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What have you learned about yourself since joining fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So much.. I was such a 'no, not my thing about lots of things' now I'm more..' Ooh I love that and 'I don't know.. Let's try'... So much more fun..! But still not learnt the lesson about fakes.. Damn it! |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
That I should feel a little more confident about myself. And I do. Since being on here.
I'm also a lot less judgemental about other people and their sexual preferences and activities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've also realised that no matter how much I hate my body and how I know it must look during play times, it's not worth allowing it to take over how good somethings actually feel. It's to be enjoyed not ruined by self doubt. |
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"That I should feel a little more confident about myself. And I do. Since being on here.
I'm also a lot less judgemental about other people and their sexual preferences and activities. "
I'm pleased to read that..
Both are very positive developments and outcomes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be a harsh and vain place place at times and I get feed up with this place sometimes. Then I chat to some good people and a bit of faith is restored. Much like the real world...can be good...can be shit. |
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I've realised that a rejection here will not hurt as much as the REAL world , no full mail boxes and over inflated egos in the real world .
So in short guys don't ever take this to seriously it's just not worth , just have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That although I enjoy to dabble with my bi side I'm not into guys on a one on one situation.
Oh and that there are a lot of mean and judgemental people on this site who are probably far more brave behind their keyboards than in real life. I guess that's like any internet chat site, but you'd hope people would be a little bit more open-minded on a site like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have learned lots: how to put a shy person at ease, confidence, ability, technique, how to read a woman's body.
The basics
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You didn't know that before joining FAB? Shame on you ha ha. Time to call up some ex partners and ask for round two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That although I enjoy to dabble with my bi side I'm not into guys on a one on one situation.
Oh and that there are a lot of mean and judgemental people on this site who are probably far more brave behind their keyboards than in real life. I guess that's like any internet chat site, but you'd hope people would be a little bit more open-minded on a site like this."
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
That I enjoy getting naked.
And I enjoy spending a long time massaging women and enjoying pleasuring them.
Huge satisfaction in the giving, as you connect to the person through exploring their body through intimate touch.
And each person responds slightly differently, so I learn to read the signs through the slight changes in body movement and breathe.
Also, on occasion I can be very naughty and it has helped me explore this side when given opportunity.
But ultimately, in a club full of naked / near naked people with similar interests and mindset is a fantastic fun way to pass my time. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I've realised I have my own sense of right and wrong, and am true to myself now.
I've also learned I'm a fussy bitch, and how lucky I am to have my current lover who lets me experiment on here if I wish, whilst being great to be with so keeps me fulfilled in that sense. |
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"When I first joined fab I was too trusting and got taken in by fakes, now I'm the opposite and possibly too cautious"
When I first joined Fab I was convinced that I would not be physically desirable but there is something for everyone on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To pick your topics that you post in wisely. Some days Im funny and people may laugh, but other days I feel Im in league with the devil with the responses I get lol.
Also if I was a woman posting I wouldnt get as much stick.
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"I'm sexier than I ever imagined I was
That is one of the greatest replies I've ever heard... and yes u are babe as everyone is in there own way... god I love this site"
Thank you sweetie
Loving all your photos
So so cute mmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I'm more classier then most.
Yet you don't know the difference between then & than  "
Yes you are right but it is late so my mistake but please stop trolling hun.
Thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I'm more classier then most.
Yet you don't know the difference between then & than
Yes you are right but it is late so my mistake but please stop trolling hun.
Thanks "
Go to bed then. You obviously need your sleep. |
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By *te tMan
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"That I'm more classier then most.
Yet you don't know the difference between then & than
Yes you are right but it is late so my mistake but please stop trolling hun.
Thanks
Go to bed then. You obviously need your sleep."
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"That I'm more classier then most.
Yet you don't know the difference between then & than
Yes you are right but it is late so my mistake but please stop trolling hun.
Thanks
Go to bed then. You obviously need your sleep.
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Ding ding
Round 2 |
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That, as good as I am in a one on one situation, I am not into anything more.
So I am not a true swinger.
I have discovered I am a natural Dom, as well as a pleaser...in fact they are both linked.
Whilst I think I am Shrek like, others think I am ok looking. In fact, some ladies whom I perceive as being out of my league, have enjoyed themselves with me....a lot
That ladies find me trustworthy. Enough to come to my house, blindfold themselves, and let me tease and please them...all without meeting me before or seeing me 
That this is my fav way to meet a lady... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I'm not embarrassed to do or wear anything in front of a bunch of strangers.
I don't care as much as I thought I would about doing incredibly dirty deeds with a complete stranger.
That I'm not a jealous person. I just don't like women who blatantly flirt with my hubby in front of me. I'm fine with him fucking in front of me.
That I have to think about what I say on the forums very very carefully, or else the people who like to pick everything you say apart will be on your case. And that is very annoying as I'm sure they wouldn't do it to your face.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still learning about my own mind... I realised I'm not as openminded as I always claimed to be, but it's a work in progress, I'm opening up, little by little!
I've learnt how to say no; my safety isn't a bargaining chip and pressure is one way to make me feel unsafe.
There is a hell of a lot that I'm learning, come to think of it! |
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A lot of nice people if they are not wasters people who like adult fun.
People who are honest like to have fun with someone else other than there partner and love there partner enjoying themselves
We have been playing many years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt that I'm such a horny fucker and being naughty in this site makes me feel even more horny especially the more I think about just how naughty I have been so you can say I've only learnt how to be a horny fucker and I love it
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"When I first joined fab I was too trusting and got taken in by fakes, now I'm the opposite and possibly too cautious
When I first joined Fab I was convinced that I would not be physically desirable but there is something for everyone on here. "
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"When I first joined fab I was too trusting and got taken in by fakes, now I'm the opposite and possibly too cautious
When I first joined Fab I was convinced that I would not be physically desirable but there is something for everyone on here.
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That's very reassuring and should be noted by the single guys who post threads griping about not getting meets.
Apart from the usual array of guys bigging themselves up, which you always get on self-reflective threads like this, there have been some really interesting contributions... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I learnt that enjoying sex with different guys is nothing to be ashamed of. And that everyone likes different shapes and sizes and some guys do like mine! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Nothing but it has reinforced and I am acutely self aware. I know my strengths and development areas and recognise when I get things wrong"
love this and ditto.
the environment lets be be the person i am, freedom of expression on all levels, i can go at my pace, and others can go at theirs...this place brings a mixed bag and i love that, i have a place in its diversity and i dont get lost within that... |
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"I learnt that enjoying sex with different guys is nothing to be ashamed of. And that everyone likes different shapes and sizes and some guys do like mine! "
Same here!!! Took me a while to get my head around the whole casual/nsa & learn that actually some men can find me attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I learnt that enjoying sex with different guys is nothing to be ashamed of. And that everyone likes different shapes and sizes and some guys do like mine!
Same here!!! Took me a while to get my head around the whole casual/nsa & learn that actually some men can find me attractive "
Nothing wrong from what I can see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That i am actually really naughty and my oral skills are excellent . Plus my ex husband always said no one would touch me eh yeah right . Love this site. 6 years now. Time.flies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've discovered that I'm more tolerant than I ever thought I was and that younger women, generally speaking, don't have enough life experience to keep me interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I'm hot n sexy, that I turn other men on.
I'm braver than I thought.
That I've loved things I never considered.
I want the right situation and I want more!x
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