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over a year ago
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Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i wanted to be with someone who wanted me to give up this life style i would respect that.
Don't think i'd find it too hard either, i'd only get with someone with a high sex drive like me anyway, but i would miss the variety. And i'd hope they would let me have the occasional 3sum too, coz i'd love that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If he turned around tomorrow and said monogamy only, I would absolutely close my profile down that day. What I feel about him is more important than flings with random strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship "
I could happily leave it behind. There is nothing like meeting someone you have a connection with and have a strong sexual connection with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship "
No, I'm not interested in monogamy. That's why I like swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he turned around tomorrow and said monogamy only, I would absolutely close my profile down that day. What I feel about him is more important than flings with random strangers."
i agree x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had this when I get into a relationship. I find for the first couple of months I give it up. Then after that I do miss this so decide to find excuses and cause arguments. To go dogging/swinging. |
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship
No, I'm not interested in monogamy. That's why I like swinging."
That's how I feel too |
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I would love to think that I could meet Mr Right and settle down.
But I think that I would need to be with someone who enjoys this too.
What I have right now is fantastic and I have no intention of changing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?"
Yes. Would leave fab. Haven't met anyone anyway. Would love to have a long term monogamous girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do relationships as I like the no commitment life style  "
I am the opposite. I prefer being in a long term relationship. It might seem strange but swinging with your partner makes it incomparably a better experience. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I wouldn't stop, I like the excitement, I like the social side, I love the sex. If anyone wants a relationship with me then they have to take that into consideration. I'm happy to share so should they be, if they're not then I'm not for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes i would leave it behind for the one i loved unless they wanted to join in and we became a swinging couple but if not i would stop yes."
Me too. Would love to find someone to be with and to Swing as a couple as well. But if they wanted monogamy, both of us, I would give up in a second. |
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"Yes i would leave it behind for the one i loved unless they wanted to join in and we became a swinging couple but if not i would stop yes.
Me too. Would love to find someone to be with and to Swing as a couple as well. But if they wanted monogamy, both of us, I would give up in a second."
Glad to hear that ive always felt a relationship can only work if both agree to do the same thing. Swing or not i would still be very happy as i would have my life partner simple as really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes i would leave it behind for the one i loved unless they wanted to join in and we became a swinging couple but if not i would stop yes.
Me too. Would love to find someone to be with and to Swing as a couple as well. But if they wanted monogamy, both of us, I would give up in a second.
Glad to hear that ive always felt a relationship can only work if both agree to do the same thing. Swing or not i would still be very happy as i would have my life partner simple as really."
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I have been monogamous in the past when in a relationship with a non swinger. Now I am in a relationship and we have both discussed we would stop if we wanted to or even if one of us wanted to ... haven't yet though. We are both bi so tend to meet same sex when swinging |
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"I have been monogamous in the past when in a relationship with a non swinger. Now I am in a relationship and we have both discussed we would stop if we wanted to or even if one of us wanted to ... haven't yet though. We are both bi so tend to meet same sex when swinging"
Aww thats a great relationship right there. If my partner was bi too we would prob do the same thing if we both wanted too of course. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I'm a swinger so no I wouldn't really give it up. If Mrs wanted to put it on hold for a bit that would be OK, but I would still be a swinger.
Before I was a swinger I was a default monogamist (is that a word?), I didn't Choose monogamy I just wasn't aware of any other relationship models. Now my eyes have been opened, I don't really want to go back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just couldn't imagine giving up something I enjoyed. I'd prefer to have a partner that accepted everything that I loved in life - even if they didn't also participate. |
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if I found mrs right I would leave and be with her
after the first meet my profile would be hidden, there after I would delete said profile from the site
would only come back to the site as a couple if she was interested in doing so
however it shouldnt matter as past is past, only problem might have to come clean on my past background |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't stop, I like the excitement, I like the social side, I love the sex. If anyone wants a relationship with me then they have to take that into consideration. I'm happy to share so should they be, if they're not then I'm not for them "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he were to say he was done with this lifestyle, I would most definitely give it up. He is much more important...however, I don't see that happening in the near future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I would love to meet a women that loves the stuff I do that I can be in what in my mind a perfect relationship where we both love and cair what eachother likes like mine are sex being naked a lot of the time open to water sports and swinging |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We have been married nearly 11 years and doing this for around 18 months....we both love it but if either of us decided to stop then that's what would happen. This is fun but it's nowhere close to the level of fun I have with just him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he turned around tomorrow and said monogamy only, I would absolutely close my profile down that day. What I feel about him is more important than flings with random strangers."
This |
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"We have been married nearly 11 years and doing this for around 18 months....we both love it but if either of us decided to stop then that's what would happen. This is fun but it's nowhere close to the level of fun I have with just him "
When you love someone its a whole different level of fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly don't know if I could give it up. I've done relationships but there's always been something lacking. I crave excitement. Maybe I just haven't met the right person yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship "
if someone special to me wanted me to then yes. would it be hard? no i've yet to meet anyone, but even if i was meeting regularly i'd rather have a close person than strangers. |
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why? "
I would leave and not find it hard as I am naturally monogamous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am very lucky. I have the best relationship and neither of us have any desire to stop fucking other people. It's just part of the fun stuff we do. No"one or the other" choice to make.
If either of us called it a day we both would probably. But it's not something we need to worry about as we are both having too much fun (together and apart)
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I have met a lady whilst away and she knocked me off my stride. As much fun as I have had in the last 2 yrs of being single, I would stop it all if the connection proves more solid.
We haven't had sex, but I know it would not be a problem. Its the 200 miles that may prove difficult.
So here I am. In limbo and waiting to see. I haven't met on here for months so that is not an issue, but I will have to say goodbye to quite a few friends with benefits if necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to be in a swinging relationship
I wouldn't get into a relationship with somebody I met off here in case he didn't want to give it up
if I met somebody in the real world that I ended up loving and wanting to be with I would leave all this behind and never even mention it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a fb that wants more knows i swing and said she wouldn't want to see me with other females... She likes girls but not interested in other guys. Then on flipside my with other chicks turns my other fb on...
Follow your heart or your dick whichever feels right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he turned around tomorrow and said monogamy only, I would absolutely close my profile down that day. What I feel about him is more important than flings with random strangers."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leave it as a naughty secret
"I wouldn't want to be in a swinging relationship
I wouldn't get into a relationship with somebody I met off here in case he didn't want to give it up
if I met somebody in the real world that I ended up loving and wanting to be with I would leave all this behind and never even mention it "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single men/women - if you got into a relationship, would you leave swinging and Fab behind to be monogamous? If so, would you find it hard? If not, why?
Taken men/women - if your partner wanted you (both if you swing together) to give swinging up to be monogamous, how would you feel?
I myself wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where we played with others, I'm just not built for it so I'd happily leave this lifestyle behind and focus on a relationship "
I met my bf on here we have been together 19 months and have been living together practically the entire time. If he turned around and asked tomorrow to give it up I would. I would like to still attend socials and parties and clubs but just not play with others x |
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I am here to explore . However I want a fb first to have 121 fun with and then really push kink boundaries with. Not interested in one-off's tbh as no chance to find out what really sends someone into orbit and vice-versa.
If a fb wanted exclusivity that's fine too. |
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If one of us decided to stop them it wouldn't be an issue x we've stopped for periods before and gone back after a couple of years out lol so it's always there if we want it we must be lucky lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I met someone I would be open about being on here.
If he/she wasn't into it I would respect that and if we developed into a loving commited relationship I would leave.
Having sex with someone you love beats sex with swingers any day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met my partner through swinging and she has never asked me too stop, even when she has taken a break, i have taken a break too when she hasn't, we have definitely had spells of being completely monogamous and could do it any time,but i think we would both always come back too it eventually, we stop or take breaks when it is no longer fun, whether alone or together. |
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"I met my partner through swinging and she has never asked me too stop, even when she has taken a break, i have taken a break too when she hasn't, we have definitely had spells of being completely monogamous and could do it any time,but i think we would both always come back too it eventually, we stop or take breaks when it is no longer fun, whether alone or together."
Thats the sort of open relationship i would find ideal swing when we feel like and take breaks every one in a while. Keep our sex life alive and share it with others as well. |
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"If I met someone I would be open about being on here.
If he/she wasn't into it I would respect that and if we developed into a loving commited relationship I would leave.
Having sex with someone you love beats sex with swingers any day! "
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