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over a year ago
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I love the build up to a meet and the tease. However I get disappointed if none of it happens.
This has only happened on a couple occasions, where the fantasy was better than the real thing.
How do you make sure it all happens?  |
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I discuss things with my meets. Boundaries and limits etc. I then make sure everything is in place when the meet happens. Constant filthy suggestions during the meet also help. |
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"I discuss things with my meets. Boundaries and limits etc. I then make sure everything is in place when the meet happens. Constant filthy suggestions during the meet also help.
That's good to know  "
ditto prefer to take time and organise everything room, location and all essentials. Plus knowing each others limits helps. |
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"I discuss things with my meets. Boundaries and limits etc. I then make sure everything is in place when the meet happens. Constant filthy suggestions during the meet also help.
That's good to know
ditto prefer to take time and organise everything room, location and all essentials. Plus knowing each others limits helps."
Keeping an air of spontaneity is vital though. Otherwise it can seem too planned and calculated... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I discuss things with my meets. Boundaries and limits etc. I then make sure everything is in place when the meet happens. Constant filthy suggestions during the meet also help.
That's good to know
ditto prefer to take time and organise everything room, location and all essentials. Plus knowing each others limits helps."
There should be more men like you two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the build up to a meet and the tease. However I get disappointed if none of it happens.
This has only happened on a couple occasions, where the fantasy was better than the real thing.
How do you make sure it all happens? "
keeping it real also helps....no point promising the earth if you know it's going to be impossible....know your limits and work with them  |
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"I discuss things with my meets. Boundaries and limits etc. I then make sure everything is in place when the meet happens. Constant filthy suggestions during the meet also help.
That's good to know
ditto prefer to take time and organise everything room, location and all essentials. Plus knowing each others limits helps.
There should be more men like you two "
Thank you madam  |
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My proper meets are always the second meets after a quick coffee social, need to make sure I fancy the guy first and vice versa.
After that I don't really build anything up too much, things rarely go to plan and I wouldn't want any expectations on me. I will ask permission for me to be able to do things to him whilst he's sleeping though, suck him off, stick my tongue up his arse hole that sort of thing. Anything else is just a surprise that he'll have on the night. |
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"My proper meets are always the second meets after a quick coffee social, need to make sure I fancy the guy first and vice versa.
After that I don't really build anything up too much, things rarely go to plan and I wouldn't want any expectations on me. I will ask permission for me to be able to do things to him whilst he's sleeping though, suck him off, stick my tongue up his arse hole that sort of thing. Anything else is just a surprise that he'll have on the night. "
Sensible approach. |
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"My proper meets are always the second meets after a quick coffee social, need to make sure I fancy the guy first and vice versa.
After that I don't really build anything up too much, things rarely go to plan and I wouldn't want any expectations on me. I will ask permission for me to be able to do things to him whilst he's sleeping though, suck him off, stick my tongue up his arse hole that sort of thing. Anything else is just a surprise that he'll have on the night. "
I rarely do a social first. I ask what they like and don't like etc. |
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For me there needs to be a happy medium.Of course you'll discuss certain things that you like to do,but you need that spontaneity or it seems too calculated... |
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"My proper meets are always the second meets after a quick coffee social, need to make sure I fancy the guy first and vice versa.
After that I don't really build anything up too much, things rarely go to plan "
This |
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"For me there needs to be a happy medium.Of course you'll discuss certain things that you like to do,but you need that spontaneity or it seems too calculated... "
Yes I agree |
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"The bulid up often leaves me with loads of pre cum 
Leaves my knickers wet! "
It's very horny when they message to let you know that when you're on your way |
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