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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!." This isn't really a site for looking for boyfriends and girlfriends. It's a site for having sex. If someone doesn't want to have sex with single men on their own, then they don't have to have sex with them. If you feel like people owe you sex, or that signing up here somehow guarantees it, perhaps you should take a break from considering having sex and consider instead that feeling entitled to sex means you're not actually a very nice person. | |||
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"what if they don't want to meet single men?"  | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. This isn't really a site for looking for boyfriends and girlfriends. It's a site for having sex. If someone doesn't want to have sex with single men on their own, then they don't have to have sex with them. If you feel like people owe you sex, or that signing up here somehow guarantees it, perhaps you should take a break from considering having sex and consider instead that feeling entitled to sex means you're not actually a very nice person." Simply: this! | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" They can still message you if you are what you are looking for. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" Why would they unblock them if they're not interested in having sex with single men? If they suddenly change their mind, then they can search the listings and see if anyone catches their eye. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" And what are you doing to seperate yourself from the twats? Telling people what they should and should do isn't that different from the behaviour your are criticising others for  | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" Read your first post back to yourself......would it make you change your mind about single men? I understand what you're saying but there are loads of people who don't have single men blocked maybe concentrate on them. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!??" If he's in a couple, then he isn't a single guy anymore? So those people are looking to meet couples, not single guys. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here..." Are we not good enough for you then? | |||
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"I honestly don't think you need to worry, your not going to go short on offers" Thanks, and thank you for your other post, and being honest x | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? " Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here..." Oh? Why's that then? There are quite a few women on here who are looking for a relationship. | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!." I didn't realise Fab was a charity 
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it "There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here. | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!." 1) just because they block you from contacting them... it doesn't mean they cant contact you.... maybe its as much about them doing the choosing...... 2) you get one chance to make a great first impression..... this doesn't scream fun fun fun!!! it scream petulant, it screams a sense of entitlement, it screams immaturity... | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here."Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here..." Maybe, and I might be way off target here people block single males because of their sense of entitlement and lack of respect for the women that they want to meet | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"Lots of men think that way. I personally couldn't be in a relationship with somebody who wasn't happy with me expressing my sexuality. | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here" Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
crystal"Whats ok for me? | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. 1) just because they block you from contacting them... it doesn't mean they cant contact you.... maybe its as much about them doing the choosing...... 2) you get one chance to make a great first impression..... this doesn't scream fun fun fun!!! it scream petulant, it screams a sense of entitlement, it screams immaturity... " Can you imagine the foot stomping and whinging?! crystal | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"Lol and you describe yourself as open minded | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
crystal
Whats ok for me?"Being on here... crystal | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x And what are you doing to seperate yourself from the twats? Telling people what they should and should do isn't that different from the behaviour your are criticising others for "If there was a "Block twats" button, then I'm guessing you'd be happy | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"But it is ok for you? | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life." Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
crystal
Whats ok for me?
Being on here...
crystal "Yes it is ok for me. Its upto the girl if she'd be ok with it or not. Im just expressing my _iewpoint | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it "Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material? | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them" It's fine to feel that way but it's also fine for us to feel it's double standards. | |||
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"My interest in men drops to zero the second they mention they can play as a couple,not everyone wants to play with couples I love single men.....just not at the moment" I dislike it when u chat and its "i can bring a bi lady with me" Ffs | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them It's fine to feel that way but it's also fine for us to feel it's double standards. " But its not double standards because if they feel the same way, then i accept that Double standards would be if i moaned about them having the same issue with me that i might have with them, but im not | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material? "Thats for the girl to decide | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them" You don't want a girlfriend who enjoys sex and is sexually active? How will you have your sexual appetite satisfied? I'm assuming that as you are here you have a high sex drive? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
crystal
Whats ok for me?
Being on here...
crystal
Yes it is ok for me. Its upto the girl if she'd be ok with it or not. Im just expressing my _iewpoint"*Facepalm* crystal | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material? "I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like. | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them" Out of interest why not? | |||
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"Would you rather be able to message and then be ignored?" This though | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide"Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
But it's ok for you?!
Double standard
crystal
Whats ok for me?
Being on here...
crystal
Yes it is ok for me. Its upto the girl if she'd be ok with it or not. Im just expressing my _iewpoint
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crystal "Yourr facepalming at my logical answer is it? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide
Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex? "Miss Lovely you're making me laugh | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like."Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide
Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex? "No certainly not But if i did, and she had a problem with it then i wouldnt criticise her | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards"Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people. What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards"My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall... It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun. You really can't see how that's a double standard?! crystal | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not?" I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide
Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex?
No certainly not
But if i did, and she had a problem with it then i wouldnt criticise her"Are you ashamed to be on here? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same. "But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide
Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex?
No certainly not
But if i did, and she had a problem with it then i wouldnt criticise her
Are you ashamed to be on here? "Nope, but i wouldnt advertise it in my vanilla life | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not? I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history" Wow! Is it suddenly the 1950's. Woulss uyou expect her to stay at home and cook and clean too? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices "And i fully respect that | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards" so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?"Only if you're not looking for relationship at all with anyone, because women on here aren't relationship worthy (in your head) neither are men. Or are men and women different somehow? | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not? I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history Wow! Is it suddenly the 1950's. Woulss uyou expect her to stay at home and cook and clean too?"No i wouldnt. Youre just going overboard now | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not? I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history" As I said lots of men are like that. Lots of men on here are like that but don't admit it. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that"But you clearly don't do you? You clearly _iew women that have an excessive sexual history as somehow less desireable | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... " Well im just being honest...and its not a case of 'good enough' or not, its just my own preference when it comes to dating as opposed to meeting a lady here | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not? I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history As I said lots of men are like that. Lots of men on here are like that but don't admit it. " Yep...im sure some women are too | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?" because you aren't making sense basically. I'm not going to continue this conversation because you aren't understanding me. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that
But you clearly don't do you? You clearly _iew women that have an excessive sexual history as somehow less desireable"From a dating sense? Yes. As a human being? Of course not | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... Well im just being honest...and its not a case of 'good enough' or not, its just my own preference when it comes to dating as opposed to meeting a lady here" So presumably if you meet a woman in the vanilla world will you expect her to be honest about her sexual history and if you feel it's excessive you'll presumably dump her while not telling her your own past of looking for sex on a swingers site? | |||
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"Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here Well, lets hope all the women you meet don't want to have a relationship with a guy so slutty that he would go on a swingers site... You can't have one rule for yourself and one rule for another in this life. Im not having one rule for myself and another for them...im just saying i wouldnt want a relationship with a girl whos been active on here. Its upto them if they felt the same or not. Im not imposing any rules on them Out of interest why not? I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history As I said lots of men are like that. Lots of men on here are like that but don't admit it. Yep...im sure some women are too" Yes they are. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
because you aren't making sense basically. I'm not going to continue this conversation because you aren't understanding me."I dont want to date a girl whos active on here - thats one standard If the reverse happens, and a girl outside of here doesnt want to date me because of me being in here, then im ok with that - thats the same standard im applying to myself Not double standards | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... Well im just being honest...and its not a case of 'good enough' or not, its just my own preference when it comes to dating as opposed to meeting a lady here So presumably if you meet a woman in the vanilla world will you expect her to be honest about her sexual history and if you feel it's excessive you'll presumably dump her while not telling her your own past of looking for sex on a swingers site?" i have visions on him carrying around some sort of "virgin-o-meter" around with him.... the louder it gets, the more people that person has slept with.... or a questionaire with some sort of shags/year ratio... and if its too high... see ya!!!! I just hope he doesn't point it at himself.......  | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... Well im just being honest...and its not a case of 'good enough' or not, its just my own preference when it comes to dating as opposed to meeting a lady here So presumably if you meet a woman in the vanilla world will you expect her to be honest about her sexual history and if you feel it's excessive you'll presumably dump her while not telling her your own past of looking for sex on a swingers site?" No i wouldnt expect her to tell me, and nor would i ask. However, if i did know of her excessive history before dating her (eg a girl from here) i probably wouldnt date her to start with If i was dating her and it subsequently came out later on of her excessive history, well i guess it would depend then on how close i had grown to her as to how id deal with it myself. But i would most likely not have begun dating her if i was aware of this at the start | |||
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" Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards so good enough to have sex with.... but not good enough to date.... thats a very fine tightrope you are walking..... Well im just being honest...and its not a case of 'good enough' or not, its just my own preference when it comes to dating as opposed to meeting a lady here So presumably if you meet a woman in the vanilla world will you expect her to be honest about her sexual history and if you feel it's excessive you'll presumably dump her while not telling her your own past of looking for sex on a swingers site? i have visions on him carrying around some sort of "virgin-o-meter" around with him.... the louder it gets, the more people that person has slept with.... or a questionaire with some sort of shags/year ratio... and if its too high... see ya!!!! I just hope he doesn't point it at himself....... "Haha well as i said chief, if it goes mental when i point it at myself, i wont criticise the girl if she runs for the hills | |||
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"Anyway, i think ive contributed to the derailing of this thread way more than i should have. Apologies OP "Derailing? Or maybe inadvertantly answered the Op's question as to why women block singlemen | |||
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"Why do we have to give everyone a chance? If i see a profile i like I'll get in touch. Nah I'm here for my fun only not to give every Tom, Dick and Harry a go." This! If they want to talk to u they can! That don't mean they want the 20 million messages I'm sure the women get! | |||
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"Anyway, i think ive contributed to the derailing of this thread way more than i should have. Apologies OP
Derailing? Or maybe inadvertantly answered the Op's question as to why women block singlemen"Not sure i agree with that. Im pretty sure the majority or women on here could care less as they are also looking for NSA...im just saying i dont want to date them, but i still fully respect their own personal choices and preferences | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. Go are you not getting it?"How am i not holding myself to the same standard? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?"There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath."Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that"Ok so say you meet the woman of your dreams outside of fab you date for a few months then she tells you she was once on instashag but always played safe? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?"As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that
Ok so say you meet the woman of your dreams outside of fab you date for a few months then she tells you she was once on instashag but always played safe?"As i said in an earlier response, how id react to that would depend on how long we were together and how strong my feelings for her had grown | |||
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"Ipeople just don't read profiles!" and some never will.......... | |||
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"if you are not interested in meeting single guys though then surely it helps save people wasting their time surely " Don't call me Shirley!!  | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?"Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard. | |||
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"I've recently (today) turned my single male message filter off after having it on for 5 months. Can see me turning it back on soon though, people just don't read profiles!" Is there still time for me to slip in with a quick message? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?"If you met a couple what would your _iew of the husband be? And how would you _iew their relationship? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard."Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that. The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying"Several posters have explained in words of monosyllables and you're not getting it...I'm not going to try. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
If you met a couple what would your _iew of the husband be? And how would you _iew their relationship?"I have met couples, who were very nice people. I cant say i knew them well enough to have a _iew on their relationships but i wouldnt have automatically thought anything negative about them, and the same goes for the husbands as you ask | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. This isn't really a site for looking for boyfriends and girlfriends. It's a site for having sex. If someone doesn't want to have sex with single men on their own, then they don't have to have sex with them. If you feel like people owe you sex, or that signing up here somehow guarantees it, perhaps you should take a break from considering having sex and consider instead that feeling entitled to sex means you're not actually a very nice person." Well said!!! plus some of us are gay so don't want men! OP | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying
Several posters have explained in words of monosyllables and you're not getting it...I'm not going to try."See my reply right above your message | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
If you met a couple what would your _iew of the husband be? And how would you _iew their relationship?
I have met couples, who were very nice people. I cant say i knew them well enough to have a _iew on their relationships but i wouldnt have automatically thought anything negative about them, and the same goes for the husbands as you ask"So you didn't suggest to the husband that it was great that you were shagging his wife and adding to her excessive sexual history while adding that you would never date let alone marry someone like that? | |||
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"A big heartfelt and genuine thank you to all those who block single guys; they (eventually) cum to me for some Uncomplicated fun (I Suck their cocks and they Fuck my bum and they leave) so please keep blocking them " | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief" Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
If you met a couple what would your _iew of the husband be? And how would you _iew their relationship?
I have met couples, who were very nice people. I cant say i knew them well enough to have a _iew on their relationships but i wouldnt have automatically thought anything negative about them, and the same goes for the husbands as you ask
So you didn't suggest to the husband that it was great that you were shagging his wife and adding to her excessive sexual history while adding that you would never date let alone marry someone like that?"No of course i didnt This is my preference, thats all. Im sure there are many others who share this, and many who dont, and to each their own. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt"Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site."I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall. And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief"Then good luck to you. | |||
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" I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history" I'm going to guess this may be why you're single at 35 and possibly why past relationships haven't worked and why any future ones may also be doomed to fail before they start.....unrealistic expectations of both future partners and your own ability to stay faithful in a future relationship with someone with potentially a lower sex drive.....just look at all the attached on here without consent because they aren't getting what they need sexually | |||
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" I would be more attracted romantically to a girl who hadnt had an excessive sexual history I'm going to guess this may be why you're single at 35 and possibly why past relationships haven't worked and why any future ones may also be doomed to fail before they start.....unrealistic expectations of both future partners and your own ability to stay faithful in a future relationship with someone with potentially a lower sex drive.....just look at all the attached on here without consent because they aren't getting what they need sexually " Nope, i cant say that applies to me. I dont particularly have an excessive sex drive at all...i can happily go weeks, maybe even months without having sex if im single. But i do like a bit of NSA from time to time which is why im happy to stay single for the time being | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying"You are a slut. You will not date a slut. Double standards. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying
You are a slut.
You will not date a slut.
Double standards."But shes free to think the same without me having a problem with it, hence why no double standard | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief"Out of interest, why is someone with an excessive sexual history such a deal breaker for a relationship? What is so reprehensible about it? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief
Out of interest, why is someone with an excessive sexual history such a deal breaker for a relationship? What is so reprehensible about it?"Its not reprehensible, i just find myself more romantically attracted to someone who wouldnt have had as excessive a history, thats all | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
crystal
...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying
You are a slut.
You will not date a slut.
Double standards."I hear it alot on here funnily enough | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that
Ok so say you meet the woman of your dreams outside of fab you date for a few months then she tells you she was once on instashag but always played safe?
As i said in an earlier response, how id react to that would depend on how long we were together and how strong my feelings for her had grown"Whos to say she aint on here already just because us women are sexually promiscuous don't mean we aint marriage material Just don't be so blinkered x | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief
Out of interest, why is someone with an excessive sexual history such a deal breaker for a relationship? What is so reprehensible about it?
Its not reprehensible, i just find myself more romantically attracted to someone who wouldnt have had as excessive a history, thats all"In what way? How does someone's sexual history make them more or less romantically attractive? | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Why not? We aint hussys we are just women grabbing life with our own hands and Makin are own choices
And i fully respect that
Ok so say you meet the woman of your dreams outside of fab you date for a few months then she tells you she was once on instashag but always played safe?
As i said in an earlier response, how id react to that would depend on how long we were together and how strong my feelings for her had grown
Whos to say she aint on here already just because us women are sexually promiscuous don't mean we aint marriage material
Just don't be so blinkered x"Hey im not saying theyre not...its just not for me. Hey, maybe some girl will appear and change my mind but as it stands now, thats my preference | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief
Out of interest, why is someone with an excessive sexual history such a deal breaker for a relationship? What is so reprehensible about it?
Its not reprehensible, i just find myself more romantically attracted to someone who wouldnt have had as excessive a history, thats all
In what way? How does someone's sexual history make them more or less romantically attractive?
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"I wouldn't worry about itOP 95% of women on here are pig shit ugly. So the ones that are blocking you are only helping your odds. I have more fun finding women on the beach, every now and then one will wash up." | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
Thats for the girl to decide
Would you be honest and tell every girl you meet you're on websites looking for sex?
Miss Lovely you're making me laugh " | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about itOP 95% of women on here are pig shit ugly. So the ones that are blocking you are only helping your odds. I have more fun finding women on the beach, every now and then one will wash up." You just here for the cock then? | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!." I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op " That's it,you rub it in about getting too many messages while others amongst us struggle to get any..Woe is me.. Lol | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op That's it,you rub it in about getting too many messages while others amongst us struggle to get any..Woe is me.. Lol "Far be it. I was trying to explain why single ladies may block men I dont know about couples and messages. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op?" Yes those who block out of annoyance, BUT also like I said, I understand in a way, with the TWATS that annoy or bombard with messages! (although wish i got a message sometime lol) Its just its annoying when your not like that! But like what a forum is for ...feedback to a question/point of _iew. I get the point, if they did like me then they would send a message, so thanks for the update! On another not why or what possess people to be right b****s/C***s in forum post. People (some) seem to really attack ones in forums!!! bulling in a way and act like complete trolls. Are they really that said, that they some kind of kick out of it. P.S IM NOT TALKING ANYONE IN THIS FORUM POST. just in general ones I have read!!! | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op That's it,you rub it in about getting too many messages while others amongst us struggle to get any..Woe is me.. Lol "To be fair, I get three or four messages a day on average, so not all single women are getting those volumes. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here"Can I ask why ? | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op? Yes those who block out of annoyance, BUT also like I said, I understand in a way, with the TWATS that annoy or bombard with messages! (although wish i got a message sometime lol) Its just its annoying when your not like that! But like what a forum is for ...feedback to a question/point of _iew. I get the point, if they did like me then they would send a message, so thanks for the update! On another not why or what possess people to be right b****s/C***s in forum post. People (some) seem to really attack ones in forums!!! bulling in a way and act like complete trolls. Are they really that said, that they some kind of kick out of it. P.S IM NOT TALKING ANYONE IN THIS FORUM POST. just in general ones I have read!!!" Because calling people bastards and cunts makes you stand out from all the people you are dismissing as twats how exactly? OP if you are so different from all the other single men on here there are more convincing ways to prove it than shouting it ever louder. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op? Yes those who block out of annoyance, BUT also like I said, I understand in a way, with the TWATS that annoy or bombard with messages! (although wish i got a message sometime lol) Its just its annoying when your not like that! But like what a forum is for ...feedback to a question/point of _iew. I get the point, if they did like me then they would send a message, so thanks for the update! On another not why or what possess people to be right b****s/C***s in forum post. People (some) seem to really attack ones in forums!!! bulling in a way and act like complete trolls. Are they really that said, that they some kind of kick out of it. P.S IM NOT TALKING ANYONE IN THIS FORUM POST. just in general ones I have read!!! Because calling people bastards and cunts makes you stand out from all the people you are dismissing as twats how exactly? OP if you are so different from all the other single men on here there are more convincing ways to prove it than shouting it ever louder." don't worry about, wish I never bothered. take care | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here..." How did you speak to them.if they block single guys? | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op " Women are bad for sending just an x or "hot" tbh. I think they're so used to men falling over themselves for a meet they don't even bother. Equally though there are some women who are great to chat too. and then there's men who don't read the profile at all but do send a very good message, feel bad deleting them as at least they tried even if they missed the not looking for guys part lol. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op? Yes those who block out of annoyance, BUT also like I said, I understand in a way, with the TWATS that annoy or bombard with messages! (although wish i got a message sometime lol) Its just its annoying when your not like that! But like what a forum is for ...feedback to a question/point of _iew. I get the point, if they did like me then they would send a message, so thanks for the update! On another not why or what possess people to be right b****s/C***s in forum post. People (some) seem to really attack ones in forums!!! bulling in a way and act like complete trolls. Are they really that said, that they some kind of kick out of it. P.S IM NOT TALKING ANYONE IN THIS FORUM POST. just in general ones I have read!!! Because calling people bastards and cunts makes you stand out from all the people you are dismissing as twats how exactly? OP if you are so different from all the other single men on here there are more convincing ways to prove it than shouting it ever louder. don't worry about, wish I never bothered. take care" sorry was meant to of typed *** im not talking about anyone in this froum post | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!." Umm I don't have a problem. Neither do a lot of guys. Maybe you're not what whoever you're mailing is looking for. Maybe a lot of things. . But this kind of shit is doing you no favours. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
There are loads of women looking for a relationship on here.
Well thats good for them, but i cant say id want to date/have a relationship with a girl whos been on here
Lots of men think that way. I personally couldn't be in a relationship with somebody who wasn't happy with me expressing my sexuality." | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. This isn't really a site for looking for boyfriends and girlfriends. It's a site for having sex. If someone doesn't want to have sex with single men on their own, then they don't have to have sex with them. If you feel like people owe you sex, or that signing up here somehow guarantees it, perhaps you should take a break from considering having sex and consider instead that feeling entitled to sex means you're not actually a very nice person. Simply: this! " | |||
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"ALL these couples/f an that who's blocked single guys, shame they forgot what it was like when they were single!! you had to find a partner somehow, someday.. How about you give us a break! and give us a chance!...and those guys what hassle them, well you see what you lot have created!!. I wish for one day you could see how a woman on here copes You get messages with one word or a x Sometimes you get messages that its clear they haven't read profiles Look at a meet listing and they haven't saw where it is And then the people who don't match the criteria yet still message But You may get one or two well worded messages that meet the criterias and you meet FANTASTIC Since my profile went to "not meeting" i get over 120 messages a day, and 98% will get deleted Think about that op That's it,you rub it in about getting too many messages while others amongst us struggle to get any..Woe is me.. Lol
Far be it.
I was trying to explain why single ladies may block men
I dont know about couples and messages. "Yeah,i got that.. Was only having a laugh,sorry | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x" Give you a chance to message people who don't want, or aren't looking for, single men? What would be the point of that?........sorry OP but you clearly have NOT got the points made above. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
Double standards occur when a person has one standard for themself and another for other people.
What you refer to are differing opinions which aren't the same.
But im holding myself to the same standard clearly. How are u not getting this?
There not getting it because you're not holding yourself to the same standard. How are you not getting it?
As i said, how am i not holding myself to the same standard?
Because you only seem to be willing to date a woman with a much lower sex drive than yourself. So it's OK for you to play the field as much as you like but it's not OK for any future partner to have done the same. That's a double standard.
Its not a double standard...ive already said if the reverse was to happen and she didnt want to date me because i was on here, then i wouldnt have a problem with that.
The double standard would appear if i criticised her for thinking the same way im doing, which i wouldnt
Look mate, you can delude yourself as much as you want that it's not a double standard but it still will be and everyone else is going to think it is to. Stop arguing and start listening if you want to get anywhere on this site.
I dont particularly care if people think it or not...its is NOT a double standard for the many many reasons i have given already, and im not going to keep banging my head against this particular brick wall.
And as for getting anywhere on this site, im pretty sure im doing ok here as it is chief
Out of interest, why is someone with an excessive sexual history such a deal breaker for a relationship? What is so reprehensible about it?
Its not reprehensible, i just find myself more romantically attracted to someone who wouldnt have had as excessive a history, thats all
In what way? How does someone's sexual history make them more or less romantically attractive?
Its hard to verbalise if im to be honest, i guess we cant always put these things into words really"Let's hope for your sake bananaman that once you've settled down with your virgin bride, 5 years later she doesn't think "shit I really wish I'd experienced more sexually before I settled" and somehow find her way onto this site... Or maybe she could just have been lying about her sexual history from the start and been here all along
Anyway.. OP, I've had single guys blocked for a couple of weeks. I unblocked them yesterday afternoon and now I have 144 unread messages and I've deleted another 20 or so. Some are multiples from a few guys along the lines of "why haven't you replied?!" "I'm really fun honestly you won't regret it" etc etc.
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here..." Well you have alienated single females and couples now. Let me let you into a secret....the ones who block single guys sometimes do only meet single guys. However they have chosen to be the hunter rather than the hunted. This information possibly won't be any use to you now though. | |||
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"Good point, I understand what you mean! But that's not what I was getting at.. but thank you for your reply. From what I've read and experienced, seems like there are a lot of twats what give you lot hassle, hence why so many have blocked em...but should maybe give us a chance x But sure if theyre not interested in single guy, then why would they??? Im not getting your point here at all chief Am assuming he's referring to those who block us out of annoyance as opposed to those whose criteria we don't meet but it doesn't come across too well.. Although I could be wrong op? Yes those who block out of annoyance, BUT also like I said, I understand in a way, with the TWATS that annoy or bombard with messages! (although wish i got a message sometime lol) Its just its annoying when your not like that! But like what a forum is for ...feedback to a question/point of _iew. I get the point, if they did like me then they would send a message, so thanks for the update! On another not why or what possess people to be right b****s/C***s in forum post. People (some) seem to really attack ones in forums!!! bulling in a way and act like complete trolls. Are they really that said, that they some kind of kick out of it. P.S IM NOT TALKING ANYONE IN THIS FORUM POST. just in general ones I have read!!!" Have to admit to a bit of bear bating in the forums as so many uptight people can't help but fall over themselves to abuse you.. I'll quite happily be the cat among the pigeons but I do try not to be too offensive when I can | |||
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"Lots of men on here are like that but don't admit it. "I'm glad these two have, that whittles down the numbers. | |||
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"Lots of men on here are like that but don't admit it.
I'm glad these two have, that whittles down the numbers. "Yeah,all single guys move forward two spaces.. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Well you have alienated single females and couples now. Let me let you into a secret....the ones who block single guys sometimes do only meet single guys. However they have chosen to be the hunter rather than the hunted. This information possibly won't be any use to you now though. "This is so very very very true! Both points. | |||
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"Well if they don't want to meet single guys, then they don't, but ones I've spoken to, would meet a guy on his own if he was in a couple!!!?? And if I was looking for a long term partner, I prob wouldn't be looking on here... Are we not good enough for you then? Well it aint exactly the place to find a girlfriend now is it
Why not? You are on here,are you not boyfriend material?
I think it's the old double standard at work here. Women must be virginal nymphomaniacs while men can put it about as much as they like.
Ok, i wont say it for a third time...its not double standards. I have my opinion, shes free to have hers as well. Thats one standard for all, not double standards
My forehead is getting flatter with all the times I'm hitting my head against the wall...
It's ok for you to have been on Fab, having meets, getting laid, having fun. It's not ok for a potential girlfriend to have been on Fab, have meets, get laid and have fun.
You really can't see how that's a double standard?!
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...none so blind as those that will not see...save your breath.
Feel free to explain this supposed double standards im applying
You are a slut.
You will not date a slut.
Double standards.
But shes free to think the same without me having a problem with it, hence why no double standard"Jesus, they've give you a right going over there mate. Making out you're stupid when purposefully misleading and causing confusion. Effectively some women were talking about a societal double standard, by which it is ok for men to be promiscuous but not women. You were disagreeing and saying no it's not ok for me either, but some may not care about it. Then someone else started a discussion about the double standard you lead your own life by. I.e being promiscuous, but not looking for promiscuity in a partner. The whole sexual double standard thing is a feminist staple. Tautology is the word I believe. | |||
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