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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
What's yours?"
Seeing "effort in = reward out" or similar on lots of threads lol. Sounds silly but is annoying us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
What's yours?
Seeing "effort in = reward out" or similar on lots of threads lol. Sounds silly but is annoying us "
I put very little effort in and am rewarded ten fold. I'm a woman though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
What's yours?
Seeing "effort in = reward out" or similar on lots of threads lol. Sounds silly but is annoying us "
Absolutely agree with that .
We also can't stand the ' quality over quantity ' statement . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
What's yours?
Seeing "effort in = reward out" or similar on lots of threads lol. Sounds silly but is annoying us
I put very little effort in and am rewarded ten fold. I'm a woman though "
Lol to be fair we dont put much effort in either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Laptop warriors". The amount of time we waste talking to guys about meets for them to chicken out on the day.
Why don't they just admit up front that they are not interested in real sex because they prefer the virtual kind! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People who ask for a face pic before they will send one, if we ask for one we send one in the same message. "
We like to look and see who they are first before we decide whether we send our face pic in case someone we know or that we're not interested in.
'I have a hotel' or 'I'm in your area' messages as they never give us enough notice lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who send you a friend invite without any sort of introduction and then if you do accept have the same old piccies of boobs, undies and willy's that they had in their public gallery.
For goodness sake we want to know what you look like. Would you really go on a blind date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People talking about meets they have had when messaging. I get that you've met before and had lots of fantastic wild sex with really attractive people. ....but i don't fucking care!! And it isn't going to make me want to meet you if you tell me all about it! !!
Sorry that turned into a bit of a rant. . As you were |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Liars- you would think fab would be the one place you didn't have to lie about things."
It's the one place people lie about all sorts of crap on a daily basis. I don't trust fully what anyone says on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles that ask you to read said profile, and then say they don't want a one line message. I send a message that's detailed and semi intelligent and they come back with, "thanks " or "hi " |
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"Profiles that ask you to read said profile, and then say they don't want a one line message. I send a message that's detailed and semi intelligent and they come back with, "thanks " or "hi " "
Says a lot, doesn't it!  |
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We hate profiles of couples with all female pics and when we ask for pics of him ????? you get his cock in a mirror or halfway down her throat and they say you can see him in the pic !!!!!! FFs we dont BLIND DATES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"meeting females and the odd exceptional single male not sure what that means"
this is on my profile. it means i rather meet women or cpls when i play on my own cos that is my preference, but occasionally I get the urge for 1-1 with a guy and seeing as Im really really fussy you have to be just my type |
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"Profiles that ask you to read said profile, and then say they don't want a one line message. I send a message that's detailed and semi intelligent and they come back with, "thanks " or "hi " "
And put xyz in the message title, you put it along with your well thought out message,with the face picture attached as requested)..... unread deleted |
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Requesting you to send pictures with your message when they have none and some excuse about their job being too risky to put pictures up.
Without a head shot you can still put a body shot on, blank out tattoos and be fine. How will you be spotted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who state that they will accommodate for the right people...really? Do they mean that they are going to meet the wrong ones in the woods?
Some people's mind are a big mystery... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude. "
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
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I was gonna say this too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cruel people on your friends list who you befriend, and they turn out not to be the person you thought they'd be 
Lucky them, if only I were worthy I would never be cruel. "
White knights like this ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me"
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too. "
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
I thought you loved me  "
I think you're funny. I like the funny members on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too.
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental....."
Nope people who judge someone because they don't like doing something that person does. A few examples are bareback posts (ie your gonna get a std because you play without) or pregnant fucking posts plus others.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers! "
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too.
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental.....
Nope people who judge someone because they don't like doing something that person does. A few examples are bareback posts (ie your gonna get a std because you play without) or pregnant fucking posts plus others. "
It depends on how it is expressed tho doesn't it, they're emotive subjects you've mentioned not forgetting the classic all 'cheaters should be strung up by their bits' posts ~ They will always bring out strong reactions / opinions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too.
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental.....
Nope people who judge someone because they don't like doing something that person does. A few examples are bareback posts (ie your gonna get a std because you play without) or pregnant fucking posts plus others.
It depends on how it is expressed tho doesn't it, they're emotive subjects you've mentioned not forgetting the classic all 'cheaters should be strung up by their bits' posts ~ They will always bring out strong reactions / opinions.
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Yeah the context often comes across as baying wolves though, esp if a person only asked for advice.
I think the advice and support forums should only have advice and support answers, no judging of the person who posted it at all unless it's relevant - which it hardly ever is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious" and judgemental forum users who "think" they know how the site should be used.
Often the same people who have a limited capacity for humour, and rarely offer advice or support to those in need.
I have seen enough on the forums to say people really should be less judgemental on a swing site.
Nothing wrong with having standards but if you want respect for yours, you have to give other's the same for theirs.
In a nutshell?
Too many moaning minnies who do not contribute until they become bored or ignored!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When everyone says "if a single man had posted this it would have gone differently" on things like married threads, like they want the OP to get pulled apart. If you don't like that different responses are given to men and women then don't give different responses to men and women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too.
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental.....
Nope people who judge someone because they don't like doing something that person does. A few examples are bareback posts (ie your gonna get a std because you play without) or pregnant fucking posts plus others.
It depends on how it is expressed tho doesn't it, they're emotive subjects you've mentioned not forgetting the classic all 'cheaters should be strung up by their bits' posts ~ They will always bring out strong reactions / opinions.
Yeah the context often comes across as baying wolves though, esp if a person only asked for advice.
I think the advice and support forums should only have advice and support answers, no judging of the person who posted it at all unless it's relevant - which it hardly ever is.
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If the OP is asking for advice I will try and answer the best I can without judgement. However if the OP / posters make random sweeping statements then it's hard to comment in a positive way!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications that say...
'has a cock to die for'.....
What actually IS a cock to die for?? Lol  "
No one can explain, they all died after experiencing it |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Verifications that say...
'has a cock to die for'.....
What actually IS a cock to die for?? Lol
No one can explain, they all died after experiencing it "
Yep...left their verification and then just keeled over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!"
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never get over how judgemental and narrow minded people are on fab.... Totally boggles my brain when you'd think swingers are meant to be open minded and tolerant
I was gonna say this too.
Or it because they don't agree that they appear judgemental.....
Nope people who judge someone because they don't like doing something that person does. A few examples are bareback posts (ie your gonna get a std because you play without) or pregnant fucking posts plus others.
It depends on how it is expressed tho doesn't it, they're emotive subjects you've mentioned not forgetting the classic all 'cheaters should be strung up by their bits' posts ~ They will always bring out strong reactions / opinions.
Yeah the context often comes across as baying wolves though, esp if a person only asked for advice.
I think the advice and support forums should only have advice and support answers, no judging of the person who posted it at all unless it's relevant - which it hardly ever is.
If the OP is asking for advice I will try and answer the best I can without judgement. However if the OP / posters make random sweeping statements then it's hard to comment in a positive way!
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I didn't necessarily mean you do that btw or picking out anyone in particular coz if i don't like what someone has to say i skim past it so no idea who said it, was just contributing how i feel about everything that was said.
But yeah i have to try really hard hold in my feelings sometimes on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??"
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??"
Exactly. The popcorn comment is something I've seen on other forums where there are no moderators. It's a comment that means 'I'm going to sit back and enjoy the ensuing argument'. So yeah, pathetic. |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here."
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude) "
I think they're just trying to make the topic more light hearted, to try and diffuse the anger that is headed for the topic. But yeah it could also be childish reasons as well. From what i've noticed of the people who post them they don't come across as malicious or enjoy arguments. |
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"Verifications that say...
'has a cock to die for'.....
What actually IS a cock to die for?? Lol
No one can explain, they all died after experiencing it
Yep...left their verification and then just keeled over! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple profiles but with no pic of the fella. To me feels a little fishy if all the pics are of you "mrs" Why wouldn't you show at least some part of the bloke? |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude)
I think they're just trying to make the topic more light hearted, to try and diffuse the anger that is headed for the topic. But yeah it could also be childish reasons as well. From what i've noticed of the people who post them they don't come across as malicious or enjoy arguments."
It is disheartening if someone finally plucks up courage to post and the response is 'yawn' - how would anyone feel in real life if someone yawned right in their face like that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No pic with a first message, sending just cock pics. Pretty much everything said above. Also, no reply to a message I sent, even though its a response to their messages, would prefer you said no thanks instead of keep messaging, to me it says you are interested and the minute I write something you dont like, you dont reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude)
I think they're just trying to make the topic more light hearted, to try and diffuse the anger that is headed for the topic. But yeah it could also be childish reasons as well. From what i've noticed of the people who post them they don't come across as malicious or enjoy arguments.
It is disheartening if someone finally plucks up courage to post and the response is 'yawn' - how would anyone feel in real life if someone yawned right in their face like that? "
I'm still on about the popcorn posts.
Yeah saying yawn is rude. It's just saying the topic has been done to death. They do it because they are bored on here and should find something else to do.
Once saw a topic where there were more people complaining about the topic itself than the amount of that topic posted, i said something about that obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude)
I think they're just trying to make the topic more light hearted, to try and diffuse the anger that is headed for the topic. But yeah it could also be childish reasons as well. From what i've noticed of the people who post them they don't come across as malicious or enjoy arguments.
It is disheartening if someone finally plucks up courage to post and the response is 'yawn' - how would anyone feel in real life if someone yawned right in their face like that? "
I would say "If I'm boring you you can always choose the fuck off option". |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude) "
Anyone who has used the forums regularly for more than a week will get to know which threads will be contentious (bareback, married men, cheating) and will bring out the popcorn comments due to their potential for heated debate and which threads will get a yawn comment. (Profile and why can't I get a meet or verified) often from the same poster that hasn't heeded the advice on the seven other threads he has posted in the past four days.
There are other threads which are obviously meant to raise a giggle which get pious holier than thou comments. These are often the same posters who fall into the sense of humour bypass abyss time and again.
There are also the judgmental posters who lack empathy and fail to see that other views and opinions are just as valid as theirs. (Most of these will have blocked me by now ) |
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Gosh, yes, I have never hit the block button more than when I have been on the forums .... even more so than single men and their apparent innocuous messages. You really do get to see what people are like on here, but have to remember, it is a small and unrepresentative sample of the people on the site, or indeed out there swinging. |
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Liars, timewasters (especially those who back out minutes before you're due to meet and are often almost at your destination), people who you're chatting to who ask for a photo saying that they'll send a photo back and then never do, and people who are stroppy because they feel a sense of entitlement or superiority. |
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We are a super sexy, attractive couple... says who? ( your parents dont count)
We are proffessionals... Dont lie, you cannot even spell.
To sydney uni... copyright, legal action, blah blah blah... yeah, good luck with that!
Been on site a year.. and profile Says.. will fill in later...
Just so many.... but they will do for now |
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"We are a super sexy, attractive couple... says who? ( your parents dont count)
We are proffessionals... Dont lie, you cannot even spell.
To sydney uni... copyright, legal action, blah blah blah... yeah, good luck with that!
Been on site a year.. and profile Says.. will fill in later...
Just so many.... but they will do for now"
This too |
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"People messaging who clearly haven't read your profile. "
This has to be one of the most irritating things about Fab, it's just rude.
Also people claiming they have read a profile to only go and ask me what I am "in to" or if I will make that "one time exception"  |
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"People messaging who clearly haven't read your profile.
This has to be one of the most irritating things about Fab, it's just rude.
Also people claiming they have read a profile to only go and ask me what I am "in to" or if I will make that "one time exception" "
And this. A million times this. |
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Comments along the lines of 'we like single guys, but a few have ruined it for the rest of you'
I like couples but some have behaved like total twats to me, but this does not mean I will block every couple!
other than that, the over use of the words 'sexy' and 'horny' in screen names. |
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"Couples or fems whose profile says not looking for single guys who then wink or msg single guys "
That's me. Not looking for guys to message me, as I would rather go looking for someone who fits my preferences and then message them. Saves the inbox from being overly full too. |
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People who do not reply to mails . If we not for them we understand but we ask people to block us if we are not for them. Then they keep looking at our profile |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
The popcorn comment is a warning to others to tone it down or risk the wrath of the mods.
Subtlety is often just that. Subtle!
So when I posted years ago like a lot of single guys have about why can I not get a response to my messages, the first guy said hold on I'll get the popcorn then the second said can I have some if I bring haribo. Is that that the mods telling me to calm it down? Or as I suspect people attempting to be funny and put others down??
I feel like they mean this topic is gonna have a lot of drama and they are gonna watch the topic.
Like the poster has posted something that causes drama on here.
I don't see the point of the popcorn posts, that is like the people at school who stand by and watch a fight - have they nothing else to do - offer a contribution or don't, surely? Or watch Corrie .... It is like telling people they are boring and they have heard it all before - who cares? We have all heard most of it before, but why do we need to say it? YAWN (Oh yeah, I hate the yawns, now they are rude)
Anyone who has used the forums regularly for more than a week will get to know which threads will be contentious (bareback, married men, cheating) and will bring out the popcorn comments due to their potential for heated debate and which threads will get a yawn comment. (Profile and why can't I get a meet or verified) often from the same poster that hasn't heeded the advice on the seven other threads he has posted in the past four days.
There are other threads which are obviously meant to raise a giggle which get pious holier than thou comments. These are often the same posters who fall into the sense of humour bypass abyss time and again.
There are also the judgmental posters who lack empathy and fail to see that other views and opinions are just as valid as theirs. (Most of these will have blocked me by now )"
Yeah I get bored with those threads too, but guess what?! I don't read them just skip them now rather than post a pointless comment like popcorn, it's the rubber necking of fab |
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"Couples or fems whose profile says not looking for single guys who then wink or msg single guys
That's me. Not looking for guys to message me, as I would rather go looking for someone who fits my preferences and then message them. Saves the inbox from being overly full too."
why not just hide your profile and do the searching yourself??  |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers! "
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non? |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?"
But what does it add to a thread? |
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"People who do not reply to mails . If we not for them we understand but we ask people to block us if we are not for them. Then they keep looking at our profile"
Well I know I'd make the effort to reply if you had pm'd me lol |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?"
And sometimes people look for a scene when there isn't one. |
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"We love fab but there are a few things that annoy us. Guys can you put your condom wrappers and used condoms in a bin instead on us having to go on a treasure hunt to find them after you've left.
What's yours?
Seeing "effort in = reward out" or similar on lots of threads lol. Sounds silly but is annoying us
Absolutely agree with that .
We also can't stand the ' quality over quantity ' statement ."
And then they have 50 plus veri's haha |
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"NSA fun......is anyone looking for SA fun then
Is that like bondage sex?
Or sex with puppets? "
And they called it puppet love
Oh I guess they'll never know |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?
But what does it add to a thread?"
Aside from being a joke like many people make does it's need to add anything?
Either you fond find it comedic or don't, I'm not going to attempt to make you find something funny that you don't. |
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"When everyone says "if a single man had posted this it would have gone differently" on things like married threads, like they want the OP to get pulled apart. If you don't like that different responses are given to men and women then don't give different responses to men and women! "
Unfortunately though it is a fact. I would say most people would think the other way. Be nice to the next man who posts this particular topic now that you've been nice to the lady/couple. |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?
But what does it add to a thread?
Aside from being a joke like many people make does it's need to add anything?
Either you fond find it comedic or don't, I'm not going to attempt to make you find something funny that you don't. "
But in some and most cases I've seen are often more of a poke at the OP which can be hurtful. A joke for me would be a play on words (like the NSA vs SA comment on this very thread) |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?
But what does it add to a thread?
Aside from being a joke like many people make does it's need to add anything?
Either you fond find it comedic or don't, I'm not going to attempt to make you find something funny that you don't.
But in some and most cases I've seen are often more of a poke at the OP which can be hurtful. A joke for me would be a play on words (like the NSA vs SA comment on this very thread)"
This looks fun, I'll get the popcorn  |
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"The piss takers on the forums who think they are being funny or clever,but they're just rude.
Agree with this, along with the getting the popcorn posts! Really bug me
That popcorn comment is boring, pathetic and only said by shit stirrers!
Boring and pathetic in your opinion.
Actually the people getting the popcorn are not shit stirring but making others aware that they're creating a scene.
As for your white knight comment, if there were no compliments on this site and only the negative effects it wouldn't be very nice on here non?
But what does it add to a thread?
Aside from being a joke like many people make does it's need to add anything?
Either you fond find it comedic or don't, I'm not going to attempt to make you find something funny that you don't.
But in some and most cases I've seen are often more of a poke at the OP which can be hurtful. A joke for me would be a play on words (like the NSA vs SA comment on this very thread)
This looks fun, I'll get the popcorn "
YAWN!! Aren't we the funny ones now! |
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