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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is something I have been into for almost 20 years, but was just wondering what everyone's thought are on this subject, is it something you are into? want to try? or have no time for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt want to live it 24/7 but id love to have my limits tested, pain/pleasure pleasureable pain, to be at the hands of my "master" his to do with as he sees fit.....i could go on and on lol
Miss-Peach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wouldnt want to live it 24/7 but id love to have my limits tested, pain/pleasure pleasureable pain, to be at the hands of my "master" his to do with as he sees fit.....i could go on and on lol
Miss-Peach"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally love it... if done in a safe sane and consensual manner with a likeminded person lt's the most sensual trusting and honest relationship ever.... |
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"i wouldnt want to live it 24/7 but id love to have my limits tested, pain/pleasure pleasureable pain, to be at the hands of my "master" his to do with as he sees fit.....i could go on and on lol
Miss-Peach"
I am jst starting out wiv this now
But don't think I could do it 24/7
Well not yet
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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Would you and any friends be interested in attending Fetish Events at Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent ?
There is one on the second Sunday of every month.
and also of the fourth Thursday of every month.
All genders welcome !
Andy/Andrea |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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So on one hand responses want someone who will push them beyond their limits as their master sees fit. But, on the other hand they don't want a 24/7 relationship.
Breaking News!
Someone who has put that much effort into finding, exploring and pushing your boundaries would put you in a relationship - especially, if you get to the stage of, "doing as they will". They will more than likely call on you at 2am on some weekday when you least expect it - meaning you are in some kind of 24/7 relationship.
There are very few master/subs that aren't 24/7. A bit like those threads that are constantly read about finding those FB's that you just want to fuck, without one of them really wanting a relationship - sure they are exist but they are hard to find, and are only found after a lot of trial and error.
The trust involved in d/s play is second to the mental strength of the play. So if you are not in a relationship, having each party disappear off to fuck whoever after afterward, is going to mean it will break down quite fast, or one party will be wanting exclusivity pretty quickly I'd say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So on one hand responses want someone who will push them beyond their limits as their master sees fit. But, on the other hand they don't want a 24/7 relationship.
Breaking News!
Someone who has put that much effort into finding, exploring and pushing your boundaries would put you in a relationship - especially, if you get to the stage of, "doing as they will". They will more than likely call on you at 2am on some weekday when you least expect it - meaning you are in some kind of 24/7 relationship.
There are very few master/subs that aren't 24/7. A bit like those threads that are constantly read about finding those FB's that you just want to fuck, without one of them really wanting a relationship - sure they are exist but they are hard to find, and are only found after a lot of trial and error.
The trust involved in d/s play is second to the mental strength of the play. So if you are not in a relationship, having each party disappear off to fuck whoever after afterward, is going to mean it will break down quite fast, or one party will be wanting exclusivity pretty quickly I'd say. "
Disagree totally. Just like I have limits on what can be pushed while I'm playing I also have limits on when I can play. We haven't needed to discuss these in detail but we have children and jobs.
Yeah he keeps me in check when I need it outside the bedroom like last night when I couldn't be bothered with my workout after a heavy weekend, but the only difference with him being a good friend and a dom was the manner in which he spoke to me to motivate me. However we are not 24/7.
If he rang me at 2 am he'd get the same response as if my friend did that... is it an emergency? No... then speak to me at 7 am when the children are awake and I've had my first cuppa.
None of that makes him any less my Sir and me his girl when we are playing in that way, it does mean I still keep my best friend too |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Disagree totally. Just like I have limits on what can be pushed while I'm playing I also have limits on when I can play. We haven't needed to discuss these in detail but we have children and jobs.
Yeah he keeps me in check when I need it outside the bedroom like last night when I couldn't be bothered with my workout after a heavy weekend, but the only difference with him being a good friend and a dom was the manner in which he spoke to me to motivate me. However we are not 24/7.
If he rang me at 2 am he'd get the same response as if my friend did that... is it an emergency? No... then speak to me at 7 am when the children are awake and I've had my first cuppa.
None of that makes him any less my Sir and me his girl when we are playing in that way, it does mean I still keep my best friend too"
And you are already in a relationship so this is a totally different dynamic to somebody going solo and giving themselves up and having Sir see others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some very good points made by people, as for us we are in a relationship and are trying, swinging & bdsm to see what we both like, we do talk to each other all the time about, how we feel or what we want, I feel that if you go into these scenes without ether a strong head/will or relationship, you could get lost with negative results (Ron).
As a single man going into this you need to know exactly what you want and to find another who is into this too you will need to be honest from the start and communication is the key.
there are plenty people out there into this, you just have to be patient with finding one who is into same as you. (sexybum)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it a lot too. I'm not into the pain aspect, much more the bondage and roleplay.
It's often very erotic and incredibly pleasurable.
Adds that lovely bit of spice xx |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"i wouldnt want to live it 24/7 but id love to have my limits tested, pain/pleasure pleasureable pain, to be at the hands of my "master" his to do with as he sees fit.....i could go on and on lol
Miss-Peach"
Id like to experiment, but this seems to sum it up for me,.. |
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