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"Some of the flirting that goes on in these forum posts is outrageous 
Has it ever led to anyone meeting up?
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One of my early meets from here was with a couple who were above me on a 'compliment the person above' thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the flirting that goes on in these forum posts is outrageous
Has it ever led to anyone meeting up?
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I will only travel for more than an hour for new meets with fellow forumites!
This is because I've usually built a rapport over months - seen them post on countless topics so have a feel for who they are - and know that we'll have a brill time even if the sexual spark isn't there!
Sexy forumites go to the top of my list when it comes to meets!
Even planning to put a thread up to see if any forumites who know me well want to 'do fun stuff ' together next week as I'm child free then!
Vive la forumites!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the forums give you a great opportunity to show wit and engage in healthy discussion.
Good for due diligence and research too ( some might call it perving)
Saves being one of 150 plus males in a chat room and being part of the can we see this, can we see that crowd to the one single lady who suddenly is the most beautiful because she has decided to take her clothes off and feel sexy,
I often wonder if I had breasts would I become the most beautiful if I took my clothes off haha.
Sorry just thinking out aloud |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met twice with guys off the forums and chat to a few others! I think you get more of a feel of the type of person they are on here rather than a few messages x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how many meets have come strictly from the forum and not from socials?"
1 from the forums + private chatting
The other was a fab social but we had chatted on here and in private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how many meets have come strictly from the forum and not from socials?
1 from the forums + private chatting
The other was a fab social but we had chatted on here and in private"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how many meets have come strictly from the forum and not from socials?
1 from the forums + private chatting
The other was a fab social but we had chatted on here and in private
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met a few from here.
But most those I've met don't post or even know the forums exist.
I met someone the other week who didn't even know fab had a forum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have made a few online friends through chatting on the Forums, but not actually met anyone through the Forums yet...have met a few really lovely ladies through chatting privately though...
If I'd been able to get to the recent Swansea Social earlier than I did, might have met up with one lovely lady who is on the Wales Forum a lot, but it was in full flow by the time I got there after it had been going a few hours and I could 't see her there as the lights were down and the disco was blasting. Never mind...I'm hopeful to meet up one of these days.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And how many meets have come strictly from the forum and not from socials?
1 from the forums + private chatting
The other was a fab social but we had chatted on here and in private
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I messaged someone as a result of their contribution to a thread I started just the other day. After a bit of flirting we are now planning to meet on Friday "
That's brill!! Enjoy Hun! |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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I've only just started looking at and contributing in the Forum, but, it seems like a great place to help make a few more people (who might not otherwise view your profile)notice your presence on the site. I also reckon what you contribute to various threads can give a great (and valuable) insight into what you are actually like as a person.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only just started looking at and contributing in the Forum, but, it seems like a great place to help make a few more people (who might not otherwise view your profile)notice your presence on the site. I also reckon what you contribute to various threads can give a great (and valuable) insight into what you are actually like as a person.."
Agreed! It's very easy to create a false persona with limited private messaging - much harder over months of general debate on the forums! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And how many meets have come strictly from the forum and not from socials?
1 from the forums + private chatting
The other was a fab social but we had chatted on here and in private
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only just started looking at and contributing in the Forum, but, it seems like a great place to help make a few more people (who might not otherwise view your profile)notice your presence on the site. I also reckon what you contribute to various threads can give a great (and valuable) insight into what you are actually like as a person.."
this!!! my fwb i got talking to via pm about a thread, a couple of others im hoping to meet I got chatting to the same way.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say half my meets have been from the forums. By getting to know them via the banter on here I've met people I wouldn't have ever noticed message wise.
Still a few to go tho...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only just started looking at and contributing in the Forum, but, it seems like a great place to help make a few more people (who might not otherwise view your profile)notice your presence on the site. I also reckon what you contribute to various threads can give a great (and valuable) insight into what you are actually like as a person..
Agreed! It's very easy to create a false persona with limited private messaging - much harder over months of general debate on the forums! Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met a few from here.
But most those I've met don't post or even know the forums exist.
I met someone the other week who didn't even know fab had a forum. "
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Yes, had a few meets directly from the forum - and a few from socials.
Always lovely when you meet people from a very long way away via the forums, chat, get on well, and its just as nice when you meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, had a few meets directly from the forum - and a few from socials.
Always lovely when you meet people from a very long way away via the forums, chat, get on well, and its just as nice when you meet!"
Bit like Friday  |
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"I will only travel for more than an hour for new meets with fellow forumites!
This is because I've usually built a rapport over months - seen them post on countless topics so have a feel for who they are - and know that we'll have a brill time even if the sexual spark isn't there!
Sexy forumites go to the top of my list when it comes to meets!
Even planning to put a thread up to see if any forumites who know me well want to 'do fun stuff ' together next week as I'm child free then!
Vive la forumites! "
Exactly! We can get a better idea of a person's personality on the forums better than searching random profiles. |
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"Yes. It's been a blast. "
Yes, yes and yes! I got a bloody forum ban for trying to get in touch with you and break down your silly age range!!! And then got to touch you in other ways too!
Forums show more personality so it's a brilliant way of flirting and showing interest...I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. It's been a blast.
Yes, yes and yes! I got a bloody forum ban for trying to get in touch with you and break down your silly age range!!! And then got to touch you in other ways too!
Forums show more personality so it's a brilliant way of flirting and showing interest...I think! "
and some are going to happen soonish ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No we haven't and probably never will .
We are more likely to get blocked than get meets as a result of our forum activity .
This is probably because we arent 'proper swingers' . We arent into the socialising side of it , we meet , we play , we go . Pandas if you like |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"No we haven't and probably never will .
We are more likely to get blocked than get meets as a result of our forum activity .
This is probably because we arent 'proper swingers' . We arent into the socialising side of it , we meet , we play , we go . Pandas if you like "
Ooh, you're just like us, maybe one day we'll both be fully inaugurated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No we haven't and probably never will .
We are more likely to get blocked than get meets as a result of our forum activity .
This is probably because we arent 'proper swingers' . We arent into the socialising side of it , we meet , we play , we go . Pandas if you like
Ooh, you're just like us, maybe one day we'll both be fully inaugurated. "
Lol .... there's a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's all this talk of flirting ?!
I've not seen any such thing !
The forums are a meeting of minds and exchanging of ideas.
Not as a means for you lot to meet up and dribble over each other.
Mucky pups you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's all this talk of flirting ?!
I've not seen any such thing !
The forums are a meeting of minds and exchanging of ideas.
Not as a means for you lot to meet up and dribble over each other.
Mucky pups you"
yes I agree as if anyone would do that.. Mmmm leathers sorry just something someone said a minute ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best way - the best meets have come from chat here.
I've had far more that are non forum related. I prefer it that way to be honest. "
You "hit and quit" though - rather than know them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's all this talk of flirting ?!
I've not seen any such thing !
The forums are a meeting of minds and exchanging of ideas.
Not as a means for you lot to meet up and dribble over each other.
Mucky pups youyes I agree as if anyone would do that.. Mmmm leathers sorry just something someone said a minute ago "
Kleenex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None of my meets have been from.forums.....yet
Yet.........
Tick tock.... "
Watch out, people will think we're flirting......
Bugger, that's a different thread. |
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Never had an request/invite. 
