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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck. "
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I strongly advise you to take some new pics of your own. The one is your profile with the face and arm of another person blocked out looks awful, sorry!
Perhaps explaining why you cannot accommodate may help too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck. yes i have took on board most things and made changes including new pictures mate. i guess i dont do much social networking. thanks
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I strongly advise you to take some new pics of your own. The one is your profile with the face and arm of another person blocked out looks awful, sorry!
Perhaps explaining why you cannot accommodate may help too.
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thanks for your suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck.
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part!"
i did most of the things including some new pictures. yes i agree i dont do much social networking. thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck.
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part!"
WOW you learn something knew every day....didnt know about the wee green arrow thing!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck.
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part!
WOW you learn something knew every day....didnt know about the wee green arrow thing!!!"
Me neither! Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give the new changes in your profile time to work, have patience.
In the PC world you don't have to explain why you can't accommodate.
In the real world it may help you get meets, many see it as a warning sign of people who have partners who don't know about what they do.
If you do have a partner who doesn't know about your Fab activities be honest about it on your profile, there are some couples who seek out such people because they find them less "clingy", more discreet, like minded to what they themselves do etc so this might actually benefit you in your search.
Try to be more social, the advice given about socials, forums and chat is good advice. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I dont know how other single blokes find it here. But im finding it hard to make contact or get any interest. Althought i read people say single men are time wasters but i have found others to be same. just thought i'll share my view. sorry if this this so direct and blunt.i have tried to improve my profile but still not much luck.
the great thing about the site is the little green arrow... which allows you to peoples past posts...
and you started this same post a few months back.... where you were offered tips and advice....
so if the saying goes "you get out what you put in" what have you changed?
did you as we suggested get yaself known on the forums...
did you as people suggested get yourself known in the chatrooms.....
did you as people suggest get yourself to any of the many socials and events on the site...........
the site DOES give you the tools to make it work.... How have you made it work for you... its not all just about the profile... that is just a small part!
WOW you learn something knew every day....didnt know about the wee green arrow thing!!!"
Sorry.. not paying attention to the thread.. just the pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this gets posted all the time.
good news it is easy to get to meet people  (Robert here posting)as many single guys will tell you.
I see there is a thread about single guys getting charged £25 to go to a meet.
Can I charge to advise on how to get meets?
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