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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Where are you all??
I'm a tiny bit fed up of people thinking that because this is a swingers site that they can ask you fairly personal questions within the first or second message and expect an answer!!
Is it me or are people starting to lack manners in a big way? |
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We haven't noticed it to be honest. Almost everyone who contacts us is polite and although by the nature of the site personal questions need asking they are almost always presented in a way that we find acceptable.
It could be because we're a couple though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of guys realise that being polite is more likely to get them anywhere, but just in case they don't i have put this on my profile:
**Firstly, i'd like to say thankyou for the nice messages sent to me that aren't offensive, i get a lot of them and appreciate your approach to me.**
Encourages good behaviour, imo. |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
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"Where are you all??
I'm a tiny bit fed up of people thinking that because this is a swingers site that they can ask you fairly personal questions within the first or second message and expect an answer!!
Is it me or are people starting to lack manners in a big way? "
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Completely agree.
Fun gentle banter over several messages and once you know the person or couple more and the situation is right..
Then drop in something a little more personal.
Doesn't take much thought to apply some common sense.
Hopefully you get some better responses and people paying attention with some manners soon.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where are you all??
I'm a tiny bit fed up of people thinking that because this is a swingers site that they can ask you fairly personal questions within the first or second message and expect an answer!!
Is it me or are people starting to lack manners in a big way? "
Yes they are. I had a message earlier that resulted in a instant block, a "mummysboy" is all I will say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is upto you then whether you answer or not, asking a question does not mean they will get an answer. As to where have the manners gone, it depends, you must gave replied for you to say its the 2nd or 3rd question...How did you reply to the first?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is upto you then whether you answer or not, asking a question does not mean they will get an answer. As to where have the manners gone, it depends, you must gave replied for you to say its the 2nd or 3rd question...How did you reply to the first?? "
I appreciate that a first message can be hard so if their profile looks ok I generally give people the chance to 'redeem' Themselves if you like, if they ask something I feel is a bit personal I ignore it, so they know it's a no go but I'm finding more and more that they just keep asking and when I say no sorry I'm not going to tell you that, a lot get really shifty, and yes block and delete but still !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is upto you then whether you answer or not, asking a question does not mean they will get an answer. As to where have the manners gone, it depends, you must gave replied for you to say its the 2nd or 3rd question...How did you reply to the first??
I appreciate that a first message can be hard so if their profile looks ok I generally give people the chance to 'redeem' Themselves if you like, if they ask something I feel is a bit personal I ignore it, so they know it's a no go but I'm finding more and more that they just keep asking and when I say no sorry I'm not going to tell you that, a lot get really shifty, and yes block and delete but still !!!"
Thats how it goes I am afraid , lots out there. xxxx I had a guy ask me to marry him on first message...Let you guess what my answer was lol xxx Chin up xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun "
Do you live near Leeds too???!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun
Do you live near Leeds too???!!"
No Northwich lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun
Do you live near Leeds too???!!
No Northwich lol x"
I'm afraid my geography is sketchy at best!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun
Do you live near Leeds too???!!
No Northwich lol x
I'm afraid my geography is sketchy at best!! "
Cheshire lolxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I send a message I'm always polite and ask how they are and introduce my self and 90% of the time I get a no or no message at all so to me it looks like nice guys don't get a look in on this site! But then saying that the women and couples I have met have been great and we have had good fun "
This is how to be, i think the sheer amount of guys just crowds the scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where are you all??
I'm a tiny bit fed up of people thinking that because this is a swingers site that they can ask you fairly personal questions within the first or second message and expect an answer!!
Is it me or are people starting to lack manners in a big way? "
You tell em girl xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a lot of guys realise that being polite is more likely to get them anywhere, but just in case they don't i have put this on my profile:
**Firstly, i'd like to say thankyou for the nice messages sent to me that aren't offensive, i get a lot of them and appreciate your approach to me.**
Encourages good behaviour, imo."
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The bad mannered men seem to be the one's that think women who are sexually liberated are sluts or cheap slags while they are studs and sexual Tyrannosaurs.Manners make a man and manners cost nothing but you can't educate pork can you?
If they are rude or crude here they will be rude and crude in life and rely on free porn and a Monkey spanker for sexual release.
No doubt they possess the charm hygiene attractiveness and personality of a cracked piss pot with a social circle of friends to match.
Block them report them and forget about them like every woman that meets them. |
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