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over a year ago
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Why are there so many men on here who say they can accommodate . But when it comes to a meet and you ask them for there address they disappear. Also they say that they are straight on there profile but its obvious they are Bi |
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home."
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm? ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Maybe they think your too much of a screamer and will upset the neighbours?
Mine are pretty noisy themselves...so i dont really care how noisy any woman who comes over is |
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???"
Simple, because we have bloody nosey neighbours, have family who drop in just when they think they can without ringing first..................simples.. |
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm? "
We have both been accused of cheating because we don't accommodate, and don't yet live together, although it's in the pipeline .... truth is we are both single parents and Mr takes care of his elderly mother. I think those who accuse need to take a look at themselves and where their mind set is? |
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"Why are there so many men on here who say they can accommodate . But when it comes to a meet and you ask them for there address they disappear. Also they say that they are straight on there profile but its obvious they are Bi "
from our experience, cos they are married and think they have a better chance if they say single/accom on profile, and t ehn when it comes to the crunch, the truth comes out, as for straight, a few guy we have chatted too have said they ARE bi, but don't advertise the fact as it could ruin their chance of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm? "
Just ignore them. Would you really want to meet anyone that thought one rule for them and another rule for everyone else....? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Why are there so many men on here who say they can accommodate . But when it comes to a meet and you ask them for there address they disappear. Also they say that they are straight on there profile but its obvious they are Bi
from our experience, cos they are married and think they have a better chance if they say single/accom on profile, and t ehn when it comes to the crunch, the truth comes out, as for straight, a few guy we have chatted too have said they ARE bi, but don't advertise the fact as it could ruin their chance of meeting. "
I agree it looks less suspicious if people put can accom ,then when it comes to meet they make every excuse under the sun .Not accomodating doesnt always mean cheating though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm? "
Don't forget, couples and single women on here can do no wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm? "
agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm?
Don't forget, couples and single women on here can do no wrong."
its a crap way
i dont accom and im single yet its never questioned ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The ones that annoy us are the ones who have can accomodate on their profile then when asking for details they say will have to be hotel and want to share costs lol
Dont think thats the true definition of can accomodate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are there so many men on here who say they can accommodate . But when it comes to a meet and you ask them for there address they disappear. Also they say that they are straight on there profile but its obvious they are Bi "
A lot of single guys here do seem to hae bi tendencies, but they find that a lot of women and couples find that a turn off, so they're in a catch 22. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home."
So you're saying a single guy can't be a parent with kids at home? How very Victorian! ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why cant a couple accommodate ???
A fair question, but I would assume it's because they have children at home.
Yet if a male cannot accommodate he's immediately accused of being a cheat.
Hmmm?
We have both been accused of cheating because we don't accommodate, and don't yet live together, although it's in the pipeline .... truth is we are both single parents and Mr takes care of his elderly mother. I think those who accuse need to take a look at themselves and where their mind set is?"
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"Or there's always the possibility that people can but simply don't want to "
Some of us still live with open doors as a norm, so when doors are locked, when they would normally be expected to be open, it can arouse suspicions.
If you're able to host at some point, even if you're hosting in a hotel, it doesn't mean that you're able to host without notice. |
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