I think as long as they're not lying about their status they are perfectly entitled to look for people who like the risk.
We are all adults, as long as we are informed we can choose our own level of risk. No sex is safe sex and some get excited by unsafe sex. Each to their own. |
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I personally wouldn't go anywhere near a total stranger looking for any kind of risky sex.
I'd only do it with someone I knew abd it was extensively discussed.
If someone mailed me looking for it, I'd not be interested.
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By the law of averages,lots of people on here will be hiv positive,including some who don't know,if they want 'risky' sex,whats the problem?
It doesn't mean you have to..Take responsibility for yrself and it should make no difference if your sexual partner has hiv or not |
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"Oh ano it's choice and I don't have an issue with people finding what they want.
Guess it was seeing it as I will only do bare I have hiv an risky is fun
Just shocked me"
I thought you meant risky as in BDSM "risky".
Not STD risky with strangers that have an STD. Because what the actual fuck.  |
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"Oh ano it's choice and I don't have an issue with people finding what they want.
Guess it was seeing it as I will only do bare I have hiv an risky is fun
Just shocked me"
But the person is honest about it. Far more shocking to discover that someone hadn't disclosed a communicable disease and played bare by preference.
I guess we all think that we'll be shocked on here but when it actually happens it's not the "ooooo that's naughty" fun kinky shock we thought we might get. Sexual preferences are incredibly varied and to many in the vanilla world just knowing about our membership of this site would be shocking and distasteful.
I'm glad that you're startled rather than judgemental OP. Judgemental just drives people to hide things and makes decisions trickier to make. Honesty is always the best policy in swinging be it about marital status or about bareback and disease. |
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