor, unless you are very lucky
3) Safety - all three of you have to feel comfortable with each other. It's risky for singles to meet couples...but it's also risky for couples to meet singles
4) Timing - everyone is so busy, and matching available times is hard!
If you can tick all those _oxes you are already being lucky way over the odds, so couple that with the fact that bi fems are definitely in the minority here, and also obviously in very high demand, and it's no wonder people may see them as elusive.
All the (frankly wonderful) FFM meets we have had though have been through Fab, rather than clubs, and really that is down to three things - patience, communication and honesty. Keep those three things in mind and Fab will work wonders for you! |
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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved "
 Not every couple is one of those 3 types. |
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We have found quite a few but mostly we had met them either Mr as a single years before or together at clubs etc.. ..although Mr wouldn't mind I refuse to ever be the extra woman with other couples as I am not a toy, I don't want to mostly play with the woman and unless Mr is there I seem to have no interest in women really x yet I have been known to have played with more women than Mr in a club environment... So definitely not something I just do x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I've unicorned (for want of a better term) once so far with a couple. Who I had previously met as part of an MFMF couples meet and felt comfortable with them and their dynamic to not feel like a start part or that I was there to put on a show. I have had a few other MFFs, all have been with M and F single friends where all three of us have joined together as a threesome. That way there are no toes to step on and everyone is equally involved in the planning/discussion/logistics and fun. I'm not ruling out meeting couples but I prefer to know them and their dynamic first. |
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. "
I said in my experience and after so many disappointments ive decided just not to bother |
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"Your female is on another website; Seriously you would have more luck asking people in a nightclub... (we actually have had more luck chatting up girls in nightclubs as a couple)
All females on here are only interested in couples that look like models."
I agree with this x |
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. "
we're not like this either x |
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"The bit in your profile about the man verifying just had me  "
I may be reading it wrong but it reads like the guy will do the call to verify the other woman is actually a woman... Which for me wouldn't work as I won't speak to the male half..
I maybe reading it wrong though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Really .... Should there be a shop that hire a single female .... Not a toy actually people some Like 3sums other single female dont look at profiles and see what others enjoy... You'll get a better response. |
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. "
maybe it's the model type couples, giving us full on types a bad name |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
I've just looked at your profile. Even though I'm a sub and play with couples, I wouldn't entertain your profile. I cannot bear when it's demanded that I am phone checked by the male.
I also cannot bear being dragged into other's tasks.
I'm not commenting on how genuine you are but very often, I've experienced males that have set up fake female or couple profiles as a D/s relationship and say that the male does all the initial contact or the male must do the first social or meet.
I totally avoid anyone now that had your list of requirements.
I know it's standard for Doms to oversee sub's social media accounts but if I've done anything task based or played with another person at the request of my Dom, I've always done the communication myself. |
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"I've just looked at your profile. Even though I'm a sub and play with couples, I wouldn't entertain your profile. I cannot bear when it's demanded that I am phone checked by the male.
I also cannot bear being dragged into other's tasks.
I'm not commenting on how genuine you are but very often, I've experienced males that have set up fake female or couple profiles as a D/s relationship and say that the male does all the initial contact or the male must do the first social or meet.
I totally avoid anyone now that had your list of requirements.
I know it's standard for Doms to oversee sub's social media accounts but if I've done anything task based or played with another person at the request of my Dom, I've always done the communication myself. "
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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Also, if you have a look at the content of your profile, you have agendas and demands. Solo fems don't want to fit into the agenda of a couple? They don't want to be treated like a free escort.
We have had two MFF in the past ten days arranged from our couples profile. If you compare the text on our profile to the text on yours, ours is way more chilled out and we demand nothing of anyone. |
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"Ooh! Ooh! A chance to use a post from yesterday...
We are on here to meet bi fems who want to play with couples, and we have met some through here. Really don't think it is that much harder to meet them than anyone else, if you factor in all the things that have to be right.
1) Mutual attraction - three people have to fancy each other
2) Geography - distance is always a factor, unless you are very lucky
3) Safety - all three of you have to feel comfortable with each other. It's risky for singles to meet couples...but it's also risky for couples to meet singles
4) Timing - everyone is so busy, and matching available times is hard!
If you can tick all those _oxes you are already being lucky way over the odds, so couple that with the fact that bi fems are definitely in the minority here, and also obviously in very high demand, and it's no wonder people may see them as elusive.
All the (frankly wonderful) FFM meets we have had though have been through Fab, rather than clubs, and really that is down to three things - patience, communication and honesty. Keep those three things in mind and Fab will work wonders for you! "
Well said, doffs cap in general direction. I've had lovely FFM and an even lovelier FFF thanks to Fab. Your short and sweet list of 4 points is perfect.  |
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I meet couples although it's more likely that we say thanks but no on meeting face to face as that all elusive alchemy just isn't there in the flesh. In clubs it's slightly different although I will usually have spoken to a couple over a drink in the bar before progressing to play - or not! Same principles in play - all 3 of us have to want to play.
Key for me is patience - we all have lives away from Fab, great communication (signed by whichever of the couple is chatting on line!), photo swapping and a face to face meeting on neutral territory in a safe public place early as possible to gauge attraction. Single bi fems aren't unicorns. We're not rare although we are spread around geographically and may not be very close, we are human beings with sexual desires that may or may not match a couple and we are just as important in a 3 way equation as either individual in the couple. Respect and trust are key. For all 3 in the party. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"We have found quite a few but mostly we had met them either Mr as a single years before or together at clubs etc.. ..although Mr wouldn't mind I refuse to ever be the extra woman with other couples as I am not a toy, I don't want to mostly play with the woman and unless Mr is there I seem to have no interest in women really x yet I have been known to have played with more women than Mr in a club environment... So definitely not something I just do x "
I like being a toy  |
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"I meet couples although it's more likely that we say thanks but no on meeting face to face as that all elusive alchemy just isn't there in the flesh. In clubs it's slightly different although I will usually have spoken to a couple over a drink in the bar before progressing to play - or not! Same principles in play - all 3 of us have to want to play.
Key for me is patience - we all have lives away from Fab, great communication (signed by whichever of the couple is chatting on line!), photo swapping and a face to face meeting on neutral territory in a safe public place early as possible to gauge attraction. Single bi fems aren't unicorns. We're not rare although we are spread around geographically and may not be very close, we are human beings with sexual desires that may or may not match a couple and we are just as important in a 3 way equation as either individual in the couple. Respect and trust are key. For all 3 in the party. "
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. we're not like this either x"
us neither - we like to make our fem the centre of attention - often a massage from us both to get things started - very sensual and attentive
- then go with the flow - chat before hand to see if there are any fantasies to be fulfilled on either side |
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. "
Have to agree above -although new here- we are wanting to share everything as a 3 rather than 2 plus 1. Furthermore it's A within our relationship who wants it more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types.
Have to agree above -although new here- we are wanting to share everything as a 3 rather than 2 plus 1. Furthermore it's A within our relationship who wants it more "
exactly that - we always say play as 3sum or 4 sum or whatever - always all together neveer 2 plus 2 or splitting into 2 separate pairs |
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"Yea we do exist, I used to meet couples through fab, however no longer do as ive experienced only 3 types on this site the "lets give my man a show" type or your used as a glorified sex toy and once their turned on your forgotten about or shes clearly being forced into doing it when shes not remotely bi or comfortable with it. So now I play with couples at clubs only, always seems to be more successful for a mutually satisfying experience for all involved
Not every couple is one of those 3 types. we're not like this either x
us neither - we like to make our fem the centre of attention - often a massage from us both to get things started - very sensual and attentive
- then go with the flow - chat before hand to see if there are any fantasies to be fulfilled on either side "
Sounds like the way we want to happen too |
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Yes, I exist. What I've found though is that most couples who message me put in the same amount of effort as the single guys ie. "How's u"
Shame though. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
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us neither - we like to make our fem the centre of attention - often a massage from us both to get things started - very sensual and attentive
- then go with the flow - chat before hand to see if there are any fantasies to be fulfilled on either side "
Sounds hot |
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"Yes, I exist. What I've found though is that most couples who message me put in the same amount of effort as the single guys ie. "How's u"
Shame though. "
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us neither - we like to make our fem the centre of attention - often a massage from us both to get things started - very sensual and attentive
- then go with the flow - chat before hand to see if there are any fantasies to be fulfilled on either side
Sounds hot "
only shivers here are the trembles of an orgasm or few |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
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us neither - we like to make our fem the centre of attention - often a massage from us both to get things started - very sensual and attentive
- then go with the flow - chat before hand to see if there are any fantasies to be fulfilled on either side
Sounds hot
only shivers here are the trembles of an orgasm or few"
I'm quite partial to an orgasm or few  |
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"Also, if you have a look at the content of your profile, you have agendas and demands. Solo fems don't want to fit into the agenda of a couple? They don't want to be treated like a free escort.
We have had two MFF in the past ten days arranged from our couples profile. If you compare the text on our profile to the text on yours, ours is way more chilled out and we demand nothing of anyone. "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ooh! Ooh! A chance to use a post from yesterday...
We are on here to meet bi fems who want to play with couples, and we have met some through here. Really don't think it is that much harder to meet them than anyone else, if you factor in all the things that have to be right.
1) Mutual attraction - three people have to fancy each other
2) Geography - distance is always a factor, unless you are very lucky
3) Safety - all three of you have to feel comfortable with each other. It's risky for singles to meet couples...but it's also risky for couples to meet singles
4) Timing - everyone is so busy, and matching available times is hard!
If you can tick all those _oxes you are already being lucky way over the odds, so couple that with the fact that bi fems are definitely in the minority here, and also obviously in very high demand, and it's no wonder people may see them as elusive.
All the (frankly wonderful) FFM meets we have had though have been through Fab, rather than clubs, and really that is down to three things - patience, communication and honesty. Keep those three things in mind and Fab will work wonders for you!
Well said, doffs cap in general direction. I've had lovely FFM and an even lovelier FFF thanks to Fab. Your short and sweet list of 4 points is perfect. "
Thanks! We do try our best. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I have met and played with some great couples - both off and on fab.
I'm not a unicorn - just someone who really enjoys being with a man and a woman together.
I'm not some performing seal to be rolled out when it suits. I like to get to know a couple, chatting online before taking it forward, meeting socially and then see where it goes.
I've found the attitudes of some men in couples on fab is awful - the ones who won't meet other men because their "missus is too good to be shagged by any other fella" which is an automatic no from me for that kind of judgement. Also, the ones who insist that its all about pampering their female - I find that ends up as a show for the fella, and I get pretty much ignored (maybe just bad luck on my part) but I like to play equally with all, and it not be about ticking _oxes. I'm not a sex toy to fulfil your fantasy... |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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Lets not forget though that there are many women who meet couples on Fab because they want to be used as a sex toy!
You hear that phrase used a lot in these threads in a derogatory way, and of course it can be. But if that is the experience that a single woman is seeking to have when meeting a couple, being 'used as a sex toy' does not automatically mean that the single fem involved is not being respected, cherished and satisfied by the couple as well. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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OP they exist.
But one thing is true no matter whether you're a couple, single guy or single bi fem.
The more 'hoops' on a profile for potential meets to jump through the more likely someone will pass you by and move to a more friendly, approachable profile.
There are many things you can do to help yourself.
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"OP they exist.
But one thing is true no matter whether you're a couple, single guy or single bi fem.
The more 'hoops' on a profile for potential meets to jump through the more likely someone will pass you by and move to a more friendly, approachable profile.
There are many things you can do to help yourself.
A"
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP they exist.
But one thing is true no matter whether you're a couple, single guy or single bi fem.
The more 'hoops' on a profile for potential meets to jump through the more likely someone will pass you by and move to a more friendly, approachable profile.
There are many things you can do to help yourself.
A"
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