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What do _you_ mean by domination?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some private chat recently got me thinking about all the different things we can mean by 'domination' in a sexual sense. In my experience, 'domination' can be as varied as sex itself. It can mean different things to different people, and different folk (on both side of the relationship) get different things out of it.
So, (out of total curiosity rather an an attempt to get a single definition!) what is the first word or image that springs to mind when you read the word:
Domination
No cheating - you decide first before reading any responses below!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Power exchange.
How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power"
Unless it's rape it's always a consensual exchange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Domination = letting me do what i want sexually, but also knowing what the guy likes sexually and pandering to that for him too and telling him to do stuff (both what he likes and what i like). Basically me in control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Power exchange.
How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power"
You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.
You're exchanging that power for something else that you want. |
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"Power exchange.
How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power
You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.
You're exchanging that power for something else that you want."
This - the minute I feel I've lost that is the minute I stop. Then it starts to feel wrong & the trust is gone.
I can't explain it but it's like going from a Lioness to a Kitten & not in a good way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Power exchange.
How can it be termed as power exchange? I think its losing power to a dominant personality rather than exchange of power
You give your power. You don't lose power. Losing power is rape and abuse. Giving power is trust.
You're exchanging that power for something else that you want."
Sums it up perfectly.
To me domination means trust, freedom and fun. |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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Come along and try out the Fetish Events at Club Atlantis Evolution
There is one on the second Sunday of each month.
and for May an extra event on Sunday 24th May !
All genders welcome !
Andy/Andrea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sensory exploration
A journey
it's the trust but also the acceptance of pleasure
The thrill of the persons response to your touch
It's all about the mind.
It's not even control with me. Although technically I'm the one in control it's much more about them having the freedom to completely loose control.
For me it's definitely NOT all 50 shades, or pain, humiliaton, whips, chains, dungeons and clamps. (Although to some it might be)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sensory exploration
A journey
it's the trust but also the acceptance of pleasure
The thrill of the persons response to your touch
It's all about the mind.
It's not even control with me. Although technically I'm the one in control it's much more about them having the freedom to completely loose control.
For me it's definitely NOT all 50 shades, or pain, humiliaton, whips, chains, dungeons and clamps. (Although to some it might be)
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 Mind fuck. The best fuck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to trust someone enough to give them totally control over you and leaving you vunrable in every way and the dominant one from controlling your mind to them having total control over you and having no choice to obey how they touch you or make you touch others or making you do things for there pleasure aswell as your own and the dominant one respecting your boundaries and limits all about trusting someone when you become totally vulnerable in any situation now where is the dominant females in Scotland lol  |
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everything I've met a guy who claims to be dominant it seems to mean to him I'm just there to give him pleasure 
