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"I like groundhog day!" good for you   | |||
"I agree! It's the 1st step to show your interested. I do look at my winks, and if I feel that I would like to chat then I wink back and we start the ball rolling. "Same here, I like them as a sign of interest. | |||
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as we answer all mails it saves us sending a thanks but no thanks message.
That said if people wink us but don't have pics or only have pics of one of them or just body bits it's really annoying because we aren't going to wink back saying we are interested because we don't know if we are, but on the other hand when we don't wink back they think we aren't interested even though we might have been had we seen pictures of them. | |||
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Fussy doesn't quite cover it. | |||
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"I like to get winks, but I don't really send them out because a lot of people don't like them." id let you wink at me shame you are so far away  | |||
"I think that when you do send a wink you need to realise that in many cases it will result in the recipitent looking at your profile. We got a wink earlier from a couple whose profile consisted of one line and no pictures. They expect us to wink them back if we are interested but how can we be interested there is nothing for us to be interested in. If you had a shop you would put something appealing in the window otherwise nobody would look at it, put something intersting and appealing in it and people may come in and look around at what is on offer." Ive said the same above, its like getting a box of chocolates and finding its empty | |||
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"My guy loves winking - its a way to get someone interested. If they wink back then we send a message, or they send us a message - yeah im glad its there "We dont mind winks and do send them aswell, if we wink and it is returned we will send a message. if someone winks us and we return it, it usually results in a friend request with no message. If they cant be bothered to message it goes no further from us as it clearly states we dont add friends unless spoken or messaged, we put this down to pic collectors. | |||
"Winks? Do we like them or hate them? Personally I don't mind getting winks, it shows you fancy them. X "If only all the ladies appreciated the functions of fab like you
After reading all the bad comments about winks , I never sent any but might change that now . | |||
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"I agree! It's the 1st step to show your interested. I do look at my winks, and if I feel that I would like to chat then I wink back and we start the ball rolling. "I concur. Shame lots of people ignore them and/or block you... | |||
"I agree! It's the 1st step to show your interested. I do look at my winks, and if I feel that I would like to chat then I wink back and we start the ball rolling. I concur. Shame lots of people ignore them and/or block you..."If some one blocks you as a result of getting a wink then thats good - do you want to waste your time on someone like that? Z | |||
"If some one blocks you as a result of getting a wink then thats good - do you want to waste your time on someone like that? Z" I absolutely agree!!! Seriously, some folks on here need to definately lighten up!! | |||
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"I have stopped sending winks after some nasty messages. Why do people take the hump as they can ignore if they like." dont take that to heart, just ignore them and keep winking away as some of us dont mind | |||
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 ).... that's if the person/people you are winking at actually like winks and check the list.
I rarely check my winks.... it's just not part of my routine when I log in.
My priority are the people who took time to write a message who have shown they actually read my profile.
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and a last one for good luck | |||
"Yes winks are a great way to show someone you are interested or might be interested (especially if you have rejection issues ).... that's if the person/people you are winking at actually like winks and check the list.
I rarely check my winks.... it's just not part of my routine when I log in.
My priority are the people who took time to write a message who have shown they actually read my profile.
"*Nods in agreement* | |||
I think my eye is on the blink lol
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I think my eye is on the blink lol
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"I like groundhog day!" Do you mean the film? Or is it a weak attempt at sarcasm | |||
"Winks? Do we like them or hate them? Personally I don't mind getting winks, it shows you fancy them. X "I quite like them, allthough when someone winks at me and I send an email but get no reply it can seem a bit odd | |||
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"I think winks are a great ice breaker. It says "I'm interested and would like to know if I meet your criteria". As much as everyone loves to receive a message, it's the rudest thing when you take the time to write an articulate message, for them to read and delete without responding, or just ignoring you. Lazy... as I keep reading, is for those who can't send a 'thanks, but not for us/me'. Maybe there should be an option to not have winks or have a message sent back saying we don't accept winks... "I've deleted without reading six messages today. The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting til December for medical reasons! Do you really expect me to respond to these men?!! I've also deleted two winks: couple in Sunderland - I'm straight and man in Glasgow: I only meet locally! You'd think people would contact those who want to meet them: but what do I know! | |||
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"In this circumstance I can understand why you would delete without response, however many messages are deleted without a no thank you for no good reason. A wink is as good as a nudge in those cases! "How do you know that messages are not replied to and deleted for no good reason? If someone doesn't want to reply to a message, they don't need to. It's not rocket science! I don't mind winks and will respond if they fit our criteria but can't understand the wink we got earlier from Inverness! Z | |||
"In this circumstance I can understand why you would delete without response, however many messages are deleted without a no thank you for no good reason. A wink is as good as a nudge in those cases!
How do you know that messages are not replied to and deleted for no good reason? If someone doesn't want to reply to a message, they don't need to. It's not rocket science! I don't mind winks and will respond if they fit our criteria but can't understand the wink we got earlier from Inverness! Z"If you read my earlier thread you'll understand. I completely agree with your comment on winks, and that should be the case. My point on messages not being replied to, is the exact reason for sending a wink rather than a thought out message which is then ignore. You are correct... It's not rocket science! | |||
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I would rather have a wink from a decent profile than a message from a rubbish profile,they're easy to ignore if you don't like them,we have met some great people from winks | |||
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