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Bisexual Men/Women - Would you have a relationship with a member of your own sex?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't no tbh I like looking at other women but never eexperienced one n vagina pics make me cringe
Ive tryed flirting but im more relaxed with men so I just dunno where I stand on this subject x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women
But would you date a member of your own sex?"
No I wouldn't. I like to play with women but could never date one.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this will sound bad but I don't think I could have a relationship with a women as they are too emotional and complex
I know I know.. Hang head in shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very good question.
I do not feel emotionally attached to the same sex - but if I found a guy who I was comfortable with who is also bi, then I'd love to see what happened.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did up until 6 yrs ago, had a full on 8 yr relationship (pretty much sexless!!) but I wouldn't anymore..just lost all interest believe it or not and found I preferred relationships and sex with girls.. |
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We have found out most guy,s are bi if just orally in a 3some i have a girl friend i see a couple of time,s a year we have a night in a hotel we both get the urge for a bit of girl on girl fun. But normally it,s bi fun with another couple |
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I can have a very good sexual relationship with another guy but doesn't work past that even though I might care a lot about them.
So no I wouldn't have a full relationship with any guy I've met yet. |
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Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.
In saying that, while neither of us would rule out a same-sex relationship because sexuality changes over time, we are both far more attracted to the opposite sex while thoroughly enjoying experimenting with both from time to time. |
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I find sex to be quite simply just sex with either gender. For a relationship I usually go for the person behind the looks, and to me it doesn't matter whether they are male female or somewhere in between  |
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I was seeing a guy for some time and I think that I would have been happy to date him but he told me that he didn't want to see me again and that was the end of that.Played with other guys but never wanted to date them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe. If the guy was astronomically hot and had the personality quirks to match, and he was into the same things as me... Maybe a relationship. Monogomy on the other hand *shakes head* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At first I didn't think I would. Two years in and I think I would have liked to but I would probably have gone full time as Rachael if so.
I'm married to a woman and I intend to stay that way though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes."
Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.
Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I wouldn't. My interest in males is purely for the sexual kink and pleasure that my mood occasionally calls for. I'm still heterosexual when it comes to relationships, but that doesn't mean I won't meet and play with bisexual couples or bi males individually if the chemistry's right.
I've done some crazy things in my time anyways haha.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.
Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.
Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber. "
Women that have sex with women are straight.
Men that have sex with men are straight.
They are only bi if they go on a date. |
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"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.
Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.
Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber. "
You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.
Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.
Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber.
You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one."
I will continue to believe sexuality is more fluid and less rigid than yours or the "dictionary and scientific definition". I am not sexually attracted to women, ergo I am straight. If I have been with a woman and enjoyed it, in a particular situation, at a point in time, it doesn't change that fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had only same-sex relationships for the past 20 years - only another woman can share the love that I want...
Men are fun for sex but I could never live with one again!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not at all.
I am very very straight although i did try sex with another woman but i hated it and it made me cringe when i remembered it at first.
I like men and infact i don't even have female friends as i far prefer men for social stuff and only men for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love a secret sexy relationship with a woman but I love cock too much to turn my back on it. Although I have been known to enjoy it from behind lol xx  |
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"Remember that you don't have to be equally attracted to both sexes to be bi. If you even fantasise about your own gender, you are not straight. If you even fantasise about the opposite gender, you are not gay. Being bi is just an attraction, whether sexual or emotional, to both sexes.
Totally disagree with this. I don't believe fantasising about something makes you bisexual at all. I've had sex with a woman in a MFF, enjoyed it, but I'm straight, because I have no interest in meeting a woman one on one.
Also, I've fantasised about all kind of things that I probably wouldn't do in real life. I once fantasised about robbing a bank, it doesn't make me a bank robber.
You are disagreeing with the dictionary and scientific definition. Your sexuality is defined by attraction, not actions. Indeed, a woman who has been with a woman and enjoyed it is obviously not straight. Being bi has nothing to do with whether or not you would want to be with people one to one.
I will continue to believe sexuality is more fluid and less rigid than yours or the "dictionary and scientific definition". I am not sexually attracted to women, ergo I am straight. If I have been with a woman and enjoyed it, in a particular situation, at a point in time, it doesn't change that fact. "
I agree. Sexuality is a spectrum that runs from 100% one way to equal 50:50 interest in men and women, and everything in between. Just insisting on slapping the label "BI!" on anyone who isn't at 100% is very reductive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm bisexual and have had relationships with both men and women. But as I class myself as "emotionally separate" from other people. I have not been in a relationship for a while and do not see myself ever being in one again. |
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I have a girl friend we meet every other month just for a bit of girl on girl fun when we both get the urge been bi since school days Been lucky in life my husband has a bi side like me like,s a bit of m on m fun but not all the time.
He,s been with us for a 3some but my girl friend,s husband as no idea about her bi side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women
But would you date a member of your own sex?"
6 months ago we would both have said absolutely not, but now it is something both of us would consider if we were single. |
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"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women
But would you date a member of your own sex?"
I had a "Girlfriend" for two years not long after I got married. My husband was aware and gave his full consent as he has no problem with my lets say appetite for female company.
It was a lovely experience but not one I would repeat simply because it did have its moments... Women are far more complex and emotional than men and at times I found that exhausting.
An experience I'm so very glad I had though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would class myself as bisexual as I equally love sex with men and women
But would you date a member of your own sex?"
Yes, have had long standing relationships with other women. |
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