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Cheating on yr partner..What is your definition?
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Today I had a meet with a guy who identifies as str8...We had sex and then a chat,during which time he told me that he was married and that whilst he played with tv's &other guys, he didn't consider himself unfaithful or a cheat and that his conscience was clear,however he said he wouldn't go with a woman as that would feel uncomfortable and that he would be cheating on his wife..
Is this something other people can identify with? What are your thoughts? I mentioned his orientation as straight to give you the big picture on it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its still cheating however he defines it and why would it not be cheating if its a man but cheating if its a woman??
He is still sharing his body with another person without his other half knowing |
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"Today I had a meet with a guy who identifies as str8...We had sex and then a chat,during which time he told me that he was married and that whilst he played with tv's &other guys, he didn't consider himself unfaithful or a cheat and that his conscience was clear,however he said he wouldn't go with a woman as that would feel uncomfortable and that he would be cheating on his wife..
Is this something other people can identify with? What are your thoughts? I mentioned his orientation as straight to give you the big picture on it.."
Hmmm ya gotta love the male rationale! Seriously though, if I'm doing something I don't and won't tell my partner about then it's gotta be creating hasn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today I had a meet with a guy who identifies as str8...We had sex and then a chat,during which time he told me that he was married and that whilst he played with tv's &other guys, he didn't consider himself unfaithful or a cheat and that his conscience was clear,however he said he wouldn't go with a woman as that would feel uncomfortable and that he would be cheating on his wife..
Is this something other people can identify with? What are your thoughts? I mentioned his orientation as straight to give you the big picture on it..
Hmmm ya gotta love the male rationale! Seriously though, if I'm doing something I don't and won't tell my partner about then it's gotta be creating hasn't it?"
cheating not creating, obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me "
Obviously it exists whether she knows or not and if he doesnt consider it cheating why doesnt he tell her? |
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me "
She will find out at some point. Wouldnt want the guilt to be honest but perhaps he doesnt have a conscience, once you break the trust you dont have much left, surely thats the point of swinging is that its out in the open even if its only one playing |
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me
Obviously it exists whether she knows or not and if he doesnt consider it cheating why doesnt he tell her?"
Semantics dear
Semantics
Obviously she won't like it
So like I said
How can she feel it's cheating IF SHE'S GOT NO IDEA IT'S HAPPENING
The answer is
She can't
Logical really honey |
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Yeah the rationalisation is unbelievable...I don't suppose any one who does this and agrees with his justification will add to this thread?
I have met a number of guys who consider 'oral sex' only to be non cheating!
..seriously.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me
Obviously it exists whether she knows or not and if he doesnt consider it cheating why doesnt he tell her?
Semantics dear
Semantics
Obviously she won't like it
So like I said
How can she feel it's cheating IF SHE'S GOT NO IDEA IT'S HAPPENING
The answer is
She can't
Logical really honey "
Nothing logical about it
Its cheating end off  |
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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago
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"Yeah the rationalisation is unbelievable...I don't suppose any one who does this and agrees with his justification will add to this thread?
I have met a number of guys who consider 'oral sex' only to be non cheating!
..seriously.
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Well Bill Clinton said it wasnt sex  |
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"Today I had a meet with a guy who identifies as str8...We had sex and then a chat,during which time he told me that he was married and that whilst he played with tv's &other guys, he didn't consider himself unfaithful or a cheat and that his conscience was clear,however he said he wouldn't go with a woman as that would feel uncomfortable and that he would be cheating on his wife..
Is this something other people can identify with? What are your thoughts? I mentioned his orientation as straight to give you the big picture on it.."
If I was retarded to fuck and back I'd agree with him.
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me
Obviously it exists whether she knows or not and if he doesnt consider it cheating why doesnt he tell her?
Semantics dear
Semantics
Obviously she won't like it
So like I said
How can she feel it's cheating IF SHE'S GOT NO IDEA IT'S HAPPENING
The answer is
She can't
Logical really honey
Nothing logical about it
Its cheating end off "
Yea whatever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating on yr partner..What is your definition?
Doing something that you would avoid telling your partner about because it would make them unhappy.
Such as being on fab swingers. .
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If your partner would be unhappy if they knew you were here, then yes I believe it's cheating. |
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Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for  |
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for "
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for "
Sorry... Confused.
What has this to do with if he us cheating or not? Which he clearly is.
If a relationship isn't working you are better off getting out of it, not cheating as it'll probably
be the same result in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for "
As far as I was aware, this site was for consenting adults to meet up and have sex with each other.
The problem is that in a monogamous relationship where one person is cheating - not all parties are consenting.
This isn't 'fabcheats.com' this is 'fabswingers.com'. |
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for
Sorry... Confused.
What has this to do with if he us cheating or not? Which he clearly is.
If a relationship isn't working you are better off getting out of it, not cheating as it'll probably
be the same result in the end."
No necessarily no
I know many people
Male and female
The marriage itself is super
Everything else pretty much works brilliantly
Except where one just one has decided that sex is off the menu
So why should the other person live a sexless life when the life they lead out of the bedroom is pretty damn good actually?
Why not seek just NSA Sex off likeminded people?
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for
As far as I was aware, this site was for consenting adults to meet up and have sex with each other.
The problem is that in a monogamous relationship where one person is cheating - not all parties are consenting.
This isn't 'fabcheats.com' this is 'fabswingers.com'."
The other person isn't even involved
Especially in situations where the person on Fab knows they'll never consent
And like I've said on here sooo many times before
It's often swinging couples on here who protest about other's behaviour
When in actual fact, ask any single lady on here, and they'll all tell you that they've been memessaged by just the male of the couple who suggests a meet and let's not mention it to the lady on the profile
It's nieve to imply that just because you both agree that sex outside your relationship with others is ALWAYS CONSENSUAL
When often it's not
So whose fooling who |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for
Sorry... Confused.
What has this to do with if he us cheating or not? Which he clearly is.
If a relationship isn't working you are better off getting out of it, not cheating as it'll probably
be the same result in the end."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My definition is doing ANYTHING romantic or sexual with someone who your partner would be unhappy of. That's it.
or without a partner's knowledge"
Yeah,that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bill Clinton..
I didnt put it in Her Piss flaps so it wasnt Cheating.
Mrs Clinton.
Spend the rest of your life sleeping with one Eye open you Wanker.
Gimp |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for
As far as I was aware, this site was for consenting adults to meet up and have sex with each other.
The problem is that in a monogamous relationship where one person is cheating - not all parties are consenting.
This isn't 'fabcheats.com' this is 'fabswingers.com'.
The other person isn't even involved
Especially in situations where the person on Fab knows they'll never consent
And like I've said on here sooo many times before
It's often swinging couples on here who protest about other's behaviour
When in actual fact, ask any single lady on here, and they'll all tell you that they've been memessaged by just the male of the couple who suggests a meet and let's not mention it to the lady on the profile
It's nieve to imply that just because you both agree that sex outside your relationship with others is ALWAYS CONSENSUAL
When often it's not
So whose fooling who "
Any single lady? All of them? Really?
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does cheating actually exist if the wife has no clue it's taking place?
I mean ignorance is truelly bliss people
And it's up to him how he defines his sex life
Not you or me "
Or Bishop George Berkeley. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would he tell his partner if he knows full well that she'll disapprove??? And maybe they're not having sex anymore and are happy to live together but not be physical; and maybe she's having it off with others!!! So many variables!!! Wake up smell the coffee - Duh! And folks, pls don t forget what this site is for
As far as I was aware, this site was for consenting adults to meet up and have sex with each other.
The problem is that in a monogamous relationship where one person is cheating - not all parties are consenting.
This isn't 'fabcheats.com' this is 'fabswingers.com'.
The other person isn't even involved
Especially in situations where the person on Fab knows they'll never consent
And like I've said on here sooo many times before
It's often swinging couples on here who protest about other's behaviour
When in actual fact, ask any single lady on here, and they'll all tell you that they've been memessaged by just the male of the couple who suggests a meet and let's not mention it to the lady on the profile
It's nieve to imply that just because you both agree that sex outside your relationship with others is ALWAYS CONSENSUAL
When often it's not
So whose fooling who "
have to be honest I've had that several times, I even had males of couples I have met and know ask me to meet him alone on the sly
I've even had males of couples I have played with where their wife knows ask me not to mention certain things we have done as it's against their rules after we have played
I can't speak for anyone seen though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating is cheating wherever your dick is stuck and I for one dont tolerate it and make it clear on my profile plus I added the liar bit as those that dont say they have partners are liars |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheating on yr partner..What is your definition?
Doing something that you would avoid telling your partner about because it would make them unhappy."
This. Pure and simple. |
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